Director's growth history

The most worrying problem finally came.From the time they got married to the present, except for Kong Shuanghua who once suspected the text messages between Fang Yuan and Ren Xiaoai, Kong Shuanghua had never asked Fang Yuan if there were other women outside.In fact, this issue has always been the most worrying issue. This may affect the harmony and stability of the family, and what is even more frightening is that it may affect the progress of work and career development.This is precisely what Fang Yuan is most concerned about now.From ordinary teachers to principals and deputy director supervisors, Fangyuan has deeply realized the benefits of progress: in the past, everything was demanded by others, humbly, and compromised; now everything is demanded by others, full of confidence, and everything is under control.How could Fang Yuan not miss this world of change?What's more, when the position is promoted, the salary will increase accordingly, the house will be acquired, the car will be equipped, and the salary will basically not change. However, the public funds of Dongzhou No. 5 High School are largely determined by the principal. The funds mastered and controlled exceed 1000 million!Perhaps other schools do not have such a large amount of funds, but Dongzhou No. 5 Middle School is different. Dongzhou No. 5 Middle School is the No. 1 school in Dongzhou City. The income of school-choice students alone is several million a year, let alone Entrepreneurs like An Dongsheng have sponsored one million or two million.Now, even if Fang Yuan is beaten to death, Fang Yuan doesn't want to go back to the life of an ordinary teacher in the front line.

Those who should come will still come, come early and come late, all come.Fang Yuan looked calm and looked at Confucius Tian. Fang Yuan knew that his father-in-law also wanted to know his attitude.Although his father-in-law said last time that he is allowed to have other women outside, he must maintain his marriage with Kong Shuanghua, but Kong Zitian's attitude is Kong Zitian's attitude and cannot fully represent Kong Shuanghua.

Fang Yuan said: "Whether there will be in the future, I can't make a guarantee. You know, any guarantee is useless. Shuanghua, maintaining a marriage and managing a relationship requires the joint efforts of both parties. It only depends on burning a stick to heat it up. It’s not good. I think it’s necessary to learn to empathize in love and marriage. If I were you, would I treat the man I love the most? If you were me, would you be sarcastic and slap your wife who accepts you? Curse, bite?" Kong Shuanghua burst into tears: "So you haven't forgotten those things, and you still hate me in your heart." Fang Yuan said: "Some things can be pretended to be forgotten, but if you really say that you have forgotten, do you believe it? Is it the truth? You can be considerate and tolerant, but you won’t forget it. It’s like a vase that was broken and re-glued. The shape is restored, but can the cracks on the vase be eliminated?”

Confucius Tian suddenly interjected: "It is very important to empathize. Xiaohua, in life, you should try to empathize a lot. When you want to say something, when you want to do something, you stand When you speak and do things, think about whether you should say such a thing, whether you should do such a thing, and will the other party accept it? I believe that you will mature faster and better. You are kind and simple , but all aspects of the future must be gradually independent, and empathy is an important prerequisite for being independent."

Kong Shuanghua felt that he was wronged, but somehow he didn't dare to attack, so he could only bear it in his heart.Being used to outbursts, she felt that it was really uncomfortable to hold back in her heart, but thinking of the current marriage status of her father and mother, Kong Shuanghua felt deeply afraid.Kong Shuanghua said: "Fang Yuan, if I stop swearing, beating, and biting, will you still find other women outside?" , No one wants to take the initiative to seek flowers and ask willows outside. Dad said, although you can’t accept it emotionally, I think there is a certain truth. Sometimes, in addition to being gentle and considerate, you need more spiritual communication.” Kong Shuanghua said: “ I also want to communicate with you on a spiritual level, but you are so busy, you don’t tell me anything, even if I want to communicate, I have no chance to communicate. In fact, I am also very concerned about your progress and your work, but you I rarely talk to me about work."

This is indeed a reality.Fang Yuan found that she didn't want to talk about school affairs at home, and she didn't want to talk about the Education Bureau.This is not only because there is no communication with Kong Shuanghua, even with Chi Liping.Fang Yuan said: "Speaking of which, I really don't blame you. I usually don't like to talk about work at home." Kong Shuanghua said: "I also want to be your good adviser and assistant. If my suggestion is not good , you don’t have to accept it, but if you don’t give me a chance to make suggestions, how can I really communicate with you on a spiritual level?”

Fang Yuan nodded and said: "Yes, I seem to have such a habit. After leaving school, it seems that I never want to talk to anyone other than talking about work with Dad. The other people refer to Anyone, including you, Shuanghua. Maybe it’s because of my personality. I think work is work, life is life, and there is no direct relationship between the two. I just thought about it, maybe my work is relatively smooth, I haven’t found anything that bothers me so much that I feel the need to tell my family.” Kong Shuanghua said: “If you want, if you trust me, I’d like to hear you talk about things in school. Maybe my advice is not very mature. , but Fangyuan, you have to believe that I am your dearest and most beloved person, all my suggestions are out of love for you, and I will never harm you. As for other women, I cannot guarantee that she will not harm you. you."

Fang Yuan stretched out his hand and held Kong Shuanghua's hands.These hands have not been held for a while, and they are a little rusty.Looking at Kong Shuanghua's simple, warm and sincere eyes kindly, Fang Yuan was a little moved: the woman in front of her dedicated her virginity to herself and gave birth to a son for herself. Although she still had so many shortcomings, she realized that she was also Progress!The parents in my hometown receive money from her every month; she has fulfilled her mother's responsibility in raising her son; although a glass of honey water seems like a trivial matter, it is the little bit of love melted into the honey water; the new home decoration, see It sounds like a very annoying job, and she didn't affect his work because of it; no matter how late she came home now, she didn't blame her, in fact, she really paid a lot for this family... Now, she expressed that she wanted to take the initiative to leave The desire to enter his spiritual world, she will not harm me, that's for sure.Fang Yuan suddenly felt that he should give Kong Shuanghua a chance, and this chance should be given to Kong Shuanghua, not other women, including Chi Liping.Chi Liping is considerate, decent in advance and retreat, charming in appearance, and hard-working in cooking. In fact, she also really wants to enter my spiritual world!Chi Liping is also good, although I have not talked to her about work matters, nor have I let her participate in any school affairs, this is only determined by my personality traits.If there are some things to tell Chi Liping, Chi Liping will be very happy to come.But can Chi Liping have 100% trust like Kong Shuanghua?Fang Yuan gave herself a negative answer.Fangyuan thought of Chi Liping humiliating Ding Chunxiao in public, and remembered that Chi Liping was able to wipe away her tears after criticizing her severely and continue to perform the duties of the office director, inviting everyone to eat and drink. Isn't this very scheming?What's more, although Chi Liping's body is charming, she is indeed not a virgin, and her sex skills can be said to be very proficient. Obviously, Kong Shuanghua is far inferior to Chi Liping in terms of sexual skills, which just shows that Kong Shuanghua is a real woman. Chi Liping's proficiency in skills seems to confirm that she has had rich sexual experience before, and has experienced in-depth development. Is Chi Liping a good family?

Kong Shuanghua has been paying attention to the changes in her husband's eyes. When Fangyuan's eyes are full of warmth and gratitude, Kong Shuanghua's heart is excited; when Fangyuan's eyes are wandering, Kong Shuanghua's heart is also raised; When he was confused, Kong Shuanghua's heart felt blocked; when Fangyuan's eyes became stable again from hesitation, Kong Shuanghua felt that his heart also settled down.Just like this, Fang Yuan held his hand all the time. When Fang Yuan's warm air came from the palm of his hand, Kong Shuanghua realized at this moment: what a happy thing it is to be understood by a man and by a beloved husband!Disappointed tears gurgled out, falling down his face again.There was a hand reaching out and gently wiping it, and that feeling made me die of happiness, which brought more tears.A magnetic voice came from my ear: "Silly wife, why are you crying? From now on, I will slowly learn to tell you about my work, as long as you don't mind me nagging or making love to you = I have been nurturing you for 28 years , besides my mother and sister, you are the woman I trust the most. Are you willing to listen?" Kong Shuanghua couldn't help but threw herself into Fangyuan's arms, weeping, and she shouted happily: "I am willing, husband, I willing!"

Fang Yuan held his wife tightly in his arms, and sincerely sighed: "Shuanghua is a good woman. After thinking about it, Shuanghua is the best."

What higher honor can a woman seek?With her husband's comments like this, the warm current of happiness has already flooded Kong Shuanghua's limbs, and Kong Shuanghua hopes to be held in Fangyuan's arms forever, until the sea dries up.Sometimes, happiness is actually that simple!

Kong Zitian did not expect things to change like this. He planned to observe and test Fang Yuan, but in the end, Fang Yuan and his daughter reached a special consensus on this issue: Fang Yuan was willing to accept Kong Shuanghua in the spiritual world. He will also tell Kong Shuanghua about his work.Kong Shuanghua also seemed to have forgotten the question of whether Fangyuan would have a woman outside, so he didn't even ask anymore.Looking at his son-in-law, Confucius was thoughtful: I don't know if Fang Yuan is telling the truth, or if he is just pretending to show me.If it's the former, then Fang Yuan has done better than me, Kong Zitian; if it's the latter, it's really terrible. Fang Yuan's tricks of deceiving his daughter to death are a bit too old for him.

Looking at his daughter who was weeping because of happiness, and seeing Fang Yuan hugging her daughter tightly, Kong Zitian really couldn't understand Fang Yuan now.But Kong Zitian knew that whether it was Fang Yuan's sincerity or falsehood, he had to believe Fang Yuan's sincerity on the surface, otherwise, his relationship with Fang Yuan might be torn apart, and his daughter's happiness would be ruined by himself. .