How to deal with bosses and employees

Chapter 21 How to be a Competent and Good Employee - Career Development and Career (4)

[-]. Don't be so ambitious, you should start from the grassroots in a down-to-earth manner
1. Correctly evaluate yourself, if you are not a genius, you must start from the bottom
The most difficult thing for a person to see clearly is himself, and the most difficult thing to evaluate is also himself.Many people tend to evaluate themselves either too high or too low. Too low an evaluation can easily lead to depression and overpessimism;In particular, young people, affected by the impetuous and competitive atmosphere in the society, are eager for success and have outstanding psychological performance.Some people think that they should be different from others because they graduated from a certain prestigious university; some people think that they are smart and talented in a certain area, so they should get something and so on.But the society is fair, if we do not succeed for the time being, it means that we still have a lot to improve, and we must know that opportunities are not completely accidental.Most of us are ordinary people, so we should start from the first step honestly, because as long as we are not geniuses, we must start from the lowest level.

2. Evaluate others correctly, success is not accidental
When we look at the roads that many successful people have traveled, we know that most successful people have worked hard for many years before they get flowers and applause. Their success is obtained through little accumulation and years of tempering. He can stand above ten thousand people from the very beginning.Most of them start from the most ordinary jobs, work hard, step by step, and achieve success after going through a lot of trials and tests.The examples are too numerous to list.Some people think that successful people are promoted because of the favor of a certain opportunity, or even come to prominence by relying on crooked ways. This kind of view is terrible.Because often from the perspective of the audience, it is difficult to see the ten years of hard work that successful people have practiced off stage, and only see their wonderful 3 minutes on stage.

3. Correctly evaluate the society, the social environment is increasingly intolerant of those who get rich overnight

Today's society can be said to be very different from the society of decades ago.In the 90s and [-]s, shortly after the reform and opening up, people didn’t need any culture, and they didn’t have to worry too much about the law. As long as they were a little more courageous, they could try to do it against the policy, and many people survived like this.It is very possible to make a fortune following the wave of reform, and it is possible to get rich if you take risks with policies.Of course, countless adventurers fell in the process.But now the social environment has changed, the market economy is becoming more and more mature, the legal system is becoming more and more sound, and the social environment is becoming more and more standardized. Only those who are diligent and conscientious can be more and more favored by the society.

Everyone desires to be successful and to feel powerful.Nowadays, many young people, especially some college graduates, always hope to find a job with a higher starting point as soon as possible. Firstly, it shows that they have a strong sense of professionalism, and they are eager to become famous as soon as possible to repay their families; It's so ambitious and unrealistic.You must know that the successful people we often see develop step by step.Li Ka-shing is recognized as a Chinese business leader, but he started out as an ordinary salesman; Wang Junyao, the former president of Junyao Group, polished shoes for others when he first entered the society; Huang Guangyu, the boss of Gome, just came to Beijing at the age of 17 At that time, he was doing odd jobs for his brother; Wu Shihong started as an ordinary employee, and finally became the vice president of a large listed company.And beside us, there are countless unknown people who started from the grassroots step by step, and finally realized the ideal of career development through their own efforts and long-term accumulation.These are role models that our younger generation should learn from.

The more ambitious you are, the easier it is to be isolated by illusory dreams. Only with lofty career ideals in mind, proceed from reality, and move forward step by step, can you finally realize your ideals.When looking for a job and doing a job, you must be realistic and down-to-earth, and you must know that haste makes waste.Training and accumulation are compulsory courses for young people, otherwise, even if they pass this pass by luck, they will stumble in a higher position in the future, and the price will be even greater.

Case story:

In 2006, there was a private pharmaceutical company with an annual output value of 10 billion yuan in Jiangxi. There was a 35-year-old executive at the vice president level, Mr. Chen, who was also a director of the board of directors who owned shares of nearly [-] million yuan in the company.But more than ten years ago, like the vast majority of young people in the society, he stepped into this strange and seductive society shortly after graduating from university. It can be said that he knew nothing or even knew nothing at that time.He also joined this little-known small company by accident. At the beginning, he ran the business like other employees with no academic qualifications and diplomas. He kept visiting, loading, delivering, unloading, and billing and settlement. , everything is done by myself, and I always go out early in the morning every day, and I don’t return to the company until late at night. I lie in bed and summarize the gains and losses of the day and the lessons learned. It can be said that I worked as a salesman in Beijing for several years. He suffered a lot, but it also laid a solid foundation for him to take on a higher leadership position in the future.

After the company returned to Jiangxi to acquire several pharmaceutical companies, the company has a larger development platform and more career development opportunities. Mr. Chen has gradually been promoted because of his diligent and down-to-earth work style. Business director, then regional manager to branch general manager and then promoted to vice president of the group company. It took more than ten years to complete the leap from a penniless ordinary wage earner to a billionaire vice president of the group company.

Mr. Chen has experienced many unforgettable things along the way, but what he is most impressed by now when he is sitting in a Mercedes-Benz car is the experience when he first joined the company as an ordinary employee, so no matter what position he takes up later, he All require their subordinates to be down-to-earth and diligent in doing things, not to be too ambitious, and to be humble and prudent.Therefore, he has trained a large number of excellent middle-level cadres and employees for the development of the entire group company, and now he is still steadily continuing his career and ideals.

Everyone will have their own beautiful ideals, but the realization of ideals is not achieved overnight.Everyone has the right to pursue ideals, but the stories of ideals becoming reality always happen to people who are down-to-earth and step forward, which makes us try our best to correct our unrealistic ideas.I believe we are all aware of the reason why high-rise buildings rise from the ground. Without the determination and courage to start from the grassroots, we can only be abandoned by the cruel reality, and our beautiful ideals will only be smashed to pieces by our own naive behaviors that are so ambitious.

Comments: It is very rare to have lofty ideals and ambitions, and it is understandable to envy the eyes of success.It is sad to be a person without ideals, but it is even more tragic to be unable to achieve ideal goals because of unrealistic ideas to pursue dreams.Since you have a dream in life, then use your best capital - time to realize it, because time is the best way to exchange space.Of course, we should do it in conjunction with our own goals at work.First, it is best to find a job that suits your own development when choosing a job, so that it is possible to make your ideal a reality.Second, if there is a job that you are willing to do, but the ideal is not very clear, we might as well revise our goals in time to make the work more meaningful.Third, decompose the ideal goal, work hard and as soon as possible to achieve the closest goal, approach step by step, find happiness and confidence in work, cultivate yourself, exercise yourself and finally achieve yourself.

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