Thick black school

Chapter 77
A scoundrel and gambler who has been reduced to the land of Shu, his value doubled because of a distant sister who became a noble concubine, and he became the object of curry favor with the highest officials in the land of Shu, and he himself has been promoted by this reason, and has been entering the highest power circle. The center became the "left and right" of the emperor, and was favored by more people.

In order to get one job done, many seekers run around in many ways, begging for one thing, then another, and worshiping Buddha when they see Buddha.Because, first, when you entrust the matter to one person, and then ask others, it is tantamount to distrusting the person in front of you, or at least it is a sign of lack of confidence.Second, there are too many people with mixed mouths. Once the gods of many parties meet, they will have different opinions and different ways of doing things.It can be seen from this that, for the same matter, you should not ask too many people, and you should not look around. You must look for a path, embrace a tree, and persevere to the end.

There was a retired master whose son quarreled with someone, and in a fit of anger beat him to death. He got into a catastrophe and was locked up in a temporary detention center. He will be punished by law.The old master is just such a son, and he treats him like a sweetheart. When he sees his son squatting in the classroom, he is so angry and anxious that he hits his head against the wall. He can't eat or sleep. It feels like the whole world has collapsed.Coupled with the fact that his wife was crying all day long, he felt that there was no way out.

At this time, someone gave the master an idea: don't be so stubborn.In today's society, people ask for others, there are relationships, and everything can be accommodated.It's not a solution for you to be bored at home all day long. For the sake of your son, you have to go out for "activities" quickly!The old master's eyes lit up when he heard this, and then he lowered his head again.All his life, he has been honest, careful and cautious, law-abiding, conscientious, and has always believed in "don't ask for anything", and there is nothing worth asking for.Apart from his wife and children, he has no other social relations.Who should I ask?

The neighbor helped him analyze the situation, saying that if his son's affairs could not be dealt with properly, he should be sent to the procuratorate to "activate" earlier.Another said that the procuratorate is in charge of the prosecution, and the final result depends on the court's judgment, so it should go to the court to "activate".Others said that, as long as the relationship is strong, it is not easy to get parole, get medical parole, and so on.You are a big unit, the leader has a background and a lot of face, so you can ask him to come forward as a guarantee, and you can get him out.

Another person said that there is a certain butcher in the market who is brother-in-law to a certain section chief of the Public Security Bureau.Some people even came up with this idea: the feeling of the prison is not good. I heard that a certain relative is working as a discipline in the detention center. You have to go to his house to get some care, so that your son will not suffer in it...

The neighbors talked a lot and came up with a train idea, which made the master dizzy.They are all kind-hearted, and the master can't help but listen.So, he made up his mind, put on an old face, and begged for help this time!Discussed with my wife all night, and the next day, I started to run non-stop. Today I went to the east house, tomorrow I went to the west house, and I came back staggeringly tired every day.

He has traveled almost all the routes pointed out to him by his neighbors, even the sub-district offices and neighborhood committees more than once, passing cigarettes, crying, giving gifts, and telling everyone... After hearing the case, people feel that the old master It's very pitiful, his son was wronged, and while sighing with him, he said that he would find a way to help.All in all, the master begged for more than a dozen companies, and he "runs" day by day, waiting day by day.But the son just couldn't get out.In a blink of an eye, half a month has passed.

One day, the son came home by himself.The family was overjoyed, and thanked God for opening his eyes and the kind-hearted people for their help.But they didn't expect that his son's crime was not that serious at all. It was a matter of public security. If he was detained for 15 days and paid some medical expenses, the matter would be over.After learning from the pain, the master felt very uncomfortable. When he thought of the situation of begging for help, he couldn't help but feel a lot of emotion.No one knew that in order to beg for mercy and let his son go, he knelt down several times!

The insider said that in this matter, no one helped the master.

In life, we often hear people lament: Doing things is difficult, and things are difficult to do.The key to this is that we did not fully understand the situation of the matter, did not find the right way to handle the matter, and did not find the key person to handle the matter, which caused us to falter and feel as if we were climbing to the sky.Doing things is a manifestation of the wisdom of life. If you want to be successful, you must find out the situation, dig around, find out the needles, find those key people who can help solve the problem, and try to get them to help you with the job, so that you can save yourself a lot of trouble. Many troubles, many setbacks are reduced, and things that cannot be done by oneself are done, achieving twice the result with half the effort.

Thick Black New Mysteries

As the saying goes: "There are people in the court who are good at being officials." Although this saying is unavoidably secular, it also shows the truth that good interpersonal relationships are needed to support great things.Sometimes it is precisely because you don't know where to find a breakthrough that can solve the problem, and who to turn to, that causes the situation of "difficult to do things".If you know how to do things, you get twice the result with half the effort; if you don't know how to do things, you get twice the result with half the effort.If you master the skills and methods of doing things, things will go smoothly.Houheixue pointed out that in the development of our personal connections, there will always be some "key people" who can help you solve your urgent needs and solve things that cannot be done by your own ability.Therefore, you should firmly "focus" on these key people, spend energy on them as the key targets, adopt the most flexible and ingenious methods, drill when you have time, penetrate every hole, attack every corner, and make decisive moves, so that things will definitely be resolved. Do it well, and often receive unexpected results.

Rare goods can live, let others come to ask me to do things.
[Zonggo Mantra] Wilson put forward the idea of ​​"national self-determination", which is contradictory to his own country's position.Japan is a master of thick and black studies. Seeing through Wilson's weakness, he put forward a proposal of "racial equality" at the peace meeting, attacking his weakness, which clearly means "you can sing high notes, then I will sing one." High profile is higher than you."

As the saying goes: you need to be strong in blacksmithing, and your own conditions are excellent. Others may ask you for something, and you will have the conditions to bargain when you ask for help.Houheixue believes that when you ask someone to do something, if you want the other party to agree to your request, you must have something to attract the other party, and use this as a condition of exchange.In other words, you must have a "trump card" in your hand, and this "trump card" must not be in the opponent's hand.

Lu Buwei in the Spring and Autumn Period was a master who was good at using the "trump card" in his hands.

Lu Buwei was a big businessman in Yangdi (now Yuxian County, Henan Province). He became a rich man by selling goods, and he accumulated thousands of gold in his family property.

In the 40th year of King Qin Zhao (267 BC), the prince died. In the 42nd year (265 BC), An Guojun, the second son of King Qin Zhao, was established as the prince.An Guojun has more than 20 sons.An Guojun had a concubine whom he favored very much, who was established as his husband and honored as Mrs. Huayang.Mrs. Huayang has no sons, and An Guojun has a middle-ranked son named Zichu.Zi Chu's biological mother is Xia Ji, who doesn't like him.Zi Chu was sent to Zhao State as a hostage of Qin State.Because Qin State attacked Zhao State many times, Zi Chu was not respected by Zhao State.

Zi Chu's life in Zhao State was not good, his car and expenses were not rich, and his life was difficult and he was quite unhappy.

When Lu Buwei saw Zichu when he was doing business in Handan, he felt sorry for him and said: "This is a rare commodity, which can be hoarded for a high price." So he went to see Zichu and said to him, "I can open your The door to success!" Zi Chu said with a smile: "You open your own door, but what did you say to open my door to success!"

Lu Buwei said: "You don't know, the opening of my door depends on the opening of your door." Zi Chu understood what he meant, so he sat him down for a secret talk.

Lu Buwei said: "The king of Qin is old, and An Guojun was established as the prince. I heard that An Guojun favored Mrs. Huayang. Mrs. Huayang has no children. Only Mrs. Huayang can make an heir. Now you have more than 20 brothers, you Ranked in the middle, but not favored, you have been sent to the princes as hostages for a long time. Even if the king dies and An Guojun is established as the king, you have no hope of competing with other brothers in the country for the crown prince."

Zi Chu said, "That's right, what should we do?"

Lu Buwei said: "You are very poor, and you live here as a guest. You have nothing to offer to your relatives and friends to make guests. Although I am not rich, I would like to use a thousand pieces of gold to help you travel to the west of Qin State, serve the Lord An and Mrs. Huayang, and persuade them to make you an official. heir."

Zi Chu kowtowed and said, "It's really like what you planned, and I'm willing to share Qin with you."

Lu Buwei then gave Zi Chu five hundred gold as a fee to make friends with guests; he then used five hundred gold to buy precious and exotic ornamental items, and brought them into Xiqin himself, begging to see Mrs. Huayang's sister, and dedicating all the ornamental items To Mrs. Huayang.Taking the opportunity to say that Zi Chu is virtuous and intelligent, he has made friends with princes and guests all over the country. He often said: "I take my wife as the sky (the highest honor), and I cry day and night to miss the prince and his wife." Mrs. Huayang heard that there was such a filial son. , very happy, Lu Buwei took the opportunity to call her sister to persuade his wife: "I heard that if you serve others with beauty, once your appearance weakens, your favor will also weaken. Now my wife is favored by the prince, but I don't have a son. It's better to make a decision as soon as possible. Choose a virtuous and filial son from among the sons, and appoint one as his heir. As his adopted son, the husband will be respected when he is alive, and his adopted son will be king after the husband dies, and he will not lose power. This is what is said. Get the benefits of everything! Don’t lay the foundation in the prime of life, and when your appearance weakens and you are not favored, even if you want to say something, can you do it? Now that Zi Chu is virtuous and he is in the middle, he cannot be established as a descendant according to the order Heir, his biological mother is not favored, so she voluntarily attaches herself to you, if you really make Zi Chu as your heir at this time, you will be doting on Qin for the rest of your life." Mrs. Huayang thought she was right, Taking advantage of Mr. An's spare time, he slowly mentioned that his son Zi Chu, who was sent to Zhao as a hostage, was quite virtuous. People who came and went praised him, and then wept and cried: "I am fortunate to be favored by the harem, but unfortunately I have no children. I hope to have a son." Make Chu the heir, to protect the concubine." An Guojun agreed to his request, and carved a jade talisman as a proof, and made a covenant with Zi Chu as the heir.An Guojun and Mrs. Huayang presented Zichu with rich property and asked Lu Buwei to teach him.Since then, Zi Chu's reputation in the vassal states has grown.

Lu Buwei chose another beautiful woman to live with her in Handan. After knowing that she was pregnant, he invited Zi Chu to drink. reward him.Lu Buwei pretended to be very angry, but in the end he reluctantly gave up the beauty and gave the beauty to Zichu. The beauty concealed the fact that she was pregnant, and later gave birth to a boy. This boy was Yingzheng, who was later Qin Shihuang .

In the 56th year of King Qin Zhao (251 BC), King Qin Zhao died, Prince Anguojun became king, Mrs. Huayang became queen, and Zi Chu became prince.Zhao Guo sent Zi Chu, his wife and son back to Qin State.

An Guojun died after only one year of kingship. Therefore, Prince Chu inherited the throne, and Empress Huayang was named the Queen Mother of Huayang. Received the fiefdom of 249 households in Luoyang, Henan.

Lu Buwei used the rare goods in his hands to gain a prominent position and get rich rewards.This is a brilliant act of being a person and doing things.Using exotic goods to help oneself and achieve brilliant things has also happened in our neighboring country Japan.

The town of Ina in Japan is located in a remote corner with unremarkable scenery, but the local government hopes that it will become a "rare commodity".The local government wants people to travel to this remote place.First of all, they sent a team of people around to learn about folk customs.After months of tossing and tossing, I finally collected a folktale - the magical experience of a knight-errant Kantaro in ancient times.Although this is just a non-existent myth, the authorities don't care so much. Starting from this point, they have done a lot of work.

Not long after, a bronze statue of Kantaro was miraculously erected on the square of Ina Railway Station; many books describing Kantaro's miraculous legends of eliminating the strong and helping the weak, chivalrous and benevolent suddenly appeared in the bookstore; Kantaro's wood carvings, Kantaro's belts, Kantaro's weapons and other new gadgets emerged in an endless stream, and even the folks began to spread songs praising Kantaro everywhere.Kantaro suddenly became a well-known hero.As a matter of course, Kantaro's "birthplace" Ina Town has naturally become a holy place for heroes and a famous tourist attraction.Out of nothing, turning a stone into gold, the unremarkable place has become a feng shui treasure land full of wealth, and has become a livable "rare commodity" for the local government.

Of course, this is more risky. Maybe one day someone will find out that you have been cheated. In the end, you may not be able to steal the chicken, so you can also process a real "exotic product", that is, create an opportunity to do some high-end goods. Things that increase your own social status, or master some "resources" that the other party is interested in.

Thick Black New Mysteries

In modern society, people pay more attention to benefits, and people get along with each other, and sometimes they are maintained by interests.If you are well-off yourself, you will be eye-catching and have an advantage in communication. If you don't beg others, others may come to you.If you want to do your job well, you must first sharpen your tools. Houhei Xue reminds people that if you want to do a good job in society, you cannot simply rely on others to solve it. Sometimes you have to change your thinking. It is better to ask yourself than to ask others. Pay attention to accumulating various resources, backgrounds, etc., possess the "trump card" that others do not have, and use the "trump card" in your hand to lure others to do things for you, so that you have the initiative to do things and get rich returns.

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