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Chapter 7 Create charming eyes (1)
Lesson 11

The magic of the eyes

We can find from examples that the greatest people have a common feature of eyes.When people's emotions are extremely high, the eyes will burst out with unusual brilliance, and sometimes they have strong penetrating power.This feature won't be available at any other time, though.When the person is in other emotional states, the eyes look normal, consistent with a peaceful expression.

Investigation and research have found that the power of the eyes does not lie in the eyeball itself, but in the shape of the various facial organs around the eyes.England's greatest and most charismatic church orator, Charles Spurgeon, had a face of intensity at the most crucial moments, when he moved thousands of listeners with his voice and manner. His sincerity is awe-inspiring.The most successful evangelist in the United States was Dwight L. Moody. Moody seldom showed enthusiasm in a highly animated way, and strangers who heard him speak for the first time would not put him off. Called a great orator.However, the facial expressions around his eyes make it clear that he is a man of strength.Webster and Choate are two barristers of international repute.They all have great personal appeal.Observers who have had the chance to witness the two agree that when their emotions are high, their eyes are like black carbon balls burning in the depths.It is undeniable that the eyes are very useful in the process of hypnosis.The wonderful use of the eye in this process might be of great interest to the reader if hypnosis were included in this study, whereas we are studying an opposite force.Attraction can make a difference, hypnotism can destroy another person's will, hypnotic drugs can make the person take it into a state of insanity, but that's all.The stick may achieve the same effect, rendering a person in a state of powerlessness, taking advantage of the opportunity, which is actually a kind of robbery.Hypnotists make people's eyes bright and gazing by highly stimulating the nervous system.Any small bright object slightly above the line of sight will very easily attract the eye to gaze upwards until the eyes are tired, thus putting the attracted person into a hypnotic state.It can be seen that the eyes have the same effect.

If a person has the advantage of good eyesight, and then uses the strengthening exercises described here, then he can easily attract anyone's attention.Some women put a few drops of a chemical on their eyeballs to make them look brighter and brighter.This practice is harmful to the body, but it can be seen how much people want their eyes to light up.

Usually the size, shape and color of the eye determine whether it is beautiful or not.The size and color of the eyes depend on the iris, and the shape depends on the orbit, which is affected by the distribution of facial organs.If you pay attention to the emotional changes in a highly fertile cat, you can sometimes detect emotion, a feature that can only be determined by the position of the eyelids.When a cat is frightened, the shape of the entire eyelid changes.Its moods may come and go in succession, but each change is caused by the eyelids and not by the eyes.

Choate said he didn't stop speaking to the jury until he saw the last person's eyes suggest that he agreed with him.At that time, there was no time limit for lawyers to make concluding remarks of their cases.We often see Choate in his later years looking at the time, then at the jury—the turning point is happening.Choate once said, "I know how long to tell a jury, and I know when to shut up."

The secret isn't too deep, but it's very important.

If a person holds an opinion opposite to yours, the lower eyelid will be raised unconsciously.This action shows that he is seriously analyzing and studying your claim.If his lower eyelids are turned upwards and his nose is wrinkled upwards and close together, it means that he is not only in firm disapproval, but is planning to beat you once and for all.It is a normal expression to simply raise the lower eyelids. If it is raised and turned inward at the same time, it means that he is determined to take confrontational action.If the upper eyelids meet the upturned lower lids, it's a clue that his brain is working and he intends to fix it.

Information revealed by the upper eyelid is more common and the information revealed is easier to read.

If the upper eyelid sinks down in conjunction with the eyeball turning up, even if it is not done well, it shows that the brain has stopped functioning at that time.At this point, whether in court, at home, or in the office, the speaker is unable to make his or her thoughts understood to the imaginary audience.To see this, try looking up at the ceiling and then ending the gaze by closing the upper eyelid over half of the eyeball, but keeping the eyeball where it was when it was staring at the ceiling.This characteristic, in no case, does not change in any formed conversation.

An attractive man acquires the habit of studying the effects of what he says on his hearers, and his eyes are his chief means of seeing these effects.

The relative position of everyone's upper eyelid and eyeball changes countless times every day.We try to list these relative positions one by one below:

The center of the eye is known as the pupil.

Surrounding the pupil is the so-called iris, whose color gives the eye its permanent hue.

When a person is less stressed or emotionally calm, the pupils are smaller.Excitable temperament, genetic factors, or neurological diseases may cause various changes in the state of the pupil.The will to control one's intellect is also expressed through the eyelids, if one is in a normal state or nearly so.The upper eyelid can take the following shapes:
1. If the upper eyelid completely covers the pupil of the eye, it means that the brain is not thinking seriously, or it is aimless, thinking wildly, or lazy.The main fact revealed by this is that such a brain has not yet been controlled enough to be attractive.

2. If the upper eyelid covers the upper part of the pupil, then the person is indifferent.

3. If the upper eyelid falls only to the upper edge of the pupil, then the person is more focused.

4. If the upper eyelid covers half of the upper edge of the iris, then the person is highly focused.Choate was looking for that look when he was talking to jurors, because it showed that he had achieved his goal of controlling their minds.

5. If the upper eyelid touches the edge of the iris circle, it means that the person's brain is not only focused, but also emotionally aroused.It's a double win.

6. If the upper eyelid shows a thin white line above the iris, it means that the person's brain and emotions have been stimulated to the extreme, and he has lost control of himself, and is likely to enter into a state of anger, hatred, fear or other extreme emotions. state.This is not normal and should be avoided.

7. If the upper eyelid shows a wide white line over the iris, it means that the person is helpless with worry, fear, irrational ecstasy, or other similar emotions, which may appear in the face of enemies or beasts. .The last two cases have nothing to do with our study of attraction, but are included here to give a complete picture of the upper eyelid in its various configurations, and to show the reader how clearly the upper eyelid can interpret states of the mind and emotions.

The development of personal magnetism involves the study of emotions and the observer's perspective on understanding and understanding the effects of any influence one exerts on others.In other words, truly attractive people instantly read the thoughts and emotions of everyone they meet.The more of these cues you see in other people's faces, the more confident you are that you can dominate them.

Once, I was chatting with a very successful financier.His appeal has established him as a leader in the business world.We asked him, "Do you realize that you have a strong personal magnetism?" His answer was soft but positive.We then asked, "Where would you be in finance today if you weren't personally attractive?" His response was, "I'm probably a 'bucket shop' broker." Another question:" What is the most useful and practical help of personal attractiveness in business or other professions?" He pondered for a moment, then said slowly: "It is the most useful, practical and valuable to a person's business life, research field or social life The biggest help is knowing the thoughts and feelings of those you come into contact with, as it is often said, being able to judge them quickly, being able to read from their faces what they are thinking and how they feel about you. How are the feelings." Once we learn to study the meaning of other people's facial expressions by looking at their eyes.You will find that nothing helps you read other people's facial expressions and understand people's thoughts more than analyzing the meaning of the information clearly written on people's eyes, so as to have the personality of attractive people. Featured.

One of these characteristics is what we call superior keen observation here, a kind of spiritual observation that sees the micro from the macro.

Most people look at things in general terms from a macro perspective.For example, an unattractive person sees the face as a whole, but an attractive person observes the face in detail.

Through a sample survey of people, we were surprised to find that almost 100 out of every 99 people would regard an ordinary face as a whole.If the person had marks or injuries on his face, he would naturally be able to see it.But generally speaking, there is not much difference between the face and the face. They cannot read the thoughts and emotions of the person, and they do not try to explore the hidden information behind the ordinary appearance, although the relevant information is clearly "written" there.

Therefore, the habit of always paying attention to details helps the formation of attraction.

Here, what we want to say is that if you have been studying every lesson in this system carefully, you will realize that every skill used to awaken and stimulate the potential attraction in the body is beyond the study of attraction. Other aspects also have a wide range of practical uses.

Lesson 12

Attractive people don't miss out on every detail

According to the outline set in the previous lesson, we will unfold this learning process.Everything done according to the requirements of the process has achieved good results.The specific approach is to distinguish the details from the general whole.Stupid people swallow everything when they look at it and only look at the general idea.The person standing directly opposite us looks plain on the surface, but the face may contain rich thoughts and emotional stories, but ordinary observers cannot interpret it.There is only one step between the story of the thoughts and emotions reflected in the face and the ability to truly read the person's entire heart.

We conducted a series of experiments with more than 15 men and women over a period of 2000 years and found that it is possible for everyone to learn to distinguish the details from the general whole.That is to follow the method taught in the previous lesson to read the thoughts and emotions on people's faces.In this way, the ability to transfer thoughts, or true telepathy, is quickly developed.

In fact, there is such a force.Its very existence implies that nature's purpose is to put the human mind to greater use than ever before.This power is the self-apparent, and it should be developed.

There are innumerable opportunities for us to gain our advantage in the daily grind of everyday affairs, provided we know the various plans and goals for doing things.As one businessman said, "If only I knew what the other person was thinking." Getting the right reading behind the surface is half the battle of attractiveness won.Looking at the methods employed by the world's highest achievers, it seems certain that they have internalized this ability as a natural habit.

We have said that there is very little distance between the easy habit of reading the facial expressions of others and the habit of perceiving their whole thoughts.Learning or forming such a habit is not difficult, just follow the following two development steps:

1. Understand the meaning implied by every subtle shape or movement of eyes and mouth.

2. Pay attention to intercepting details from the overall facial expressions, and gradually develop the habit of observing these shapes and movements.

So far, what we have said about form is only the form of the eye.The general meanings of various eye shapes have been explained in the previous lesson. There are two rules that need our attention at this stage.

The various eye shapes and movements described in the previous lesson mainly hint at what people think in their hearts, and their role in revealing emotions is secondary.

The various shapes and movements of the mouth mainly imply people's emotional activities, and their role in revealing people's psychological activities is second.The tiniest movement of the eyes can also explain the activities in the depths of the human mind, while the various movements and shapes of the mouth tell a variety of emotional stories.In order to develop the habit of observing the lower part of the face from the general to the subtle, it is necessary for us to grasp the meaning contained in the various movements and shape changes of the mouth.It is now introduced as follows:

It can reveal two basic types of information:
First, the horizontal shape of the lips indicates that people can normally restrain their emotions and show their conservative mentality.

Second, the mouth is gently closed to show that he is suppressing his emotions and maintaining a good conservative attitude.

When a person is mentally and emotionally normal, the combination of these two types of information is the most ideal personality combination.These two types of information just fit together.If you look at the looks of good men and beautiful women, the combination of these two types of information has not changed, but the form of the combination has changed.Suppose, for example, that their mouths no longer close slightly, but close to fully closed, or open slightly, with the same effect.But it will not be wide open, which means that its emotions are slightly aroused.Two new meaning representations can be extended from the shape of the horizontal lips.

Lips in the horizontal state change from their initial shape to a closed shape, but the degree of tightness of the closure varies widely.This varying degree of closure can indicate a range of emotional attitudes from mild firmness to stubborn persistence.There are at least a dozen of these emotional attitudes worth studying, and you're likely to see any of them on the faces of those around you.These are the expressions on the faces of great men.

Now let's look at the opposite situation.The lips in the horizontal state change from the initial slightly closed shape to the fully opened shape, during which there will be at least dozens of slightly different mouth shapes, and the meaning expressed is the same as the various degrees of firmness or firmness expressed by the closed shape. Persistence is just the opposite.The slight changes in the shape of the mouth are extremely complicated, and it is not clear without enough time.If the horizontal lips are slightly opened and the amplitude is slightly wide, it generally means that the person's attention has been turned to the attention of external factors, and sometimes it means that he has a sudden interest, fear, and interest in his own thoughts and emotions. Worry and even shock.

If the horizontal lips are slightly parted and slightly wider, something is going on that is taking away the person's determination and unwavering self-confidence.With drooping upper eyelids and upturned eyeballs, the mouth begins to open, a combination that often appears on the face of someone trying to sleep.But it is negative, and after conditioning by a skilled hypnotist, you can quickly fall asleep.During this process, the sleeping subject can enter another waking state with the help of the subconscious mind of the running brain.This is not what we teach, but we try to guide our students, whether as hypnotizers or hypnotized persons, to try to avoid such states.

The appearance of emotions, from normal to extreme excitement, is certainly one of the most interesting things to observe and study if a man is awake or alert.

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