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Chapter 3 The Four Great Desires of Man (1)
Lesson 5

appetite
Humans have four desires.In this respect, humans differ from all other members of the animal kingdom who have only one desire—from the stomach.Desire is deeply rooted in life, not just a bodily function but an innate craving.More than half of the world's people are cunning, that is, they know how to use people's desires to achieve their own goals.

This cunning targets people's desires, and so often lures them into ingenious traps designed for them, while displacing that sublime power—personal attraction—and in the struggle between these two forces Victory often.We have to clean up these enemies before proceeding further, as they have the potential to "replace" the real attraction.

These four desires are:

1. Appetite.

2. Sexuality.

3. Greed.

4. Spiritual desire.

These four desires that humans possess have some degree of control, and each of these desires is a substitute for attraction.While each of them does exactly what attraction does, the difference between the two is this: the former brings disaster, loss, and pain, while the latter brings lasting success.What you can get by using people's desire to eat may be better obtained by using attraction.The legitimate ends that sexual attraction can serve, such as a respectable marriage or the appreciation of your attractiveness in the presence of the opposite sex, or other goals that such a desire drives a person to achieve, can also be achieved by means of attraction.

Right now, we stand before the most powerful enemy of personal attraction: appetite. .

What follows is a battle for survival.

We know a very attractive pastor, who is always unable to achieve the goal he is pursuing. He tried to persuade the person standing in front of him to start a new life, but he was surprised to find that he no longer had the confidence to persuade that person. , So I started to think about where the problem was.At this time, a deacon whispered in his ear: "This man is very hungry. His stomach has not eaten for two days." After filling his stomach, the man began to listen.This incident shows that appetite is the strongest of the four human desires.

Napoleon always asked his soldiers to let go of their food before going into battle, and it worked.Among other things, an idea occurred to him that demonstrated the power of psychic attraction.Whenever he gave orders to feed the captives of the enemy, the sure result was that they would have preferred to remain in France rather than return to their meager country.Related to this is the assertion that soldiers who returned to their homeland under the prisoner exchange program and later fought Napoleon were more than willing to surrender because they wanted to be captured and fed again.

Most animals kill for food and rarely for any other reason than to protect their young.However, they must find enough food, which is an arrangement of nature, the only way to maintain the continuation of the species.As their hunger increases, they attack their prey violently.

Man is more swayed by the call of appetite than by any other temptation.Crafty people understand and take advantage of this, and can win a man's heart through his appetite, no matter how unattractive they may be.Here is a case of attractiveness being replaced by something else, which has been used countless times to achieve a certain purpose.

It's an old adage that all women know that the best way to win a man's heart is to conquer his stomach.If a wife isn't attractive enough, she's more likely to win the husband's heart than anything else if she cooks him to his liking.For a woman who is courting a man, if her man is hesitating, offer him a meal he will never forget.

In society, a multi-course feast is also a great allure.In the social intercourse of all classes, people's appetites and mouths are given attention.If you visit someone for lunch, chances are they will buy you something to eat.If you're treated to a day or night, there's plenty to eat too.If a great man arrives in a country, he is bound to be greeted and greeted on some occasion, and sure to be feasted upon.Heroes who survived battle or shipwreck were sure to receive a public feast.

A famous politician has just passed away recently.Among the schedules waiting for his approval, there are so many meals and banquets that he has no time to take care of them.But he still had to attend some, and even then his appetite was still too much.Once, he expressed despair: "If they invite me to do something else, I will be very happy." recognized.However, they are often used directly to control the judgment of other people to a certain extent, and men are often the object of this kind of feast.Some people change their minds when making a decision because someone invites them to a well-prepared feast.However, attractive people are very aware of the purpose of those who want to buy them in this way, and they do not allow their appetite to control their judgment.

There used to be a time when voters were easily bought by what was in the beef barrel or whiskey bottle.Candidates themselves are not attractive, so alternative means are chosen.Millions of voters are moved by the public speeches of attractive people, but many more are overwhelmed by good food.Not only in politics, but in every field of life, there are some cunning people who use people's desire for food to achieve the purpose of controlling others, and these prey are prone to weak will in this regard.

In order to avoid being in a passive defensive position when encountering this kind of trick, you should be very clear about the real purpose of the diet provider. No matter how good the diet he provides, it will bring you double adverse effects: first, you will suffer from it. owe favors.Secondly, when you deal with important affairs, your patience and resistance are weakened, your mind is no longer so clear, and your judgment is no longer so accurate.

As you study these four desires, integrate them and keep them in mind.Finally, analyze the possible motives of those who want to take advantage of you through these desires, and get out of the disadvantaged position of passive defense.

Lesson 6

Libido
Next to the appetite for food, the strongest desire is the natural desire for sex.Starvation can cause animals to kill and can make them dangerous.But for these lower creatures, they seldom go to the so-called animal crimes due to sexual impulse, but human beings have become slaves to this desire.

Desire is an effective substitute for attraction in both men and women.A man can easily win a woman over by his attractiveness and make her his wife.If our record of experience over the past 45 years is to be believed, no couple brought together by mutual attraction has ever divorced.Not all marriages are formed because of attraction, but any marriage based on attraction will not disintegrate.

A judge told the jury during the trial: "In fact, more than nine out of ten marriages are based on false sexual desire." This desire has replaced the place of attraction, and millions of people Life is miserable.Attractiveness fully reveals a person's character and even his soul, and it reveals both the innate goodness and the acquired goodness of a person.It will make the individual become more individual, the kind become more kind, and the valuable become more valuable, and it can make these inner qualities of people.Sexuality, on the other hand, can draw one person to another, and the aura of hope and promise that paints the surface of hopes and promises can quickly fade.

Smart people can easily use this to achieve their own goals.With the help of this desire, you can also get what you are after like attractiveness, but the success it brings is loose sand.

The scary thing about this power is that it exposes the sinful side of human nature, their willingness to commodify this desire for cash.The notoriously evil brothel is a tool for making money, and forcing girls into prostitution is also for the same purpose.Lovers lure rich men into their traps because men cannot resist the lure of such desire.

Attractive wives need not worry about their husbands being with other women.This fact is well documented, we know that many, many women are attractive after marriage.With their quiet, reserved influence, they have a firm grip on the husband's heart, and the fidelity of the husband is genuine.

We find that the power of sexual desire is so strong, but the power of attraction is stronger and has a much more powerful dominance.It always reigns supreme over these vicarious desires.

A plain but lustful woman, with enough skill, can use her sexual desire to do whatever she wants with a man who lacks a real understanding of attractiveness.How many great men have fallen into the clutches of such women, as is stated in the court records above.There are countless such examples in history.In the United States, a young woman of upper middle class beauty poisoned her rich husband, after she had induced him to write a will in her favour.She was acquitted shortly after being tried by a panel of male jurors.Soon after, she committed the same crime against her second husband in another part of the country and was acquitted again.When she was tried for the third time in another place, there was conclusive evidence that she had indeed killed her husband.After her conviction, she confessed to two other murders.A beautiful female murderer has the ability to turn the minds of normal jurors so that they cannot declare her guilty.

If this is true, what about the men who are constantly preyed upon by beautiful girls, since they exist everywhere in the world.

Jurors have the law, evidence, and the correct guidance of lawyers. If it doesn't help, then what are the chances of those men who wander alone in the vast world as they please?Some people swear and swear to uphold justice, but as long as they are tempted by beauty, they immediately throw their moral principles out of the sky.

All because of sexual desire.Sexuality here refers to an inappropriate or even nefarious interest in the opposite sex.

Not all such desires are directed at women, not all women seek a man for support in life, many are motivated by their own sexual desires.As long as the desire is within the normal range and is accompanied by a genuine attraction, the combination is ideal.

But today fewer and fewer men want to take on risky and expensive marriages, procrastinating and hesitating before taking the step.In order to dispel this concern, women tend to cultivate a variety of sexual attractiveness.One of the most effective is to show the perfect curve of your legs, back and chest.The clothes were tightly packed, making the original figure slim and attractive.Although the manner of display was not out of vulgar taste, it was attractive enough to keep the hesitating man looking at it endlessly.

If a woman has inflamed tonsils, ulcerated teeth, and gut-infected blood, and her face is not as smooth as it used to be, but thick and heavy make-up is replaced, youth and beauty are gone.A man who marries her and goes back in the morning and sees all the facts will become a little delirious and think he is having a nightmare.

We insist that as long as the partners in a marriage are attractive, they will never divorce or separate because the strength is enduring.If one or both parties are attractive, then there will be no big differences between them.Because as long as one party is attractive, it will be distributed to the other party, and this power has an influence on all those around who come into contact with it.

We strongly recommend that if both men and women have not acquired such attraction or this attraction is not strong enough, they should not consider marriage.

That's right.As a justice said publicly in court, 90% of marriages are born out of sexual needs, which is also the crux of countless disasters after marriage.Divorce and separation are common, and the odds are greater that couples will be unhappy with each other.Before entering the palace of marriage, the newlyweds said that their marriage is an exception, and they will love each other sincerely and sincerely forever.But every divorced couple has probably made a similar confession before they got married, and they all believe that they will jump out of the general rule and become the exception.

It has been said that love is blind.

The magic of sexual desire is so strong that it blinds the mind.Nature makes men and women desperate under such spells.Many couples who misjudgmentally explain later that the mundane things of marriage, the carelessness of manner and dress, the intimate knowledge of each other, the struggles over property ownership and personal rights, and quick tempers and recriminations, will They bring out the marriage kingdom of dreams.But if marriages are based on attraction, as we show at the end of this study, then everything that seems irreconcilable becomes irreconcilable.

Sexuality, it turns out, is just a veneer and means nothing beyond that.It may make a man and a woman truly love each other at first, but later develop a strong hatred that surpasses all the fires of malice in people's hearts.On the day of the wedding, the sun sets amidst smiles and joy that heralds a bright future, but the love of the couple is also roasted into burnt carbon residues.Possibly overnight, all the differences in your life will be laid bare; after January, all the pretense will be gone.

Lesson 7

贪欲
Greed is the third desire of man.

No creature lower than man has this desire.It cannot be said which animals are voracious, although some will stockpile some food for the winter, and some will occasionally eat more.But, in this sense, the greed that makes them lose their judgment in striving for material things does not exist at all.

People are completely different.Some psychologists say that greed is a mental illness, some say it is a neurological disease, others think it is an innate fear that as we age we will lose our ability to earn money and fall into a trap. poor.This study is obliged to lead all students to not lose their sense of security no matter what problems come to their minds.

Even in the face of poverty and loss of means of livelihood, attraction will undoubtedly provide us with security.There's an old adage that says it well: "The year is better than the year," and it's a form of spiritual attraction.We will repeat this sentence later, and give it greater significance.

Attraction will show us that year is indeed better than year after year.This sentence can be interpreted as such a law: the economic conditions of all attractive people are getting better and better every year, which has been repeatedly proved.All worries should be discarded, otherwise treacherous people will use people's worries to turn them into their tools.For example, greedy people often take advantage of the opportunity to appropriate other people's savings.

(End of this chapter)