The psychology of the aura that makes your heart strong

Chapter 13 Love Creates Miracles, Love’s Positive Energy, and Life’s Atmospheric Field

everyone lives by love
The reason for supporting everyone to live is that he found that everyone has love in their hearts.People in the world may think that they are living for their daily work, but in fact they are living for love.If there is no love in people's hearts, no one will be able to grow up, and human beings will not be able to continue.

Everyone lives because of love, and the narrow love only for oneself is the beginning of the "death" of the soul, while the love for human beings is the beginning of the "life" of the soul.

A professor of sociology in the United States took his students to conduct research in a black slum. One of the research topics was to predict the future of 200 black children in the slum.

The students all studied this topic with a very serious attitude. After continuous investigation and accurate statistics, the report was finally completed.But the results were frustrating, as the 200 children, with few exceptions, were unanimously identified as "good for nothing" and "do nothing".

After 40 years, the professor who proposed this research topic has long since passed away. One of his students found the research report from the archives. Driven by curiosity, he came to the investigation site and compared the investigation results with the facts. match.However, he was surprised to find that among the 200 children surveyed that year, except for 20 who had left here and disappeared, most of the other 180 children had made considerable achievements. athletes, and for what they have now, the grown-ups say they are grateful for a local elementary school teacher.

The investigators found the elementary school teacher and asked her what method she used to make these children achieve success.The elderly teacher just smiled and said softly, "Because I love these children."

Because of the love in his heart, this teacher can teach children who others think are hopeless to make contributions to society.

Tolstoy once said: "Only loving the person we like, this kind of love cannot be regarded as true love. True love is the love of the same God that exists in others' hearts and in our own hearts. Because of this This kind of love, we can not only love our family, love those dear people who also love us, but also love those who have done wrong things. When we love in this way, it will be better than loving only ourselves and also love Our people get greater joy."

In life, each of us should use the principle of caring to establish a perfect psychological early warning mechanism. Under this mechanism, everyone is creating equality and enjoying equality, exchanging sincerity for sincerity, and exchanging smiles for smiles.Once words and deeds have a tendency to deviate, the alarm bell of self-discipline will sound, reminding us to return to the normal line.Only those who love themselves can love others. In caring for themselves, learn to be kind to life and others.

It may be a little effort, but it can make the recipient go through the trough of life and regain confidence in life; a contemptuous look can cause harm or psychological burden.Helping others will benefit you as well.Everyone should establish a view of equality, a view of caring, and a view of sincerity at the highest level in their hearts.

Everyone's heart is a virgin land waiting to be developed. It should be developed with the philosophy of love, irrigated with the concept of benevolent people loving others, and blown with the spring breeze of friendship and mutual assistance until the flowers of human nature bloom everywhere.There are endless ways of caring - a few greetings before the sick bed, a greeting when you meet, an invitation when you have a meal, a sincere apology when you offend, active humility when you are in conflict, comfort when you are sad, and encouragement when you are frustrated.As long as we are willing, we can embody the act of caring in every detail.

no one can resist the power of love
Love is powerful because it is one of the secrets of success.Let love be the most powerful weapon, no one can resist its power.

Here is a true story that happened in America:
On a stormy night, an old couple walked into the lobby of a hotel, wanting to stay overnight.The waiter on the night shift said: "I'm very sorry, today's room has been fully occupied by the group that came to the meeting in the morning. On weekdays, I would send you to another hotel, but today, I can't imagine that you will be in the hotel again. In the wind and rain. How about you stay in my room, although it is not a luxurious suite, but it is still quite clean, because I am on duty today, I can rest in the office. "

The old couple graciously accepted the young man's sincere advice and apologized for the inconvenience caused.The next day the rain passed and the sky cleared. When the old gentleman checked out, the waiter from last night was still at the counter.The waiter still said kindly: "The room you stayed in yesterday was not a hotel room, so we won't charge you any money. I hope you and your wife slept soundly last night!"

The old man nodded and praised: "You are the employee that every hotel owner dreams of. Maybe one day I can help you build a hotel." A few years later, just when everyone forgot about it, the waiter suddenly Received a registered letter from New York.The letter described what happened that stormy night and invited him to visit New York.A letter of invitation and air tickets to and from New York were also attached to the letter.After arriving in Manhattan, New York, the waiter met the passenger of the year.Pointing to a gorgeous new building at the intersection, the old man said: "This is the hotel I built for you, I hope you will run it for me, is that okay?" The waiter was very surprised and stuttered: "Do you have any conditions? Why did you choose me? Who are you?" "My name is William Astor. I don't have any conditions. As I said, you are my dream employee."

This gorgeous hotel was later the world-famous Hilton Hotel. It was opened in 1931. It is a status symbol of New York's ultimate dignity, and it is also the first choice for high-level politicians from various countries to visit New York.

The waiter who took the job at the time was George Porter-the man who established the Hilton Hotel's century status.

What kind of attitude made this waiter change his destiny?Undoubtedly, he met a "gentleman", but if another waiter was on duty that night, would the result be the same?It was the waiter who dedicated his love that changed his destiny.Although it is an accidental event with chance, it contains inevitable factors.

During World War II, General Eisenhower, the Allied commander, drove back to the headquarters one day to attend an emergency military meeting.The weather was extremely cold, there was heavy snow in the air, and the snow on the ground was crushed into ice, making it very difficult for cars to drive.The car was driving carefully on the ice. Suddenly, he saw an old French couple on the side of the road, hunched over, looking very cold.He hurriedly ordered the translator around him to go forward and ask if he could help.The staff officer sitting in the car was very anxious, and hurriedly stopped and said: "Our meeting is about to start, should we hand them over to the local police?" Eisenhower heard this without any hesitation, and he firmly said: "No. I order you to get out of the car immediately to deal with this matter. If the local police come to help them, it is very likely that they will have frozen to death!" There was no choice but to get out of the car and ask what happened.It turned out that the old couple was planning to go to Paris to take refuge with their son, but because the car broke down, they couldn't go to the village or shop, and they didn't know what to do.So Eisenhower immediately invited the old couple into the car and made a special detour to Paris.After seeing off the old couple, they rushed to attend the emergency military meeting like lightning.

Although Eisenhower had no motive to do good deeds at all, his acts of kindness were rewarded unexpectedly.It turned out that several German Nazi snipers were ambushing on the road that Eisenhower must pass that day. If he hadn't changed his driving route because of his good deeds, it would be difficult for him to escape the catastrophe.If Eisenhower died in an ambush, the entire European history of World War II would likely be rewritten!
People who don't love don't achieve much.Those who are unwilling to contribute, those who cannot tolerate, those who are indifferent to others, and those who lack love are unlikely to get the support of others, and if they lose the support of others, then they will not be too far from failure.As much love as there is, there will be as much achievement.

A person with little talent and knowledge can succeed with love; on the contrary, if a person does not have love, even a person with great knowledge will eventually fail.

Only those who have love can have the love of others
During the Second World War, the German army once arrested a group of revolutionaries and held them in a special cell.The so-called special cell means that it is different from the cell where many people lived together in the past, and it is one for each person.In the specially-made cell, there is no opportunity to talk to others, and there is no sunlight. In this dark and damp small room, we do such a mechanical, monotonous and repetitive thing as weaving baskets every day.As a result, after a few months, several people became haggard, depressed, mentally ill, and some even died.After four years, only one person came out alive and healthy.What magic weapon did he rely on?He loves knitting.He finds a way to weave a new pattern every day, anyway, he is going to jail, and instead of accepting it painfully, he should embrace it happily!He deliberately found the joy of weaving, not only came out healthy, but also became a famous weaver.

The emotion of love is the source of all noble emotions.Think about it, how much love do we have?How much love do we have for flowers and plants, friends around us, relatives, lovers, and work?Love is the source of strength for us to love mankind and our motherland.A person without love is a person with no promise, a person with no future.Love is priceless, no matter what you do, you must have love.Only love can enjoy the true feelings in the world, and only love can make you feel the greatness of human beings.Love is like sunshine, it can melt any iceberg; love is like honey, it can make a bitter heart taste sweet.

Love is the root of kindness.Some people say that people should not be too kind. If you are kind, you will be bullied and suffer.In fact, only those who are really kind and caring can have the love of others and get help from others. We live in a group, and it is very difficult for anyone to leave the team to succeed.Someone once made statistics on the Nobel Prize winners, saying that some of the early Nobel Prize winners fought alone and won the Nobel Prize with the efforts of individuals or a few people. There are almost no Bell Prize winners alone, and now it is usually a group, hundreds of people, or even more people who tackle the same topic.Of course, the final winner is one of the representatives.We live in an interdependent and interconnected society.Going to the society, we will know: "One fence has three stakes, and one hero has three gangs." Without good interpersonal relationships and popularity, it will be difficult for you to truly achieve the glory of life.Psychology divides people into two categories, one is called popularity, this kind of person is liked by everyone, and everyone is willing to help him; the other is called dislike, and people hate him very much.I believe that we all don't want to be disgusted, and we all want to be popular.A very important prerequisite for being popular is to have love.A caring person will be considerate of others, will be good at understanding others, will know how well others are warm, will extend a hand of friendship when others need help most, and will help others when they are most difficult.Therefore, learning to love, learning to love others, parents, and friends is an important factor for a successful life.Not only to love people, but also to love career and study.People who don't like to study, people who don't like to study, will not achieve results.

Love your study and work.For a person, work is the most important part of life. Not only food, clothing, housing, and transportation depend on work, but the realization of self-worth cannot be separated from work.

It is very important for us to learn to find happiness in work and study.If you don't have joy in your work and study, you don't have emotional pleasure.Many people have this feeling in life. When you solve a difficult problem, you will be very happy; when you write an article that you are very proud of, you will be very happy.Therefore, learning and doing business not only need love, but also find happiness in love.A person who is too lazy to study and work, and treats study and work as things imposed by the outside world, has neither love nor happiness to speak of.If you don't love your job, it's going to be hard to get results at work.

Sometimes very boring and boring things, as long as you discover its inner charm and inner beauty, you will feel that life is so beautiful, study and work are so joyful, not as painful as some people imagine .Learn to find happiness from daily study and work. Everyone finds a few reasons for themselves and finds ways to make themselves happy.Love is an important emotional factor for us to survive and lead a happy life.

learn to truly love someone
Love is not a feeling produced out of thin air, it is a natural fruit after people give and sacrifice, the more give and sacrifice, the deeper the love.When you pay a lot for love, even if you don't want to love your lover, you still can't stop.Love is hard to cover, it can be poured out with life.When you give a lot to your friends and colleagues, you will find that you are like a tree leaning together. The branches of each other grow closer and closer until they are intertwined. That kind of dedication can be infected with each other, and finally become an interaction. , an energy conversion.When you pay a lot for your work, you can't help but love it. If you love it, you will pay more for it. In this beautiful cycle, you will continue to improve and improve, and your life will become fulfilled.Therefore, a person who is stingy in giving must not have much love.

A poet and his girlfriend were out for a walk, and they saw an old woman begging by the side of the road, which was very pitiful.The girlfriend wanted to give her some money, and the poet said to his girlfriend, "something should be given to her soul, not a little bit of charity." The girlfriend was puzzled.

The next day, when the poet went out for a walk, he took a rose in his hand.When he came to the old woman, he bent down and gave the flowers to the old woman with both hands.The old woman stood up, stretched out her hands, and held the poet's hand, she was so excited that she couldn't speak for a long time.In the next few days, when the poet and his girlfriend went out for a walk, they did not see the old woman again.Later, the old woman came back again, and she sat there begging as before.

The poet and his girlfriend came to her again, and she gave them an elaborate little gift.

The girlfriend asked: "Why didn't she come a few days ago?" The poet replied earnestly: "She wants to repay her love."

Where is the rose that the poet gave to the old woman? It is clearly a fiery love. It is this love that makes the old woman feel the warmth of the world, because the poet's love makes her feel more fulfilled in life.So, she also crafted a gift to return her love to the poet.

Love is not being loved, nor is it waiting, love is to give yourself first, and then you can get something in return.

(1) Love needs expression.We want to get along with our lovers in order to get the collision of heart and heart, the blending of love and emotion, and the communication of thought and thought.We have love in our hearts, we are experiencing or will experience love, we are excited by love, we are burned by love, we are troubled by love, and undoubtedly our love needs to be spoken.In love, a simple "I love you" is worth a thousand sweet words.If you can’t speak, write or draw, and the most important thing is to let the other party know.At the same time, it is also necessary to use tokens to express love. The expression of love is not only a verbal confession, but also actions.We must not only learn to express love, but also be good at discovering and understanding other people's expressions of love in different ways.

(2) Love in moderation.Maternal love is the most selfless, but if the mother is too pampered or too strict with the children, the mother will become a mold for the growth of the children, making their characters too weak or too stubborn, which will have a negative impact on their future social survival and life. It is very disadvantageous.The same is true of a woman's love for her husband. If it is too loose, it will spoil the man; if it is held too tightly, it will make the man too tired.Pigeons are released every day and come back every day. Once the birds are locked in cages, they will never come back.If you love, you should keep a certain scale between love and love. Love is the star in the dark night, and our life is bright and long-lasting because of it.

(3) Love needs to come out of the heaviness.All love may have a heavy side. For love, we must get out of the heavy side of love. For love, we need to give up love. Otherwise, love will become a burden and affect our pursuit of ideals.

(4) Love is the testimony of life.Only love is the witness of life, and only the language of love is the most beautiful language in life.Loved, this is the whole meaning of life, and it is precisely because of loved that you will win love, and ignite the love of others with your own love, and life will be meaningful.

(5) Love is a commitment, a warm and kind commitment.It is so abstract and so concrete that it cannot be isolated—to love someone is to love everyone.Only by loving everyone, love will not be selfish, narrow-minded, and domineering, and will not easily wither like dehydrated flowers, and can receive more permanent and universal blessings.To learn to truly love someone is to learn to love everything around you and everything in the world.

Love is giving, don't expect anything in return

Love is romantic?Love is passion?love is crazy?Love is fresh?Love is stimulation?If you think about it carefully, love is a concern, and love is a responsibility.Love is a piece of tea in the fragrant tea, but it is faintly fragrant.Love is a note in a soul-stirring music, played softly and beautifully.Love is the warmth you feel inadvertently. You don't feel it is love when you experience it, but you know it is love when you lose it.

There is a wife whose husband is a well-known entrepreneur, and he is obedient to her. From the perspective of ordinary people, she is very happy.The abundance of material life makes her look like a happy person in happiness.But she still felt very bitter, and when she saw her friend, she cried very sadly.A friend asked her, "What are you dissatisfied with?"

She said: "You don't know, he has become cold recently, which makes me painful and dissatisfied." The friend advised her: "How much relationship do you need to be satisfied? Don't force it too much. Feelings are like a ball. The harder you hit , the higher it jumps, the farther it jumps."

"So what am I going to do?" she asked.

The friend replied: "Relax the scale, the scope of your love is too narrow, as if you treat your feelings as a rope, binding (controlling) him to keep you at a distance, that's why you are so painful. You should treat it with soft feelings, don't put Possessiveness and power are added to feelings. Otherwise, although your husband is compliant and loving to you on the surface, but he is annoying and fearful in his heart, it is no wonder that he will cheat on you. If you can expand your love to If you love the person he loves, he will definitely thank you, and at the same time cherish this feeling even more, because the love you give him is so free. Human feelings are like a melting pot, as long as you give him more magnanimous love, satisfy His feelings, no matter how cold and hard his heart is, will be melted..."

Indeed, love is a kind of giving that should not be considered in return, rather than asking for it all the time.If you want to get the same return for your efforts, you may end up with a bitter fruit, because the definitions of return are not consistent with each other.To love someone is to give unconditionally. Even if you end up with scars in the end, you should not regret it. This is the truest expression of love, otherwise, at best, it can only be regarded as liking.

Love is when two people stay together, and love is when two people stay together. People who love each other will feel that everything is sweet.Every morning when you wake up, you can see your lover by your side, looking at the busy figure of your lover; you can count the stars in the sky with your lover under the starlight on a starry night, and describe the friendship in your heart in detail. It is a kind of happiness.Although very simple, but very real.Love is when your lover gives you a glass of boiling water, a few pills, and caring eyes when you are sick, so that you will heal yourself without medicine.

Love is to give and bear each other as hard as possible, they are meticulous and omnipotent.When you find that you have been able to tolerate everything about your lover, it means that you already know how to love.Of course, tolerance does not mean connivance.Tolerance is to embrace love with heart, and indulgence can only make love fall into a place of eternal doom.Love is not just getting along in peace, there will be bumps and noises in the days of love, and if we can see each other's shortcomings in these noises, and then continue to repair the loopholes in love, we will be able to persist until the end.

Love is a kind of concern. When you travel far away, under the bright moon in front of the window in a foreign land, you will miss your lover who is far away, and you will silently pray for him: "I hope you will live a long time, and we will share the beauty together." Love is universal A wandering person finds a lover in a strange city who can entrust his whole life, and then stops in this city and takes root... Love is something to rely on.

No amount of words can explain love, so let us attribute love to a cup of hot coffee that your lover hands you on a cold winter night, and the kind of smile that looks at each other when the flowers bloom in spring, Comfortable and self-satisfied.

Love is a mixture of sweet and bitter, just like the colorful colors are made of red, yellow and blue.From another point of view, love is a perishable thing, it can hardly stand the test of time and space.Most of the downcasts on the road of love will tell you an indisputable fact: Never use time or space to test your love at will.

To love someone, you have to understand and explain; you have to apologize and thank you; you have to admit your mistakes and you have to correct them; you have to be considerate and considerate; you have to accept, not endure; Rather than domination; sympathy, not questioning; pouring out, not accusation; unforgettable, not forgetting; communicating with each other, not explaining everything; silently praying for each other, rather than asking each other in every possible way; romantic, But don't waste it; you can hold hands anytime, but don't break up casually.If you do it all, even if you no longer love someone, you will only have nostalgia, not hatred.

A loving person can infect those around him

Those who truly understand the suffering of others and do good deeds for others will be loved by others and feel the meaning of life.Finding meaning in life, everyone can do amazing things.

A 17-year-old boy named George committed suicide by throwing himself into the sea and was rescued by the police.He is a half-American and Japanese, cynical.An old lady went to the police station and asked to meet George, and the police allowed her to talk to George.

"Child," the old lady whispered to George. George turned his head away like a stone, ignoring him completely. The old lady said in a serene and soft tone, "Son, do you know that you were born to do something for this world except Something no one but you can do?"

She repeated it several times, but the boy suddenly turned around and said, "You mean a black man like me? A child who doesn't even have parents?" The old lady replied calmly, "Yes! It's because of your skin color You are black, because you have no parents, so you can do some amazing things." The boy sneered, "Hmph, of course! Do you think I will believe this?"

"Come with me, and I'll let you see for yourself," said the old lady.She took him back to the small tea room and asked him to do odd jobs in the tea garden.Although life is very poor, she loves and cares for the boy.

Living in a small tea room, George gradually became calm.The old lady gave him some fast-growing radish seeds, and in ten days the radishes sprouted leaves, and George whistled triumphantly.He also made a flute out of bamboo, and entertained himself. The old lady praised: "No one has played the flute for me except you, George, it sounds so good!"

The boy gradually became angry, and the old lady sent him to high school to study.During the four years of studying, he continued to grow vegetables in the tea garden and also helped the old lady with odd jobs.After graduating from high school, George worked on the subway construction site during the day and studied in the evening department of the university at night.After graduation, he taught in a school for the blind, caring for those blind students.

"Now, I have believed that there are things that only I can do that no one else can do." George said to the old lady.

"You see, right?" said the old lady, "if you were not dark, if you were not an orphan, you might not be able to understand the suffering of blind children. Only those who truly understand the pain of others can do good things for others with all their heart. You At the age of 17, all you need is someone to love you. Because no one loves you, so you want to die at that time, don’t you? You shout loudly, saying that what you want is impossible to get, it doesn’t exist at all-but then, you yourself But with love."

George nodded convincingly.The old lady was still thinking, and continued: "Try to cherish your own happiness. When you see the radiance of gratitude from the faces of the people you help, at that time, even dying people like us will feel the meaning of living."

Love changes everything.Love brings warmth and happiness to relatives, friends, family, society and human beings.Love is an eternal theme.We can't think that there is no love in this world because we can't see evil, just like we can't see the reef and hate the ocean, and we can't see death and deny life.A caring person not only lives a fulfilling and happy life, but also infects others.If we are loving, we are not rich, high status, famous, or enviable property, but spiritually we are angels.

After leaving the body, the soul cannot exist, so no matter how powerful the mind is, it is impossible to exist without the cooperation of the body.Although we have no way to detect how strong our aura is, there is no doubt about one thing: the healthier your body is, the more energy you will have, the farther your aura will spread, and the more your aura will spread. The more motivated you are, the more energy you have to do what you do and want to do.Likewise, the stronger your aura is, the less you will be disturbed by unfriendly energies from the outside world.

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