A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

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When a person wants to be alone, his friends can give him peace and quiet, but when he is lonely, he hopes that his friends will be available at any time.

At this point, when he says that he is not selfish, he just likes to be alone, this statement is not credible.

Whether Zhang Lan believes it or not actually has no effect on Zhang Jintao.

For Zhang Lan, whether Zhang Jintao is lonely or selfish doesn’t really have much impact.

Zhang Jintao's mother wanted her children to settle down, get married and have children. She thought it was a matter of feng shui, a matter of the house, and a matter of the ancestral grave...

But in reality, it all comes down to a people problem.

Whether it is children or parents, when it comes to the age when they should get married, for some people the right age to get married is only a few years. After missing that opportunity, you may not know when the next time you get married will be.

Especially when the child is used to living alone outside and the parents are not in a hurry. If the child is really used to his own life, does not have to take responsibility, and spends as much money as he wants, it will be difficult to let him get married and have children and leave his comfort zone at this time.

If a person's daily hobbies can be completed by one person, then if he is an introvert, he may be more likely to show what loneliness is than an extrovert.

For introverts, going out or talking to people will constantly consume their energy. Only by being alone in silence can they restore their energy and become the lively and cheerful person that everyone is familiar with.

For such people, being alone is an indispensable existence, and being alone is a kind of loneliness.

In order to create gimmicks, businesses have designed 520, 521, 1314, Chinese Valentine's Day, Valentine's Day, White Valentine's Day, Green Valentine's Day, Colorful Valentine's Day... They would like to design every day as Valentine's Day.

At this time, it is understandable that young couples show their affection in their circle of friends, which just happens to be the trick of the merchants. But single people will be mercilessly ridiculed. Look how ridiculous he is, lonely as a dog.

Some people say that being lonely is shameful.

When the word loneliness is mentioned, some people always equate it with negative words such as loneliness and sadness. But in fact, loneliness is a neutral word. Loneliness is loneliness. It describes a state, not a negative emotion.

There is nothing wrong with loneliness. What makes loneliness bad is that some people are afraid of loneliness. Loneliness is different from solitude. Loneliness makes people panic, while solitude makes people feel full.

Most people in this world are afraid of loneliness, and are very afraid of being the only one left in the world. Therefore, in order to avoid the feeling of loneliness, they force themselves to get along with other people, thinking that being in a group can bring a sense of security.

Loneliness is the beginning of not being lonely. When you fear loneliness and are driven by loneliness to find reasons not to be lonely, that is the loneliest time.

In fact, the meaning of this sentence is the same as that sentence: loneliness is the carnival of one person, and carnival is the loneliness of a group of people.

The more a person fears loneliness, the more he wants to immerse himself in the crowd to escape it, and then he often becomes more lonely.

People are born lonely, and it has nothing to do with being single or not. From birth to death, the person who can accompany you the longest is not others, but yourself. Therefore, loneliness is a compulsory course in life, and those who can enjoy loneliness are blessed.

Most people have had moments when they can't stand loneliness, such as when they just left the collective life in high school and entered college, when they faced life choices after graduating from college, and when they couldn't get the love they wanted. Some people would tell their friends about their sadness and distress, but they don't do it often. Because trying to tell others about your distress is not helpful in eliminating the distress, but will increase your friends' worries.

I know all the advice that others may give me, but I just can't do it. It's better to talk to myself and find a way to digest the sadness or find a place to bury it quietly. Then, I can start my life again in the next second.

Being alone is an important survival skill and a valuable life experience. There is always a period of time when you can be alone and read quietly and exercise when you are at the lowest point in your life.

To become an outstanding person and make achievements, there are many things that cannot be answered through discussion. One has to think quietly and ponder step by step.

It is a blessing for people to be able to enjoy solitude, because solitude allows people to calm down and think, and cultivate their ability to solve problems.

One of the benefits of being alone is freedom. It means you can be yourself, without having to follow the crowd and can be yourself.

People who are good at being alone will not feel lonely easily. In fact, there are many things they can do between themselves, and they don’t need to rely on others to know their status.

Raise a glass to invite the bright moon, and the shadow and I become three people. How optimistic, how carefree. Transcend the self, and also transcend others.

When I am alone, I examine myself from an outside perspective, and it is as if another person has appeared in my mind, a sober me who is criticizing myself from the perspective of an observer.

Being alone and being with others are mutually causal and coexistent. If you are always alone, you will not particularly need to be alone. After being alone for a long time, you will also want to have fun and laugh with friends, and achieve a balance between silence and noise.

Each person's enjoyment or aversion to solitude, that is, to his own company, is determined by his own intrinsic values.

The richer a person's spirit is, the more he can find joy in solitude.

In today's world, there are only a few people who can abandon the shackles of the world and retreat to the mountains. But this does not mean that you cannot be a hermit in your heart. The great hermits hide in the city, the small hermits hide in the wild. Guard your heart, why bother with formalities.

Tao Yuanming has already given the answer:
Settled in the human world, without chaos.

I ask you how you can do that? Your heart is far away and the place is remote.

Some people think that people without love are the loneliest. No one can share their happiness or unhappiness; they admire their beauty or ugliness by themselves. In this age where love is everything, it seems like a sin to be without a partner.

Candlelight dinner, rich chocolate, romantic roses, none of them are for you, you can only be happy for others. Even watching a comedy movie, with hilarious plots, watching the couples around you, the laughter has a bit of embarrassment.

Some people think that being sick and having no one to take care of you is the loneliest thing. A person, with a weak body, goes to the clinic to wait for treatment, struggling alone on the sickbed, with no hands to support him, no heart to share his pain, facing the torment of the disease alone, sighing that he is alone and helpless, and that he knows his pain by himself. At this time, he can feel the loneliness even more.

Some people also think that eating alone is the loneliest thing. After hard work, having a rich dinner should be the most satisfying reward, but unfortunately you are left alone, sitting in a single seat in a tea restaurant or fast food restaurant, ordering a signature set meal without any requirements.

Without words, no one to eat or drink with, you can only mechanically move the food into your stomach, finish it as quickly as possible, and flee the scene. If it happens to be a festival, it will be even more sad, even if you are facing the most delicious food, it will not taste good. (End of this chapter)