We are all the same in the pursuit of our dreams

Chapter 19 The best time has just begun (1)
When we are seventeen or eighteen, we are confused and have no direction in life.
It was the most beautiful time in my life but I didn't know it.

After experiencing all kinds, the years let us grow,

Between gains and losses, you can understand what is the most important and what you want to do most.

The good times are just beginning when you meet your best self.

Do what you like with the people you like
The world is so big, you have to meet someone you like and find something you like to do, then life is meaningful.The best life I understand is doing what I like with the people I like.

I don't know if you have such a friend around you, who is keen on nicknames for others, such as "Ken Actor".Almost all the friends around him have been nicknamed by him, and he usually calls them by their nicknames without hesitation when getting along with them. You can imagine a girl with an enchanting appearance and a sexy figure being yelled "security guard" in the street by him. brother" scene?
If I called him "Nickname King", he would not be convinced and said, "Don't you call your glamorous and noble President Li Miss Li?" I was sweating profusely.

The reason why he is called actor Ken is because he plays whoever he looks like, and he can enter the play immediately without using the stage or props.Everyone around him may become the object of his interpretation, so you must be cautious when making friends with him, maybe he will show your embarrassing stories vividly to others next time.

If the person involved is present when he is performing, try to stop him, "Okay, don't act too exaggerated, enough is enough." He will reply proudly: "Am I acting?" We immediately kneel down, the actor's The highest state is the unity of actors and actresses, and the actor is willing to do it.

The most enviable thing about actor Ken is not his superb acting skills, but that at the age of 20, he has realized his dream of love and career at the same time. In layman's terms, when he found his favorite career, his love also blossomed. up.

The actor Ken went to the UK to study for graduate school after finishing university in China. At first, he majored in international conflict and cooperation.He chose this major because his father expected him to be a superman who could save the earth and maintain world peace in the future, not out of his original intention.After studying such a high-level major, actor Ken felt that he should study another degree in finance, so that he would have more choices in the future.So he chose to study human resources management in the UK.

After completing his master's degree in the UK, he spent a period of time to settle down, and dreamed of creating an excellent brand full of vitality and wisdom after returning to China.However, what this brand should focus on, he has not yet found the direction.

The realization of dreams often requires a little opportunity and luck. The opportunity is hidden in the subtleties of life, and luck sometimes comes quietly in an unexpected way.

One late night in 2010, actor Ken took a train from Stirling, England to a city on the North Sea coast of England for vacation.When he checked into the hotel, he realized that he had taken the wrong suitcase.His suitcase should have had an airline tag with his name on it, but the similar suitcase in his hand was missing that tag.

At that time, he was at a low point in his life, his relationship with his parents was tense, and his relationship with his lover was not going well, and he was very depressed.The loss of the suitcase instantly made him lose his sense of security and aggravated his bad mood.The negative psychology brought about by everything going wrong seems to throw him into a vortex of confusion and chaos, making him unable to distinguish the direction of progress.

For the next two days, he didn't go anywhere, and spent in a daze in the hotel.He was sitting on the bed in the hotel, looking at the scenery outside the window. There was a quiet path in the corner of the small garden. He was thinking, how should he go about his life now?He conceived several possibilities, but finally found helplessly: it seemed that there was a huge roadblock lying across every road.

Just when he didn't know what to do, God opened a window for him.

In the early morning of the fourth day when the suitcase was lost, the hotel attendant rang the doorbell of his room and told him the news: the train station staff found the suitcase he left on the train. According to the aviation label on the suitcase, the staff found it. His personal information was later contacted to the hotel.

A boulder hanging in the heart of the film emperor Ken finally fell to the ground.When he went to the train station to claim his suitcase, he opened it to check if there was anything missing. At this time, a middle-aged man came over and glanced at his suitcase, and saw that except for a small amount of clothes, the rest were all kinds of skin care products. products and cosmetics.The middle-aged man joked: "Sir, you should know that it is impossible to smuggle these things from here to China. For God's sake, maybe you can smuggle to the Netherlands." After the middle-aged man finished speaking, he handed the film king Ken gave a business card and said to him: "This is my farm. I can provide you with some free products. I hope you can recommend me to your Asian friends."

He took the business card, then dragged the suitcase and left.

After actor Ken returned to Sterling, holding the business card of Mr. Peter (Pete) in his hand, he thought over and over again, and finally he sent a text message to Peter: Thank you for your kindness, and I wish your farm business is prosperous.In this way, they have each other's contact information and become friends.

By chance, actor Ken opened the website on the back of his business card, and a variety of skin care products jumped in front of him, and he became very interested in these products.Pete generously sent him two boxes of products. After trying all the products, Ken was very excited. He had the urge to share these good products with more Chinese people.

He called Pete and said to him in an almost crazy tone: "Your product is very useful! I want to be your product's agent in China!"

Pete was naturally happy, since the first time he saw the actor Ken, he had been looking forward to these words from the actor Ken.The best way to cooperate is a win-win situation. Pete hopes to expand the sales of the products, and the actor Ken hopes to make this his career.

In order to have a deeper understanding of the product, the actor Ken made a special trip to visit Pete's farm.He lived there for a week, and after learning about everything, he became more determined to start a business.

So, he immediately called his parents and told them his ideas, hoping that they could support his venture capital.After his parents divorced, both of them had their own well-run businesses. His father's company produced excavator gear parts, and his mother had her own import and export trading company. They hope that the actor Ken will inherit the family business even if he starts a business, and don't dabble. The skin care industry that I have been in contact with.They criticized his immature thinking, saying that the skin care industry is highly competitive and it is difficult to create a brand new skin care brand in China.In the final analysis, they rejected the idea of ​​actor Ken and were unwilling to provide him with start-up capital.

Without venture capital, he had to leave disappointed.

When he left in Pete's car, he looked at the large expanse of lavender, and his heart was filled with soreness, tears almost bursting out of his eyes.That was the first time he deeply understood a word in his heart, dream.He found the most beautiful thing in this world, but he couldn't have it.

Pete jokingly said to him: "The future will be long, at least, you don't have to worry about skin care products in your life."

He had red eyes and forced a smile.

Pete gave him an idea, "Or, you find a partner or sponsor."

But in the heart of actor Ken, he firmly believes that with such a good product as a support, he can completely make this brand a good one.He has this ambition, and even secretly feels that this brand belongs to him alone.

After completing his master's degree, actor Ken returned to China.Soon after returning to China, the depression that had plagued him for a long time relapsed because he had suppressed his emotions for a long time.

He and Allen love each other deeply, but are strongly opposed by their parents.After the separation, the love is still there, and Alan's voice, smile, and figure fill all his memories every day.This time when he returned to China to see things and think about people, his longing became stronger and stronger, and his emotional breakdown was caused by love.

He accepted a friend's proposal to be treated in a mental hospital alone.During the treatment, he tried to adjust himself while taking medicine.At a certain moment, he suddenly understood that everything was in vain, because his medicine was on Allen.

In this world, we will pass by countless people in our lives, but there are very few people who are truly worthy of our love with all our strength.For him, Allen is a person who came to him from thousands of passers-by and took root in his life.

He didn't want to suppress his feelings for Allen anymore, he wanted to be with Allen, even if he had to fight against his parents.He felt that if he wanted to change his life, he had to start with his feelings.

The movie star Ken called his mother: "Mom, I seem to have lost my love." After saying that, he couldn't help crying.

Mother let out an "oh" and said after a while, "I see, it's okay, you find someone you like, as long as you like her, you don't need her to be rich, as long as she is a woman who treats you well, mother will... "

The actor Ken interrupted her, "Don't you understand, Mom? It's Allen!"

Time froze in an instant, and it took a long time for my mother to say: "Oh."

He choked up and said, "I love Allen, almost to death."

"Yes." Mother replied.

He could hear his mother's sobbing, and he tried to comfort her: "After I saw a pie chart of parents' emotional support for their children, 84% of them had a positive effect..."

My mother was anxious, "What time is it, and you still tell me the data."

"Because my mother seems to believe in data more than me." After the actor Ken finished speaking, he broke down in tears, and his mother also cried.

In the end, his request to his mother was: Please don't tell Dad, I don't want to trouble him.

Unexpectedly, the mother couldn't help but tell the father, so the next day, the actor Ken received a call from his father, and bombarded him violently. Afterwards, he never answered his father's phone call.

He has no other thoughts at the moment, he just wants to cure the disease as soon as possible, and then be with Allen.

Half a year later, the film king Ken fulfilled his previous promise, gave up everything, and came to Allen's hometown.

Here, actor Ken recalled his stranded dream again: he wanted to push Pete's products to the domestic market.

He told Aaron about this dream, and Aaron thought he was a little dreamy at first.After all, no one around me has worked in the skin care product industry and has no relevant experience. In addition, there are many types of skin care products on the market and the competition is fierce. It is so difficult to stand out!
The actor Ken understands Allen's concerns, but he also firmly believes that he can do well.The value of dreams lies in: no matter how many people obstruct you, no matter how many setbacks you encounter, even if no one in the world believes in you, dreams will always give you the courage and belief not to give up, as well as the determination and perseverance to persevere.

The film star Ken talked about his plan with Allen endlessly, and he was not even satisfied with just being an agent. He planned to acquire Pete's full line of products and raw materials.

Seeing his enthusiasm, Allen couldn't pour cold water on him, so he agreed to accompany him to England to learn more about the situation.

They flew to England day and night and visited Pete's farm, flower garden and factory together.After another visit, the film king Ken wanted to own all of this even more. However, the acquisition of Pete's farm, including technology and brand, required at least eight figures of funds, which was far beyond his budget.

Reality hit him again, and this time he was a little depressed.

While frustrated, actor Ken also discovered his own ambition: he didn't want to be the brand that Pete already had, because no matter how hard he tried and how well he would do it in the future, this brand would never be his.He wants to have his own brand!

With a limited budget, actor Ken thought of another method of cooperation. He purchased a batch of raw materials, technologies and formulas, and then produced, filled and marketed in China.But the brand must be his own new creation.

Pete had objections to this at first, but after seeing Ken's determination and perseverance, he finally agreed to Ken's proposal.

At this time, Allen also changed his previous blocking attitude, and instead tried his best to support the actor Ken.On the one hand, Allen also has a deeper understanding of the product, on the other hand, he is also very clear about the actor Ken's temper: once he decides to do something, he will stick to it.

So, on a moonlit night, they spent almost all their savings, signed a cooperation agreement with Pete, and obtained the most precious product formula.

In the next few days, the actor Ken took Alan to all the places he had traveled in England.

After returning to China, they flew non-stop to Guangdong to find manufacturers. After staying in Guangdong for nearly a month, they finally chose a manufacturer with strong scale and formal qualifications.However, when they handed over the raw material samples to the manufacturer, the manufacturer said that, except for the petals, these raw materials were all exported from China to the UK, such as tea tree oil, which is purchased in Guangxi by many world-renowned brands.

Hearing this, the film king Ken felt cheated, especially by Pete, whom he regarded as a friend, which made it hard for him to accept.

He made an overseas phone call with Pete to explain the situation. On the one hand, Pete expressed his apology, and on the other hand, he tried his best to state that the raw materials were obtained from middlemen, and he did not know about it.

Pete returned the money for all the raw materials of actor Ken, and actor Ken chose to believe him.With this misunderstanding resolved, they stood on the same front again.

In the end, actor Ken only used less than half of the budget, but bought better raw materials.In this way, he can control the pricing while ensuring the quality of the product.He has more confidence in the product.

How can we know that it is not a blessing if it is a blessing in disguise.Because of a misunderstanding, he created a more cost-effective product; because he lost a suitcase, he found a new direction in life.

The road of life is like this, sometimes it seems that there is no way to go, there are obstacles everywhere, but suddenly a door opens for you, as long as you have not given up, as long as you have the courage.

Today, King Movie King Ken's skin care product brand has been born for two years. It has won the sales champion of the entire network for many times, and has also gained a good reputation from customers and is quite well-known.He even pinned his hopes directly on the name of the brand, hoping that one day more and more people would like to use his products, and his brand would be as bright and radiant as the stars in the night sky.

I believe he can do it because of his hard work, his persistence, and his hard work.

Fortunately, as his career became more and more successful, his parents gradually changed their views on him, accepted his relationship with Allen, and gave them support and blessings.

Many times the rejection and obstruction of your parents is not because they deliberately confront you, but because they know that the resistance from the outside world will be greater, and they worry that you are not strong enough to resist.And what we have to do is not just verbal persuasion, but more importantly, let ourselves grow and let them know: we choose a path not only out of love, but also because we have the ability to bear it.

This is just like pursuing a dream. Not all love and yearning are called dreams. Some are illusory and unrealistic. Only those you put into action and work hard on the ground are your lifelong dreams. It guides you to live your dreams in the way you like. life.

I asked actor Ken, are you living the life you dreamed of?
The actor Ken said that he has actually reached a place even better than his previous dream.

The world is so big, you have to meet someone you like and find something you like to do, then life is meaningful.The best life I understand is doing what I like with the people I like.

Peace is luck, joy is blessing

We are busy running around every day. At first, we thought it was to prove our own value, but later we found that all we did was to make ourselves stronger and better able to care for the people around us.We have nothing else to ask for in life, only wish the people around us to be safe and happy.

When I learned that Miss Jing was about to leave Beijing to work in Shanghai, I was very surprised.After finishing her studies and returning to China, she came to Beijing to work hard, where she got married and started a business.Right now, how could she be willing to let her husband, Beijing, and the working environment she had worked hard for six years make up her mind to go to Shanghai?
Although I am slightly puzzled by this, I still believe that the choices she makes always have their own reasons.Because in my heart, she is the kind of girl who always knows exactly what she wants.

(End of this chapter)