Chance encounter

Chapter 10 A new life is to face our problems (3)
I'm still not in a hurry, I don't think it's impossible for me not to get on this plane!I waited and waited, and after everyone boarded the plane, sure enough, the very fat staff member waved at me and called: "Chen!" Then I went over, and he said you can board the plane.I was very proud because there were at least two other passengers behind me who couldn't have gotten on that plane.When walking towards the plane, I really wanted to look back at them, but I didn't feel embarrassed.At that moment, I was very proud, and I felt that my character exploded.

Usually after telling two stories, you always have to sum up some very philosophical words related to life and some truths.In fact, when you go shopping in a small town, you can conclude the truth: No matter where you go, don’t forget your mobile phone, and remember to bring cash with you. It’s very simple!
The encounter at the airport made me realize that, in fact, really, as long as you believe in one thing, it always seems to happen.And what if the plane can't catch up?I will still arrive at that destination, just a few hours later, just a little harder, so what?
I found that usually I am too anxious and anxious, and the string is always stretched.Maybe it's because of the holidays, or maybe it's because I'm in a strange place, and there are many things I can't do about it. Since there's nothing I can do about it, it's better to just go with the situation, people will naturally relax, and the result is quite good.

Next, let’s get down to business and talk about Timo’s problem.

If I don't like someone, then what's yours is yours, what's mine is mine, and we can't get along with each other; if I like someone, what's yours is yours, what's mine is mine, and what's yours is fine too It's mine, and mine can be yours; if I decide to live with someone, then OK, what's yours is ours, what's mine is ours, and what's ours is mine, it's that simple!
As for the other party's past, he has been in love several times, his love history, are you sure you want to know?For me, I love a person, I am only responsible for his present and future, his past, has nothing to do with me.I have to believe him in my heart, even if he was a scumbag in the past, I also have to believe that at this moment, after seeing me, he will become a Buddha immediately!Only believe, love can go down!

So are you sure you want to know about his past?Can you bear that truth?You don't need to know this, the only thing you need to ask him is, do you want to marry me?Do you have this plan?This point, you really have to ask clearly in advance, so as not to waste each other's feelings.

Timo, I really think that a big living person is far more meaningful than deposits and wages. If you like him, just stay calm and go fishing for big fish; if you don’t like him, then don’t ask, how many Money, how much salary you have, is meaningless and has nothing to do with you.

If you really like him, then wait patiently until he falls in love with you deeply and automatically falls in love with you!

Love you with all my might

As I said, you can love me or not, but you can't lie to me, you can't keep silent, let time wear down my will, faith and patience, let me and my love fend for itself.

Letters from a Helpless Girl

First of all, I don’t know if Lu Xiaopang can receive this letter I wrote, but I still want to tell you that I am very sad and I want Xiaopang to help me.I just broke up with my boyfriend and he said he moved on and that we weren't a good fit.He is the kind of boy with a bit of literary atmosphere. To be honest, I like this kind of boy. We haven't been together for a long time. I don't like some things about him very much, but I still chose him.Thinking about it now, maybe it was just that I lacked a boyfriend at that time!But now we broke up, I don't know why I feel wronged, maybe because he proposed the breakup!In fact, I don't love him, but I still feel that I have been hurt, and I don't want to face this matter. I always say it's okay, but in fact, my heart has collapsed and I can't stand it!

Sister Luyu, in the world of love, what kind of man can be trusted?He used to say that as long as I didn't break up with him, he would never break up with me, but now he told me that he fell in love with someone else.I'm just an ordinary girl, without much talent, but I think I'm a good girl, very simple and easy to trust others.This breakup made me dare not trust others anymore!Please Lu Xiaopang help me, a blind man in emotion, a helpless girl!Looking forward to Xiaopang's reply.

Lu Xiaopang's reply
I have been on a business trip in Hong Kong for the past two days. The weather in Hong Kong is cloudy, sunny, light rain, thunderstorm, all kinds of mix and match.I stand in the sun and rain every day, on the street and in the car, and I often listen to the same song, which is "The Brightest Star in the Night Sky" by Escape Plan.Well, such a description is easy to be complained about as literary and hypocritical, right? But so what?This song is really nice.

I'd rather keep all the pain in my heart/I don't want to forget your eyes/Give me the courage to believe again/Over lies to embrace you/Whenever I can't find the meaning of existence/Whenever I'm lost in the night/Night sky Brightest Star / Please guide me to you

Well, this kind of masochistic way is my view of love, it fits my tangled personality of Gemini and AB blood type.This song was also given to a helpless girl. She said that her ex-boyfriend had moved on and she felt wronged, hurt, and broken. She asked what kind of man can she trust again?As I said, you can love me or not, but you can't lie to me, you can't keep silent, let time wear down my will, faith and patience, let me and my love fend for itself.Not loving is not scum, deception, selfishness, evasion, and no commitment are scum.

So kids, your ex-boyfriend actually did nothing wrong.But don't vows in love count?Do you want to take it seriously?Of course it counts, it should be taken seriously.I believe that the oath, at the moment of speaking, is sincere and sacred, that is the meaning of the oath.As to what kind of man to trust, that was a lovely, boyish, unsolvable question.If a man hurts you, it's not fair for you to let all the men in the world buy this list.All I know is that all love is a willing adventure.Since you love, you have to believe. If you don't believe, love is in jeopardy.Anyway, the pain of broken love will always pass, and new love will come.

Little friend, let me fill you with some bowls of chicken soup.Love is really more than just being loved, it is equally important to love.Love is not worth it, should it be, is it right, if you love it, you have to admit it.Of course it is painful to lose love, but when you look around, there seem to be many loving people, how many happy people are there?When you grow up a bit, you will understand what Zhang Ailing said, that life is a gorgeous robe full of lice.

You have to bear the loss of love, I wish you to bear the pain of losing love as soon as possible, I wish you always have the ability to love, you still have to believe.Anyway, when I am in love, I am still willing to use my prehistoric power.

Coffee, tea or me?

In terms of emotional matters, I really think that you must experience what you should experience, you must bear the debt you should bear, and you must make the mistakes you should make.

Letter from Xiao Ran

Hello Miss Luyu!I am male, 26 years old, unmarried.Let me tell you about my confusion.There used to be a long-distance love race that lasted seven years, but they broke up after graduating from technical secondary school.The current work is relatively busy, the schedule is usually three o'clock and one line, and there are almost no chances to meet girls!Later, I met a cute girl on a certain social software, saw her photo, and her temperament attracted me, so I struck up a conversation: "My food, can we talk about it?"

Then we chatted... One day she told me that she had no money to pay the rent, and asked me to pay for her, and she would be my woman.Seeing this, my first mental activity was distressed.I thought about it and transferred money to her without meeting her.Two days later, she came to me and said she would give it to me. I said you can come to me, but I won’t ask you. If you like me, I will ask you, but you still don’t like me. If you just Because of these thousands of dollars, then you just pay me back, I have a mental cleanliness...

The next night I was invited to her house, but she went to drink at her friend's house, got drunk and didn't return to her place until morning.I stayed up all night waiting for her, and I was a little worried, so I went to pick her up in the morning.Maybe it was this detail that touched her, she began to face up to my feelings, and there were more topics after work...

In the process of slowly getting in touch, I heard about her past.She was divorced, and now she has children by herself, which makes me feel bad.Objectively speaking, feelings should not be purely rational judgments. I fell in love with her out of my distress for her, and even now I can't stop falling in love as you said.But, to be honest, I am sure that I fell in love with her after I slept with her... Now the problem I am facing is that I am analyzing whether my feelings for her are love, or whether I am comforting her. My own love is actually lust and caring for each other and the actual actions of paying for each other!I hope you can help me analyze it in your busy schedule!
Lu Xiaopang's reply
Hello, Xiao Ran.

You don't tell much about yourself, and I don't know much about your character, are you someone who watches a lot of romantic movies?I always imagined myself as the prince riding a white horse to save a little girl in distress.But I have to tell you that this kind of thing happens in movies, but it really doesn't happen in real life.You must not think that a movie like "Pretty Women" (Pretty Women) and a story like that are feasible in life.Honey, I tell you, it really won't happen.

I don't like a girl who didn't know me when she came up, so she said to me, "I don't have money to pay the rent, so you can help me pay the rent."Why?Maybe you would, but I don't anyway.Two people are really equal emotionally, it shouldn't be some kind of exchange.Of course, if after falling in love, you live together, you bear her, she bears yours, that is your life, your choice.But in the beginning, emotion should simply and naturally occur.You like me, I like you, that's all.I have always said that I never judge other people's emotions. After reading your emotional story you told me, I found out, my God, I am biased. I judged your emotions in my heart and commented on them.

All emotions, no matter how they end up, or how they end up, should be good in the beginning.But after hearing your story, I think you are a bit wronged.You do like that person, whether it is liking or love, it is emotional anyway.But she is an exchange for you.Of course you can say that I don't care, I just like you, I love you, it has nothing to do with you.If you really want to think like this, I can't stop you.But I think, I love you, of course it has something to do with you.Indeed, every time I answer your questions, I can only get your emotional status, including your respective personalities, from a few words, which will be very one-sided.Anyway, from the few pens you wrote to me, I think this girl is a little sloppy.It doesn't matter if a girl is strong or not cute, but I don't like a girl who is a bit pretentious anyway.Although I do a little too.But I always feel that if a mother takes care of the child by herself, how can she go out to drink at night, get herself drunk, and not come home in the morning, is it because someone else is helping to take care of the child?Or is she hoping to make you feel sorry for her by getting drunk?Anyway, I don't think it's right.

I have also judged, complained, analyzed, and even criticized your love. I really think that you must go through the emotional things, you must bear the debts you must bear, and you must make the mistakes you must make. to commit.If you really like her, don't analyze yourself too much, who can predict the result?Even if you get hurt in the future, you are a man, so what, you can afford it.Anyway, this is my sentimental view, and I share it with you.

(End of this chapter)