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Chapter 158 Part Two
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Chapter 4 Psychological Strategy 4: Perfectly Control the Psychological Game of Others
The fourth section is patient and soft and hard
Mental Wisdom Call:

It takes a super strong psychological quality to fight softly and hard, and too thin-skinned cannot solve difficulties.

Skillful in control:

Sometimes you enthusiastically ask others to do things for you, but he finds all kinds of excuses and reasons to prevaricate and evade, leaving you helpless.Under such circumstances, some people had no choice but to retreat, and no longer looked for another organization to attack.But there are also some people who are stubborn and will not give up until they achieve their goals. They are soft and tough, "friendly" relying on the other party's time, relying on the other party's favor, and even relying on the other party's territory, and will not retreat unless they agree , If you don't get things done, you won't look back, making the other party anxious and annoyed, and finally have to agree to their request.

The characteristic of soft and hard grinding is to strive for positive results in a negative form. Through determination and perseverance, by consuming each other's time and energy, putting pressure on the other party, and using one's tenacious attitude, thoughts and feelings to influence the other party's attitude and change the other party purpose of the behavior.

It takes a super strong psychological quality to fight softly and hard, and too thin-skinned cannot solve difficulties.

Some people are so thin-skinned and self-respecting that they blush at the slightest hindrance, feel humiliated, annoyed, quarrel with others, or walk away without looking back.

This kind of people seem to have a bit of "backbone", but in fact they are too fragile. They only care about face, so that they forget their own purpose.

Therefore, when asking for help, you must have self-esteem, but don't cling to it.In order to achieve the purpose of communication, sometimes you might as well be thicker-skinned. When you hit a wall, your face will not blush, your heart will not beat, you will not be angry or annoyed, and you will still deal with people with a smile.As long as there is still a glimmer of hope, we must strive for it with all our strength, and never give up until we reach our goal. With such a tenacious will, we can get things done.

From another point of view, soft winding and hard grinding consume time.And time is just a weapon for doing things.Time is precious to everyone, and what people can't afford to waste the most is time.Therefore, if you have enough patience and put on a posture of fighting a protracted war against the opponent, you will deter the opponent.Using "bubble" versus "drag" is enough to urge him to change his original intention and speed up his work.So, you have to stay calm, persevere, persevere, and finally reach your goal.

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