Personal Charm Perfect Private Tutorial

Chapter 12 The Key to Charm (2)
Along with the look and the voice is the application of touch and thought.Luther Burbank placed one hand on a person's chest and the other behind his back, and by means of this method injected a powerful attraction into that person's body, thereby achieving healing. Effect.And all kinds of scientific or pharmaceutical treatment methods have failed to achieve such an effect.This is what touch does.

Insights are also hugely attractive.

In the rough and tumble of life, in the complicated daily activities, and in all kinds of communication and communication, 90% of the attractiveness conveyed is controlled by the voice.A simple insight may be developed into an almost perfect means by which a man may acquire the habit of opening his throat completely, and from this habit he may utter a pure tone, and thus adjust his speech, Make it pleasing and harmonious, empowering the whole being to revolutionize the habits of life.You may start experiencing this change in as little as a day.

Lesson 19

restlessness will take away your charm

All unattractive people lose as much of their natural attractiveness on a daily basis as they probably do in the practice of living.

If they lose more attractiveness than they gain, and this goes on, they will die of a nervous breakdown.

In life, such losses happen all the time, we call them leakage.

Leakage in the process of learning to develop personal attractiveness this time refers to the phenomenon that natural energy is constantly wasted due to some kind of defect.

Leakage can be physical, neurological or spiritual.

Physical leakage occurs when muscle energy is thrown without purpose and out of control.

A neural leak occurs when certain life energies are thrown away due to the erratic behavior of the nervous system.

Leakage on the mental level occurs when certain thoughts keep the brain in a trance-like state of arousal that drains its energy.

general principle

The least attractive of the so-called unattractive crowd waste more life energy on a daily basis than is needed to produce the highest level of attractiveness.

The reverse is also true, that is, by storing wasted energy, the highest level of personal magnetism can be developed.In other words, as long as the momentum of leakage is curbed, everything is in place, and training and learning can stop there.All this is true, but on the other hand, we must remember that personal attraction, at whatever level it exists, is only a force whose main value lies in its application.

Leakage in the body is muscular energy being thrown out without purpose and out of control.The details are as follows:
Restlessness - These were mentioned in the previous lesson and everyone knows what they are.You can see its shadow in all kinds of people, and you can estimate their harm.Let's use the analogy of your family doctor. If he is restless, your trust in him will weaken.You don't need to read the law of attraction to make an estimate of him.Any man, woman, or even child can judge the restless doctor to some extent.As a result, he lost his customers, and career failure ensued.On the other hand, if you don't know him originally, but he is calm, you will quickly be attracted to him.Self-control not only inspires confidence in others, but makes success more likely.

We think of a dentist who was completely dominated by this tendency to error.He has no friends in the city where he works, or even in professional circles, and despite his social influence, his wife tries to make him as public as possible.But his behavior is doomed that he will not have a large circle of friends, the reason is that his restless state is difficult to inspire the trust of others.His questions got our attention, he began to study the archenemy of attraction, he learned his own serious flaw, he overcame it, and then he moved to another city he didn't know, and it turned out to be very fast, because He has won everyone's trust.

We discovered the obvious, that if you spend a little time studying attraction, you can almost reach a turning point in your life.

Look at the legal world now and notice the calm, cool, self-possessed lawyers versus the fidgety ones.When there is an energy leak in the body, the brain and judgment cannot function at their best.Look at those pastors who have excellent self-control, and compare them with those small, anxious, cramped preachers.We often go out on Sundays to hear them speak, and some of the speakers have a habit of making meaningless gestures.We have found that the loud voice does not help to attract the interest of the congregation, and the constant involuntary movement of the body does not seem serious enough.There are countless such clergymen, and we have not found a single one that was really successful.

True power lies in hiding.The stronger the emotion, the calmer it appears on the surface.

On the other hand, restlessness weakens a person's strength.Life energy is continuously lost with involuntary movements, which will soon exhaust the power that forms the basis of human body and mind.

There is another law at work, restless people make everyone around them feel restless.A jury, a church congregation, a student, a friend in a social or business circle, a patient or a customer, all of these are in one way or another agitated by the stimulation of being forced to see a person agitated.The mind is quickly bewildered by this restlessness, desperately trying to escape from it.In this way, instead of controlling others, you drive them away. After a few years, it will be very difficult for you to restore other people's trust in you, unless you have a better way.

Attractive people don't get restless.

Dysphoric people can't be attractive.

You can't be attractive if you can't quiet your body and keep moving involuntarily.You've probably tried all sorts of things, but power still leaks from your nervous system, like a leaky battery.When the liquid stored in the battery flows out due to some external force, the energy inside is also lost.

If you really want to get something in this world, you must take the negative factors into account.Otherwise, the latter will cancel out all the previous achievements.

Habits, good or bad, form quickly, and the brain then executes them.The first thing you need to do is to study and think about your little tricks.In a few days, you will find that your reason is performing this duty for you.We recommend to every student in these courses that a friend be their supervisor.Because people often cannot see themselves in the eyes of others, but the supervisor can point out their shortcomings.The ambitious man is so often praised that it is difficult to hear the truth, but what he needs most is the truth.Honest students should welcome candid opinions.

In training a young lady or gentleman, the implications of this lesson will quickly become apparent.Children are not attractive because nature endows them with the restless quality necessary for growth.But when they're past the age of fourteen or fifteen, youthful vigor shows through in some form of demeanor.This demeanor is considered cultured and gentlemanly, even though it is actually static attractiveness.

Schooling in these areas is meaningless if the child is under the age mentioned above.

But in the few years before this age, training the stability of the child's nervous system and the voluntary flexibility of the muscles should be placed in the most important position.Pure tranquility is harmful, and strength should be continuously accumulated under the tranquility.Therefore, courses that have a negative effect must be supplemented with courses that guide the positive attraction.

The training in this book is destined to be divided into two aspects.The weeds must be pulled from the garden, for no progress can be made when negative forces are allowed to stifle all positive forces.But it is not enough to remove weeds, just as it is not enough to destroy the enemy. There must be the growth and expansion of positive forces, both in war and in life.

There is nothing more annoying than a dead or self-closing person.These people are so, either by nature or because of a lack of energy or strength.The world is full of such people, and various churches, organizations, social groups, and government agencies are filled with such walking corpses.

Attraction gives vitality and vitality to the human being.But first we have to make room for that liveliness, so we continue to teach these lessons and analyze the various factors that work against attractiveness.

A very able critic once said: "The best way to overcome defects and improve self-control is to 'forget' them mentally." In the beginning, training replaced culture, which was later called culture.But it can only become something intrinsic if you stop thinking of it as a veneer, but as part of the person.Forgetting personal flaws can form true self-cultivation.

Lesson 20

why do you look depressed

We face a series of leaks in our lives when energy in our muscles is thrown out without purpose and out of control.Below we describe some familiar experiences.

Typing - It's a well-known fact that more than 90% of people who use a typewriter (regardless of the amount of time) show restlessness and nervousness.This nervousness can be controlled by typing with soft, easy movements.There are two types of people who touch a typewriter: those who act like a skilled pianist, and those who rain their fingers on the keyboard, which is prone to energy leakage.Gentle movements, like skillful piano playing, do not tax the nerves too much, unless fatigued by long hours of work.Many young ladies suffer from neurasthenia from prolonged typing, and any jerky and uneven movement is injurious to vitality.

Blinking—we always overcome this weakness first in training, and it is only possible to gain attraction if the students can always restrain the habit of rolling their eyelids frequently.We are often told that such habits are impossible to change, but we don't think so, otherwise there would be no need to study attraction.In fact, thousands of people change their old habits every year.Of course, it is impossible for everyone to get rid of their old bad habits. Constant attention is the only way to overcome bad habits.

Yawning - This problem stems from a low vitality.The distance between a particularly yawning person and attraction is like the distance between the sun and the darkest cave.Not only is it a clear sign of fatigue and weakness, but nine times out of ten it is accompanied by symptoms of indigestion, lack of sleep, or some form of gross waste of bodily energy, and in either case it is rude and Unreliable performance.In fact, it can be suppressed in the usual way, that is, to control yawning one after another.This method cures yawns very well, and even yawns caused by lack of sleep or indigestion can be cured by this method.

Facial Actions - There are a variety of facial actions.The most common is the movement of the lips, especially the tongue is very active.These are small problems, but they can have adverse effects.One of the signs of old age is the constant movement of the tongue between the upper and lower lips, or the rubbing of the lips against the teeth, which is a sign of weakness.However, the information on the face is not clear at a glance.

Tapping - Some people make a constant tapping motion with their fingers, while others do it with their feet.We've known many people who have developed this habit and found none of them even remotely attractive.Not only does this indicate a leak of life energy, but it is extremely rude.It is very difficult for an uneducated person to stand anywhere in the world.

Fingers—Those people not only tapped their fingers on the table or whatever else was at hand, but made a variety of other movements.From time to time, they twirl their mustaches (if they have one), rub their hands together as if to clean off debris, and open and close their hands from time to time.Sometimes they folded their hands restlessly, and then opened them again.They rub their chins, rub their faces, pull their ears, rub their noses, or whatever else they can think of.

When shy lovers first meet intimately, the man is always in the habit of fumbling with the buttons on the woman's coat until he finally twists them off.Or he kept wriggling there, unbuttoning the front of the coat one by one, and finally his girlfriend had to accept his courtship in order to keep the last button.There was also a case where he fiddled with the buttons on the outside of his clothes out of habit, not out of embarrassment.

Dangling Legs - We've seen women sit there for an hour or more, all the while wiggling their feet, sometimes doing this with ankle rolls, pointing their toes to the ceiling and down to the ground.They may not be aware of this action themselves, but they are actually doing it non-stop.We also see people who like to stack their legs at the knees and let the whole calf dangle back and forth, sometimes side to side because it is not convenient for other people to swing back and forth.Some of them were more ingenious, moving their toes in circles in the air while their calves were dangling back and forth.

Poor sitting posture - In almost any office, you can find some habitual postures of male employees.They sit at desks or desks, slumped back in their chairs.Put your feet on a desk or desk and hang your head lower than your feet.

Most chairs are uncomfortable to sit on.People sitting on it can only rest their upper body by reclining on the back of the chair reluctantly, even if they are sitting, they feel uncomfortable.This is so common that some pews in churches and some living room chairs are of this type.The measure to get rid of this drawback is to ignore the existence of the back of the chair and let the body simply rest by sitting.When you're tired of standing or walking, it's nice to find a seat anywhere, and you'll even sit down on a box or a piece of wood all of a sudden and say, "Great!" But there is no backrest, but you don't realize it at all.In fact, the support of the backrest is not needed most of the time, unless you sit for too long.At this time, what you need is to stand up and move around instead of leaning on the back of the chair for support.If you feel that this is too monotonous, you choose a chair with a farther back, until you finally use both the hammock and the couch.

The body becomes more and more exhausted in this process of consuming life energy, and this exhaustion can be seen in the office and other places, many people sit there lazily, put their feet on the table, and their heads are listless drooping.

This posture hinders blood circulation, which in turn leads to lower vitality.When a person's back is supported, the heart has less effort to pump blood to all parts of the body.If the support of the back is removed, the heart has to work harder.The more rest you get, the more rest you need.The more you don't work the muscles in your back, the more it will feel tired and have to do it.The more you put your feet up, hang your head, and rest your back, the more you feel like you have to maintain that position.The more time you spend in bed, the more you want to stay in bed.The less you stand, the more tired you will be when you stand.

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