Chapter 11 part
Part 4 In her twenties, a wealthy woman with high "money" who created "her" era

Chapter 2 Heart Sutra for Wealthy Women: Be a Dancer Under the Bright Sun

Section [-] Don’t let your salary shrink

At present, when many companies pay employees wages, except for the fixed basic wages, the rest of the wages follow the principle of more pay for more work and less pay for less work.According to this algorithm, if something is delayed during the work process, it may directly lead to a decrease in income.And a person's mood is good or bad, in fact, it also directly affects the amount of his salary.

If a person works with a good mood, the efficiency will naturally increase. On the contrary, if a person is in the process of working with a frowning face, what to look at, what is not pleasing to the eye, and everything is not going well, working in such an emotion, the human brain will react It will be slow, the ability will not be maximized, the work efficiency will not be very high, and the salary per unit time will definitely be much lower than under normal conditions.In fact, in the process of working, everyone will encounter colleagues, partners, and customers whose values ​​are different from their own, and misunderstandings, rumors, and conflicts will also occur due to competition and cooperation. Controlling can have dire consequences—loss of credit, deteriorating relationships, increased stress, all of which can be the enemy of how much you get paid.Therefore, at work, we must try our best to control our emotions and not let our wages shrink.

Now let's test how well you can control your emotions.

1 When you are driving and it rains suddenly, you will:

A was furious and complained why it rained suddenly

B general, feeling normal

C is happy, feeling more cheerful when it suddenly rains

2 In the hot sun, if you accidentally collide with others on the road while driving, you will:

A was furious and scolded others

B ignore it and keep going

C get off the car and apologize to others

3 Your friends or family members scold you loudly, you will:

A is angry and scolds loudly

B ignore it and walk away

C explain to the other party calmly to reconcile

4 When you are bored and unhappy, you will:

A gets angry and vents to people or things around

B go out to relax

C Talk to friends or family members and share your troubles

5. If you accidentally lose a piece of clothing you like very much, you will:

Annoyance, venting to surrounding things

B bored, unhappy

C learn from this lesson calmly, be more careful in the future

6 When you are sick and lying in bed, and you see others out having fun or doing great work, do you:

A is irritable, uneasy, and complains about his illness all the time

B bored, unhappy

C Concentrate on recuperating

7 When you are happy and excited, you:

A is very proud

B when there is no such thing

C share with your friends or family

8 When you have been looking for a job for a long time and have not found it, you will:

A troubled, restless, impatient

B If there is no such thing, continue to look for a job

C Positively think about your own shortcomings, improve your ability (quality), and continue to look for a job

9 Your boyfriend (girlfriend) did something that made you very dissatisfied, and you would:

A was very unhappy and scolded him (her)

B ignore when things don't happen

C correct me frankly, and talk to the other party to reconcile

10 If you do something that makes your boyfriend (girlfriend) very unhappy, you will:

A against him (her)

B ignore when things don't happen

C apologize and try to make the other person happy

For each of the above questions, you will get 1 point for choosing A, 2 points for choosing B, and 3 points for choosing C.

The total score is between 24 and 30 points: your emotional intelligence is high, and you can stand the test of life's storms.

The total score is between 18 and 23 points: the self-control ability of emotional intelligence is average, and it is not a problem for ordinary life tests, but it is difficult to get effective and correct control over emergencies or things that require strong psychological endurance. Get active exercise to keep your emotions in check.

The total score is below 18 points: the self-control of emotional intelligence is poor, the mood is often easily affected by external things, the mood fluctuates greatly, and it is difficult to withstand the test of life, and needs to strengthen exercise to control one's emotions.

The best way to control your emotions is to look at things from another angle.Even in the same location, try to analyze things from multiple angles.A stubborn person can also be a person of firm conviction, a stingy person can also be a frugal person, and a city-savvy person can also be a person who can foresight.

Being flexible is also a good way to control your emotions.There is hardness in softness, softness in rigidity, circle in square, and square in circle, so that you can be free.

When we feel that our emotions are very bad, we can try to divert our attention, or exercise more, and focus more on beautiful things.When you are in a bad mood, you can choose to cry, talk, and other methods, as long as it is good for your mood and does not affect others.

In short, if a woman in her twenties wants to keep her salary from shrinking, she must learn to control her emotions.

(End of this chapter)

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