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Chapter 147 Part Two
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Chapter 1 Psychological Strategy 1: Weaving a network of contacts
Section [-]: Keep a low profile and don’t show your cards easily
Mental Wisdom Call:

Never expose your goals, and don't show your cards easily.

Skillful in control:

To behave in the world, one should try to keep one's own mystery. Those who show their cards and let others attack according to their cards will definitely lose.No matter how hard you are, don't complain to others, but pretend to be successful; even if you are very successful, don't expose your background.

The best way to strictly abide by the hole cards is to brake quietly, or even ignore them.This is especially true when your position is important enough to raise expectations.Even if you have to show your cards, it's best to avoid telling everything, and not letting people see you inside and out.

It would be wise to ignore ill-intentioned people and keep your personal or family worries to yourself, because even the goddess of fortune loves to touch you where it hurts sometimes.Both your bad things and the good things in your heart should be hidden, lest the former go away and the latter disappear.

When Ding Wei was prime minister in the Northern Song Dynasty, he controlled the government and did not allow his colleagues to stay alone to report to the emperor after retiring from the court.Only Wang Zeng was very obedient and never violated his intentions.

The king of Tiantian once said to Ding Wei: "I have no son, and I feel lonely when I grow old. I want to adopt a son of my younger brother to carry on my family. I want to beg the emperor's favor in person, but I dare not stay to pay my respects after I retire. The emperor starts playing."

Ding Wei said: "Just do as you said!"

Wang Zeng took the opportunity to meet the emperor alone, quickly submitted a volume of documents, and at the same time exposed Ding Wei's behavior.Ding Wei regretted it as soon as he got up and walked away, but it was too late.Within a few days, Song Renzong came to court, and Ding Wei was demoted to Yazhou.

Wang Zeng was able to achieve his goal of exposing Ding Wei, but he had to rely on his ability to hide his strength and bide his time.

"Yin Fu Jing" says: "Sex has ingenuity, and it can be hidden." It tells us that being good at low-key terma is the key to success in career and defeating the enemy.A person who doesn't know how to keep a low profile terma, no matter how powerful his ability is, no matter how high his IQ is, it will be difficult for him to defeat his enemies.

Young people who are new to the world often have a flamboyant personality, act rashly, and will not compromise, and the result may be bumped into walls everywhere.But after getting more and more involved in the world, you will know the importance, distinguish the priority from the secondary, learn to be restrained, less showy, and concentrate on doing things.Only by keeping a low profile in life, avoiding unnecessary disputes and accidental injuries can we better protect ourselves, develop ourselves, and achieve ourselves.

Lao Tzu said that when the hard teeth fall out, the soft tongue remains.Weakness is better than hardness, inaction is better than action.We should learn to maintain a proper low profile at the right time. This is by no means cowardice and timidity, but a smart way of dealing with the world, the great wisdom and great state of life.

So never expose your goals, don't show your hole cards easily, and don't show your sharpness.Life is like a battle, learn to hide yourself and ambush yourself.Only by learning to defend and keep yourself safe, can you plan and wait for the time to attack in the "strategy".

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