20s decide a woman's life

Chapter 2 Change and you can change your destiny
A woman in her twenties has no destiny.As long as you guard the dream in your heart and put in the effort, your life will always be under your control.

listen to the call of the soul

There was such a story:
A large group of frogs surrounded the iron tower to watch the frog climbing competition and cheer them on.

The game started.

To be honest, none of the frogs believed that these little frogs would reach the top of the tower, they were all talking:
"It's too hard! They won't make it to the top of the tower!"

"They will never succeed, the tower is too high!"

Hearing this, one after another the frogs began to get discouraged, and only a few of the high-spirited ones were still climbing up.The group of frogs continued to shout:

"It's too hard! No one can climb to the top!"

More and more frogs get exhausted and drop out of the game.However, one of them climbed higher and higher, showing no intention of giving up.

In the end, all the other frogs withdrew from the competition, and only the frog that persisted all the time, after a lot of effort, finally became the only winner who reached the top of the tower.

Naturally, the other frogs wanted to know how it succeeded.A frog ran up to the victor and asked:
"Where did you get so much strength to complete the whole process?"

It found: this frog is deaf!

To be successful you have to have the courage to go your own way.We all know that there are many negative and pessimistic people in life. They don't have any passion for life and just want to live a mediocre life.They infect you with a sense of negativity and hopelessness, causing you to doubt your own judgment, hold back, and eventually lose your will to live as mediocre as they did.At this time, you need to be like that frog, plug your ears, listen to the call of your heart, and live according to your own wishes-the courage to be unique will make your life different.

As soon as Yang Erche Namu is mentioned, people will be amazed at her: "She has so much personality!" Freedom, run away, pursuit" and other dynamic words.In short, she never cared about other people's opinions, she is a woman who dares to break through, fight hard and go her own way.

Yang Erche Namu kept on writing while singing, and his works have been translated into many languages.Following the bestsellers such as "Out of the Country of Daughters", "China Red Meets Norway Blue", "You Can Too", "The Seven-Year Itch", "Dark Fragrance" and other bestsellers, Yang Erche Namu's new work "It's Better to Live Well than to Look Beautiful" Pretty" has also been published by China Youth Publishing House.Yang Erche Namu said: "In the eyes of ordinary people, I am not beautiful, but I think I live beautifully. Although my mouth is not sexy enough, I have eaten the world's delicacies and the most hardships in the world; Although these eyes are not beautiful, they let me see all kinds of beauties and all kinds of hardships in the world!
"My character is destined to be like this. I like the feeling of being on the road, I like to switch different roles, and I like to try various things. As long as I want, I will do it, and nothing can stop me! "

If it weren't for this aggressiveness, Yang Erche Namu might still be like her sisters in the same village, still herding sheep, collecting firewood, and harvesting wheat by the lake surrounded by mountains, and she would never get out of those mountains in her entire life.Perhaps the greatest spectacle she ever saw was the horse and boat races across the lake at the holidays.Over there, you can see more people who come to play by the lake from outside, those foreign tourists in different costumes, telling her that the outside world is very big and wonderful.

It was the idea of ​​"going out" that made Yang Erche Namu, who didn't know what an electric light was, a star among many female compatriots. When she was 14 years old, she and three other girls were selected by a singing team to participate in a singing competition in the county. Only then did she see the road that could lead to a distant place.She knew that she could go to Beijing along the way.Beijing has always been the paradise that the Mosuo people yearn for.That trip made her understand that even singing can be done outside.So, she sang from the county to the autonomous prefecture.The singing voice like a lark on the mountain and the character of the Mosuo girl who is not afraid of anything, let the 14-year-old carry a bag, which contains a few clothes, 7 eggs and a box of matches. The water flowed over several mountains above 2000 meters above sea level and walked into the city.

In 1984, when Yang Erche Namu heard the news of the enrollment of the Shanghai Conservatory of Music, he did not hesitate to go out from the "daughter country" on the bank of Lugu Lake again, and successfully came to Shanghai, the most prosperous city in China.It took her two years to learn Mandarin, and she made many Han friends in Shanghai during college.But in order to go to Beijing to realize the dream of "Cedan Dolma of the Mosuo people", she went through hardships, and after traveling back and forth between Beijing and Shanghai no less than 30 times, she was finally transferred to the Central National Song and Dance Troupe in Beijing.

After serving as a singer in the China National Song and Dance Troupe, Yang Erche Namu began to travel between the east and west coasts of the United States and around the world.Because of her sweet voice, her singing resounded all over the world, and she was praised as "China's Nightingale".

In the winter of 1996, Yang Erche Namu returned to Beijing.She lives at the home of an Italian friend in the diplomatic residence near Sanlitun.Yang Erche Namu met her Norwegian prince Shi Danwu there.

In life, Yang Erche Namu is casual and natural.She would find a pair of jeans and a T-shirt to put on, buy heavy things and just carry them back, regardless of her image.She has a straightforward personality, and would quarrel with the workers who are renovating the house, and then buy fruit for them as if nothing had happened.Namu would go to the flower market, pick up a few petals and put them in a big pot at home, just for the sake of being beautiful without spending money.

At work, Yang Erche Namu is efficient and capable, and often has to go out for public relations.For example, when a cultural company asked her to be the spokesperson for the "Planning Mother" event, she chose a black princess suit, wearing a platinum necklace, dignified and clean, with long hair and plain face I went to heaven.However, Namu at the social banquet is another look.At an open-air diplomatic banquet one night, she put on a gorgeous Indian dress, armed herself with oriental culture, and showed her brightest side in a generous, neither humble nor overbearing way, easily becoming the most popular woman at the party.

Yang Erche Namu's marriage ended during the "seven-year itch". After the divorce, Yang Erche Namu did not feel discouraged or complained about himself, but devoted himself to the construction of a new life with fuller enthusiasm. In 2007, with the popularity of Hunan Satellite TV's "Happy Boys" program, Yang Erche Namu, a woman wearing flowers, walked into thousands of households with a new attitude.

"Live a beautiful self" - it is this kind of thinking that makes Yang Erche Namu release her life heat bravely and flamboyantly.Although her "narcissism" and "arrogance" also aroused criticism from many people, the rumors did not make her compromise. Live the life you want.

She lives beautifully in this world, following her inner calling, from a child in the mountains, to a princess of a Norwegian prince, to a woman wearing flowers and talking and laughing today—who can say that her life is not her best What about good options?Women in their twenties, it’s not scary to be maverick, just be a maverick woman who obeys your inner calling!

recipe for happiness
Listen to the call of the soul and live according to your own wishes-the courage to be unique will make your life different.

One of life's nourishments is adventure
Women are born with a sense of insecurity, which makes them particularly attached to the feeling of stability, and develops a problem called "laziness".

The reason why ordinary women have no great achievements in their lives is because they have been pursuing a safe and stable life. Once they get a relatively stable position, they want to stick to it and not make progress.In this way, they will only work mechanically throughout their lives, earn enough food and clothing, and wait for the passage of time.

Stone pointed out: "Life is a mystery, and its value lies in exploration. Therefore, the only nourishment for life is adventure." Only those who can adapt can survive. The principle of "natural selection, survival of the fittest" is not only the survival of nature The law is also the inherent law of the continuous development of human society.Both biologists and sociologists admit that "safe" people who fear change and take risks will eventually be eliminated.

Once upon a time, a rich man was going on a long journey. Before he left, he called his servants together and entrusted them with his property for safekeeping.According to the ability of each of them, he gave the first servant 10 taels of silver, the second servant 5 taels of silver, and the third servant 2 taels of silver.

After a while, the rich man returned from a long journey.The servant who got the 10 taels of silver came with another 10 taels of silver.The rich man said: "Well done, you are a person who is full of confidence in many things. I will let you take charge of more affairs, go and enjoy your reward now."

The servant who got the 5 taels of silver came with another 5 taels of silver.The rich man said, "Well done, you are a man who is confident in some things. I will put you in charge of many things, go and enjoy your reward now."

Finally, the servant who got 2 taels of silver came and said, "Master, I know that you want to be a strong man and reap the land that has not been sown. I was afraid, so I buried the money in the ground." The rich man replied: " Lazy and immoral man, since you know I want to reap unplanted land, then you should deposit the money with the banker so that I can get my share of interest when I return."

The third servant, because he was afraid of changes and risks, did nothing, thinking that he would be appreciated by the rich man for preserving his property, but he was reprimanded instead.Women, often like the third servant, pursue a sense of security too much and are timid, resulting in nothing.

Women who are attached to stability always do too much preparation before starting to do something.They believe that every plan and action requires perfect preparation.They only build a comfortable greenhouse in the fields they are familiar with. For example, they love to stay at home and do nothing, and they will carry out the phrase "rely on parents at home, and rely on friends when going out".They dare not take a step into unfamiliar territory.For those difficulties that appear from time to time in life, I dare not take the initiative to launch an "offensive", but hide and hide again and again.They think that it is good to keep everything they are familiar with.For those new things, it's better to stay away, otherwise, you may be hit with a bloody head.Anwen is a trap that makes them lose their fighting spirit and passion.They dare not break the inherent way of life, dare not seek new changes, as a result, they loosen their skin and vitality in laziness, and the thoughts of women in their twenties are like those of an eighty-year-old woman.

There is a famous saying in the West: "A person's thoughts determine a person's destiny." To do anything requires a sense of security, and dare not take risks. It is a denial of one's own potential, which can only continuously shrink one's own potential.At the same time, the search for a sense of security can diminish your natural gifts, just as disease atrophies and degenerates the functions of the human body.

If a woman can break through the barrier of "stability", especially in her twenties when she starts to throw away inertia and caution, her spirit and career may be greatly improved.

The name Chanel is legendary, and she was never one to rest on her laurels.Her name later became synonymous with female liberation and natural charm.She is especially concerned with her very personal life.When she was young, she was a singer in a café in Paris.Chanel experienced a failed relationship - at the age of 18, when she was the mistress of Playboy Boyle.But she didn't sink there, but opened three boutiques with Boye's help, making her clothes enter the upper class in Paris.

For the flamboyant and ostentatious high society, Chanel's dress is a replica of Queen Margot's dress.Chanel and her costumes are full of weirdness, but also full of fatal appeal.Once, a few locks of her long hair were accidentally burned, so she simply picked up the scissors and cut her long hair into super short hair.On the second day after she walked into the Paris Ballet Theater, the noble ladies in Paris went to the barber to cut their "Chanel hairstyle".Whether it's Chanel perfume or Chanel clothing, the real charm lies in their makers.

After Chanel, who was 30 years old, paid off the money owed to Boi, she became independent.From 1930 until her death, she lived alone on the top floor of the Ritz Hotel in Paris.

Chanel is one of the most famous fashion designers in the world. When she goes to bed every night, the only thing she needs to make sure is whether the beloved pair of scissors is placed on the bedside table.She said: "God knows I want love, but if I have to choose, I choose fashion."

When Chanel recalled his life, his advice to women was: "Maybe I will surprise you, but in the final analysis, I think that if a woman wants to be happy, it is best not to follow the old morals. The people who make this choice Women have heroic courage, although it may end up paying the price of loneliness, but loneliness can help women find themselves. The two men I loved never understood me. They were rich, but they never understood that women want to do things too. Busy I'm happy that getting up adds weight to you, but almost no one knows it."

In her final days, she said: "From all things, my life was exactly right. I didn't have a husband, I didn't have children, but I had a lot of money."

The restless character gave Chanel the inspiration and motivation to succeed, allowing Chanel to get out of the "stable" cage and create a classic brand.Every woman in her twenties, no matter whether your appearance is beautiful or ugly, or whether your mind is smart or stupid, you should live the life you want according to your own heart, and don't be fooled "Stable" traps kill softly.Be more adventurous, be an independent individual, have financial independence, career progress, emotional richness, and rationality. Such a woman will always be confident and happy, and such a woman can also remain young forever.

recipe for happiness
Doing everything requires a sense of security, and not daring to take risks, is a denial of one's own potential, which can only continuously shrink one's own potential.

Be an "ambitious" woman
"Ambition" is a good thing. If a woman in her twenties wants to succeed, she must be an "ambitious" woman.

Balang was a young media mogul who started out promoting decorative portraits.In less than 10 years, he quickly became one of the 50 richest men in France. In 1998, he died of prostate cancer in the Bobigny Hospital in France.Before he died, he left a will and donated 4.6 million francs of his shares to Bobigny Hospital for prostate cancer research, and another 100 million francs as a prize for those who uncovered the mystery of poverty.

After Balaão's death, the French "Corsican" published his will.He said: "I was a poor man, but when I died, I walked into heaven as a rich man. Before I stepped into the threshold of heaven, I didn't want to take away the secret of my becoming rich. Now the secret is locked in In one of my private safes at the Central Bank of France, the three keys to the safe are in the hands of my lawyer and two attorneys. Whoever can guess my secret by answering 'what the poor lack most' will get my Congratulations. Of course, I could no longer raise my hands from the grave to applaud his wisdom, but he was honored to take 100 million francs from that safe, and that is my applause."

After the will was published, Le Corsican received a large number of letters, some scolded Balaão for being crazy, and some said that Le Corsican was hyping to increase circulation, but most of them still sent his own answer.

Most people think that what the poor lack most is money.What else can the poor lack?Of course it is money. With money, people are no longer poor.Some people think that what the poor lack the most is opportunity, and some people are poor because they have not had a good time.The stocks were not bought before the skyrocketing, and the stocks were not sold after the skyrocketing. In short, the poor are poor at the time.Others believe that what the poor lack most is skills.Now people who can get rich quickly are those with skills, and some people become poor because they have no skills.Others believe that what the poor lack most is help and care.Before coming to power, every party has made a lot of promises to the unemployed, but how many of them really care for them after coming to power?In addition, there are other answers, such as: it is beautiful, it is the Pierre Cardin coat, it is Le Corsican, it is the presidency, it is a copper chamber pot produced in Châteauroux, and so on.In short, the answers are varied and varied.

On the anniversary of Balaang's death, his lawyer and agent opened the safe under the supervision of the notary department according to Balaang's instructions before his death.Among the 48561 letters, a little girl named Tiller guessed the secret of Balaang correctly.Both Tiller and Balaão believe that what the poor lack most is ambition.

On the day of the awards, the "Corsican" took everyone's curiosity and asked Tiller, who was only 9 years old, why he thought of ambition and not others."Every time my sister brings her 11-year-old boyfriend home, she always warns me: Don't be ambitious! Don't be ambitious! I think maybe ambition can make people get what they want," Tiller said.

"Ambition", expressed as ambition in English, is synonymous with "ambition".In the eyes of Westerners, ambition is no different from ambition, and they both express a kind of aggressive desire of people.In Chinese, ambition is a commendatory word, describing the enterprising spirit of taking the world as one's own responsibility; while ambition is a derogatory term, used to condemn people who do anything for personal gain.In fact, in this society, people who are big treacherous or good people are only a very small number of people. The vast majority of people are neither related to "big treachery" nor to "great kindness". Everyone is an ordinary person in the world. , Ambition and ambition are all the same in the final analysis, collectively referred to as ambition.

A woman in her twenties who doesn't mind being called "ambitious" but fears being accused of being "ambitious".In life, many women with great potential shrink back because they are afraid of being called "careerists", dare not fight, and dare not stand out.Think about what Balaon said, the poor lack most is ambition.And that's the truth. Some people say that what the poor lack is money, but there are so many poor people in the world who eventually become rich.Why is that?Some people say that what the poor lack is skills, but there are many highly skilled people in the world who have not become rich.Why?Some people say that what the poor lack is opportunity, but opportunities are everywhere, but only a few people grasp the opportunities.Why?In fact, in the final analysis, what the poor lack the most is ambition. With ambition, they will continue to explore and search. Even in adversity, they will not lose their enthusiasm for struggle. Only such people can continue to create life, surpass themselves, and achieve success !
"Working queen" Wu Shihong is not good-looking, but he has a good reputation.She is the first inland person to become the general manager of a multinational information industry company in China, and the only woman who has achieved such a performance; she is also the only general manager who only has a junior high school diploma and an adult college entrance examination English college diploma.How did she achieve this extraordinary achievement?In her own words: "One point of ambition, two points of hard work, people without a bit of ambition will definitely not be able to achieve great things."

Wu Shihong was born in the 20s. When she was a teenager, she had nothing. From 60 to 1979, Wu Shihong suffered from leukemia again. After repeated chemotherapy, her hair almost fell out.After the serious illness, she suddenly felt that her life had to start again, because the time left for her in life might not be plentiful.It was from then on that Wu Shihong began to have an idea: to be a successful person!From then on, Wu Shihong started his new life with tenacious perseverance.

With only a radio, she spent one and a half years studying Xu Guozhang's three-year English course, got the "entrance card" to a new life, and began to seek a new career.With extraordinary courage and incomparable enthusiasm for her career, she joined IBM through a foreign enterprise service company. However, many people recommended by foreign enterprise service companies to IBM were not hired.

Although Wu Shihong does not have a high degree of education and no qualifications to work in foreign companies, she has a belief, that is: "I will never be allowed to be blocked from any door!" On the day of the interview, Wu Shihong came to the five-star Great Wall Hotel, Resolutely walked into the Beijing office of IBM, the world's largest information industry company.Wu Shihong successfully passed two rounds of strict selection, written and oral, and became one of the most ordinary employees of this world-renowned company.

In the first days of working in IBM, Wu Shihong played a humble role, making tea and pouring water, cleaning, and it was all the labor of the limbs below the head.She used to feel very inferior. Even touching the high-tech symbolic fax machine in her mind was a luxury. Wu Shihong only felt relieved to be in this safe environment that can solve food and clothing.

However, this inner balance was quickly broken. In such an advanced working environment, due to her low status, she was often criticized unreasonably.She was deliberately stopped at the door of the building by the doorman, and she was once insulted as "the person who stole the coffee in the office".Her heart was full of humiliation, but she couldn't vent it.Wu Shihong vowed secretly: "This kind of life will not last long, and I will never allow others to block me from any door." Afterwards, Wu Shihong said to himself: One day, I will have the ability to manage anyone in the company.For this reason, she spends 6 hours more than others on work and study every day.After hard work, Wu Shihong finally became the first business representative among the same batch of recruiters.Then, he became the first batch of local managers and the first general manager of IBM South China.

"Ambition" is the wings of an eagle soaring, the foundation of pines and cypresses, and the spiritual pillar of a person standing upright.Women in their twenties have a positive "ambition" and have the basis and motivation to take off in life.

In fact, if you want to do anything well, you need a strong inner desire. Women without "ambition" lack inner motivation, and they often only become mediocre characters in the crowd. "Ambition" is an aggressive state in people's hearts, and it doesn't matter whether it's praise or criticism. As long as it's not the idea of ​​breaking the law or harming others, it doesn't matter if a woman in her twenties has a little "ambition"?

So, what else is a woman in her twenties afraid of?Be an "ambitious" woman generously - release your inner desires and pursue them boldly, I believe you will be a dazzling woman in the crowd!
recipe for happiness
Women in their twenties have a positive "ambition" and have the basis and motivation to take off in life.

Anyway, get moving
Women in their twenties, if you are still complacent about your talent, if you are still complaining about a boss who has "no eyesight", please believe that there are many people like you in your life.There are many talented and capable people in this world, but why are there always a few people who succeed?The reason is that successful people will take the initiative to do it when they have an idea, even if they fail, they will not lose the courage to try; unsuccessful people, no matter how talented they are, always talk but don't do it. giants of action, dwarfs of action".

In our daily life, we can often hear some women say: "I am so smart, I will definitely do great things in the future, you just wait, when I have money, I will treat you to a full banquet, and then I will buy you a plane for each of you." !” Between the words, he was smug, as if he had already achieved success.When people ask them why they can do great things, they will plausibly say: "Knowledge is power, wisdom is wealth, I am the embodiment of beauty and wisdom, benevolence and chivalry-the super beautiful girl who is invincible in the universe, I am afraid Who? Humph!"

Anyone can daydream, the key is to take action.Daydreams cannot be eaten. If you want to get what you want, you must have real achievements. Otherwise, if you can succeed just by having an idea, wouldn’t everyone in the world be a billionaire? up?

As former British Prime Minister Benjamin Desraeli pointed out, although action may not bring satisfactory results, there is no satisfactory result without action-you need more than dreams, you also need Make a real effort.When you have an idea, do it, so that you can be successful.

There is an American girl named Lewin, her father is a famous dentist in Chicago, and her mother is a professor at a prestigious university.Her family can give her a lot of help and support, and she has every chance to realize her ideal.Since she was in middle school, she has always dreamed of being a TV presenter.She felt she had a gift for this because whenever she was with people, even strangers were willing to get close to her and have long conversations with her.

However, she did nothing for this ideal!She is waiting for a miracle to appear, hoping to become the host of a TV show all at once.Lewin expected unrealistically, but no miracle happened.

Another girl named Ruth realized Lewin's ideal and became a famous TV presenter.The reason why Ruth is successful is because she knows that "there is no free lunch in the world", and all success must be achieved by her own efforts.She did not have a reliable source of income like Lewin, she worked part-time during the day and took night classes at the university's stage art department in the evening.After graduating, she went to work, traveling to every radio and television station in Chicago.However, every manager gave her the same answer: "We generally don't hire people without work experience."

Instead of backing down or waiting, Ruth continued to go out and look for opportunities.After months of poring over broadcast and television magazines, she finally came across a job ad for a small North Dakota television station looking for a weatherman.

Ruth worked there for two years before finding a job at a television station in Los Angeles.After another five years, she finally became the host of the show she had dreamed of for a long time.

Why is this so?
Because Levin has been stuck in fantasy, waiting for the opportunity; while Ruth took action, and finally realized the ideal.

Success is not about difficulty, but about "who really did it".There is no shortage of opportunities in this world, what is lacking is the hand to seize them.Women in their twenties, if you have an idea, do it quickly. Don’t be afraid of failure. People learn to walk by constantly falling and getting up.Don't look forward and backward, don't hesitate to procrastinate, no matter what, just move and talk - in constant practice and pursuit, you will be able to surpass yourself and become a shining piece of real gold.

recipe for happiness
Actions may not bring satisfactory results, but without action there is no satisfactory result - you need more than just dreams, you have to put in real effort.When you have an idea, do it, so that you can be successful.

follow the line of sight
A woman who wants to be successful must be a woman with a vision.

In life, women who lack vision are often at a loss in their hearts, so the wind of change will blow them all over the sky.They don't know where they will fall, and what is waiting for them.

Visionary women are different.De Gaulle said: "Where the eyes go is the place where success arrives. Only great people can achieve great things. They are great because they are determined to do great things." The teacher who teaches track and field will tell you: "During the long jump, you have to keep your eyes on the distance so that you can jump farther." If a woman in her twenties wants to achieve a great career, she must set up lofty ideals and aspirations, have far-reaching thoughts and broad horizons. The field of vision, along the established direction, always stick to it.You should cast your vision far away, constantly develop and enrich yourself, strive for new knowledge, and think about new problems.In other words, if you are not satisfied with the status quo, you must constantly deny yourself and surpass yourself. Only in this way can you control your own destiny and finally make your dreams come true.

Known as "China's Ashin", He Yongzhi is a woman who can never be satisfied, and she is always in relentless pursuit.She started by opening a hot pot restaurant with three pots. Later, the hot pot restaurant became bigger and bigger, and she became China's "Hot Pot Queen".

He Yongzhi used to work as a designer in a children's shoe factory in Chongqing, and his husband was an electrician, so life was very tight.He Yongzhi was not satisfied, so she started some small business after get off work to change the embarrassing situation.

In 1982, He Yongzhi sold his house and started a business.She used the 3000 yuan from the sale of the house to buy a street-facing house on Bayi Road, and used it to sell clothes and leather shoes.With her own shop, her business scale expanded rapidly.

Later, Bayi Road was changed into a hot pot street, and she also opened the "Little Swan Hot Pot Restaurant". At that time, there were only three tables and three pots.With no experience in the first month, He Yongzhi lost money.In the second month, she focused on two aspects: one was the taste, and the other was the service.In this way, the business improved day by day, and one day he earned 70 yuan, equivalent to He Yongzhi's salary for one month.She was so excited that she didn't fall asleep all night, looking forward to earning 1 yuan in the future and becoming a "ten thousand yuan household".

The business is getting better day by day. He Yongzhi quit his job to concentrate on running the hot pot restaurant, making fuss about taste, service, and integrity, and the business gradually became popular. Six years later, she became the "hot pot queen" on this street, and her business area expanded to more than 6 square meters.At this time, He Yongzhi had a bigger dream.

In 1990, she rented a 2000-square-meter house in Chengdu and opened her first branch. Based on the experience she gained in Bayi Road, the business was booming.Soon, she expanded the scale and opened five or six branches in Mianyang, Shuangliu, Wenjiang and other places near Chengdu, and the business was so good that it was enviable.

On June 1994, 6, the franchised chain store of the hot pot restaurant in Tianjin officially opened, and became popular immediately, and the investment cost was recovered within 8 months.The origin of the Tianjin hot pot restaurant is as follows: In 8, Jing Wenhan, a Tianjin native working in Mianyang, saw that Little Swan hot pot was so popular, so he began to look for He Yongzhi.After searching for three months, I finally found He Yongzhi who opened a shop in Wuhan.He Yongzhi was moved by the sincerity of the other party and agreed to cooperate.She said: "I provide personnel, technology, and brand, and you invest money to jointly open a store. Before the investment is recovered, 1992 to [-] will be divided, and you and I will be [-]%; after the investment is recovered, [-] to [-] will be divided equally."

He Yongzhi is more and more aware of the benefits of opening chain stores. She continues to open hot pot franchise chain stores at an average rate of one per month, and advances to major cities across the country.Soon, franchise stores were opened in Shanghai, Beijing, Nanning, Guangzhou, Xi'an, Shenyang, Harbin and other places. In 1995, the hot pot restaurant opened to Seattle and other places in the United States, becoming an international enterprise.He Yongzhi also entered the ranks of billionaires in one fell swoop.

At present, He Yongzhi is the president of Chongqing Little Swan Investment Holding Group, and was once elected as the representative of the 500th All-China Women's Federation. The company she founded also ranks among the "Top 50 Private Enterprises in China" and has become "China's [-] Most Promising Franchise Enterprises" ".

There is a famous saying in the American business circle: "The fool earns today, the wise earns tomorrow." The strong in life are always those who are constantly pioneering and aggressive.

In the journey of life, many women choose to give up and retreat. They bow their heads in the face of difficulties, indulge in pleasure, and finally become mediocre, slack and undisciplined people.However, when a woman is content with low standards and stops striving for a better future, she will decline physically, mentally and morally, and even her beauty will be dimmed as a result, and she will gradually lose The vigor of youth and vigor has been reduced to a mediocre and numb "woman".Her heart no longer emits the light of the soul, she is like a shooting star, flashing past in the brilliant starry sky, even, she has never bloomed at all.On the contrary, if a woman sincerely hopes to improve her current situation through unremitting efforts, it will create a more noble and elegant temperament for her, and her life will be radiant as a result!
All in all, women in their twenties, you have to believe that you are capable enough to realize your wishes.You need to know that everyone has infinite inner strength.There is nothing impossible in this world, only unexpected.As long as you dare to dream, dare to break through the limitations of the status quo, look far into the distance, and practice yourself, I believe that no obstacle can change your forward trend: dare to think and do, your tomorrow will be even better!
recipe for happiness
If a woman in her twenties wants to achieve a great career, she must set up lofty ideals and ambitions, have far-reaching thoughts and a broad vision, and always stick to the established direction.

(The second article is best to understand the way of charm in your twenties)

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