Thick black school

Chapter 96
——Thick face and dark heart, all for love

Soft and hard, if you want love, you can't care about face
[Zongwu Mantra] I am born with a thick face and a dark heart, so what can the world do to me?

Some boys pursue girls because they love face and are thin-skinned, for fear of being rejected by the woman.Once rejected by the woman, I will be disheartened and never have the courage to pursue the woman again.However, in reality, those boys who succeed in love are usually thick-skinned and courageous boys, and such boys are generally favored by girls.

In fact, women have a shy and closed mentality when they first get involved in a relationship. When a boy pursues them, they will have a sense of prevention and rejection, and they will retreat involuntarily. Will feel weak, change his attitude, and take the initiative to show friendliness to the boy to show comfort.Therefore, the Thick Heiology of Love Field believes that to pursue a woman, you must prepare a "thick skin", have a "tough" heart, not be afraid of being rejected, and have a soft-hearted, stalking style.Once girls encounter such a strong offensive, most of them will surrender and promise you their hearts.

A Hong Kong female writer became romantically involved with a man from mainland China. She once said that man was the worst-qualified boyfriend among her boyfriends.

The origin of the matter can be traced back to a few years ago, when she went to Shanghai for the first time to negotiate the authorization of her novel to be published by a Shanghai publishing house.At a dinner party, a female writer met a certain man. The man was deeply moved by the life experience of the female writer. After the dinner, he told her an astonishing sentence: "Can I pursue you?" She just took it as a joke at the time.Unexpectedly, the man really started to pursue fiercely. From early in the morning, he brought many friends to "stand guard" at the hotel where she was staying.Regarding the man's move, the female writer felt that she was afraid to step out of the restaurant if she encountered a terrorist.And the man who kept his eyes on him kept "harassing" the female writer with phone calls, and told her "if you don't show up again, you have to notify all your friends and tell them that I want to chase you."The female writer who was driven to nowhere said in a hurry: "You buy me coffee, let's have a good chat."

Knowing that mainlanders have low incomes, she simply drank five or six cups of coffee in one go, ready to "bankrupt" her suitors.As a result, he also ordered five or six cups of coffee. Not only did he not feel ashamed when he checked out, but he gave the waiter a considerable tip.The strategy of making the other party retreat in the face of difficulties did not succeed.

The most intense thing was that on her last night in Shanghai, the man who mustered up his courage kissed the female writer violently in front of the public.The female writer, whose face paled for a moment, was speechless for a long time, and then she was so excited that she almost cried, "How could you do this." When she left Shanghai, the man chased her all the way and beat her fiercely.I went to Xi'an, tracked down to Xi'an, and arrived in Taipei. I don't know how many times I have made overseas calls.

At this point, the female writer said: "As long as there is one day left on the earth, it seems that there is no way to escape from his palm." She had to declare her surrender and marriage.

Human hearts are fleshy. When a girl faces a boy who is persistent, tenacious and relentless in his pursuit of her, will she still have the heart to accuse him of being "unreasonable", "unscrupulous" and "unrecognizable of flattery"?

Napoleon's wife Josephine is the former Viscountess Beauharnay, who has always been promiscuous and dissolute.When Napoleon was fighting bloody battles in Italy and Egypt, the newly married she had an affair with a lieutenant named Charles, and she had no loyalty to Napoleon.She had thought that Napoleon would die in the desert, and she no longer waited for his return, but arranged for his funeral as if there were no Napoleon.

When the news reached Paris in October 1799 that Napoleon had returned from Egypt to France and was warmly welcomed, Josephine was stunned.Napoleon became the most famous man in Europe, the savior of France, with a bright future ahead of him.She had cheated Napoleon and wanted to abandon him, and now she regretted it.So she worked tirelessly and traveled long distances in a carriage to meet Napoleon in Lyon in the south of France.She wanted to see Napoleon before he met his family, and take advantage of his excitement to deceive him and hide her scandal.

She managed to reach Lyons, but Napoleon had gone by another route and joined his family.Napoleon had heard about his wife's infidelity for a long time, but he didn't believe it very much. When he was convinced that Josephine was unfaithful to him, he became furious and determined to divorce her.

Knowing that something was wrong, Josephine rushed back to Paris day and night.

Napoleon ordered his servants not to let her into the house.She managed to get through the door, calmed down, and decided to bravely go to see her husband.She came to Napoleon's bedroom door and knocked lightly, but there was no answer.Turning the doorknob, to no avail.She knocked again, calling softly and mournfully, but Napoleon ignored her.

She burst into tears and moaned shortly, but Napoleon was unmoved.Weeping, beating on the door with both hands, she begged his forgiveness, admitted that she had made mistakes because of her rashness and childishness, and mentioned their previous vows... and if he could not forgive, she would die.Still can't beat Napoleon.

Josephine cried until late at night and stopped crying. She suddenly thought of the children, and her eyes lit up, igniting the light of hope.She knew that Napoleon loved her two children, Audence and Eugene, especially Eugene, which was a good way to impress Napoleon's heart.If the children begged him, he might change his mind.The children came, pleading innocently and clumsily.

Josephine finally succeeded in this trick.Although Napoleon suspected that Josephine had betrayed him, her crying brought back fond memories of their love in his mind.The pleadings of Odense and Eugene broke through the defense line he had set up in his heart, and tears filled his eyes.Then, the door was opened, and Napoleon and Josephine were reconciled.Later, when Napoleon came to the throne, Josephine became queen, the most glorious.

Adding some tears to the mushrooms can effectively soften the other party, making your pleading more touching, and speeding up the impact on the other party.Reaching out and not hitting the smiling person, even the supplicant who "cries into tears" is even less capable of doing so.

Pursuing each other with soft and hard methods requires some methods and skills.If the other party rejects you, the situation may seem awkward, so you might as well create some topics to strike up a conversation with the other party, so as to pave the way for further flirting.

The following is an introduction to the method of cleverly "sticking" with the opposite sex in love communication.

1. To establish the concept that striking up a conversation is not shameless, and overcome fear.Some women look arrogant or even frosty, seemingly inaccessible. In fact, she feels more lonely in her heart. She uses a mask of indifference to cover up her inner anxiety, and your decent strike-up will easily arouse her positive reaction.Therefore, you need not worry, but have courage.Smile when you have a conversation. Smiling can relieve your tension and harmonize the atmosphere of the conversation.At the same time, you should look at the other party with sincere and bright eyes. This is not only a kind of politeness, but also an auxiliary language for communicating feelings, and it is easy to make the other party less alert and doubtful and generate trust.But it is not advisable to stare at each other for a long time. Staring makes people feel kind, but staring at strangers makes them feel scared.

2. Find common ground as a topic to "stick" to each other.The more commonalities, the more common language, and the easiest way to resonate with each other.When striking up a conversation with the other party, we must pay attention to the common points and continue to expand the common points, so that the other party will be excited when talking, and the conversation will be deep and lasting.

3. Talk more about the things that the other party cares about, so as not to make the other party feel disgusted by the conversation. You can't brag about yourself, it will only make the other party feel disgusted.You have to include what the other person cares about.What does the other party care about?People are most concerned about themselves, which is the most common psychological phenomenon of human beings.Therefore, you must talk about what the other party cares about, keep raising it, and keep deepening it. Not only will the other party not be disgusted, but they will also think that you care about him (her).

4. Don't be too serious or put on airs. If you can be humorous, the effect will be better.When talking with strangers of the opposite sex, you should not be serious, have a serious attitude, and have a sense of humor.Humor is the lubricant of interpersonal relationship and the crystallization of wisdom. It brings happiness to others. Who can refuse this pleasing gift?
5. Planning a small event that appears to be a coincidence.Sometimes, you may not have the opportunity to contact a stranger, let alone strike up a conversation. In such a situation, you can "create" an opportunity and find a way to get close to the other person.

It should be noted that when talking with strangers of the opposite sex, do not argue, do not talk about the shortcomings of people who are familiar with each other, and do not dig deep into the private life of others. Change the subject tactfully and quickly.In addition, you can't use vulgar language to tease the other party. This is a reflection of poor quality and dirty heart, which will only cause the other party's resentment and reprimand.

Thick Black New Mysteries

Marriage is an art, and smart thick black love masters will use some tricks to make the pursued follow the trap set by themselves, and "obediently" catch them without a fight.Love is won by entanglement and stickiness, otherwise how could the beauty around you be taken away by the ugly "ugly man"?This thing needs to be strong. If it lasts for a long time and can withstand it, one day the "toad" will also be able to eat "swan meat". Abandon your own face and be sloppy, not only full of sincerity, but also make people think you are reliable.However, when using this trick, you should also pay attention to your sense of proportion. Instead of chasing each other clingly all the time, you must show that you will always insist on pursuing the girl, so that the girl will be easily moved.

Don't be stingy with your sweet words: flattering words are their favorite.
[Zongwu Mantra] If my wife makes a mistake, she will be humble and give good advice. If she doesn't listen, then she will try to persuade her respectfully.

Boys and girls fail in love, although there are many reasons, but it is also related to their dull speech, poor eloquence, and not knowing how to blow sweet words to each other.The so-called sweet words are words to make the other party happy. Whether you say it is an ecstasy for girls or a "fudge", do you think the men who use these sweet words are eloquent, eloquent, unpredictable, or It's okay to be cheeky.But you have to admit that sweet talk has a huge effect on most girls.

The thick black school of love field believes that sweet words are sugar-coated cannonballs in love. A man in love must learn to speak sweet words. When using sweet words to make girls happy, don’t be stingy. Put your face on thicker and learn to use sweet words to impress each other. Feel free to use all the compliments you can think of.Don't be afraid, girls know it's fake, and they love to hear it.We must remember: only you have not won, and no girl can't afford it.

Zhang Na has a good friend named Wang Ling, and she feels very troubled recently.

Wang Ling came to Zhang Na and said that she wanted to break up with her boyfriend.Zhang Na asked her why, and she said, "I don't think he can count enough." Zhang Na laughed dumbfounded. Her boyfriend is the backbone of the unit's business, so it was Wang Ling who took the initiative to show love to him. Now the two have just begun to develop a relationship , why do we have to break up?

Wang Ling said: "I asked him if I was pretty, and he said solemnly: 'It's just normal, a little darker and a little fatter.' I asked him again, why are you with me if I'm not pretty? He looked at me strangely and said, "Didn't you tell me that you wanted to talk to me?" When Wang Ling said this, her face flushed with anger: "What do you think he said?"

Zhang Na said: "People are right. Don't you often say that you are dark and fat?" No?" Wang Ling said angrily.

Although sweet talk is often sniffed at by us just like rhetoric, but there is an indisputable fact: many young girls who are in love are willing to give their feelings to a man who can talk sweetly to make them happy.Because a love life without sweet talk is like a delicious meal without salt.Just think, how natural it is to say some idiots and silly words about each other when you are deeply in love. No one wants to hear the truth that hurts the scenery in that kind of romantic time, just like my good friend.In fact, sometimes, the sweet words your lover says may not necessarily lie to you. When he is distracted, he may really think that way. For example, he will swear that he will treat you forever in this life. Whether he can do it is another matter.

Why is sweet talk so important in love and marriage?Why should men sweet talk women more?Because sweet talk is a very good means and method to trigger deep emotional communication between men and women.Even if two people are passionately in love, if the dialogue between the two is just some daily friend-style dialogue, rather than in an intimate exchange of words and actions, then it must be difficult for the two of them to feel the deep intensity at this time. Love.

Even when two people are passionately in love, they can't always feel the sweetness and movingness of intimate communication when they are together.If they want to experience these intoxicating moments of emotional resonance, they must also rely on certain opportunities, some special words and some special actions to arouse the strong resonance of love between the two.And at this moment of deep resonance of love, the two must be exchanging lingering words or intimate actions that are different from usual.In other words, only these unconventional lingering words and intimacy can create moments of intoxicating love.

Therefore, if two people want to enter this moment of intimacy and deep exchange of love, they must create an atmosphere different from their daily relationship.And to create such an atmosphere, sweet talk is undoubtedly a very fast and effective means.

Language is a wonderful thing. Language can express content that does not match or even contradict the speaker's inner feelings and feelings.That is, even if you don't feel love at all in your heart, you can speak loving words with little effort.But it is difficult to do this with actions and expressions.

When a man doesn't have any special love and emotional feelings at the beginning, he just habitually speaks these love languages ​​to please women and make women happy.However, when a woman hears these moving words of love, she will not carefully examine whether the man is in a state of love in his heart. She will be easily moved by the superficial meaning of these words, thus Entered the blissful state of feeling love and experiencing love.

And in such a state, a woman will show you tender, trusting, and accepting emotional feedback, impress you with her unique love attitude of women, and quickly mobilize the true love of men. , so that he also entered a state of happiness and sweetness.

And in this happy and sweet state, men will naturally say some words and do some actions to express their love for women according to their true inner state of mind. At this time, the meaning of these words and actions is no longer false But totally true again.

In this way, the two have entered a process of in-depth communication and interaction of true love.

The whole process is like this: At the beginning, neither of them has the mentality of love, but the man uses words that are not in line with his heart to impress the woman. The woman is stimulated and inspired by these words and enters a state of love. In the state, women will reveal their unique words, expressions, and actions full of love, and these expressions of true love can quickly arouse the love of men, and let men also enter the state of true love. At this time, it will naturally use words and actions full of true love to convey the feelings of love to women.In this way, an interactive cycle is completed, and we really enter into the exchange of true love.

Therefore, with these seemingly hypocritical sweet words, men can easily initiate the exchange of true love.It can be seen that sweet talk is actually a very good method and means to initiate and deepen the exchange of love.If men don't understand or don't express these sweet words, then the love exchange between the two may be much less.

When men and women get along, men take the initiative to pursue women, not just in the dating and love stages.Many men may think that once they get married, everything will be fine and there is no need to pursue anymore-this concept is very wrong.In fact, this behavior of men actively pursuing women should run through a person's life.Even married, the husband should still continue to pursue his wife.The meaning of pursuit here does not refer to a behavior that requires the other party to accept and promise when the other party has not been obtained.Pursuit is actually an attitude of getting along, and it is the basic attitude that men and women should have when they get along with each other for a long time.

Even if married, the husband should still get along with his wife with an attitude of actively pursuing his sweetheart as he did before marriage.Only in this way can the sweetness and happiness of getting along between the sexes be better maintained.In fact, men should get along with their wives with an active pursuit attitude after marriage.Because, in the stage of dating or love, both parties tend to see more of each other's strengths, and it is easier to accept each other. Even if men are not too active, women may accept it.But after marriage, both parties will see more of each other's shortcomings. At this time, if the man does not take the initiative to pursue the attitude, then this love will easily fade, and the passion of love will not last long.

(End of this chapter)