Thick black school

Chapter 94
People often say: "A real person doesn't show his face, but his face is not a real person", which means that people with real talents are usually unwilling to show themselves, while those who like to show themselves are people with little talent and low learning.But a "real person" who never "shows his face", how can others know his talent?Wouldn't his talent be wasted if he left it unused?Could it be said that people who never express their opinions are considered "real people"?Workplace Houheixue believes that with several years of experience in the workplace, don’t wait for the boss to put down his figure and come to ask you for your insightful insights. When it’s time to “show”, you must “show” it. You must not be polite, but you must “show” It's wonderful.

A villain uses a dark arrow, a gentleman uses a bright spear.
[Zongwu Mantra] If someone is flattering and flattering in front of you, you must be careful not to turn him into a black heart. If you suddenly lose power one day, the first person to throw a stone into the well is this kind of person.

As the saying goes, "one kind of rice feeds a hundred kinds of people". There are all kinds of people in society, there are good people and bad people;The so-called villains are those who are immoral, shameless, disregarding trustworthiness, capricious, harboring evil intentions, obedient to others, gossiping, snobbish, and fearful of chaos.Villains are everywhere, spreading poisonous germs like flies flying around, spreading rumors to destroy, and causing troubles.

The workplace we live in is like a small society. "When the forest grows, there are all kinds of birds." There are inevitably villains in the workplace.Even today when the spirit of teamwork is prevalent, it is still inevitable that there will be some villains who make trouble in the company to satisfy their own self-interest.Sometimes, you have been working hard to do your own job well, but it still doesn't go well. This may be because you met and offended villains in the workplace!The villain is a stumbling block to our career and a stumbling block to our success. It has virtually caused pressure on our spirit and work, and at the same time played a certain destructive role. It often makes us suffer a lot. People make troubles that stop their careers, ruin their reputations, and ruin their lives.

The villain is hateful, and the villain is hard to guard against.Workplace Thickness School believes that villains are your number one enemy in the workplace. If you want to survive and gain a foothold in the workplace, you must recognize the true colors of villains in the workplace, master some necessary thick and dark ways, and learn to communicate with villains Get along with each other, protect yourself from harm, put yourself in a favorable position where you can attack and retreat, so that villains can't help you no matter how powerful they are, and make your career life bright and magnanimous all the way.

There have been villains since ancient times, and there have been many people in all dynasties. They jumped up and down, harmed the country and the people, framed loyal and good people, were greedy for countless money, and did bad things, causing great harm to society.Li Linfu, a treacherous minister of the Tang Dynasty, was such a villain.

Tang Xuanzong had been the Emperor of Taiping for more than 20 years, and gradually developed a feeling of pride and laziness.He thought, the world is peaceful, the prime minister is in charge of political affairs, and the border guards are guarded by generals, so why should he worry so much about state affairs.So, he pursued a life of pleasure.Seeing this situation, Prime Minister Zhang Jiuling was very anxious and often gave advice to Tang Xuanzong.Tang Xuanzong originally respected Zhang Jiuling very much, but later, he couldn't listen to Zhang Jiuling's opinions.

There was a minister, Li Linfu, who was ignorant.He doesn't know anything, but he has learned a set of flattery and flattery skills.He colluded with the eunuchs and concubines in the palace to spy on the movement in the palace.He first found out what Tang Xuanzong said and thought in the palace.When Tang Xuanzong asked him to discuss something, he answered fluently, just as Tang Xuanzong thought.Tang Xuanzong felt very comfortable after hearing this, and felt that Li Linfu was capable and obedient, much better than Zhang Jiuling.

Tang Xuanzong wanted to promote Li Linfu as prime minister and discuss with Zhang Jiuling.Zhang Jiuling saw that Li Linfu was not an upright person, so he said bluntly: "The status of the prime minister is related to the safety of the country. If your majesty worships Li Linfu as the prime minister, I am afraid that the country will suffer disaster in the future." These words spread to Li Linfu, and Li Linfu told him Zhang Jiuling gritted his teeth in hatred.General Niu Xianke of Shuofang (where the government is located in Lingwu, Ningxia today) is illiterate, but he has a lot of ways to manage money.Tang Xuanzong wanted to promote Niu Xianke, but Zhang Jiuling did not agree.Li Linfu said in front of Tang Xuanzong: "People like Niu Xianke are candidates for prime minister; Zhang Jiuling is a bookworm and doesn't know the general idea."

Once, Tang Xuanzong asked Zhang Jiuling to discuss the promotion of Niu Xianke, but Zhang Jiuling still disagreed.Tang Xuanzong got angry, and said sharply: "Don't you have to decide everything!" Tang Xuanzong felt that Zhang Jiuling hated him more and more, and after he listened to Li Linfu's slander, he finally dismissed Zhang Jiuling's post with an excuse, so that the Li Linfu became prime minister.

As soon as Li Linfu became prime minister, the first thing he did was to isolate Tang Xuanzong from all officials, and not allow everyone to raise opinions in front of Xuanzong.Once, he summoned the admonishers and publicly announced: "Now the emperor is wise, as long as the ministers act according to the emperor's will, there is no need for everyone to talk about it. Haven't you seen standing horses (a kind of action in front of the palace) Horses used for ceremonial guards)? The feed they eat is equivalent to the treatment of third-rank officials, but if any horse barks, it will be pulled out and used, and it is too late to regret it."

An admonisher refused to listen to Li Linfu's words, and wrote a memorial to Emperor Xuanzong of Tang Dynasty.The next day, he received an order and was demoted to another place to be a county magistrate.Everyone knew that this was what Li Linfu meant, and no one dared to ask Xuanzong for advice in the future.Li Linfu knew that he had a bad reputation in the court, and he tried every means to squeeze out all the ministers who were more capable than him.He wanted to squeeze someone out, on the surface he was calm and smiling, but he stabbed someone behind his back.

Once, Tang Xuanzong looked through the curtain from the Qinzheng Building, and Lu Xuan, the Minister of the Ministry of War, rode downstairs on horseback.Tang Xuanzong saw that Lu Xuan's demeanor was very good, so he casually praised him.The next day, when Li Linfu learned of this, he demoted Lu Xuan to be the governor of Huazhou.Not long after Lu Xuan took office, he was falsely accused of being in poor health and incompetent, so he was demoted again.

There was an official, Yan Tingzhi, who was squeezed out by Li Linfu to be the governor in other places.Later, Tang Xuanzong thought of him and said to Li Linfu: "Is Yan Tingzhi still there? This man is very talented and can be used." Li Linfu said: "Since Your Majesty misses him, I will go and find out." After leaving the court, Li Linfu hurriedly called Yan Tingzhi's younger brother and said, "Don't your brother really want to go back to the capital to meet the emperor? I have a way." Yan Tingzhi's younger brother was of course very grateful to see Li Linfu caring about his brother so much, and hurriedly asked for advice what to do.Li Linfu said: "As long as you ask your brother to make a memorial, say that he is sick, and ask to return to the capital to see a doctor."

Yan Tingzhi received a letter from his younger brother, and actually wrote a memorial requesting to return to the capital for medical treatment.Li Linfu took the memorial to Tang Xuanzong and said, "It's a pity that Yan Tingzhi is seriously ill now and can't do great things." Tang Xuanzong sighed regretfully, and let it go.

There are quite a few people who have been deceived like Yan Tingzhi.However, no matter how ingeniously Li Linfu dressed up, his conspiracy was finally seen through by people.People say that Li Linfu has a "sweet mouth but a sword hidden in his belly".

Li Linfu has been the prime minister for 19 years, and all the talented and upright ministers have been rejected, and batches of villains who have tried their best to flatter horses have been reused and promoted.During this period, the serious "Anshi Rebellion" occurred, the politics of the Tang Dynasty turned from prosperity to decline, and the prosperity of the "Kaiyuan Reign" disappeared.

As big as society, villains can harm the country and the people and endanger the world; as small as individuals, villains can damage people's reputation and ruin their future.The once-prosperous Tang Dynasty declined because villains like Li Linfu interfered with it and destroyed the court.In the workplace, a villain can make you difficult at work, making it difficult to gain the trust of the leader and hopeless for promotion.

Zhang Yun feels that everything else is good in the company, but what is annoying is that she meets a person who is the most unofficial person in the workplace, that is, a "workplace villain".At the beginning, Zhang Yun thought he was pretty good, he was kind and seemed very humane.Later, she accidentally heard someone say that he even spoke ill of himself in front of the vice president.Now the influence on him was much worse, and Zhang Yun knew that this kind of person was the kind of villain with a smiling face.

He does one thing in front of his face, but another behind his back. He loves flattering, and the company's department managers and vice presidents trust him very much.Moreover, he is very good at suing people behind their backs. Zhang Yun doesn't know how many crimes he has sued herself, because she feels that the vice president and manager treat her worse every day, and some things are always aimed at her.She checked the "5S" in the office with this person, and he took the credit for himself, and sometimes pushed it to Zhang Yun, and Zhang Yun was fined every time.Once Zhang Yun saw the company's employment report, only to find that her name was not on it, and it was obviously done by herself, but all of them became his name.Zhang Yun was very angry, and wanted to explain to the vice president and manager, but felt that the higher-ups believed in that person very much, and they didn't explain it, which would cause trouble for herself instead.After thinking about it, Zhang Yun had no choice but to resign.

There are many harms of villainous people, which are really "too numerous to describe", such as: double-faced and three-faced swords, one thing in front of others, one thing in front of others; strong jealousy, jealous of other people's achievements, trying every means to obliterate your achievements, trying to pull yours Back legs; gossiping, making rumors and spreading rumors; using your trust in him to betray you.The villain will distract you, prevent you from doing your work, make you hard to guard against, and suffer from it repeatedly.When dealing with villains, it is not advisable to win by force, but to outsmart them.How can we defeat the villain and get rid of the trouble of the villain?

1.Be alert.Don't talk too much in front of others, let the villain have an opportunity.You should think deeply - what is the reason for the villain to take advantage of?Is it because I usually trust others too much and have no defense against others?Remember not to let the same thing happen to you again, as the saying goes, "a fall into a trap will grow your wisdom"!

2.Weigh the pros and cons.Secondly, carefully compare the strengths of the two parties. If you are confident and think that your ability is superior to the other party, then you can directly clarify the facts to your boss.But don't be too "showy" before things are confirmed by the boss.

3.Learn to be patient.If you feel that you are alone and alone, and feel at a loss, it is difficult to fight against the villain for a while. It is suggested that you might as well be patient for a while, and wait for the incident to state your position, or keep this experience in your heart, and save it in the future, so as to be on guard as soon as possible.

4.Tat for tat.The so-called "the devil is one foot tall, the Tao is one foot tall", and the villain must not be tolerated and raised.If you are attacked by a villain, you can't be soft. If you can beat him, you will beat him to death with a stick, so that he can remember not to be a bad person.Being Dong Guo can only harm others and yourself; if you can't beat it, just dodge, and dodge quickly, and get out of the villain's sphere of influence as soon as possible.If you run slower, the wasp will sting you.Don't worry about running away, what about the villain?There are mountains outside the mountains, and buildings outside the buildings, and there are masters to deal with them.

5.Find allies.A person's power is weak, and the enemy's power is too strong to compete with it, so it is advisable to mobilize the masses and unite everyone's strength to deal with them. "Unity is strength" is an eternal truth.

6.Counterattack in a roundabout way.The most effective way to treat villains is to treat them like villains, and treat them in the same way as others.When hitting a snake, you have to hit the seven inches. The villain must have his weaknesses, and he will also make things that make the boss disgusted. If you grasp this point and sue the boss, it will definitely work.

Thick Black New Mysteries

"How can a person walk in the rivers and lakes without being stabbed?" The villain will use various means to achieve the purpose of destroying you.Facing all kinds of obstacles designed by villains to steal credit, it is really not easy to get out of the body or to defend yourself properly.As the saying goes, an open spear is easy to hide and a hidden arrow is hard to guard against, and without supernatural eyes, you can't block all cold arrows.In the workplace, little people are like killers hiding in the dark, who will shoot you with an arrow or kill you unexpectedly. If you don’t pay attention to them when you get along with them, don’t know how to guard against them, and don’t know how to use thick and dark techniques to deal with them They, in the end you will fail terribly, and even fail unexplainably.

The workplace thick black theory believes that to deal with villains, you must thicken your skin, refine your heart, and use thick black tactics to effectively protect yourself.Although it is said that "It is better to offend a gentleman than to offend a villain", but you can't blindly accommodate and tolerate the villain.In fact, you need to use wisdom and strategy to deal with villains. The so-called "when the enemy advances, we retreat, when the enemy is stationed, we harass, when the enemy is tired, we attack, and when the enemy retreats, we pursue". , you can't ignore it, don't care about everything, but don't back down in everything, give him a strong blow with words or actions at the right time, the purpose is to give him a warning, let him know that you are principled, not that you can Soft persimmons that you pinch casually.

Master the Tai Chi method of speaking and become a master of speech in the workplace.
[Zongwu Mantra] The nature of the leader is simple and dull. When he was young, he was silent and dull. He was also humble to his classmates.So his father called him a "pedantic teacher", and among his classmates, he was called a "good old man".

As the saying goes, "People are in the world, they can't help themselves", if this sentence is used in the workplace, it can be changed to "People are in the workplace, they can't help themselves".The workplace is like a battlefield, with treacherous clouds and turbulent clouds, full of various hidden reefs and traps, a little carelessness, careless words, disasters will fly, encounter disasters, and lose the workplace.

In ancient times, there was a saying that "one word will ruin the country, and one word will make the country prosperous", while in modern times there is a saying that "one word makes people laugh, and one sentence makes people dance". This shows that words are full of mysteries and hide the secret of changing destiny .For an individual, talking can make a person soar to the sky, and it can also make a person lose his official position and ruin his career.Workplace Thick Black Science pointed out that in the workplace, we inevitably have something to say with colleagues and leaders every day, what to say, how to say, what to say and what not to say, we should all be "attentive".It can be said that "speaking" in the workplace is also an art.Many times, some people suffer because they failed to control their mouths.

Zhang Jia works as an office clerk in the company. She is introverted and not very talkative.But whenever she is asked for her opinion on something, her words are always "stinging" people, and her words are always exposing other people's "shortcomings".

Once, a colleague in my department wore a new dress, and others praised it as "beautiful" and "suitable". It suits." He even said: "This color is a bit bright for you, it is not suitable at all."

As soon as these words were uttered, the person concerned was very angry, and the people around who praised how good the clothes were were also embarrassed.Because part of what Zhang Jia said is true, for example, the colleague is rather bloated.Although sometimes Zhang Jia would regret that what she said was not liked by others, but most of the time, she still said something that was unacceptable.Over time, colleagues excluded her from the group and rarely asked for her opinion on something.

Despite this, if she needs to hear her opinion occasionally, she still can't control herself, and says what others don't like to hear the most.Now, almost no one in the company takes the initiative to talk to her.Zhang Jia naturally understood why everyone ignored her.

Everyone has self-esteem. If you don’t pay attention to propriety when speaking, don’t consider the feelings of the other party, and talk nonsense, even if it is a correct sentence, it is easy to stab the other party’s psychology and damage the other party’s self-esteem, which will cause unpleasant feelings towards you. The popularity and situation in the company can also be imagined.

Sun Li works as a senior programmer in a computer company.Once, the boss gave Sun Li a very difficult task, and told her in advance: "This task is very difficult, do you dare to undertake it, dare you accept the challenge." Although Sun Li understands her own strength, she feels Among the people in the company, the boss took the initiative to ask her for advice, which showed that the boss valued her, so Sun Li accepted it as soon as she gritted her teeth.As a result, due to the short deadline given by the boss, Sun Li did not complete the task on time.As a result, Sun Li was criticized by her boss for this matter and was financially punished.

But she felt very wronged and angry.Sun Li believes that since the task is so arduous, it is expected that it will not be completed.I worked so hard at the time, and it shouldn't be considered a work mistake if I didn't finish it.

"The boss is really too much. In such a short period of time, he asked me to do such a difficult job. I said I couldn't do it, but he insisted on letting me do it, and punished me if I didn't finish it." complain.Not long after, the boss gave her a new task. Fortunately, Sun Li completed it quite smoothly this time.

Just when Sun Li was happy, the boss entrusted him with a more difficult task.And said, "Here I am the boss, and the subordinates can only obey and not complain. I don't support people who eat for free, and leave if they can't adapt. If you can't complete the task again this time, you have to consider whether you should change to a job that you can do." Work."

(End of this chapter)