Love Affair: A Psychological Perspective on Extramarital Affairs

Chapter 21 Extramarital Affair Syndrome (7)
At this point, it has fallen into an old routine again.Wake night did that, it is too late to reflect on it now.

With ulterior motives, Ye Xin nibbled on Shu Lang's shoulder.

"I'm going to eat you."

"No, don't bully people again."

Ye Xin hugged Shu Lang from behind who shook her head to express her rejection, and pulled her soft buttocks towards him with both hands, and Shu Lang also actively cooperated with his movements, sending Yuanyuan's buttocks over.

The mouth expresses its refusal to go crazy again, but the body clearly puts on a provocative posture.

Ye Xin touched the soft skin lightly.

"So smooth."

"Hate……"

"It's so smooth, it feels comfortable to the touch."

"really?"

Shu Lang seemed to gain a little confidence and moved his hips closer.When he first bonded with Shu Lang, Ye Xin had been holding back desperately not to release himself, but now, this kind of patience was unexpectedly fragile, and his penis became firm again.

To satisfy a woman like Shu Lang, a man can't handle it if he reaches an orgasm every time.In order to make women fully burn and get the greatest satisfaction, even if they feel an orgasm, it is necessary to restrain and endure.Of course, some men think that there is no need to make themselves so hard to treat women, because sex is originally for pleasure, so there is no need to be so patient.But Ye Xin didn't think so.It would be fine if sex was purely for the purpose of reproduction, but sex in reality is an expression of love, a shared joy, and a culture of love created by two people.If you think this way, of course you can't allow the theory of man supremacy to act arbitrarily.Ye Xin twitched her fingertips in response to the woman's desire to rekindle her lust.

At this moment, Shu Lang is in that open-minded state, but he is still whispering: "Don't..."

That seemed to be the last bastion of conscience, but it was also a sign of the fall of the bastion.In all matters of winning or losing, it is always more embarrassing when you admit defeat than when you really lose.

At this moment, Shu Lang knew that her heart had lost to her body, and the moment she admitted this, she was freed from all bondage and flew high in the garden of pleasure.After experiencing the stimulation of a relationship, we take it for granted and look forward to the next stimulation.

At this moment, Ye Xin and Shu Lang are in this state.

Deeper and deeper
The relationship between men and women does not deepen with time, but because of a certain event, it deepens in stages and reaches an incredible level.For example, extramarital lovers travel together in one place and then in another, and with each daring and evasive tryst, the relationship deepens until it becomes more and more difficult to control. point.Just like the two heroes and heroines we will see below-Ye Xin and Shu Lang.What makes the bond between the two stronger is the opportunity created by Chudong's stay in Xingkai together and not returning.And the opportunity also made the two lovers fall deeper and deeper.

Ye Xin and Shu Lang

It had snowed all day yesterday, and now the sun has completely cleared, and the sun is shining blindingly on the freshly fallen snow.

"look!"

They arrived at the hotel just last night.This is a mountain hotel located about [-] kilometers away from City H.After knowing that they couldn't go back last night, they have been caught in passion. Because of this, this beautiful natural scenery seems like another world.Just as they were both fascinated, the hotel maid came in and told them, "The road is all right."

Last night, I was so worried about the traffic interruption and wanted to go back. Now that I heard that the road was opened, I am unwilling to go back. I even hope that the traffic can be blocked forever.

This kind of wishful thinking must be due to the reality that he knows that he will definitely attack his whole body when he goes back.Are you going back to City H to attend the meeting now?Or simply skip the meeting and go to work in the afternoon?Also, how should I explain it to my wife?After Shu Lang went back, she was even more troubled. She didn't go to the wedding, and she didn't return home. How should she tell her husband?Both of them knew about the depression, but they didn't want to touch it, because they understood the seriousness of the matter too well.

In a daze, I didn't start eating breakfast until [-] o'clock, left the hotel at [-] o'clock, took a taxi to the station at the foot of the mountain, changed to a tram, and estimated that it would be close to noon when I returned to City H.

Of course, Ye Xin couldn't make it to the meeting, so Ye Xin called the company before getting in the car, saying that she had a cold and asked for leave, but she couldn't make up her mind whether to contact her wife.The same goes for Shu Lang, who seemed to have no intention of calling home early in the morning.

Arriving in Asakusa at 11:30, the two were reluctant to break up immediately, so they first went to a nearby Japanese Joe noodle restaurant for lunch, and it was past twelve o'clock when they came out.

If you go directly to the company now, even if you only take half a day off, Ye Xinmang has no idea whether to go or not.

"How are you……"

"What about you?"

Seeing how fragile Shu Lang's expression was, Ye Xin finally made up his mind.

"Go to Xinzhuang!"

He was referring to their new love nest.Now that they are still in the hut they love, the situation will get worse.Knowing this, Ye Xin still asked, "Is it okay?" Shu Lang nodded impatiently.

Hailed a taxi and got in.Sitting in the car, they both knew what was coming.It took less than an hour from Asakusa to Xinzhuang, and the two stumbled into the room.Although it was not a long trip, the sense of comfort and slight fatigue after returning from the trip made them fall directly on the bed and kiss each other skin to skin on the familiar bed. Their moods naturally calmed down and they fell asleep all the time.

It was three o'clock in the afternoon when I woke up, and there was still some time before darkness. The room with the curtains closed was dark, and the desire was rekindled in the cuddling together, but it was not as passionate as last night.Ye Xin caressed Shu Lang's private parts inadvertently and continued to caress gently. Under this stimulation, Shu Lang gradually became aroused, and also grabbed Ye Xin's penis and fondled it.Repeat this simple action until both sides can't stand it and join together.Forgetting the company, forgetting the family, just to forget these, they exhausted their remaining strength, indulged in happiness, and fell asleep again.

It was past six in the afternoon when I opened my eyes again, and it was already dark outside.Shu Lang made some simple meals, and the two drank beer.The two watched TV and chatted from time to time, but they didn't mention the key topic of going home. After eating, the two naturally stuck together again.There is no active desire to make love, just touching and playing with each other for fun, spending this day and night of leisure time, and the thought of having to go home flashes through my mind from time to time.

It was ten o'clock, and Ye Xin felt a little urinated, and asked after returning from the toilet, "What should I do?"

With just this simple sentence, Shu Lang immediately understood that he was asking about going home.

"What about you?"

The two repeated the conversation they had in Asakusa during the day.

"I want to stay and not leave, but I can't really not go back!"

Even at this time, Ye Xin still didn't want to be in the position of urging her to go home.For two people who continue to indulge in the limit of love, there is nothing more sad than parting.Shu Lang combed his hair with a pale face.Even after taking a bath and putting on makeup, the aftertaste of being in love with a man cannot be eliminated.The same is true for Ye Xin, even though she is dressed neatly, the burnout after sex still settles all over her body.

After finally getting ready, Shu Lang put on a black turtleneck sweater and a wine red short coat, and was about to put on a gray hat.Ye Xin suddenly hugged Shu Lang.At this moment, he had nothing to say, he just wanted to hold her tightly all the time.In case her husband gets angry and scolds or even beats her, I hope she can survive it.After this difficult time, I hope to see her again.

Shu Lang seemed to sense Ye Xin's hope, she seemed to have made up her mind, and said, "Let's go..." But she immediately turned her face away in fear, her eyes filled with tears.Still feeling uneasy?Ye Xin took out a handkerchief to wipe her tears. "Call me if you need anything, I'll be awake tonight."

Ye Xin also has problems waiting for him to solve after returning home. His wife who has always been tolerant may get angry, and maybe she will suddenly burst into flames of anger tonight, causing a lot of trouble, but Ye Xin will abide by and agree with Shu Lang. agreement.

"I won't make you sad alone..."

These words made Shu Lang calm down a little, she regained her composure, put on her hat, looked at each other and nodded, and then walked away.

It was past ten o'clock, and the corridor of the apartment was silent. There was a cardboard box outside. They passed by the cardboard box, took the elevator downstairs, and walked out of the apartment.

If they were in the same car, they would be inseparable, so they each called a car and held each other's hands tightly while waiting for the car.

"I understand..." Shu Lang nodded, got into the car first, and watched the tail lights of the car go away.

Ye Xin knows that the change of seasons brings various changes to human affairs, especially at the turn of winter and spring, the energy of all things fills the world and affects people's body and mind.

Sitting in the car, Ye Xin couldn't help thinking: Will she be scolded by her husband and have a big fight when she returns home?
family know

In the beginning, the spouses on either side of the extramarital affairs were kept in the dark, and the former smug about their tightly planned secluded date.But going out frequently in a certain period of time, sometimes for this reason, and sometimes for another reason, will inevitably arouse the high attention of the spouse.Also, the time of going out becomes the focus of attention, often on a regular evening or at a sensitive time, when you come home late.It even happened that some (several) days were stranded outside the home.But this is something that has never happened before.Repeated many times, the doubtful hypothesis will be further asserted.The extramarital affairs finally came to light because of a scheme set in advance by the spouse. Even if they were not caught in bed, the clues were finally discovered.The revelation of things is sometimes very accidental, for example, when the wife is doing laundry, the wife finds physical evidence that they are fooling around in the extramarital affair's trouser pocket, or receives a strange phone call, and so on.Extramarital affairs suddenly appeared at the crossroads, and their respective situations were sometimes the same, with big quarrels and then divorces.But there is also the complete opposite: his wife proposes to divorce him; her husband warns her: "He will never let her dream of being with him come true."

Ye Xin and Shu Lang

Just when Ye Xin was thinking about this matter in her heart and met Shu Lang again two days after the restless night, she was unexpectedly bright.But that was just an appearance after all, in fact she did encounter a difficult problem.According to Shu Lang, when she returned home after eleven o'clock that night, her husband was still awake, and she didn't respond to greetings to him, so she buried herself in her book and continued to read.Shu Lang immediately understood that her husband's anger was extraordinary, but she could only apologize and say that she couldn't come back to the wedding banquet because of the wind and snow.The husband remained silent, there was no way she was about to go upstairs to change clothes, and with the sentence "wait", the words of the husband shot into Shu Lang's back like an arrow.

"I know what you did."

Shu Lang looked back at him in surprise, "I know who you went with and where you live."

To be honest, when Ye Xin heard what Shu Lang said, her forehead was hit as if she had been slapped hard.According to some fragments of Shu Lang and Yi Chuan’s description, Mr. Shu Lang is a 46-year-old medical professor, tall and handsome, with a flawless appearance, just like ordinary intellectual elites who are often cold and self-righteous, and are not good at dealing with men and women and worldly affairs.Is that the kind of man who investigates who his wife is having an affair with?Ye Xin couldn't believe it, but Shu Lang relayed it lightly.

"He knows your name is Ye Xin."

"Then how come..."

"Because he's so jealous..."

Even so, it is not easy to find out the name of the person whose wife is having an affair.

"Is he following us, or has he hired a private eye?"

"Not at all! But if he wants to know, he will know. Haven't you written to me? My notepad occasionally has your name and the company's name on it."

"Did he see it?"

"Of course not. I hid it from him to see it, but I was a little negligent in the beginning, and recently I always feel as if he has seen it."

"Aren't you at home all the time?"

"But since the end of last year, I have been away often..."

It was only then that Ye Xin thought that after Shu Lang's father passed away last year, he had returned to Jiangsu's natal family more times. Could it be that her husband took the opportunity to thoroughly investigate the matter related to his wife?
"And I told him the name of the hotel I stayed in last time. It was okay to stay for one night, but ended up staying for an extra day. Maybe he called the hotel reception to check."

Indeed, the number of guests staying on a snowy night is limited, and it is an emergency, so it is easier for the hotel to respond to outside inquiries. "He really said that?"

"Why did you lie to you about such a thing!"

In the past, Ye Xin always thought that it was an unsophisticated Mr. Haohao who suddenly attacked with his teeth and claws, which made him feel uncomfortable.

"Then how can he say..."

"If you want to play, you can play as much as you want... Anyway, you are an unfaithful and lustful woman..."

Ye Xin felt like she was scolding herself, so she remained silent, Shu Lang sighed: "He also said that although I hate you, I will not divorce you."

Ye Xin didn't understand what Shu Lang said for a moment, no, actually she didn't understand her husband's mood when he said it through Shu Lang's mouth.

If you hate your wife and get a divorce after scolding her, why do you continue to live a seemingly incompatible life?
"I don't understand..." Ye Xin muttered, and Shu Lang felt the same way.

"I don't understand either, I think he is taking revenge!"

"Revenge on you?"

"Because you hate me and can't forgive me, so you don't get a divorce, and lock me in this marriage shackle forever..."

Ye Xin half-shocked and half-comprehensively thought, does this count as revenge?However, he still didn't understand.

"But most men will scold and beat you!"

"He will not."

"He just didn't say anything and let you play outside?"

"Anyway, he just stays at home and watches coldly. Even if he doesn't care, others will talk if I go too far. My mother and brother, his parents and relatives... as long as there is no divorce, a wife is still a wife."

According to this, Ye Xin somewhat understood the meaning of Shu Lang's husband's revenge.

"Isn't it very helpless to still live in the same house like this? You don't want to help him with housework, and he also thinks eating at home is boring."

"That's not a problem. His home is in Nakano, and he used to go back to eat often. He also had a room in the university there, not to mention that in our house, he slept in a separate room very early."

"When did it start?"

"It's been over a year."

One year ago was the time when the relationship between Ye Xin and Shu Lang was heating up rapidly, did the relationship between their husband and wife start to deteriorate since then?
"Then what do you do? Can it go on like this?"

"What about you?" Shu Lang asked back, Ye Xin held her breath unconsciously.

He couldn't give her a satisfactory answer on the spot, but the relationship between the two had indeed reached a critical juncture, and they were about to fall into a predicament with nowhere to go.Ye Xin remained silent, recalling the situation when she returned home after being trapped in Xingkai Lake by the wind and snow.

"How is your side?" Ye Xin gasped when Shu Lang asked.Ye Xin was at a loss for words for a moment, the relationship between him and his wife had reached the point where swords were on the verge of breaking out.

Ye Xin remained silent, recalling the scene after returning home from the North Country.That night, when Ye Xin came home after eleven o'clock, his wife was still awake.His wife didn't come out to greet her as usual, Ye Xin went back to her study and bedroom, changing clothes while thinking about how to explain to his wife.If you go to the living room now, the atmosphere will definitely be tense, and a quarrel will inevitably occur.It is better to sleep on the excuse of being too tired.He is now physically and mentally exhausted and has no energy to talk to his wife.

However, I can live today but not tomorrow, sooner or later I have to face my wife face to face, delaying it will only make it more troublesome, so I simply apologize to her tonight, saying that I can't come back because I am too busy with work.Thinking of this, Ye Xin stood up, looked in the mirror, collected herself, and came to the living room.

His wife was sitting on the sofa watching TV, when she saw Ye Xin, she said, "Are you back?"

Ye Xin nodded. Seeing that his wife was extremely calm, she felt relieved. She sat on the chair next to the sofa, stretched her waist, and said, "I'm so tired. I planned to come back yesterday, but I didn't finish my work until today." .”

He once told his wife that he would go to temples and museums in Beijing to collect materials.He has repeatedly traveled with Shu Lang under this banner, so he has a guilty conscience.

"I wanted to call you yesterday, but I fell asleep when I was drunk." Ye Xin yawned again after speaking. Just as he picked up the cigarette on the table, his wife turned off the TV and turned around.

(End of this chapter)