Aura Compilation Manual

Chapter 15 Part3 The core of the aura: emotional intelligence determines the pattern (3)
Smart people know how to make use of their strengths and avoid weaknesses, give full play to their strengths and maximize these strengths.Don't believe it?Please take a look at the most successful people who are famous all over the world. Each of them has spent their entire lives doing only one thing that is the most correct.Although they have this or that kind of shortcomings, they maximize their own advantages and use their own advantages to create a world brand.

Bill Gates can only study software, he created an unprecedented Microsoft empire;

Warren Buffett can only study stocks that can be held for a long time, and he has become the best stock speculator in the world.

And you want to do everything, but you can only live a mediocre life.

Martin, from Miami, USA, feels that he is falling into unprecedented distress. His problem is that his eloquence is too good, and his friends around him put on the hat of "slick tongue". The trust of few people.

"Is this guy telling the truth? He is always lying, which makes people unbelievable."

"This kid is so good at coaxing women, even the most experienced girls dare not play emotional games with him, because his mouth can talk deadly."

"Hey, have you guys ever heard Martin speak? Go talk to him and he'll show you what a gifted speaker is. He should be writing science fiction, really!"

Even if you can only answer the phone, be the best telephone operator in the world.What's wrong with this?If this is a shortcoming, I think he should be very honored to have it and announce it to the world.I told Martin: "Then you will be the best salesman in the United States. Now they despise your eloquence, but they will applaud you then."

Distressed by virtue, Martin was the first person I ever met.Perhaps you have also had such troubles?There are enough flaws in this world. War, deceit, conspiracy, and the ubiquitous incomplete aura make kind and positive people pay the bill for those who make countless mistakes every day!So why don't we cherish our only advantages?Why are you still struggling with a personality that seems to be flawed?
If you look back on the past for today, you will find that your shortcomings are unforgivable, and you will miss many opportunities for future success.The important thing is always the advantages, this is part of our positive aura, it is the strength to support you forward.When you can only focus on your own shortcomings, you lose your long-term perspective and don't know what else you can do next.

The rule of emotional intelligence about maximizing merit is: starting today, you have to learn to see how your current behavior will potentially affect your future, and judge whether it is positive or negative.It would be great if you can recognize your own flaws, and you can take action on them early on to overcome their ill effects.But the most important thing is that you have to overcome your inner naivety, because there are some flaws that we can never make up for, and we can only prevent ourselves from making big mistakes by maximizing our advantages as much as possible.Please highlight the super aura of Chicagoans who are enough to fascinate you who have seen big scenes, not the other side that makes people sigh.

Now, discover your strengths

If you were a prospective newcomer in the workplace, what advantages would you find yourself in?Many people always shake their heads at me when they hear this question, saying that he has nothing and is an idiot.But I told him that even if he is like a blank slate, his advantages are huge, even those experienced veterans who have both sides are incomparable.

★You have a lot of free time at your disposal.

Since you have nothing, you have neither responsibilities nor burdens to speak of, so time is plenty for you.This is the best period to fully forge your aura. You can selectively charge for the ideal design blueprint and have certain professional skills—at least the abilities that your competitors do not have.

For example, you can learn a foreign language, Chinese or Japanese, or a certain work-related skill.You may ask: "Why do I want to learn Chinese, do you want me to go to China or Japan now? That place is too foreign to me, I really don't want to go." Nothing is impossible, maybe one day you Suddenly, I found that I wanted to spend my next life in Shanghai, Beijing or Yokohama, where the best opportunities would be.Think about your infinitely possible future, and prepare yourself for it while you have time.

★Easy to accumulate experience.

Yes, your greatest strength is precisely that you have no experience.Don't be defeated by temporary laziness. If you can start right away, keep your eyes open, and distinguish the difference between Manhattan and Wall Street, then you will definitely find your own direction and start storing the first bucket of energy in your aura.

★You have the right to make mistakes and ask questions.

An experienced person certainly has an enviable aura, but at the same time, the cost of his mistakes will also increase.Successful people standing on the top of the mountain can hardly make any mistakes, just like Rogers, Soros, and Murdoch who have tens of billions of dollars in assets, their careless mistake may lead to uncountable losses.And you, the novice with a blank slate, the rookie who just stood at the foot of the hill and is ready to start, the gas field rookie and the wealth idiot who even the worst stockbrokers on Wall Street don’t want to look at you, every lesson you have learned is important. It will be an invaluable experience.

★You will not bear too much financial burden, and you don't have to bear more responsibilities such as family.

Therefore, you have greater freedom, and you can learn everything from scratch, and you don't have to be afraid of someone pointing and commenting.This is what many people desire.In this world, people with more responsibilities will be more unable to stretch their hands and feet. People who have achieved a little bit will become restrained and their aura will be severely contracted under the expectant eyes of everyone.Those who have wives and children, with heavy responsibilities on their shoulders, tend to become cautious.They would rather be a mediocre person and live a life in a daze than take even a small risk to take another step on the road of life.So, you have an advantage that they don't have.

★You have a lot of energy and high morale, as well as an extremely strong desire.

Because you are young, you can run a long distance and work continuously for a long time.You are so devoted to your work that you can even stay up all night.Obviously, the old fritters who have achieved a little success usually lack this kind of energy and enthusiasm.All they think about every day is to get off work at the right time and get paid on time. They don't want to do any extra work, don't want to bear any pressure, lack the enthusiasm for active work, and just want to complete tasks to support their families.You can beat them easily, as long as your aura is more positive than theirs, and your mentality is younger than theirs!
★You are a newborn calf not afraid of tigers, brave and fearless like Caesar.

Add the cunning of Augustus and you're even more complete.When you stand on stage, what many people dare not try is not absolutely impossible for you.A risk-taking spirit and vigor can help you to succeed in a better posture, just as the young Carnegie once did on this continent of the United States.

★The biggest advantage is that you are a blank sheet of paper, you can design your own blueprint now.

Please believe that nothing can limit you, no matter what ideals and ambitions you want to achieve.You can choose a career that you like.Your options are limitless and you are free to make your own decisions whenever you want.

All of these powerful facts and evidence tell you in awe that it doesn't matter if we have flaws or not, what matters is that you discover your strengths and acknowledge those inner weaknesses. The value of advantage, make full use of it.I suggest that you create a strengths log for yourself from today, write down the strengths that you can play every day on it, combine it with the things you want to do, and see if you can do your work better. In your world An aura nuclear explosion is brewing here.

◎Great good habits: sharing and gratitude

Michael is a passionate entrepreneur in the Manhattan neighborhood.In the first month of the company's establishment, he was in a great state, driving around in a new German luxury car, honking the horn frantically on the street, even the president of the White House could smell the triumphant smell of him driving around .

But in the third month, he was depressed and confused, and his company suddenly became an empty bird's nest, and the newly formed backbone team scattered in an instant.He was faced with a simple problem, but it had to do with a deeply ingrained mental habit, one of the hardest ailments in our human nature to get rid of.He didn't want to share in the profits, or his compensation plan was too harsh, which made employees unhappy.At this time, no one is interested in his genius idea anymore, and what people want to say most is only one sentence:

"Report to the boss, I want a raise."

Michael's eyes widened. He thought it was a great gift for him to distribute 15% of his profits as equity to his employees. He didn't expect these people to be so "greedy" to such an extent.He gritted his teeth and refused, so the above situation appeared.Rather than saying that the team resigned to him, it is better to say that this self-satisfied boss was collectively abandoned by his subordinates.

Why are some entrepreneurs as arbitrary as Alexander and William II?Michael's problem is not whether he has a blueprint, but that he lacks a little bit of win-win thinking when constructing his own kingdom.This greatly weakened his leadership aura, and it was difficult for him to find a loyal entrepreneurial partner and loyal subordinates.

The spirit of sharing is a manifestation of the culture of gratitude.Every outstanding successful person benefits from the powerful help of a team, so he must share his spiritual and material wealth with the team.If you make $[-] a month and your team members only make $[-], then you need to give another $[-] or even $[-] to your team selflessly.

This is not only a noble emotional intelligence, but also the presence and attractiveness of the atmosphere.This is how a leader with a strong aura is made, there is no special trick!You have to, not "could".Those small bankrupt bosses on Wall Street will tell you what happens when you take chances and become a miserly aristocrat.

In fact, we have long discovered that those successful people in the world know how to be grateful, just as President Lincoln said when he answered why he could become president: "Every time I get a job, I will do it with gratitude. , and redoubled my efforts. So I grew up step by step until today."

Not everyone can be Lincoln, but we can at least have a Lincoln mentality.Be grateful for life, and you will not lose your enthusiasm for life; be grateful for others, and you will be willing to share your success with them, and at the same time get more rewards from them.

Kennedy once said: "Ask not what your country has done for you, ask what you have done for your country." I borrowed it and told Michael: "Ask not what your team has done for you, ask what your team has done for you. What you can do for them yourself."

Are the positions of boss and employee reversed?Absolutely not.We believe that those who know how to share and be grateful are the happy people.Conversely, only such a person can truly have the character of a noble leader.

What you have to know about American charity culture
"Stock god" Buffett invested most of his personal property in charity.I'm sure many Asians or South Americans will find this incredible, but let me tell you, it doesn't have much impact on Americans.Because this is the aura of American society, the standard morality of Americans.Few millionaires spend recklessly for personal consumption, but mostly devote themselves to contributing to charity.In order to enter heaven smoothly after death, rather than "entering heaven is harder than going through the eye of a needle", they will definitely set up ambitions to engage in charity and public welfare undertakings during their lifetime.What is even more rare is that the almost astronomical huge donations in the United States each year mainly come from ordinary people (accounting for 85%).

Let me tell you with a sentence from "Time" magazine: "Beside every Bill Gates, there are millions of ordinary people standing."

At a time when many rich Asians are keen to transfer huge amounts of property to family heirs, the American media still promotes a "fool" truth as always: "If you leave a huge wealth to your children, let them even have a reason to get up early. If not, then we will kill them!"

The U.S. media also constantly warns people by publishing survey results that many young people spend a lot of money after inheriting their parents’ inheritance, and they often quickly become prodigal children who make the Chinese people laugh at them. Unhealthy mental conditions such as anxiety and decadence appeared, and his attitude towards life became extremely negative, which was completely opposite to his successful parents.

Please carefully appreciate this heartfelt statement from Buffett: "I hope my three children have enough money to do what they want to do, instead of having too much money and doing nothing."

It is worth noting that in the process of the rise and maintenance of the United States, Americans' sense of charity and the general dedication of society have played a role that cannot be ignored.To the relief of charitable organizations in the United States, as early as 2006, Americans provided charitable donations to an astonishing level, breaking through 2950 billion US dollars, creating the highest record in history.In the past 50 years, there has been a trend of increasing donations in American society.

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