20s decide a woman's life

Chapter 3 Beauty is a Profound Philosophy of Survival
Beauty is the duty of women's innate talent. Women have the responsibility to invest in beauty and decorate themselves into pleasing beauty in the world.

women conquer the world with beauty

"Women are like flowers, flowers are like dreams", women are flowers scattered by God in the world, so women should be as beautiful and moving as flowers.If some women are not beautiful enough, they should be fragrant.If it is not aromatic enough, it should be ingenious.In short, beauty is the duty of women's innate talent. Women have the responsibility to invest in beauty and decorate themselves into pleasing beauty in the world.

Beauty has mysterious power.Beauty makes people forget their physical and mental fatigue, and beauty makes people have new motivation to create a more magnificent life.Beauty is a woman's passport to the world.

Women, as long as they are beautiful, they can easily get preferential treatment and affirmation from others.Beautiful women are not only easy to win in debates, but also have a higher success rate in persuading others.In social situations, attractive women will appear relatively more comfortable and confident, because they believe that life is in their own hands, and they will not be at the mercy of fate and circumstances.

The research results show that no matter actors, businessmen or ordinary employees, the more outstanding their looks, the easier it is for their labor to be recognized.Looks help the beauties a lot, and they often gain both fame and fortune because of it.Social psychologists call this phenomenon the "halo effect."

From ancient times to the present, in any country, women have played an important role, especially beautiful women are more favored, and various beauty pageants have unabashedly interpreted this preference to the point where it cannot be added.People love beauties, talk about beauties, and beauties have a strong magnetic field effect, which brings people together.

In modern society, beauty is playing an increasingly important role.In shopping malls, managers with rich business experience will choose beautiful and charming girls as shopping guides in shopping malls. The sweet smiles of beauties can always touch the wallets of many people; at auto shows, various car models become the darlings of the venue , tens of thousands of men lingered in it, not knowing whether they were looking at the car or "appreciating the flowers"; more shrewd businessmen started the "beauty economy" with great fanfare, and they relied on beautiful women for clothing and accessories. , Cosmetics advertisements, and endorsements, attracting countless women who love beauty and want to be beautiful.

From an aesthetic point of view, beautiful women will have a strong attraction, which not only delights men, but also delights women.Beautiful women are like this, they have natural advantages, they can satisfy people's psychology of loving and seeking beauty, and make people happy to associate with them.

Appearance is innate, but appearance can be modified later in life. A person who pays attention to his image and consciously maintains a good image can always be trusted by the crowd, can always get help in adversity, and will definitely find his way in the journey of life. This is the good effect of "beauty".

In life, beautiful women are always favored by men, and the society is willing to add to these beauties and open the door to convenience.In this regard, the famous Hong Kong movie star Zhong Chuhong once said: "It is more convenient for beautiful girls to do anything in society, because their beauty plays a role." It can be said that modern society has paid more attention to beautiful women than women. More than any previous era, beauty has become an important capital for women to gain a foothold in society.In this society, beautiful women are easy to get good rewards, while women who ignore their appearance and are slovenly are not easy to be valued.

A supervisor once told the story of a colleague:

Li Lan is very capable at work and gets along well with her colleagues. The only fly in the ointment is: she looks a bit sloppy, doesn't like makeup, and doesn't care about her own slovenliness.She often doesn't understand why she works so hard, but it's never her turn to be promoted.

The executive said: "Actually, anyone can tell that it's because of her appearance, not her ability to work, but who can tell her? Whenever she encounters important matters and wants to get in touch with her, she always I am worried that customers will judge people by their appearance, thinking that this is a company that does not pay attention to image, is unprofessional, and is not dedicated to work. After all, the company should pay attention to its own image.”

Women like Li Lan are not uncommon in life.Many women only pay attention to cultivating their abilities, but neglect to shape their own image, and the result will definitely affect their own success.If they can calm down and seriously establish their own good image, it will be like creating a golden signboard for themselves, which will make people trust and value them more.

The ancient philosopher Mugfa said: "A good image is the spokesperson of a beautiful life, the handrail for us to go to a higher level, and the stepping stone to enter the sacred palace of love." The beauty of women is an effective passport for women to enter the world, and it is also the The reason why it is a sign of a woman.In modern society, ability no longer rejects charm. Even successful women do not want to lose their femininity. They also hope to become a glamorous and perfect woman.

After receiving countless flowers and applause, Wu Shihong, the "working queen", still cherishes her true nature as a woman. She said: "I hope people can see my ability to work, but I also don't want people to ignore my femininity." In fact, there is no contradiction between ability and charm. A capable and beautiful woman is a more "essential" woman, and can have more opportunities for happiness in the workplace and in life.

For women in their twenties, beauty is the natural capital that God has given us.So, what are you waiting for, let us actively join the "beautiful" army of women and be a beautiful woman from the inside out.

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In modern society, ability no longer rejects charm. Even successful women do not want to lose their femininity. They also hope to become a glamorous and perfect woman.

anyone can be beautiful
What kind of woman is called a beauty?Exquisite facial features, graceful figure, or charming temperament?In fact, beauty is just a general term.Every woman can be a beauty, as long as you are willing to maintain and dress yourself up, who says you won't be a delicate peony in the eyes of everyone?Every woman is beautiful.The most beautiful and unique face in the world is yourself, the difference lies in whether you can pay attention to grasp and express your unique beauty.

The willows are graceful, the pines and cypresses are verdant, and the green bamboos are astonishing, they are both brilliant in the sun and gorgeous in the moonlight.Every woman is a landscape, and every landscape has its own beauty.Women in their twenties don't have to worry about their facial features not being refined enough.As long as you are good at grooming and caring, and "exploit strengths and avoid weaknesses", then you are the beauty in the eyes of everyone!

Xiaoyu and Xiaomei were classmates in junior high school. At that time, Xiaomei was the flower fairy in the eyes of the classmates, the "dream lover" that boys dreamed of, and Xiaoyu sitting next to Xiaomei was just the one who "complemented beauty with ugliness". Typical.Xiaoyu has a big round face, chubby little lips, and a pair of big black eyes blinking nimbly. When boys see her, they will always laugh and joke: "Little fat girl, what should I bring today?" Have you eaten?" Xiao Yu would turn her face away in embarrassment, and reply awkwardly: "Hmph, leave it alone!"

Time flies, and more than ten years have passed in a blink of an eye. The former "little fat girl" has grown into a slim girl. She works as a senior translator in a large company in Beijing. Flowers and applause, as well as a large number of suitors who "come here for fame".

During the Spring Festival, junior high school classmates who hadn’t seen each other for many years gathered together. When Xiaoyu and Xiaomei appeared in front of everyone, everyone was unprepared and "surprised". But today... well, is this "The Eighteen Changes of Women's University" or "Time makes people grow old"?
It turned out that after graduating from junior high school, Xiaomei went home to get married after studying technical secondary school for a few years. She got up early every day and was greedy for night. After being tired, she lost the elegance of dressing up. I didn't even bother to wipe it off, I hurriedly washed my face in the morning and went out, and I just wiped it lazily at night.As time goes on, the beautiful face is "destroyed" in this way.

But Xiaoyu is different. After entering university, she realized that appearance is an "important symbol" of a woman.She started losing weight, exercising a lot every day, and controlling her diet.At the same time, she also pays attention to skin care, washing her face and skin care every day, and she executes it meticulously.Considering the importance of "face" in life, she also specially "learned" a beauty course, and when it comes to important occasions, she must be "finely crafted" and "shiny" to appear on the stage.Of course, in order to have an overall harmonious image, clothing is also the most important thing. Xiao Yu has also put a lot of effort into this aspect. She usually goes to shopping malls and markets, and buys fashion magazines to study with great concentration.Not to mention the hardships involved, even the maintenance of the clothes took up a lot of her time, but Xiao Yu persisted.The pursuit of excellence has made her taste and skills more and more advanced. Through the "renewal" every year, Xiaoyu today has a "[-]% return rate" on the street-this is not because of Xiaoyu. She is born beautiful, but she knows how to make use of her strengths and avoid her weaknesses. Through diligent dressing and nursing, she has found the best way to show herself.

Everyone has their own unique beauty, as long as you are diligent in discovering and good at displaying.In this world, there are no ugly women, only lazy ones.Through her own efforts, Xiaoyu has transformed from an "ugly duckling" to a "white swan". There are many people like her in life.We often watch the glamorous and beautiful stars on TV. In fact, many of them are just like ordinary people after taking off their makeup, and some of them are not even comparable to ordinary people. ".

In life, we often see women who go out to buy food and breakfast in pajamas, with fluffy hair and sleepy yawns.Just ask, can this kind of woman give people the feeling of beauty?

There are also women with messy hair, oily faces, dirty clothes, dusty shoes, and grime on their nails, but they still "do their own thing".It's not hard to imagine, how much charm can such a woman have?

In this world, women, not having natural beauty is not your sorrow, but laziness is your great misfortune!If a woman wants to pursue beauty, she has to pay a price. It doesn't require you to "spend a lot of money" on plastic surgery and shopping, but requires you to pay attention to your own image in every detail of daily life.No matter how tight your time is, take a few minutes every day to take care of yourself.

If a woman wants to gain a foothold in society, "face" is the top priority, and the higher the society, the more important the image is.It is difficult for a woman with a disheveled appearance and a sloppy image to gain the attention and trust of others.So, women in their twenties, for their glorious life, please start investing in your own "image project".

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Women, not having natural beauty is not your sorrow, but laziness is your great misfortune!
Wear your own style
Clothing is an endless homework for modern women. Clothing covers most of a person's body and becomes an important symbol of personal image.For women, the effect of a suit of clothes that fits well or does not fit is completely different.A suitable dress can make people "look forward and shine", while an inappropriate dress may "eclipse" a beautiful woman.It can be said that clothing is an important factor related to the beauty and ugliness of a woman. A suitable dress worn on a suitable woman will bring wonderful effects.

Eighteen ugly women.The most natural beauty of a woman comes first.The girl before was like a flower that just bloomed, radiating bright and lively brilliance, brilliant and dazzling.Before, girls could wear their favorite clothes as much as they wanted, a comfortable jacket with a pair of casual jeans, and youth can be unscrupulously publicized!

But as the years go by, girls who grow up will rely more on clothing, accessories, cosmetics, etc. to retain their beauty.Choosing exquisite clothing is more about showing the taste, temperament and charm of being an excellent woman, an outstanding woman and a charming woman.

How a woman should dress should not seem to be a problem.However, if you look around, many women, especially young women in their twenties, often don't know how to dress.Most of them only know how to follow the fashion and trend. When they enter the mall, they will buy a lot, and they will buy a bunch of them to take back, and they will not be able to wear them all in one season.As a result, although I bought a lot of clothes, none of them were high-grade. I wore them like a "flower butterfly" that "swaggered through the market".

The blind obedience of chasing fashion but falling into the rut is the biggest enemy of women in dressing.There are many girls who blindly pursue famous brands, thinking that famous brands are better than all "no-brand" or "no-brand".When you enter a shopping mall and see "sky-high price" products, you don't even frown, just buy them with your eyes closed.They happily compare famous brand clothes and imitate the dresses of celebrities, but do not consider their own conditions such as skin color and body shape at all. The result is often imitation and self-defeating.

As the saying goes, "Three points of beauty and seven points of dress".We do not emphasize that everyone should have their own set of aesthetics, but everyone should have their own aesthetic tendency.To achieve this, women in their twenties should not be swayed by the ever-changing trends, but should add popular fashion elements to the aesthetic tone they appreciate and integrate them into personal taste.Dressing that combines personal temperament, self-cultivation, and personality will reflect a strong personal style, and dressing in style is the highest state of dressing.

That's right, what women in their twenties need to fix is ​​"style" now!When the fashion industry gave us the slogan "style is a necessary belief", people's pursuit of fashion has become more and more selective.Today, style is everything.There will be no more pieces in your wardrobe that leave you wondering what to wear, and you will no longer be hesitant about whether to own a sun hat or a knee-length shift skirt.As long as you create your own style, everything makes sense.

You might lose your legs because of the creases in your skirt, you might swipe your credit card for your favorite new outfit, or you might save a week for a fragrance gift box.But in either case, the clothing you covet and collect speaks volumes about your style.

Fashion is unpredictable, what kind of clothes should you wear to keep you from being lost in the crowd?Let your heart tell you.If you think you're sexy and confident in short skirts, why not add a few more?If you are obsessed with vintage clothing, why not satisfy your desire?If you like an accessory, or a shawl to wear around your shoulders, or an oddly shaped handbag, buy it and match it with something you love.The result is a signature style that is only yours.

In short, as a modern woman, you should dress according to your own taste and style, choose clothes that suit you, and regard learning how to dress and create the most charming appearance as an important thing in your life.

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Women in their twenties should not be swayed by ever-changing trends, but should add popular fashion elements to the aesthetic tone they appreciate and integrate it into personal taste.

vulgarity will ruin your life

A woman can be beautiful, but she can't be elegant.Dale Carnegie said to a woman: "Your vulgarity will ruin your happiness. What I want to tell you is that only a woman who behaves elegantly will win the respect and love of a man."

Elegance shows the self-cultivation and connotation of women. Every gesture of their hands and feet will make people feel that they are just right and well-proportioned.Indeed, it is impossible for an unintelligent and uncultivated woman to behave gracefully.

People tend to sneer at rude, uncivilized women, even if such women have a lot of money, no one wants to treat them as guests.But elegant women are different. Even if they have no money or fame, their elegant behavior is enough to win people's respect.

It is often said that to be a woman is to be feminine and elegant.If a woman's behavior is full of masculinity and her words are vulgar, no matter how beautiful she is, she will not give people a sense of beauty.When it comes to women's pursuit of elegance, we think of one person - Britney Spears.She was once "the world's sexiest and most powerful" female singer, and she deserved this title.But such a beautiful girl, who would have thought that in just a few years after marriage, she would become a "weird" woman with a shaved head, indulgent sex, no underwear, a miniskirt "revealing her bottom", slovenly, and a "fat" figure?Today's Britney is heartbreaking, and she also made us deeply feel that women must unremittingly pursue elegance, otherwise, no matter how famous and profitable she is, no matter how beautiful she is, it will make people uncomfortable to watch.

Elegance is a compulsory homework for women, the highest state of femininity, and the gender capital for women to go to the world.We might as well analyze the word "elegance" in detail with the method of splitting characters. The so-called "excellence" refers to the perfect state of a person's inner quality, self-cultivation, bearing, and mentality, while "elegance" refers to the inner state. The externalization of the perfect state is elegant manners, elegant speech and elegant image. "Elegance" is actually the product of the perfect combination of inner and outer, and it is a kind of charm beauty that blends inside and outside.

Elegance is a woman's glamor weapon and the ever-changing capital for a woman to conquer the world.A woman who is good at using elegance is always more likely to succeed than a masculine "strong woman".Here, we have to mention Cleopatra, Cleopatra, an elegant woman who climbed to the pinnacle of power entirely by gender charm.

Modern archaeology has found that Cleopatra was not so beautiful, and even ordinary-looking, but she still let the two heroes of Rome, Caesar and Antony, bow down under her pomegranate skirt.Not only that, when she was a little girl, Caesar bowed down under her pomegranate skirt.It all stems from her extraordinary elegance.

The scene when Cleopatra met Caesar was vivid: a man was brought to Caesar with a bundle of blankets on his back: "Sir, you have never seen my cargo before." He carefully put the blanket on the On the ground, gently open.Caesar was speechless in astonishment, because out of the blanket was a beautiful Egyptian princess.Seeing the surprise on Caesar's face, the princess smiled: "Sir, did you not disappoint?"

The princess has red hair and a shawl, a welcoming smile, a soft body and a lively manner.In the face of this fragrant Egyptian princess, Caesar's iron will was defeated. The 18-year-old Egyptian princess married Caesar, who was nearly fifty years old, and since then the Egyptian princess has become Cleopatra.

Later, Caesar was defeated, and Cleopatra conquered Anthony, another commander of Rome, in a special way.

On the beautiful Nile River, there is an extremely gorgeously decorated painting boat, on which leans a peerless beauty, she is Cleopatra, and the breeze blows on her face, making her face extraordinarily crimson.A wonderful and tangy fragrance emanated from the painting boat, which made Anthony, who is all-powerful, brave and good at fighting, feel happy.

Anthony sent someone to ask her to disembark and meet her.Unexpectedly, the queen instead sent a message to let him come to her royal ship.This is undoubtedly an open challenge for the conquerors.Anthony marveled at the unexpected resistance.He got on the boat involuntarily, and walked to the side of the graceful, elegant and demure queen.Cupid's love arrow hit this proud and conceited man.

Cleopatra's behavior and speech are elegant and attractive.A woman in her twenties should remove the vulgar weeds from her life so that an elegant disposition can grow.Be an elegant woman for a lifetime, and return yourself as a woman, so that you can have eternal charm and fragrance!
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Elegance is a woman's glamor weapon and the ever-changing capital for a woman to conquer the world.A woman who is good at using elegance is always more likely to succeed than a masculine "strong woman".

Femininity "captures" a man

When men evaluate women, they have different attitudes and opinions, but basically they evaluate women in terms of appearance and connotation.Of course, as for the rhetorical point of view itself, it is related to the quality and connotation of the man who evaluates the woman.

Food and sex, sex also.Men are visual consumption animals, so for fast-paced modern people, beautiful women are undoubtedly more popular.Men hope that all the people they come into contact with in their circle of life are beauties.Everyone wants to get beautiful things. As long as men's hearts are moved, they always have an urge to keep them for themselves, and they will naturally "keep their virtues" when evaluating them.The same goes for a man's desire for a beautiful woman.The possession of beautiful women often makes men feel both happy and tired.

The feeling of happiness comes from the sense of accomplishment when chasing beauty, and the intoxicated reverie when possessing this beauty.For men, to have beauty is to have comfort.

The feeling of tiredness stems from the fact that beautiful women are unattainable. In the process of pursuing beauty, men are often exhausted, physically and mentally haggard, and their will is on the verge of persistence and giving up.Beautiful women often forget the cultivation of acquired quality due to their inherent advantages, and they are superficial, which makes men feel tired.

For a man, a beautiful woman is often a fear of a fire in the backyard if he doesn't pay attention.Do you think such a woman can not make a man tired?
As for ordinary-looking women, their images are much inferior to beautiful women, but their love and marriage are often smooth sailing.Because men who appreciate and pursue such women are often attracted by their excellent inner qualities, and good inner cultivation is just the magic weapon to maintain lasting charm.

The shortcomings of these women are superficial and obvious at a glance, but peeling off this layer of unglamorous packaging reveals a mellow and meaningful cultivation and sentiment.Therefore, some wise men not only have the courage to pursue these ordinary women, but they are also willing to stay with such women for a lifetime.They may be rich or powerful, and what they fancy are women who they think are very connotative. Although their wives are a bit ugly, they are gentle, delicate, tasteful, and sentimental, especially their long-lasting fragrance. The beauties who are flirting with each other are somewhat inferior.Such a man and a woman can't be said to be a natural match in terms of appearance, but in any other aspect, they can be said to be a match made in heaven.Such women can spark a man's career and prosper, superstitious people say they prosper.During the Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang, the prime minister of the Shu Kingdom, was a talented man, but he married the extremely ugly Huang family. However, it was the ugly Huang family who helped Zhuge Liang find his lifelong talent and inspiration. A classic combination of talented men and ugly women.There are many such examples in modern society.

Therefore, no matter men or women, especially women, don't think about making progress because of natural beauty, and don't sigh because of inferior appearance. Acquired self-cultivation and moral improvement are the most important.

At the same time, even today when individuality is promoted, a woman should be like a woman, or a woman should be feminine.

The so-called femininity refers to a kind of personality, a kind of cultural accomplishment, a kind of taste, a kind of external expression of good taste, and of course it is a kind of inner temperament.In short, femininity is the charm and demeanor of a woman.For a woman with taste, the three points for beauty can be increased to seven points; for women without taste, the seven points for beauty can be reduced to three points.A tasteless woman, even if she has a beautiful face and a proud figure, as long as she opens her mouth, it is enough to expose her poor heart and empty head.

Therefore, beautiful does not mean femininity.

Some women regard "weakness" as the embodiment of "beauty", and interpret sister Lin's morbidity, melancholy, and bitterness as femininity.This kind of woman is always sentimental, as if life is a disaster. Although the Buddha saves all living beings, he can't lead them out of the sea of ​​suffering.This kind of woman seems to be born with only sorrow and lamentation, no joy and joy.If a man falls in love with such a woman, he will inevitably step into a world of depression, sorrow and sorrow.

Therefore, "weak" does not mean femininity.

Unfortunately, some women's arrogance and solipsism cover up their femininity.This kind of woman absolutely believes in herself, and believes that there can only be one "self" among all living beings, not two.They stubbornly believe that "self" is the only "cutest person" in a man's heart.Because of this kind of blind and subjective arrogance, they are arrogant, and even if others are better than themselves, they still don't take it seriously, or they are jealous, or they find faults in others, expose their privacy, slander wantonly, and even use unscrupulous means.They always take themselves as the center of the circle and want others to draw a circle around their "self", as if others have to live and die for them, and right and wrong, good and bad depend entirely on their will.They are headstrong, self-willed, and never respect others.

Therefore, self-centeredness does not mean femininity.

Lin Qingxuan once said: "All appearances in this world are not self-existing, and must have their profound inner meaning. Then, the best way to change the appearance is not to work on the appearance, but to reform from the inside. Make-up is the most important thing. The last branch, it can change few facts. The deeper makeup is to change the physique, let a person change the lifestyle, get enough sleep, which is much more effective than makeup; the deeper makeup is to change the temperament, read more , Appreciate art more, think more, be optimistic about life, have confidence in life, kind-hearted, caring for others, self-love and dignity, such a person is willing to be close even without makeup. The makeup on the face is just the last little thing In simple terms, third-rate makeup is makeup for the face, second-rate makeup is for the spirit, and first-rate makeup is for life.”

This tells every female friend in her twenties that the pursuit of beauty must not be mere vulgarity. Only by integrating beauty into life and life into the vast river of history can the smoke of the years be cleared away in the heart. Enduring strong femininity.

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Femininity refers to a kind of personality, a kind of cultural accomplishment, a kind of taste, a kind of external expression of good taste, and of course it is a kind of inner temperament.

Charm keeps fresh by talent

For a woman in her twenties, with her beauty, she will undoubtedly have a bargaining chip and proud capital in the world.But in modern society, virtue and talent are more attractive than beauty.When beauty can be reproduced in large quantities, talent becomes even more precious.

Yang Lan, a famous program host, once said that no one said she was beautiful, and she thought she was very ordinary, but she never felt sad because she didn't have a "beautiful appearance". Instead, she felt that ordinary-looking girls could easily succeed in other areas .Because I know that no matter how I dress up, I can't be radiant, so I have to read more books and do other things.

Yang Lan once said:
I think "beautiful" generally only refers to appearance, and the expression of female beauty lies in a kind of motherhood, whether she is a mother or not.In addition, I think the beauty of women is mainly in the aspect of thought.I once asked many great directors: "You live among beauties all day long, are you always emotional?" They said: "No, many women only have beautiful faces, and they can't touch us at all." So, a Women's thoughts are very important. If you can't keep up with the times, you always think that you can keep a man's heart by applying makeup. I think that is a delusion.Only by constantly challenging him ideologically will it give a man a sense of freshness and excitement, which is very important.

"There is no place to find when you break through the iron shoes, and it takes no effort to get it." Often the more we don't fancy something, the easier it is to get.Yang Lan has never wanted to be selected as a beauty, but her photo was on the cover of a magazine, and she was called "the most beautiful Asian beauty in this century".

For this matter, Yang Lan analyzed it like this:
I think beauty is definitely a very relative and very personal point of view, it seems like fate is playing a joke, it is such a very common feeling.A person's appearance is given by his parents, and he still has to like himself.But there is a saying that I like very much. It says that a woman's appearance before the age of 30 is given by her parents, and her appearance after the age of 30 is given by herself.I think this should be understood in this way, that is to say, your accumulated personality, temperament, and educational background may become more and more apparent after your peak of youth has passed.There is also a saying that if you want to see whether a woman is beautiful, you should see what she looks like when she is 50 years old.At that time, it was the result of her lifelong practice.Then I hope I'm a nice old lady when I'm 50.

As we all know, beauty will fade with the passage of time, but talent is eternal.A smart and resourceful mind and a tireless enthusiasm for learning are the real priceless treasures.

There are two basic divisions of women's beauty, one is external physical beauty, and the other is inner spiritual beauty.

A woman with external beauty is the condensation and manifestation of her own beauty. It can not only give herself great psychological satisfaction and enjoyment, but also give others a visual sense of beauty, which is pleasing to the eye.The pursuit of external beauty is a woman's instinctive nature, which should not be imprisoned and suppressed, but should be actively guided aesthetically.

Inner spiritual beauty can leave an indelible impression.Inner beauty dominates outer beauty and is the source of a woman's beauty.It is precisely because of the existence of inner beauty that a woman can truly become a perfect woman and give people a sincere sense of beauty.Therefore, inner beauty has an incomparable depth and breadth than outer beauty, and unique temperament and self-cultivation are the root of a woman's eternal beauty.

Although Zhang Ailing's appearance is not amazing, her articles filled with the gloomy style of old Shanghai and her own extraordinary love story make contemporary people's impression of her like a jar of old wine that has been kept for many years.Li Bihua once commented on her and said: "The loneliness in the literary world is terrifying, and there is only one such woman."

The British writer Somerset Maugham once said: "There are no ugly women in the world, only some women who don't know how to make themselves look beautiful." Mei."

A woman may not be beautiful, but she cannot be without talent.Talent can reshape beauty, and only talent can make beauty last forever and make beauty have quality connotation.People's pursuit does not come entirely from appearance, it mainly comes from people's inner strength.Beauty is something to be thankful for, but there is only a good appearance, but no inner talent. A beautiful face is as lifeless as a paper flower.But now, due to the overwhelming publicity of the media and advertisements, many young girls stay away from the nourishment of piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and pay too much attention to appearance modification and dressing.When they linger more and more on external "sculptures", can they still understand that there is a beauty in this world that is more nostalgic and nostalgic than appearance-that is the beauty of talent.Chen Xiaoxu, who played the role of "Lin Daiyu", the beauty of a generation, has unfortunately "disappeared and died, and her soul is far away". Her poetic eyes and sentimental wit are deeply branded in people's hearts.People love her pure and noble heart, and cherish the smiles and frowns she brings to the world; people mourn her parting, but they will always miss her poignant beauty.Although she left us prematurely, in our hearts, she will always follow us, and she will not age, she will always be the beautiful and soft sister Lin in "A Dream of Red Mansions".Similar to her are Weng Meiling, Anita Mui, Vivien Leigh, Audrey Hepburn and a large number of long-lasting beautiful women.You may say that they are beautiful and delicious, but it is not uncommon to see beautiful and charming women like them in life, especially in the entertainment industry. The key to the image of the characters lies in their extraordinary talents and delicate and ethereal emotions.

Of course, natural beauty is a rare advantage, but there is only externality without connotation, and it will cause "aesthetic fatigue" if you look at it for too long, not to mention that there are all kinds of man-made and natural beauties in this world, and you will get used to it if you have more up.This is like a TV series. If there are only some beauties who are completely "not in the show", you may not be interested, because people would rather appreciate actors who interpret well but are not beautiful enough than endure "pretentious" actors. Beauty.

Back then, in order to please Prince Charles and maintain a slim figure, Princess Diana started to induce vomiting after eating, which later developed into unstoppable vomiting.Instead of being grateful for this, Prince Charles recalls with disgust: "My honeymoon was full of vomit." When Charles and Diana divorced, Diana's measurements were 35-28-35 (inches), Known as the "golden ratio of the devil" by beauty experts, she is an abandoned woman with a perfect figure after all.

But the old and ugly Camilla, who has been infatuated with the prince for decades, even the acquaintances who condemned her for destroying the royal marriage have to say: "To be fair, anyone who knows Camilla thinks that She is a lovely woman. Not only is she smart, but she is also very funny." She is the queen of the banquet, and she can talk about literature, art, politics, and economics.Diana, on the other hand, was a high school dropout who failed a make-up exam.

Although men admire the beauty of women, no matter how beautiful a flower is, it will get boring after a long time.Let a man, especially a man with a brain, face a woman who can't be called "Hui Zhi Lan Xin" every day. She can't understand his thoughts, his tastes, his thoughts and sorrows at all. I'm afraid at this time, men I can't help but sigh at Yue Chang, expressing the emotion of "there are few bosom friends, who will listen to the broken strings".

In short, for women in their twenties, having talent is very important. The appearance before the age of 30 is born, and the appearance after the age of 30 is acquired.Everything you have experienced will be written on your face without reservation.A little bit of wisdom every day, you will be like wine, the longer and more mellow.Beauty is perishable, but talent can last forever.

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Virtue and talent are more attractive than beauty.When beauty can be reproduced in large quantities, talent becomes even more precious.

(End of this chapter)