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Chapter 14 The Key to Charm (4)
These are mental desserts.The object of all "desserts" is the balancing and toning of the serious, wholesome, and more important physiology of every part of the human being, stomach and mind alike.Rich people can buy more "desserts" than poor people.Fortunately for the poor, their wallets are not big enough, which prevents them from being eroded by these "desserts", because excessive intake of desserts often makes the physiological function out of balance, which is not good for health.

Nature allows only mental desserts to affect superficial thinking, and in layman's terms that's it.Its meaning is to stimulate the blood circulation deep in the mind to increase its vitality and often bring about mental relaxation.There are several ways to ensure the balance between the two thinking activities.

A person who is primarily engaged in physical activity can lighten himself with some form of mental activity.

A person who is primarily engaged in mental work can lighten himself with some form of physical activity.

In other words, people who have been sitting for a long time have to use various methods to move their muscles, and people who have worked hard can find ways to move their minds.

For a manual worker, he wants to relax himself through spiritual desserts. He needs to relax, but he can also obtain this relaxation through hard study.Why can he only use superficial thinking?There are many such examples in history, people engaged in manual labor study hard in the gap between work, when all conditions are ripe, become a hot figure almost overnight.In the entire history of mankind, there is no manual laborer who has made a difference in life. He did not seek spiritual desserts to relax physically and mentally during the interval of labor.This fact can explain a lot.

This situation is deeply rooted in the lives of those who are humble but want to rise to the top.We should remember that the greatest men of all time were often born at the bottom of society, and they made the most of this law of life rooted in human nature.

Personal attractiveness is not illusory, but has real connotations, not by deceit and pretense.The richer your mind is, the better the functions of your whole body will be.These faculties will dramatically increase your ability to control those around you, making you more successful.

According to another law of equilibrium, the "kingdom" of spiritual desserts is also a kingdom of worries and apprehensions, where people have suffered from fear of the future and all kinds of ominous premonitions.

Some women think that people are born for spiritual desserts, and she is the most pitiful animal in the world, even though she works hard to establish a good image in the minds of her friends.But people could still tell that her smile was faked, that God had given her many better gifts, and she ignored them.She devoted so much of her time to entertainment and amusement and endless worries that she became less and less interested in the finer and more serious things in life.These are superficial considerations, and she only uses the outermost layers of her mind to think about the things in life.If the stomach only accepts desserts, the body will weaken and collapse, and the same is true for the spirit. If a person only accepts spiritual desserts, then he will also be anxious, or have hysterical tendencies, or bring himself other problems. Emotional haze.So, this woman only sees the flaws in others, and in her own family as well, and it seems like they always make her unhappy.She could only seek some excitement and some form of stimulation in the process of diversion, until at last her soul fell into morbid divisions.

Mental desserts are indispensable, but no one can take it as the main food of the brain.

There are millions of people in this country who hate spiritual activity of any kind but spiritual desserts, and are finally taken over by those who seek to use the laws of nature for more.Vitality can both make people attractive and empower people to restrain themselves and others. This kind of vitality comes from deep thinking rather than superficial considerations.Because of this, few people can really control themselves.In fact, resisting temptation is so difficult that few try.

Superficial thinking involves only trivial things.For example, feeling stressed, fond of gossip, criticism from neighbors, reading magazines, judging novels, studying riddles, playing cards or other games, leisure time in social activities, envy of high-end clothing, intoxicated by various competitions, gambling or other A game of chance.All these things can mobilize the surface layers of the brain, and the deep layers of the brain are exhausted from overactive thinking.Most of these activities are harmless, let alone cause substantial harm to the body, but they will cause the corresponding body organs to fail to perform their original functions better.

If a person only relies on spiritual desserts to maintain his state of mind, he is not attractive.

We are often asked to outline the characteristics of ambitious young men and women, and middle-aged people—one lives to learn, and learning to live can rejuvenate one—and some studies are most useful because they stimulate the deepest layers of the brain. vitality.We state it briefly here:

Thoughts are in the form of words, and the great men of the world are masters of words, and we recommend that every aspirant learn the synonyms of the language, the nuances of meaning of different words, and the other languages The corresponding words in , especially languages ​​using the Latin alphabet.It's a fun learning thread that you'll get hooked on in no time.

The more words a person can use flexibly, and the more nuances of word meaning he can master, the more powerful his mind will be to conceive ideas.

Lesson 23

22 Days to Personal Attraction
Gaining such a valuable power as personal magnetism cannot be delayed, because it takes a lot of time to acquire such a talent until it gives you a benefit or advantage.The clock is ticking and won't wait for anyone who wants to succeed but is slow.In this system we try to clarify that attractiveness is a force inherent in the human body, part of its own functioning.Thousands of people have this power simply by the way they live. Life is their only training, but they have to train persistently.Let's take a look at how we should continue to practice and make progress during the 22 days of study.

First Day

If you want to make progress on this day, you have to read this book first, and you have to keep this sentence in mind.

Next is remembering what you learned at the beginning, then further researching the mental wear and tear of a previous lesson, and finally making it a goal to achieve the right level of optimism.

The next day

You can make significant progress by reading this book, and you can make even more progress by reviewing the material in the book.More progress will be made when you have mastered the method of developing mental strength, controlling the various contractions of the vital muscles, vital centers, and face.But making critical progress requires engaging with the right amount of optimism.You may suddenly realize that you have a personal magnetism, a subtle but significant force emanating from you.Others can feel this power but don't know where it comes from. They just start to respect you and pay attention to you consciously or unconsciously, and your status in their hearts will increase accordingly. It will be over here the next day.

Now, you must adopt one of the still positions given later in this book, which is not practice but habit.Remember everything you learned in the first two days, supplemented by the other still positions we mentioned.

On the third day

Next, add one of the stretching habits offered elsewhere in this book, keeping in mind all the previous knowledge.

Fourth day

Now, use another still habit to remember all the knowledge you have learned before.

The fifth day

When we say that you should remember all the knowledge you have learned before, you must understand that as long as anything becomes a habit, it does not need to spend additional time.It's not a practice but a way of life.

The sixth day

You need to turn your attention to the physical wear and tear of one of the lessons in this section.Just find a loss that piques your interest and cross it off the list of leaks entirely.

The seventh day

To be used to clear another kind of bodily wear and tear.

Eighth day

To study various leaks in the nerves, and to overcome one of them.

ninth day

Dealing with another kind of neurological leak.

tenth day

Mental leaks are to be considered.

No.11 days

Use another resting position of your choice.Remember, don't forget the past when adding new content every day.This may seem difficult, but in practice it is very simple.

No.12 days
Add another tense habit.

No.13 days
Dealing with another physical toll.

No.14 days
Deal with the rest of the wear and tear, whether physical, nervous or spiritual, and address them once and for all.If the feelings don't clear completely, take a few days outside of this plan to work on them.

No.15 days
Add another still pose.

No.16 days
Use another habit of tensing your body.

No.17 days
Add another still pose.

No.18 days
Use the method of walking with strength.

No.19 days
The habit of tensing your temples can be used permanently to develop an attractive eye or face, or it can be used to develop a vibrant brain.It will perform the most important mission in your life.

No.20 days
Deals with the three middle tones in speaking articulation, known as the fourth, fifth, and sixth.From now on, try to practice using them in conversations in various settings, whether at home or elsewhere.

No.20 a day

Try to tense the eye muscles.

No.20 two days

Start the topic of spiritual will, which plays an important role in "use of personal attraction" and "attraction rehabilitation".At this point, we can only think about getting started, because it will take weeks or even months to fully realize the various possibilities, and the possibilities are infinite.Mental will is an attractive force of the brain that, when cultivated, can achieve any possible achievable goal in life.It is true that it cannot do anything about the impossible, but, as we shall show you before the end of these lessons, it can bring one very close to this achievement.When this power is at its highest level, man can perform almost miracles.

The basis for the existence of spiritual will is that the attraction of the body, nerves and brain is fully developed, otherwise the spiritual will will not be able to function.So we'll just start it here, so it's both fun and meaningful.

When studying this part, we just want to cite a simple example, use this example to excite the students, and stimulate them to use their brains to achieve their goals.It comes from the play "The Merchant of Venice". In the story, Shylock (Shylock) expresses his own demands and goals. Next pound of meat.His goal is to enforce the terms of the loan agreement and put that nasty guy to death.Therefore, when the other party expressed his willingness to take out more money than what should be paid to repay the debt in order not to execute such punishment, he insisted on the latter option.He faced the judge, clenched his fists and said:

"I'm going to claim my debt back."

You stand there very still, tense the muscles in your body, hold your right fist forward at your waist with a clenched right fist, and repeat this sentence.Keep your voice low but very firm.On the first repetition, put the accent on the word "obligation." "I'm going to get my debt back."—In the second repetition, put the emphasis on the word "will." "I'm going to get my debt back."—In the next repetition, put the emphasis on the word "will" again, but don't raise your voice.Also emphasize the word "will" when repeating it, and you want to make sure you don't raise your voice.The enhancement of spiritual power will replace the high-pitched voice, which will help strengthen the spiritual will.There is a law of attraction that says that no matter which form of will energy is enhanced, and without the aid of vocal tones or physical strength in the process, the rate of development of mental will will be dramatically increased.

The reason why this kind of will is wonderful is that it does not need the expression of voice or words to still have a powerful force, and its power is comparable to that of voice or words.For the last repetition, don't make any noise, just clench your fists and keep your body perfectly still.You can only say that sentence in your mind, but keep your eyes on the imaginary judge.If he's actually standing in front of you, we guarantee he'll understand your decision without you saying a word.This is just the beginning of the subtle forces at work that can touch men and women in the world and make a place for themselves in the world.As we study the section on The Ultimate Application of Attraction, you will find yourself many opportunities to find inspiration for using this power in a variety of ways.At that time, you will find that it is worth more than we said.

In our section titled "The Key to Charisma," we show the way to quickly recognize and master this power.Chances are you've traveled the full halfway point in those 22 days, which means you already have 50 percent or more of your attractiveness.It's a quick job, and the other half is easy, but you won't be moving so fast anymore.You don't want that either, because you've had the pleasure of learning and you've been hooked.If you get to the finish line too quickly, you'll miss them, like a dear friend.

If you have not gone half way when the 22 days are about to run out, then it means that you did not follow our guidance, especially did not read through or read this book carefully, and started the first chapter in a hurry. sky.Another possibility is that you are not fully committed to meeting the various requirements.The other students have made the progress we expected, and you are as smart as they are.Perhaps you skipped some of the instructions because you felt you could grasp them with little effort.If our guess is correct, then you'd better start over on this 22-day journey, and proceed more carefully and deliberately.

(End of this chapter)