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Chapter 5 The Four Great Desires of Man (3)
This lesson is named "Great Mental Power" by us, and it can also be called "Sense Can Be a Great Weapon in War".The war will unfold gradually in stages.The first step is to be aware of these four desires; the second step is to figure out the nature of each desire; the third step is to realize the controlling effect of various desires on people and their dangers; the fourth step is to make this power The effects on your life, and the habits you have acquired as a result of being controlled by these forces, are listed in detail. The fifth and final step is to form in you a great spiritual force, which Those four desires are completely under control.Let's expand this method:

1. These four desires are appetite, sexual desire, greed and spiritual desire.

2. The nature of each desire has been explained very clearly in the previous lessons, but we need to review it carefully.

3. The dangers that each desire brings to your life after it controls you have been sufficiently reminded in these lessons, and what you should do is to familiarize yourself with them.

4. The fourth step needs to be done now, and it is the final step, which is to develop a great mental strength, or a strong enough mind so that you can control yourself.Then you are greater than those who can rule a city or a country.

There are a few key principles needed to create this massive force.Below we will briefly explain these laws so that readers can easily understand them:

The first key law: Great mental power is a personal ability greater than the combined power of the four desires above.

The second key law: Great mental strength can free a person from a life attitude of constant passive defense, which no longer keeps him under adverse control.It instantly imparts a gift-like personal appeal to those who acquire this psychic power.

The third key law: Great mental power works in another form.It tends to develop people's ability to exercise rational control over things, and it's an important step in that direction.

Fourth Key Law: Your ability to exercise rational control over things is currently only an instinct, a very primitive form, which will rapidly increase with the development of great mental power.Meanwhile, your gifted personal magnetism is developing and growing.

The Fifth Key Rule: If you want to gain great mental strength and build it up, you have to change your attitude from passive defense to aggressive one, and at the same time get rid of all negative control.

Sixth key law: Spiritual will can work itself in any direction.If it is given enough power, it can enable a person to accomplish the greatest things in life.In principle, if a person concentrates all his mental strength on one thing, no matter what he does, as long as he does it, nothing can stop him from achieving his goal.Obviously, we want to use it as a solid foundation for developing natural charisma.

The seventh key law: the simplest and most effective method of mental will training, which is called the development mechanism of great spiritual power in this learning system.It will appear in the next lesson.

The subject of rational control over things has probably been dealt with at the most basic level by many books, mostly in terms of intuition and instinct.But what its goals were, as it is now affecting humanity, is unclear.An often-cited example of this type of simple research is that of a hungry person who returns home and is seated at a table of sumptuous, well-prepared meals that are mouth-watering.He got a telegram in the middle of eating, and read it as he ate.Immediately, his face lost all color and turned pale.Even the secretion of gastric juice has stagnated, and half of the meals he ate could not be digested, and his strong appetite has long since disappeared.And all because a piece of news had reached his brain - that he had lost his entire fortune in an unfortunate investment.

His breathing was almost stagnant, and his heart was beating only weakly.His whole body staggered from the dining table to his room, and then fell headlong on the bed.This is just one of thousands of instances where emotions can indeed take control of the body.In other words, we can exercise rational control over things.

It's not just bad news that affects digestion.Good news will play its part here too.Another oft-cited case is that of a very beautiful young girl whose parents, extremely wealthy, gave her all kinds of luxuries.But she fell into a morbid state of lifelessness, and could not return to a normal state for a long time.Every possible way and remedy was tried, but to no avail.Finally, after discussion, her parents planned to take her on a long trip abroad, and they would also visit the places that attracted her most in the past.She pored over various books, brochures, and paper clips when she was suggested to make travel itineraries.But her illness showed no signs of getting better, so the doctor did the following mental test.After the experiment began, he wrote a long letter to the girl's father, expressing his confidence clearly in the letter.He said that if the young girl went through a long journey abroad, she would recover from her illness one day, but not now, so the trip had to be postponed to a certain year in the future.Afterwards, the doctor pretended to accidentally drop the letter in her hand, and she read it and put it back in its place without saying anything.However, her reason immediately activated her spiritual will to promote her physical recovery.She was sure in her heart that she was going to recover.Indeed, she recovered quickly, before making this trip.

Often, when other means fail, the anticipation or pleasurable adventure of foreign travel improves a person's health, but such improvements are generally short-lived.On the other hand, when the human intellect sets a certain state for the body, the real and lasting state will be the same as the original set.This is an important psychological law, and great physicians use it well.Thomas A. Edison—possibly the greatest human being who ever lived—declared, all things considered, that both his grandfather and father died because of his own decision to die of.We here quote the original statement of Mr. Edison in a leading magazine many years ago: "My grandfather ate conscientiously and lived to be 104 years old. He did not die of disease, and he was in good health until his death. He was very serious about life. Lost interest, the cells that made up his body longed to leave him. So, my grandfather told his own children that he was going to his daughter's house to die. He came to her house and went to bed naked and then passed away. It didn't matter to him, he was just tired of life. My father died the same way, they discovered the secret of long life and believed that good health comes from eating right. As for myself , eat only to live. As a result, my body is not poisoned by spoiled excess food, and my blood vessels are as limp as a child's."

Many cases have been published in various books about how the mind can control the body, and some have expounded cases about the great spiritual power that cannot be shaken and enslaved by factors such as the four desires or other enemies.This spiritual power not only surpasses all other powers, but masters them.The great people in the world are created through this process.

Lesson 10

how to develop mental strength

Spiritual will is the most powerful, and when it develops to a certain height, it can significantly improve people's ability to rationally control things.This is to be done by mental exercises, of which I have hereafter arranged and arranged the most useful and convenient, and this system is called:
Mechanism for the development of great spiritual power

This mechanism appears in the form of spiritual will, and is described as No. 1, in order to make them more deeply rooted in the minds of students.

Now is the time to deal with these four desires, which are the source of negative control and keep everyone in a defensive position.We want to make them play positive energy and develop personal attractiveness as a kind of talent in ourselves.Again, the four desires are:

1. Appetite.

2. Sexuality.

3. Greed.

4. Spiritual desire.

The spiritual will required for this mechanism is as follows:

1. I am going to review here the lessons related to the four desires. I will also review the previous lesson, paying particular attention to the key principles covered in it.

2. I want to understand what is the meaning of unfavorable control, knowing that it comes from the influence of the four desires on human nature.

3. I want to understand that these desires are substitutes for attraction, which are often controlled by treacherous people and used by them to manipulate other people to achieve their dastardly goals.

4. I need to understand that any substitute for attractiveness is a veneer that will not lead to lasting success.

5. I do not allow the opposite sex to influence me through any form of sexual temptation, so that my reason is in a state of being blinded.

6. If someone puts too much makeup on her face, I think she is trying to cover up the dirty yellow skin; if someone keeps playing similar tricks, I think he is trying to mislead my judgment by these means.

7. On the other hand, I will first focus my attention on those whose skin color and temperament are close to the natural state, such people have good taste.Theoretically speaking, good health and clean blood will show up naturally if it is not deliberately concealed.I will not forget this fact.

8. I will not be affected by seeing flirtatious clothes and overly exposed thighs, and will not have a strong sexual desire.

9. On the other hand, I would prefer to approach people who are as dignified as possible, rather than those who are too prudish; dress should be simple and convenient, conducive to physical movement, but not too simple.

10. I will not participate in any form of provocative dancing and do not encourage such parties anywhere.

11. I will do my best to assist the judiciary in stopping many types of commercial dancing, especially certain types of dance halls, and nightclubs with tryst places.

12. If I am not married, I will postpone this step.I will wait until I have mastered the knowledge in this book about attraction before I marry, and my marriage will be more lasting and full of happiness.

13. If I were a woman, I would mentally lift the veil that made the future of the marriage look ambiguous, and would not be completely involved in a marriage that could not stand the test, because when the surface After the pretense is removed, various hostile forces will come in to cause contradictions and conflicts.I want to take a cautious and long-term view of this issue.

14. I cannot enter into a marriage on shaky ground because of financial need or greed.

15. I do not allow myself any inappropriate contact with the opposite sex, even if it is mutual affection.I will remain indifferent to sex until I get married, because only then can I win the respect of the opposite sex and make the other party value me more.

(End of this chapter)