A good dad is better than a rich dad

Chapter 46 4 Where did the pen in the briefcase go - Loyalty

"Huh? Where's a rollerball in my briefcase? Did you see it?"

"Oh, I took it away. I couldn't find a pen when I was doing my homework today, so I found a pen from your briefcase, Dad."

At this time, do you say "oh", or teach your child a lesson?Yes, this is actually the best time to teach children, just like we often say that frugal education should be carried out at the dining table. Only when problems arise can targeted education be carried out.

"Dad's briefcase contains a lot of company information, some of which are very important, so keep them safe. Although I know you won't take things randomly, I still want to suggest that you don't take any paper or pen in it , because these things not only belong to Dad, but also belong to Dad’s company, which involves my professional loyalty, so I must take it seriously.”

"Loyalty? Will my holding a pen affect Dad's loyalty?"

"Of course, if Dad takes all the company's things home, everyone is like this, even if the company runs a stationery store, it won't be enough."

"But the draft paper used by my classmates is the material paper from my father's unit. It's nothing. When Li Hui and his family traveled to Hainan last time, he even secretly took a transparent ashtray from the hotel. .”

"It's because they are doing it wrong, others are doing it wrong, can we follow suit? If Dad wants to be loyal to his profession, he must think about whether this is the most right thing and whether it is allowed when doing anything. If you don't allow it, then don't do it, it's that simple. The fathers of those classmates don't value loyalty, that's their own business, but a decent person will not value loyalty, they will regard loyalty as their reputation, Defend with your life."

In history, the Southern Song Dynasty moved its capital from Chang'an to Lin'an, and the country's power declined day by day.When Zhao Xian was in power, Yuan soldiers from the north invaded Lin'an, and the emperor's family and ministers became prisoners of Yuan soldiers. Only one concubine of Duzong escaped with two princes, and was captured by the former ministers of the Southern Song Dynasty, Lu Xiufu and Zhang Shijie. Protection of others.Subsequently, one of the princes was honored as emperor in Fuzhou.

In order to wipe out the remnants of the Song Dynasty, the Yuan soldiers chased and killed the Song family all the way, and the Southern Song royal family had to continue to flee south. The little emperor died of illness at the age of 11, and another prince was only 8 years old. , Wen Tianxiang was Prime Minister You, and Zhang Shijie was Taifu.An 8-year-old emperor could summon more than 20 troops and set up a camp at Yamen, because people at that time were only loyal to that child.

After Wen Tianxiang was captured, Yamen was besieged, Zhang Shijie and others had to abandon the camp on the shore, and led all the soldiers loyal to the Southern Song Dynasty into the sea to fight to the death with the Yuan soldiers.As a result, the Yuan soldiers could not attack for a long time, cut off the Song soldiers' food and grass and the back way to get water, and attacked back and forth.Lu Xiufu wanted to protect the young King Wei, but he couldn't escape, so he first asked his wife to throw himself into the sea, and then threw himself into the sea with the young master in his arms, so as not to be humiliated.Later, Empress Dowager Yang, the harem, and ministers threw themselves into the sea one after another. According to historical records, there were more than [-] floating corpses at sea at that time, and the Song Dynasty perished.

In the Ming Dynasty, a "shrine of martyrs" was specially established for these people to commemorate.In the Yahai war, the martyrs actually came from all over the world, and they did not know the emperor. They just felt that they should be loyal to their country and could not bear the shame of the fall. People in business... They go through life and death precisely because they have the word loyalty on their heads.Although, from our current perspective, this kind of loyalty will be judged as "foolish loyalty", but the word "loyalty" can make people go to the point of "foolishness", which also shows its charm.

The mighty dog ​​Buck in The Call of the Wild by American writer Jack London is also extraordinarily noble because of his loyalty to love.No one forces us to be loyal, but we feel that loyalty is the right choice.

Be loyal to your family, be loyal to your friends, career, beliefs, etc.Even if it is a small pen, when it comes to loyalty, it cannot give in. Only a loyal father has the confidence to teach his children to be loyal, and a loyal person can always reap the most precious feedback from others - respect.

(End of this chapter)