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Chapter 8 Create charming eyes (2)
If you observe a speaker, no matter who he is, you will soon know how interested the audience is.If an incident he tells is attractive, the listener will not only show the eyelids relaxing, but the mouth will gradually open as interest rises.A missionary described an event so vividly that the mouths of his congregation fell open.There is another example: There was a pastor who had a life experience at sea before entering the church, and he liked to describe the great crisis at sea.When he talked about the critical moment, if there is no miracle, the big ship will sink, the audience in the audience will all open their mouths. A photo taken at that time recorded this scene.The same scene also appeared in the assembly scene where the hero Captain Fry addressed the audience.

We often see jurors sitting there with their mouths slightly open.If a lawyer's speech gradually becomes more heated, they will also become more and more excited.

The main point of learning here is that when the lips of the audience are opened to a certain extent, it means that the speaker has infected them.The only sign of a speaker's victory is the slight parting of the lips of the audience.The process of how this law works is very interesting, and it is worth how much time you spend studying and understanding it.

Let's look at the other two rules:

1. An upward movement of the lips beyond the horizontal line, expressing approval or similar meaning.This upward motion occurs at the corners of the mouth on both sides.

2. A downward movement of the lips beyond the horizontal line, expressing disapproval or similar meaning.This upward motion also occurs at the corners of the mouth on both sides.

When a child is about to be happy, the corners of the mouth on both sides are first raised.If he wants to cry, you'll see the corners of his mouth droop. The word "agree" has many meanings, but the basic nature is the same, and it can range from mildly upturned to excessively upturned. The word "disagree" also has many meanings, and the basic nature is the same.It also has a well-defined range, from mild sagging to excessive sagging.Variations of these degrees are excellent opportunities for the observer to train his own mind.Whether you can succeed depends on whether you can filter these details from a large whole.

There is no better teaching material than this in the world.

Although it is not a practical project to develop personal attractiveness, it can be used in all aspects of life as the most practical and useful real results.The main abilities acquired here are also applicable to each step of this learning system. As an aid to the development of attractiveness, every step of learning is crucial.At the same time, it has more value in other areas of life than any other form of training.

The ability to distinguish the deep meaning contained in the detailed facial features can help students in four aspects:

1. This ability to give the student insight into the goals, intentions, thoughts, and emotions of those with whom he comes in contact is half the story of successfully developing attraction.

2. It's close to that subtle ability known as telepathy.Great leaders in finance, business, academia, and all fields of society have more or less such gifts.

3. It is helpful for people to deal with various other affairs in daily life.

4. It gives the most comprehensive and powerful stimulation to the brain, promotes its development, and prepares students for the greatest achievements in this world.In this way, the mind of the student becomes sharper, more developed, and more alert as he strives for the highest goal.

These four advantages can be used not only in the current stage of training, but also in other stages of the system.

By review we found that there are three shapes of the mouth that can be grouped into one category:
A normal mouth shape, a slightly closed mouth shape, or a slightly open mouth shape have the same meaning.

From the opening of the mouth to the full opening is a mouth shape category.

From closing the mouth to tightly closing it is also a type of mouth shape.

In addition, we found that there are three other mouth shapes:
The lips are horizontal, which is the normal mouth shape.

Turning up the corners of the mouth means a tendency to agree, which includes a series of similar meanings.

The corners of the mouth are pulled down, which means a tendency to disapprove, which also includes a series of similar meanings.

Finally, let's put the related content together:

Lips are horizontal and gradually widen.The meanings expressed during this period are, in order, normal, interested, enthusiastic, surprised and shocked.The meaning expressed throughout the action process has been undergoing subtle changes, and the meaning implied by these actions has been described above.

The corners of the mouth are upturned, and the mouth is gradually opened. The meanings expressed are general agreement, interest agreement, smile, excited agreement, beaming, laughing, and finally belly laugh.The meaning expressed throughout the action process has been undergoing subtle changes.

The corners of the mouth are pulled down, and the mouth is closed more and more tightly. The meanings expressed are disapproval, dissatisfaction, extreme dissatisfaction, until people often say complain.

The corners of the mouth are pulled down, and the mouth is gradually opened wide. The meanings expressed are disapproval, interest, and finally the horror expression that everyone knows, which is often seen in disaster movies.

Our goal is not to teach our students to perform facial expressions, or to teach the art of drawing, but to train our students' eyes to see the nuances of common expressions in real life.The significance of doing this is not only to understand a person's face, but also to see unusual details from ordinary expressions. The ultimate goal is to practice attractive eyes.

But we do not expect any student to reach the culmination of training overnight without going through the necessary stages of training from beginning to end.Therefore, it is important to carry out a series of exercises of Eastern origin.Those who have successfully developed their attractiveness to astonishing heights have also done these exercises, which we briefly mentioned in the last lesson.Now that we have introduced the various details of facial expressions, we will practice the Oriental style in the next few lessons, and at the same time be prepared to return to this lesson and continue to distinguish the different details in common expressions.The various exercises in the next few lessons will not only develop the abilities you expect, but will also sharpen your mind.Quick reflexes can play a prominent role in people's struggle for dominance.

Our work started to be very interesting and engaging.

Lesson 13

Oriental Attraction Training

Some aristocrats of the Far East used to have the idea that through constant exercise, the eyes could be made into a source of attraction.When this attraction reaches a certain level, it can become a formidable weapon.We don't pursue that goal because we believe that in this day and age, fear can no longer rule humanity.But there are other reasons why the extraordinary and unusual abilities of this part of the eye should be developed, and this has been fully explained in the previous two lessons.As for stimulating the potential attractiveness in the human body in an all-round way, we can accomplish this goal through a series of processes.

Eyes were once described by scientists as miniature volcanoes.For the most part, the embers of this small volcano hold latent energy, but lie silent and dormant.The hottest part of the volcanic core, the part in the original ecology, may erupt at any time once stimulated.

The so-called oriental practice is not new, it has been used in many other fields.Among them, the famous ones are: develop excellent memory, improve people's thinking, promote the enrichment of people's thoughts, enhance people's creative ability and avoid thinking breaks, etc.These goals are not intended to be achieved by these lessons, although there will naturally be benefits in these respects.The problem with those who can't succeed is that their minds are not flexible enough to achieve.Most of them are lazy except when they are excited when the four basic desires are satisfied, and it is these desires that restrain them and reduce the flexibility and agility of their minds.This made them doomed to be at the mercy of treacherous men.

In fact, human activities are almost infinitely broad.Life is not limited to those four basic desires, there is a wider field waiting for us to discover.

After all, our main task in this world is to live the infinite life that lies before us.But to the dull mind life is death because he himself is dead.So any natural and beneficial practice that stimulates the brain to function optimally is worth practicing, once these practices form a new set of habits that help increase the brain's flexibility and alertness ; At the same time, they will jointly develop the potential attractiveness scattered in various parts of the body from various aspects.In this way, although the Eastern style of practice has certain limitations, it can achieve a double goal:
1. It creates the so-called attractive look within the reach of its influence.

2. It makes the potential attractiveness scattered in various parts of the body into real attractiveness at the same time.

The direct effect of achieving these two goals is reflected in the ability to turn the practice of looking at the micro from the macro into a natural habit.The reason for emphasizing this habit is based on the following two recognized facts:
1. People who cannot naturally see the micro from the macro will never have any spiritual attraction.

2. People who can turn this ability into a habit, and then turn it into their own talent, are extremely attractive spiritually.And, as they use this ability in their relationships with others in their daily practical activities, they become increasingly attractive.

The method we are struggling to find now is what is called accumulation.

This process is accumulation, at least in art, especially in this kind of practical exercise, starting from the smallest unit, adding one at a time, and continuing down.This part of the training is not possible with other solutions, and few readers can understand why it is always from the very beginning, or the first unit, or any unit, whether it is the first or not, what does this mean? What?
Step forward, walk through an open door to an adjoining room, take a quick glance at the contents of the room, and exit.When you can't see those items, name an item in the room, which is the first unit.You may or may not see the same item when you look inside again.Go back to that door, look in, back out, and name two things in the room.Look in for the third time, repeat the action, but be sure to be quick, and get out immediately when you see something.Look in for the fourth time, and repeat the action, saying out loud the four items in the room within one second.Exit the room after taking the fifth eye and try to name five things.Then, take a sixth look until you can name no more samples of the item.

Now, we begin to explain what the purpose of accumulation is.

After you reach the limit of the number of items you can see in one second, give yourself a break for as long as you want.During this time of rest, you gain some development and progress, but this happens after a period of brain activity.

When you rekindle your interest in this practice activity, start with the first unit, not where you left off.At this point, you can make two types of mistakes.

1. The first type of error is trying to see how many items you can remember at a glance, instead of starting with a unit and adding up one at a time.

2. The second type of error is not following the original steps after the break.

A room in an average apartment does not contain enough items for a real test.The brain, strengthened by the accumulation process, will soon be able to memorize 50 to 100 items in less than a second.At Easter, some women train themselves to see all the clothes another woman is wearing (that is, what can be seen from the outside) in a very short time.According to the current dressing style, the amount of clothing worn by modern people is quite limited compared with that of people 30 years ago.We once heard of a woman who tried it on live and, when asked what she saw, went on to name 25 garments worn by another woman.However, she also said that she just passed the person and did not stop to look at the latter's clothes.She focused first on what the well-dressed same-sex was wearing, and lost interest in everything else.

This method of looking at the micro from the macro, if it is not strengthened through the process of accumulation, will play a very limited role.

The Chinese used the shop window system for this kind of training. The plan is: walk on the street, pass a shop window, and only pay attention to one product at first.Then they pass the window again and notice two items, then three, then four... and then push them back.This requires us to use our brains more and more to distinguish the detailed features of human faces and understand the meaning behind these detailed features.In order to achieve the goal of vigorously developing this ability, this set of oriental exercises is extremely valuable.

Because personal attraction is a power, first over yourself, and then over all those with whom you come in contact.It must be emphasized next that the ability to see into the minds of others and their aims is one of the most valuable and important auxiliary supports of this power.

Lesson 14

practice memory skills

Several universities have recently tested students for quick observation skills, but have not told students how to acquire this ability.The school simply brought them in to test, to see how much of this ability they had acquired by virtue of their natural gifts and past habits.

And we have done the same with these schools, and in the process, we have come into contact with excellent people from all walks of life.We feel very lucky to be able to study a lawyer with national reputation.We noticed that he could read a whole page of handwritten letterhead at a glance.He could also read any letter or any other typed document that was upside down.He had deliberately trained himself to do these things, and such abilities did not come naturally.Despite his busy schedule, he finds time for such training.His memory is so amazing that he can even recall the names of people he only met once 20 years ago, as well as the scene when they met.

All of these mental abilities help each other.

As we just said, we are not teaching mnemonics.But if someone wants to acquire a superior memory, the Eastern exercises mentioned in the previous lesson can help him achieve this, and even achieve better results.

This exercise program can be used to cultivate the ability of the eyes to "quickly identify the subtle features in general expressions", especially to grasp every subtle change in a person's expression.Now this lesson is about how to read the thoughts and insights contained in facial expressions and write them down on paper.The activity of the brain varies greatly. Some people's brains are slow or slow, and they appear weak when they comprehend other people's opinions, so they can only wait for the answer dryly.Under such circumstances, it is impossible to succeed in life.Some people's brains may take less time to comprehend one level of meaning, while some people's brains turn faster.As long as our minds can grasp insights and conditions quickly, we are close to the power of attraction.

Speed ​​can be cultivated, and a dull mind can be made flexible.Psychologists and scientists alike admit that everyone, except those who are mentally handicapped, has an astonishing reserve of energy in the brain that more or less enables him to be invincible in life.Those who are progressing very fast in the world, obviously these "brain powers" come in handy.Every intelligent person has the right to accumulate their own wealth, but this right is useless in the hands of some people because they lack "brain attraction".Any wealth, power, achievement that opens up to you is worthless if you don't give them more and more life value.

(End of this chapter)