Because of the pain, it is called marriage

Chapter 9
Xuexin was trembling with anger: "Yang Xuewu, your quality is so good, I can't imagine that the environment in your family can cultivate such a high-quality person like you, I wonder why your whole family's quality is so inferior to yours. A person came..." Before she finished speaking, there was a crisp applause, Xue Xin's face immediately swelled up, and she covered her cheeks in disbelief: Yang Xuewu actually hit her?After more than ten years of marriage, this is the first time he hit her!The crisp slap stunned Yang Xuewu, he looked at his hands, eager to explain: "I...I..."

At this moment, Yang Jing's room door opened suddenly, and she stood coldly at the door and looked at her father without saying a word.Xuexin suddenly realized that she suppressed tears, stretched out her hands to straighten her hair, and said lightly, "I don't want to disturb your mother and son to reminisce about the old days." After speaking, she went into the room with her bag and changed her shoes. Before leaving, she did not forget to tell her daughter: "Xiao Jing, if you don't have breakfast, go out and buy some porridge by yourself. If you don't want to stay at home, you can go to a classmate's house."

With tears in her eyes, Yang Jing couldn't help asking, "Mom, where are you going?"

Xue Xin looked back at her daughter, turned her head and rushed out the door.

Walking out of the gate of the community, there were only two or three pedestrians on the road. Xuexin looked up, and there were even a few stars hanging on the edge of the sky.She took a deep breath, endured, endured, and finally tears ran out without disappointment.She cried silently, tears streaming down her face, only the sound of her slightly quickened breathing was pouring out.In the past ten years, I have been patient, but her virtuousness was taken as it should be by their family.But now, she didn't want to give in blindly, and got a big slap in the end!Now she has become a sinner in Yang Xuewu's eyes, a sinner who obstructs their Yang family's relationship.Thinking of Yang Xuewu's eyes just now, he almost wanted to kill her.Xuexin looked at the sky blankly, not knowing where she should go.Suddenly, she realized that for the sake of Yang Xuewu and this family, she had given up all her friends in the past ten years. Except for her colleague Yuxiu, she actually didn't have a single friend she could talk to.She secretly asked herself: Qi Xuexin, Qi Xuexin, what have you been doing all these years?She seemed to have lived in an unfathomable sea of ​​suffering for more than ten years, soaked in it, and kept sinking.Xuexin felt an emptiness that she had never experienced before. Her empty expression was reflected in the window glass of the shop on the roadside, and tears flowed quietly from the corners of her eyes.She felt that the relationship between herself and Yang Xuewu was falling like a meteor.

Standing on the side of the road in a daze, Xuexin decided to go to Yuxiu's house to complain.She is not a person who likes to talk about family affairs outside, but she urgently needs an outlet, otherwise it will be really uncomfortable to hold it in her heart.After buying some candies in a roadside shop, I took a taxi and went straight to Yuxiu’s house. The taxi driver kept checking her in the rearview mirror. Xuexin was a little embarrassed, so she rubbed her red and swollen eyes There were still wet tears on his face.

When Yuxiu heard the knock on the door, she opened the door and saw Xue Xin, she couldn't help being startled, she exclaimed exaggeratedly: "Ah, Xiao Qi, why is it you? You are a rare visitor, why do you have time to come to my house today? Make trouble, come on, call Teacher Qi!" Yuxiu hurriedly dragged her grandson over and asked him to call him "Teacher Qi". I don't like to eat."

"Oh, you really are! Why would you spend money to come to my house!" Yuxiu scolded.

"It's worthless. I bought it for the children to eat, and I didn't bring any good things." Xuexin smiled.At this time, Yuxiu's husband, Lao Li, came out to greet her. Xuexin felt a lump in her heart when she saw Lao Li. Lao Li, who was already in his 50s, combed his hair back and forth. Or something, wearing a blue shirt and a gray tie.Xuexin was stunned for a moment, and said with a smile: "Yuxiu, your old Li is really getting younger and younger." Old Li laughed "hehe" twice, Yuxiu stared at him, and shouted at Old Li: "Early in the morning Get up, I cook and take care of the children and clean up before I have time to take care of you, and now I see you like this, where are you going to go dressed so neatly?"

Lao Li blushed and said, "I have an appointment with Lao He from the chess and card room to go fishing..."

"Fishing? Are you fishing for some old bastard? You need to dress so neatly for fishing?" Yuxiu didn't give Lao Li any face in front of Xuexin.Seeing Lao Li's embarrassing appearance, Xuexin felt very embarrassed, so she smoothed things over and said, "Yuxiu, go fishing to cultivate yourself, and it's Sunday again, so it's okay if you let your old Li stay at home."

"That's right! I'm leaving!" Lao Li took advantage of the situation to change his shoes, opened the door quickly and went downstairs.Yuxiu muttered in a low voice: "Fishing? I didn't even bring a fishing rod to catch a catfish!" After speaking, she called Xue Xin to sit down, and then made a cup of tea for Xue Xin and placed it in front of her.Xuexin looked at Yuxiu's grandson, Nao Nao, the little guy was lying on the stool and drawing, he was very cute with a tiger head and a tiger head.Xue Xin said enviously: "Nao Nao is so cute, has the little guy gone to kindergarten?"

Yuxiu sighed, and said, "Oh, every family has scriptures that are hard to recite! My daughter refused to listen to my advice and found a husband with a stepmother. Now the child is not taken care of by me. Help, you don't know, there are many things to do with multiple children."

Xuexin said: "Yes, living in this life is indeed difficult for each family. There are always such trivial but very troublesome things in life."

Yuxiu asked: "You...are you having trouble with your family's martial arts?"

When Xuexin was reminded, tears could not help but overflowed her eyes again. Seeing this, Yuxiu hurriedly handed her a tissue and comforted her: "Don't cry, it's normal for husband and wife to quarrel! Don't be angry, you'll be mad at yourself not worth it!"

Xuexin's body was stiff, and it took a long time for her to regain her strength. She wiped away her tears and told the story with sobs. Yuxiu said sympathetically, "That mother-in-law of yours is enough for you! Oh, there is no way, son All towards Mom!"

Xuexin said angrily: "I can't be unreasonable to my mother!"

Yuxiu looked at Xuexin's pale face, shook her head and said, "Xuexin, what should I say about you? You, you are too shrewd! Xuewu can't be blamed for this matter, you are in front of him So damn, can he not be in a hurry?"

Xue Xin looked at her puzzled: "Then... can I just bear it?"

Yuxiu slapped her hands and said, "Hold up! I mean, you can't quarrel with the old man in front of his son. If you want to quarrel, you have to turn your back on her son. Even if she sues afterwards, Xuewu can only ask you The reason and then talk about you, you can pretend to be deaf and dumb with him."

Xuexin thought for a while, but said nothing.

Yuxiu went on to say: "Arguing in front of her son, there is no son who does not protect his mother. You and Xuewu are just husband and wife for more than ten years, your mother-in-law is the mother who gave birth to him, Who do you say he will marry? His wife is gone, he can marry! Live life as usual! His mother is gone, he can only burn some paper money every year to think about it, can he find another mother? In the eyes of men, his mother is absolutely unique Yes! So, your behavior today can only be asking for trouble, next time, be more careful, and don't make trouble with his mother in front of a man!"

Xuexin said sadly: "You don't know, I have endured for so many years, and now I can't bear it anymore! I also know that I should be patient, patient, but I am becoming more and more impatient. I can't even hide my emotions. There is no way to do it. Outsiders can’t imagine what kind of unity this family has. As an outsider, I can’t get involved in their group. They only think of me when their family has needs and needs me to nod and give money. To put it bluntly, he only thinks of me when there is still a little use value. Including Xuewu, he responds to all his mother’s requests and never refuses! His mother asked him to go out and buy a house for his brother, but he also knew it was wrong , but he still discussed with me and asked me to give some money. This is not a question of money or not, but a question of principle! Their family has been sucking my blood like a vampire for more than ten years, but they don’t care about it. Thanks, I don’t care about my daughter, why should I let them suck my blood? My money is not stolen or robbed, it is also my hard earned! I even bought myself a set of high-end cosmetics I have been thinking about it for a long time, why should I spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to buy a house for his brother? Tens of thousands will not work! His brother was not born or raised by me. Am I responsible for buying a house for him? Even if he was born by me , I have to be willing, right? He is such an old man, and he has graduated from college for several years. I pay for him to graduate from college, but he still can’t support himself? I have to buy a house for him? If he goes to Beijing and Shanghai, will I still pay him? Have to go bankrupt and even give him a loan to buy a multi-million dollar house over there? What a big joke!"

"Well, it's actually a trivial thing to talk about. The husband and wife quarrel at the end of the bed. Xuexin, you just ran out this morning? Is your family learning martial arts and not dying? I said Xuexin, I won't keep you today. After dinner, you hurry home, how can the couple be so angry, your husband is now looking for you all over the place." Yuxiu persuaded.

Xuexin said aggrievedly: "He won't look for me! He didn't chase me when I rushed downstairs. Moreover, today he slapped me because of his mother. This is the first time he has been married for more than ten years. The first time he hit me, he was so angry, not to mention how fierce, I suspect that he had the intention of killing me at that time."

Yuxiu frowned, and reminded her with concern: "Xuexin, could it be... There is someone outside your husband?"

Xuexin was shocked, she had been deliberately not thinking about this question, but the woman's intuition told her that something was really wrong with Yang Xuewu.If it wasn't for a woman outside, how could he beat her just for housework?In the past, he regarded her as a princess. Although he seldom shared the housework for her, it was indeed a pain in his mouth for her.Thinking of this, Xue Xin forced a smile and said, "Probably not, he is an honest man."

Yuxiu had an idea: "Xuexin, the current conflict in your family is that your mother-in-law is always stretching her hand to ask you for money, why don't you just buy another house, then she won't make any decisions when the family has no money. Moreover, even if Yang Xuewu has someone outside, once you buy the house and control the economic power, what will happen to that woman? You are right, I accompanied my daughter to go to the house last time, and saw Rongxin Green at the South Gate Jingjing house is really nice, not to mention the beautiful house type, the construction of that community is really great. You might as well just buy another house there, it can be regarded as an investment."

Xuexin was moved, but how to move Yang Xuewu was still a problem. It is estimated that Yang Xuewu would not agree to buy a house. They already had two properties.

Yuxiu said again: "Xuexin, your family learns martial arts, are you being too loose with him? If a man has some money, plus too much space and time, it is inevitable that some troubles will arise. I am also giving you a reminder out of good intentions, but it does not mean that there is a problem with your family learning martial arts. Hehe, I seem to provoke the feelings of your husband and wife by saying these words."

Xuexin nodded: "How could it be! You are right, you did remind me. I really put too far away from Yang Xuewu. I never asked him about his working hours. Believe me. Now that I think about it, man is an animal without any integrity at all. They use their lower body to think about problems. If you don’t often remind him of his obligations and responsibilities, he will throw you out of the sky. What kind of family? Children have forgotten."

At this moment, Nao Nao, who had been painting all the time, ran out to quarrel with Yu Xiu: "Grandma, I'm going out to buy pancakes, yesterday you promised to buy them for me today..."

Xuexin looked at the time and found that it was past 11:[-] in the morning, she hurriedly stood up and bid farewell to Yuxiu: "I'm so sorry, I forgot the time while chatting with you, I should go back, I don't know if my daughter has eaten yet. "

Yuxiu was also surprised when she saw the time: "Ah, it's already noon! I haven't cooked dinner yet, no wonder the child is making a fuss. Hey, Xuexin, don't leave. I'm too sorry if you leave when it's time for dinner. , let me order some shredded pork noodles..."

Xuexin declined, "I'm worried about my daughter. I don't know if her father has cooked for her at noon. Xuewu is also resting today. I'll go back and see my daughter."

Seeing this, Yuxiu stopped being polite and sent Xuexin downstairs. She comforted her again: "Xuexin, don't be too arrogant, put down your body and coax him. If you don't coax a man, he will be coaxed away by others. Listen to me , take a detour, don't confront him head-on, and the relationship will be gone if you quarrel."

"Yes." Xuexin agreed.

(End of this chapter)