When love meets psychology
Chapter 2 Constellation, Not Your Love Expert
Chapter 2 Constellation, Not Your Love Expert
Horoscopes are becoming more and more popular among young people, especially single men and women.They often use the horoscope to predict the future life, the other half in love, and even a happy married life.If you want to trust astrology, you must first understand astrology.And what I suggest you is, on the basis of understanding the constellation, don't believe blindly.
1.Constellation, how much do you really know
We can't imagine the popularity and credibility of constellations in the West.Just like most Chinese people need Zhouyi divination before doing big things, constellations are the compass of belief for Westerners.Especially the young people nowadays, when they encounter difficulties in love, they no longer go to church to pray, but look up the horoscope online, and this trend has swept the entire Asian continent.
First of all, for Orientals, if you want to believe in the magic of constellations, you must first understand it.There is such an objective environment for Westerners to advocate astrology, so what about Easterners?You firmly believe that the constellation can bring you good luck, and what is it based on?
Definition of zodiac sign
A constellation is a combination of groups of stars in the sky.In the three-dimensional universe, these stars actually have no actual relationship with each other, but they are located close to each other on the surface of the spherical shell of the celestial sphere.Since ancient times, human beings have been very interested in the arrangement and shape of stars, and naturally connected some stars with similar positions, which formed constellations.
Basically, forming stars into constellations is an arbitrary process, with different civilizations having different constellations of different stars.Each star belongs to a specific constellation, and most of these official constellations are based on the traditional constellations of ancient Greece handed down from the Middle Ages.
For the convenience of recognizing stars, human beings divide them into several regions according to the natural distribution of stars in the sky, with different sizes.Each region is called a constellation.Use lines to connect the bright stars in the same constellation to form various figures. According to their shapes, they are named after similar animals, utensils and mythological figures, such as Cygnus and Andromeda.The stars in each constellation are arranged in lowercase Greek letters in order of brightness, such as α Ursa Major, β Ursa Minor, etc.
origin of constellations
The constellation originated in Babylon, one of the four ancient civilizations. About 5000 years ago in the Mesopotamian plain, a group of Babylonian shepherds lived a nomadic life of living by water and grass.During their wandering life of shepherding, they still did not forget to observe the stars twinkling in the night sky every day. Over time, they could see regular moments and seasonal changes from the dynamics of the stars.When night comes, they look at the flock of sheep while observing various stars in the night sky, connect the brighter stars to each other, and associate various animals, utensils and even the gods they believe in from the connected shapes. , and named them one by one, creating the so-called constellations.
It is said that there are a total of more than 12 constellation names, such as the so-called 20 constellations of the zodiac, which had already been born at that time.Thereafter, the ancient Babylonians continued to divide the sky into regions and propose new constellations.However, constellations were of little use at that time, and even fewer were discovered and named.The 12 constellations on the zodiac were originally used to measure time, not to represent people's personality as they are now.Around 1000 BC, 30 constellations have been proposed.There are Tigris River and Euphrates River flowing from northwest to southeast, into the Persian Gulf, so it is also called "Two Rivers Basin" area.After the Mesopotamian culture spread to ancient Greece, it promoted the cultural development of ancient Greece.Ancient Greek astronomers supplemented and developed Babylonian constellations, and compiled the ancient Greek constellation table.In the 2nd century AD, the ancient Greek astronomer Ptolemy synthesized the astronomical achievements at that time, compiled 48 constellations, and connected the main bright stars in the constellations with imaginary lines, imagining them as images of animals or people, combined with mythology Stories give them appropriate names, and that's how the constellation got its name.Most of the 48 constellations in Greek mythology live in the northern sky and the north and south of the equator.After the Middle Ages, with the rise of capitalism in Europe, it was necessary to expand outward, and the navigation industry was greatly developed.Ships sail on the sea and need navigation at any time, and the stars are the best guiding lights.Among these stars, constellations have special shapes and are the easiest to observe. Therefore, constellations have received widespread attention. When Magellan sailed around the world in the 16th century, he not only used constellations for navigation and orientation, but also studied constellations. In 1922, the International Astronomical Union General Assembly decided to divide the sky into 88 constellations, whose names basically follow the names in history. In 1928, the International Astronomical Union officially announced the names of 88 constellations. These 88 constellations are divided into 3 sky areas, 29 in the northern hemisphere, 47 in the southern hemisphere, and 12 near the celestial equator and ecliptic.
zodiac signs in astrology
We spontaneously categorize ourselves into the following zodiac signs by our date of birth:
Aries: March 3st to April 21th
Taurus: April 4th to May 20th
Gemini: May 5st to June 21st
Cancer: June 6nd to July 22nd
Leo: July 7rd to August 23nd
Virgo: August 8rd ~ September 23nd
Libra: September 9rd to October 23rd
Scorpio: October 10th to November 24nd
Sagittarius: November 11rd ~ December 23st
Capricorn: December 12nd to January 22th
Aquarius: January 1th to February 20th
Pisces: February 2th to March 19th
Zodiac personality traits
Aries (March 3st to April 21th)
An energetic, energetic sign.Personality and love are mostly "on rampage", but there is no lethality in a pure personality, so don't worry too much.
Taurus (April 4th to May 20th)
The slow constellation.Everything is always considered before filtering, which is a late bloomer and a late bloomer of emotion.They have superhuman stability, and once they make a bet, they are sure to win.
Gemini (May 5st to June 21st)
A constellation that changes as fast as the wind.Gemini's dual personality often causes headaches for others and yourself. As for career and love, it should be good if you are willing to spend more time on management.
Cancer (June 6nd to July 22nd)
A sign that needs love and stability very much.Suspicious personalities make them seem insecure throughout their journey in life.But the Cancer with the brilliance of maternal love is willing to give for what he loves.
Leo (July 7rd to August 23nd)
Pay attention to the magnificent constellations.The lion is the king of the forest, so of course he likes to make friends, and some people can't stand loneliness.They are aggressive, and although careless, they are loyal and popular.
Virgo (August 8rd to September 23nd)
A bit picky and pursuing the perfect constellation.Individuals who lack confidence often subconsciously blame themselves for not being good enough.Although it is inevitable to feel heavy at times, but the natural advantage is that you can let go, and you won't just fall into a slump.
Libra (September 9rd to October 23rd)
The constellation who loves beauty and is afraid of emptiness.With his natural diplomatic skills, he can deal with all kinds of people, but sometimes he is too worried about everything, which makes him thankless.My brain often turns around, beware of neurasthenia.
Scorpio (October 10th to November 24nd)
Mysterious, treacherous, thought-provoking constellation.They can be persistent and destructive.In the kingdom of love, black and white are distinct, there are no gray areas.They are quite clear about their goals, and once established, they rush forward.
Sagittarius (November 11rd ~ December 23st)
Free, romantic and amorous constellation.Their unconstrained personality makes them very afraid of being bound, and their passionate nature also makes them seek prey everywhere.He has an innocent temperament, and he is not conscious of hurting others.
Capricorn (December 12nd to January 22th)
Rigorous and rigid, stable and mature constellation.Although they always give people the impression of being dull, dull people generally do not know how to play tricks.Whether in career or love, they also win with this special temperament.
Aquarius (January 1-February 20)
A constellation with advanced thinking and rational self-respect.The same unrestricted love, the same fraternity, but they are still different from Sagittarius.They pay more attention to the improvement of spiritual level and are good objects of inspiration.
Pisces (February 2th to March 19th)
A constellation that is sentimental, sensitive, dreamy, and fanciful.Naturally passionate, they often struggle with the word love, and their emotional fluctuations are also inseparable from love.They are weak by nature, they like to give, and they will not hurt others at will.
The Astrological Essence of the Zodiac
Aries (March 3st to April 21th)
The essence of Mars is masculine, and it is a fiery red celestial body in the sky. It gives people a sense of bravery, so it is named after Mars, the god of war.It symbolizes courage, strength, fighting spirit and masculine charm. It is in charge of personal drive and desire, and has a certain influence on the group.
Taurus (April 4th to May 20th)
The essence of Venus is feminine, and it is a golden and charming celestial body in the sky, so it is named after Venus, the god of love.It symbolizes love and beauty, dominates the charm of women and the ability to attract the opposite sex, and affects personal aesthetic vision, beauty, social skills and values.
Gemini (May 5st to June 21st)
Mercury moves very fast and is in charge of personal knowledge, communication, reasoning, and learning ability, resourcefulness in dealing with difficulties, ability to adapt to the environment, and personal awareness. It also represents the impact of technology and culture on daily life changes during times of change.
Cancer (June 6nd to July 22nd)
The moon has more influence on personal emotions than the sun.Among the astronomical phenomena, the moon changes the most, with periodic ups and downs, representing emotional changes, emotional ups and downs, and repeated occurrences of love and hate.The moon represents the inner world that dominates us, and is the astronomical manifestation of human nature and instinct.The moon rules Cancer, and the moon is also the guardian of motherhood. Lighting equipment is the lucky thing for Cancer.
Leo (July 7rd to August 23nd)
The sun is the most influential celestial body in the celestial phenomena. It is the center of all things in the world, and the ecliptic is the trajectory of the sun in the sky.The sun dominates our external world, it is the source of vitality, the power to overcome darkness and disease, and the refuge of all things in the world.
Virgo (August 8rd to September 23nd)
Mercury moves very fast and is in charge of personal knowledge, communication, reasoning, and learning ability, resourcefulness in dealing with difficulties, ability to adapt to the environment, and personal awareness. It also represents the impact of technology and culture on daily life changes during times of change.Mercury rules Gemini and Virgo.
Libra (September 9rd to October 23rd)
The essence of Venus is feminine, and it is a golden and charming celestial body in the sky, so it is named after Venus, the god of love.It symbolizes love and beauty, dominates the charm of women and the ability to attract the opposite sex, and affects personal aesthetic vision, beauty, social skills and values.
Scorpio (October 10th to November 24nd)
The essence of Mars is masculine, and it is a fiery red celestial body in the sky. It gives people a sense of bravery, so it is named after Mars, the god of war.It symbolizes courage, strength, fighting spirit and masculine charm. It is in charge of personal drive and desire, and has a certain influence on the group.Mars rules Aries and Scorpio.
Sagittarius (November 11rd ~ December 23st)
Jupiter is regarded as a lucky star in astrology, representing talent and spirituality.Because Jupiter passes through a constellation every year, it is also called the year star, which governs the fields that individuals pursue in different periods.It represents law and justice, governing good and evil, reward and punishment.Jupiter rules Sagittarius and Pisces.
Capricorn (December 12nd to January 22th)
Saturn is the only celestial body with a halo in Western astrology. It takes about 30 years to circle the ecliptic, representing the ups and downs of life, responsibilities and burdens, and the direction of tempering and growth.It is the least variable celestial body in traditional Western astrology, so it is also a symbol of stubbornness and patience. Saturn rules the real life of the individual.
Aquarius (January 1-February 20)
Saturn is the only celestial body with a halo in Western astrology. It takes about 30 years to circle the ecliptic, representing the ups and downs of life, responsibilities and burdens, and the direction of tempering and growth.It is the least variable celestial body in traditional Western astrology, so it is also a symbol of stubbornness and patience. Saturn rules the real life of the individual.
Pisces (February 2th to March 19th)
Jupiter is regarded as a lucky star in astrology, representing talent and spirituality.Because Jupiter passes through a constellation every year, it is also called the year star, which governs the fields that individuals pursue in different periods.It represents law and justice, governing good and evil, reward and punishment.Jupiter rules Sagittarius and Pisces.
Horoscopes are becoming more and more popular among young people, especially single men and women.They often use the horoscope to predict the future life, the other half in love, and even a happy married life.If you want to trust astrology, you must first understand astrology.And what I suggest you is, on the basis of understanding the constellation, don't blindly believe in the constellation.
2. The personality of "Gemini", the tenderness of "Cancer", the means of "Capricorn" - which one are you?
Gemini Personality
Gemini is a very individual constellation, often known as "changeable".The Hollywood actress Marilyn I admire very much.Monroe is a Gemini, and it is said that the younger sister of the big and small S sisters in Taiwan is also a Gemini.And quite coincidentally, I am also a Gemini myself.
The Gemini symbol represents a pair of twins.This is the only symbol in the zodiac that is completely human.On the one hand, it symbolizes that Gemini has human civilization and logical thinking. On the other hand, the pair of twins represent two completely different sides of human nature, and are often considered "half angel, half devil".The two sides of Gemini's human nature are often considered "strong and weak, dark and light, angel and demon".
Because of this, the personality description of Gemini is usually "contradictory" and "changeable".Positivity and negativity, movement and stillness, light and darkness, mutually ebb and flow, co-prosperity and coexistence.Most of them are versatile, such as Hollywood ever-changing actor Johnny.Depp.Some people display two or more distinct personalities, often elusive.Geminis are quite spiritual, active and sharp in mind, like to be busy and pursue new concepts and ways of doing things, they are eloquent, energetic, ambitious, popular, and have language talents.They often gain the upper hand with their versatile, all-encompassing charm.They flow like air, so you can only breathe them, feel them, but not hold them.
One of the most obvious characteristics of Gemini is in love.Most people think that Gemini is the most carefree and ruthless constellation among the twelve constellations, which even my client feels wronged.
My friend Xiao H asked me: "Hey, you still call yourself a love expert, and you are a cynical person about love."
I was surprised when I heard that, and asked back: "You have known me for so long, and you also know about my love experience, why are you accused of being cynical?"
She was stunned for a moment, and responded hastily: "Oh, because you are twins..."
She has been in a bad relationship recently, she talked about one failure and another, so she used the constellation as an example, and asked me if I could change the constellation.I laughed it off.Constellation is not a sacred object of love. Take Gemini as an example, it is actually a very affectionate and righteous constellation, but it is accused of being "ruthless".Gemini's life is destined to be bound by feelings and entangled with love for a lifetime.And the so-called "ruthless" is also wronged.As far as I am concerned, I consider myself to be peaceful and sincere, as my girlfriends and readers can attest.Gemini people are probably bigger and more naturalized, and women are also big women, who don't care about small things, especially things that pay attention to details such as relationships.And most of them are not tactful in life. Once love hits the rocks, they would rather hide and relieve themselves, which will inevitably leave people with an "indifferent" impression.Gemini is ruled by Mercury, known in mythology as the "messenger of God".It endows Gemini with quick thinking ability, changeable personality traits, and is recognized as "the most flexible and intelligent constellation" among the twelve constellations.
But we often say that no matter how powerful a woman is, she will turn into a "finger-finger" once she encounters love, and Gemini with changeable personalities is no exception.When Gemini meets true love, she looks different. She is not as casual as before, and she starts to become cautious.The outside world thinks that this is a constellation that regards humor as its life, and is naturally optimistic, but she will also be lonely, lonely, and become anxious about gains and losses-because she doesn't want to miss, let alone lose her only true love.In the minds of Gemini, true love is the only one, not a certain type, but a certain person.When Gemini is really in love, her loyalty and infatuation are unmatched by the other 11 constellations.Especially Gemini girls, they are not the objects that men casually play with, and they themselves are not masters in love!
Tenderness of Cancer
Cancer is a constellation that is very good at exuding maternal brilliance, and it is a constellation exclusively for women.
The ruler of Cancer is the moon, which represents the inner world that dominates us, and is the astronomical manifestation of human nature and instinct.At the same time, the moon is also the guardian of motherhood.
Cancer is considered to be "the most emotional, the most considerate, the most at home, the most peace-loving, the most infatuated, the most shy, the most traditional, the most humane, the most satisfying, the most kind, and the most affectionate among the twelve signs. Single-minded, the most family-oriented, and the least pushy” constellation.Its tenderness and femininity are evident at a glance.
Cancer people are devoted to their family. Whether as a partner or a relative, this constellation will exude a unique brilliance.As far as Cancer girls are concerned, they are "girls" who are always young in heart and often have hazy consciousness deep in their thoughts.She is very in love, but often does not know who is really intoxicated by her.When people trust her, she will be full of warmth, humor and poetry, but her sensitive nerves will easily get out of control, and she will accumulate dissatisfaction and resentment silently.Cancer women always like to miss the heartfelt things in the past - childhood or failed marriage... She likes clear and deep soft music, appreciates simple and smooth art, pursues deep and graceful ideals... She often thinks of herself Reflect and dissect because she feels like she doesn't know much about herself.She needs tranquility, harmony and security, longs for a pleasant living environment that can trigger imagination, and likes to turn her residence into a sanctuary for edification.
In short, this is a very romantic and ideal female constellation.
Cancer is an animal with a shell. In Cancer's love, they have an extremely hard shell and a heart that is hard to touch.But when they love, they love to the end of eternity.They regard love as everything.
A Cancerian lover has an instinctive, caring feeling, and will become obsessed with the things he loves, relying on this to guide all his actions.Their love attitudes are generally very traditional and family-oriented.Few people are as emotionally devoted as a Cancerian, but this kind of love can also feel suffocating.If a Cancer feels insecure in a relationship, they can become very harsh, or use their silence to express that they are hurt, or verbally tell you what is wrong and why it is wrong...
A reader friend of mine wrote to me and complained: "My husband is a Cancer. Before we got married, I thought I knew him well, but after we got married, I found that he was not good at talking about love. The relationship between the two of them became very monotonous and reserved. The romance and long-lasting feeling of being in love."
For male Cancers, they like to follow a proper rule and steps to express love, and finally fall in love and make love last.The female Cancer, on the contrary, no matter how strong her thoughts and feelings are, she is always waiting for the other party to take the initiative to show love.Coincidentally, this reader friend of mine is also a Cancer.When two Cancer men and women get married, they think that the same zodiac sign will allow them to get to know each other deeply, but they don’t know that the same zodiac sign also has personality and blood types. If you trust it, then other influencing factors should also be well understood.
First of all, it is unwise to talk about the way of getting along in love without mutual understanding, trust and care.You can try to get acquainted from the side with the aid of the horoscope, but you can't kill him with a stick. Use this as an excuse to think that your husband is cute before marriage, but loveless after marriage.This is not a conclusion drawn from a constellation.
"Before I got married, I thought he was very careful, gentle, and reliable. But after getting married, all the advantages of Cancer have turned into disadvantages. He is unsmiling, silent, and dull. Sometimes it is really annoying."
Cancer's shell prompts them not to give too quickly or too much at once in love.I would like to congratulate this reader friend for finding a good husband. Not being good at words does not mean not loving deeply. A man has the tolerance and responsibility of a man, especially after getting married.You have to believe in your love. Since you are married to him, it proves that it has been tested by you.If you rely on the zodiac sign as always, then Ok, the claws of the Cancer will allow them to firmly clamp the person they love, making a love unbreakable.And their behavior is often dominated by the deepest emotions in their hearts. Even if they don't say it, they will retain a unique position in their hearts.What is there to worry about?
Capricorn means
To say that Capricorns play tricks depends on what role Capricorns play in love. "Capricorn is the best lover", this legend has been circulated for a long time, Capricorn people have a skeptical attitude towards many things, and it is always difficult to believe in one thing, but when it comes to love, they belong to the slow-heating type People who love you will never give up their hearts easily.
When it comes to the "means" of Capricorns, it is because most of them are very boring.It looks very cold on the surface, but the passion in the heart is like a fire, which belongs to the two sides of duplicity.The "badness" of Capricorn is comparable to all the constellations of the twelve constellations. Maybe they don't believe it, but with the accumulation of time, Capricorns will gradually become "bad".This is actually a way of self-protection. They are afraid of being hurt in their hearts, and they are always on guard against others.
Capricorn has a classic image, which is a sheep fish.This symbol is a good illustration of Capricorn's good adaptability: shuttle land and sea, conquer all kinds of difficulties of mind and body, they are all good at it.And love is definitely a difficult and great cause for Capricorn.
Emotions are the field that Capricorn, a seemingly omnipotent constellation, is least good at. They can hardly comprehend the inexplicable feelings of their own emotions. They don't know what effective methods and specific steps can be taken to "regulate" their emotions.Capricorns seem to be very indifferent, calculating and self-repressing on the surface, but once they find someone worthy of love, they will treat their lover with the same fighting spirit as they treat their life and career, and they will be brave in dedication.
I have met many Capricorn women, and most of them give me the impression that they are calm and indifferent in appearance, with a natural sense of distance.Their hearts will only be opened by the feeling of "drinking wine with friends, singing poems and chanting", they are more fortified, and sometimes they will have a taste of "everyone is drunk and I am alone, smiling eyes are misty and secretly mourning", which is very irritating. Distressed.And their personalities tend to be paranoid, lofty, realistic, and have little confusion and low self-esteem that are not easy to be discovered.In love, the onset of fever is slow, and the aftereffects of emotional injuries are obvious. Life beliefs will change because of this, and wounds will be like heart sores that are frozen to numb, and it will be difficult to heal for a long time.So, if you see the "badness" of a Capricorn, it's because she's hurt deeply.But they don't hurt others.
"I am a Capricorn, and my ex-boyfriend is also a Capricorn. We are very happy when we are together. We never thought that one day we would leave each other, and we never thought that we would have such a painful day...but since he went After Japan, hope and hope have been lost with time. I have not been back for two years, and I know his difficulties, but the contact is getting less and less. The less he contacts me, the colder my heart is, so cold that I no longer treat him I had no hope. Later he asked me why I deleted his MSN? 'Do you remember?' I could only respond like this and never let him appear in my friends. But the pain in my heart has never been erased ...Although I now have a Virgo boyfriend who treats me very well, but every time I think of him, my heart hurts... What should I do? "
After receiving this love complaint, what I want to ask is: How much do you know about Capricorns?How much do you know about yourself?As for the constellation, what kind of attitude do you have?Is it your relationship expert?Love savior?God who saves your love?
When a relationship is over, it's over.It doesn't matter if you are hurt or persistent, but you won't get back the beautiful love, and you won't get it back.Take this Capricorn reader as an example. She now has a stable boyfriend. It is very likely that her ex-boyfriend is also dating a very good girlfriend at the moment. What is the use of talking about a relationship that has passed ?
I don't deny Capricorn's persistence and affection. In fact, looking back, which constellation doesn't take love seriously?Even if the "promiscuous" is like a Sagittarius, it's just trying to find a suitable person from the vast crowd.
"In the past, I didn't understand astrology. After reading some articles about astrology, I thought it was true. My husband is a Capricorn. I really can't stand his indifference. Sometimes I think it's bad luck to marry him!"
Then I'd like to complain for your husband.If you wishfully believe in the divination of the constellations, why did you pick the Capricorn man alone?Do you know both the dominant and the recessive aspects of Capricorn men?
On the other hand, if you're a Capricorn and you confuse your husband with your nonchalance, and he complains the same to his girlfriends or even ex-girlfriends, how do you feel?
The twelve zodiac signs have their own charms and deficiencies, and those who are in love must be honest and confused, which is why zodiac signs and Tarot are so popular today.Where is the peach blossom?Can two eyes see all people with the characteristics of the same constellation?In love, whether you get and gain depends only on your horoscope - it's better to turn yourself into an invincible love saint, try one by one of the twelve constellations, and then draw the conclusion of your choice.
3. "The Right One" is not picked out of the constellation
When I talked about constellations earlier, I wondered if I had schizophrenia.Although I usually pay attention to the horoscope and buy two horoscope books and come back to ponder it, but I really hesitate to use it as a compass in the practice of love.
Some girls complained to me: "I'm a Taurus, I'm so bored, I'm doomed to fall in love and get married late, what should I do? Can you think of a way for me to break the bottleneck of love?" Or, "Oh, I'm a Sagittarius woman, he doesn't believe I, said that a woman of my constellation is very fickle, and wants to break up with me...God, I am the only one from the beginning to the end! He made it clear that someone else wanted to get rid of me..."
When you meet such girls, how do you untie their knots—the first love confession they are used to is, "I am a zodiac sign".
Dear beautiful girls, my answer is also very unified, only one sentence can answer all your doubts and problems in love - "the real man" is not picked out of the constellations!
If you think that you can master a man if you master the constellation, then you are very wrong.A woman is an emotional animal, she often relies on intuition, fate, divination, etc., but a man is just the opposite, he is a rational animal, no matter how soft a man’s personality is, he is a man after all, so his vision for choosing women often comes from Practical experience.
Don't believe in constellations in love, why?
You first think about it, when did you become interested in constellations?
Must be student days.Because everyone is playing astrology, you are affected, and over time, you become curious and even interested in trendy things.
When did you start to trust the constellation and feel that all the predictions it said are very accurate?
It must be when you have your first crush.At that time, you were at a loss and didn't dare to tell the second person, but the feeling of your crush tortured you every day and troubled you... At this time, you need to find a teacher who can help you solve the confusion. The zodiac sign is mysterious and silent. If you are a teenager who is curious and wants to keep secrets, it will be your best choice.
When did the zodiac sign become the most indispensable friend, mentor and prophet in your life?
That is when you enter the confused period of life.You want to know what kind of person you are, but your parents can't answer your questions very well, and the classmates, friends, and colleagues around you have superficial views on you, so you undoubtedly turn to the constellation.
You will ask the constellation: What kind of person am I?What troubles do I have now?What is the failing side of my personality?
See Constellation's answer.
"You have a strong need to be liked and respected by others, and you have a tendency to be self-critical. You have many abilities that you don't use to your advantage, and you have some weaknesses, but you can generally overcome them. You often have problems with the opposite sex. Difficult, although you appear calm on the outside, you are restless inside. You sometimes doubt whether the decisions you make are the right ones. You like some changes in your life and hate being restricted by others. You pride yourself on being able to think for yourself. You do not accept ample evidence. You do not think it wise to be too frank in revealing yourself to others. At times you are extroverted, genial, and sociable, while at other times you are withdrawn, cautious, and reticent... Some of your ambitions tend to be too Big and unrealistic..."
How about it?Do you think the above paragraph is about you?You are excited, apprehensive, doubtful...until finally convinced.If someone else looked at it, they might murmur in their hearts: "Oh my god, it really looks like it. I'm talking about my current state..."
This is actually not surprising. After reading it, almost everyone thinks that passage is about writing about themselves.
People often think that a general and general personality description reveals their own characteristics very accurately. Western psychology calls this tendency the "Barnum effect".
My suggestion is: Instead of believing in the analysis of your personality by the constellation, it is better to look at scientific psychology.
It is also about dissecting and exploring human nature, why is the constellation more popular than the scientifically proven psychology?The answer comes from its rapid dissemination and entertainment.
Astrology has been recognized as a "pseudoscience" in the West. It usually takes a week to draw a constellation map and explain it in detail in foreign countries.It can be seen that horoscope divination can be operated with time.
According to the above passage, the so-called twelve constellations actually reflect multiple general aspects of each of us, and when combined, we are a rich and complete person.And these can find similar shadows in each of us, but each of us shows different aspects of ourselves at different times.
Therefore, when encountering such questions, for example, "I am a Libra woman, what zodiac sign should I find a boyfriend?" Or, "Are Cancer men really gentle and reliable?" I usually respond silently.
I can analyze all kinds of intractable diseases in love for you, but I can't be an unreliable constellation expert.If one day, you find that your original choice was wrong, you turn to me, "Look at you, you obviously acquiesced, I have no problem finding a Cancer man, but he is neither warm nor caring about his family, you love consultant How did you do it!" Whom should I ask for an excuse?
There have been such cases.When I was studying at St. Mary's College, the school I was studying at was a Catholic college, and it was strictly forbidden to engage in horoscope divination, but there were still many girls who secretly read books about horoscopes in private.Whenever the lights are off and it is time to go to bed, a few girls who are obsessed with constellations start to chat about constellations.
"I'm really curious and obsessed with the horoscope. It predicts that I will have a Scorpio boyfriend. God, I'm looking forward to it..." Girl A said.
"Angela, what about you, do you believe in astrology? It's really amazing, do you have any favorite astrology?" A girl asked me.
At that time, I hadn't been exposed to horoscopes, and I didn't participate in discussions among girls, so I replied: "No."
"Oh, you are really outdated." The girl A from before laughed, "What era is it now? How popular are constellations? Could it be that you are so conservative that you are afraid of being punished by the dean..." After speaking, she sneered and went to the same bed The other girls also laughed lowly.
I knew she was joking and meant nothing malicious, so I just smiled and didn't answer.
Soon it was over.Then one day, I found out that classmate A was in a relationship, which was also forbidden in the school at that time.She had a hot fight with a boy from another school, often sneaked out during extracurricular activities, had a tryst with that boy, and asked us to help hide it.But it didn't take long for me to find that she became depressed and even often lost her mind.The girl's night chat at night also lost her who has always been talkative and aggressive.
Finally, one day when no one was around, I found her hiding in the bedroom and crying secretly, and I asked her what was wrong.
She cried and told me, "That bastard dumped me and I'm pregnant with his baby!"
This is her birthday present, an unmarried pregnant girl.And the boy who fell in love with her is said to be a Scorpio.
"Do you believe in astrology?" I couldn't help asking.
"No." She looked at me with tears streaming down her face, "I don't believe in that damned constellation prophecy any more...it's the one that killed me!"
Later, she dropped out of school without graduating, and I don't know if she gave birth to the child.But I guess, no.
If you are trying to find the "true man" through the constellations, I advise you to be more rational and learn from men to find your ideal partner in actual combat.This is not to say that you need to fall in love a few more times, but once you fall in love, you should keep your eyes open and feel the love of your lover.Instead of letting the constellations guide you, infinitely magnify the other party's shortcomings and fail to see the other party's advantages.Or, too indulging in the illusory beauty brought to you by the constellation, such as how careful and perfect the Virgo man is, but at the same time he is also picky and small-minded.The latter may not be seen until the love period matures, or even after marriage, and at that time, they will have to regret it, and take the love in the constellation too beautifully...
4.Personality mismatch, strange constellation?
"Angela, I want to break up. During this period of time, I always found that he was out of his mind, and everything he promised me was gone. I went back and checked the horoscope. God, it turns out that the two of us are the most incompatible couple!"
I couldn't help laughing out loud when I heard what my friend Z said.
"why are you laughing?"
"Do you believe that too?"
"Why don't you believe it. If it's not that they don't match well, why do two people feel awkward together anyway?"
"Then you can count the men you talked about with two hands. It doesn't mean that those men are all of the same constellation by coincidence, right?"
"Who cares then? But there are five or six differences."
"That's it," I said, "if the boyfriends you talked about before are all from different constellations, then you have seen all twelve constellations one by one. But if there is such a small probability of being stepped on by you , the boyfriend you’re talking about doesn’t know those zodiac signs, so you have figured out the characteristics of the zodiac sign that matches you, so why is this man unsuitable for you?”
She was left speechless by my question.I continued: "Z, it's not that your two zodiac signs are not compatible, but that you started a relationship without understanding each other clearly. Incompatible personalities, different habits, few common languages, and ignorance of each other, can these be regarded as the fault of the zodiac signs?"
"It's not nice to meet people." She complained.
"No, it's because they don't have the patience and capacity to love each other. When there is a relationship problem, don't just blame the other party blindly. You should find the reason from yourself. You have talked with so many boyfriends, but why didn't any of them succeed? Could it be your love? Is there a problem with viewing?"
She was finally speechless by my questioning.
Personality incompatibility, blame no one, don't blame the constellation.
Many people complain, for example, Taurus and Virgo are recognized as the most compatible couple, but after getting along, they find that Taurus hates Virgo's cleanliness, and Virgo dislikes Taurus' slowness.For another example, Gemini hates Libra's hypocrisy, Aquarius hates Gemini's gossip, Sagittarius hates Leo's conceit, Scorpio hates Pisces' nympho, and so on.When the relationship is just right, no matter how you look at each other, it seems that the ideal partner prophesied by the constellations is the other party, but once there is a conflict, you turn out the constellation book again, go through the shortcomings of the other party written on it, and quarrel From time to time, they poured out everything without mercy-may I ask, is this the way for lovers to get along?
Just like my good friend Z, after hearing what I said, why didn't she go back and sit down with her boyfriend to talk about their love feelings during this period, and learned that her boyfriend was stimulated by her aggressive remarks during a certain quarrel? Arriving, I am struggling with whether to propose a breakup...
Therefore, when you complain that the other party is not considerate and honest to you, maybe the other party is thinking about "breaking up with good intentions" with you.At that time, how can you be in love?
Z is a big woman, and she can still bear it.How about an ordinary girl?You are getting along well, and one day your boyfriend suddenly proposes to you to break up, and there is no third party or a quarrel that shows a relationship crisis, so you calmly propose "I don't think we are suitable, let's break up", how should you feel? ?Strange constellation?In the future, as long as you meet a man with the same zodiac sign as your ex-boyfriend, you will be rejected?
So, I am sorry to tell you that you will miss out on a good marriage.
Maybe the boyfriend you're dating isn't right for you.Perhaps, your true destiny is the one you dislike the most.Or, you really shouldn’t be in a relationship during this time, what you need is rest, finish your studies and work at hand and go out to relax, and you will encounter an unexpected relationship during the journey...
These are all possible.Whether you are single, broken up, or married, you need to focus on your outlook on love and understand the psychological feelings of your partner.Say it out loud, no matter your personality is introverted or extroverted, you need to relieve and communicate, this is your love, in love, there is never a silent lady.
"I am a Capricorn woman, and I think I fit the personality of a Capricorn very well, but my husband is an Aries, and we are now in a marriage crisis... After getting along for so many years, I have never believed in astrology, but now I have to believe it. It's fate, I want to change but it's too late."
When I received this marital crisis notice, I had just witnessed my sister's divorce process.So I sympathize with the emotional experience of this reader friend, but I do not support her divorce if she uses the zodiac signs as the reason for breaking up.
"It's not fate," I want to say to you, "don't make everything as heavy as fate, and love is no exception."
From the perspective of astrology alone, there are many kinds of constellations, which have been mentioned in the introduction of constellations at the beginning.The constellation we generally refer to refers to the sun constellation, but everyone actually has other such as "moon constellation", "rising constellation" and so on.According to the place of birth, latitude and longitude of each person, the angle of receiving the direct sunlight is also different. If these principles are analyzed in depth, it will be a very complicated knowledge, but what we usually believe in is just a simple sun sign.
If you didn’t believe in horoscopes before, and what you believed in was the relationship between two people and the personality of the other person and you chose to marry him, then you have no reason to believe that the other person is not suitable because of a crack in your relationship. to break up.You don't believe in good times, but believe in adversity?There is no such reason.
I might as well give an example of my sister.
She is a very typical little woman, love is bigger than the sky.Her ex-husband went to the same university as her, and the two were childhood sweethearts, and they got along well until they graduated from university and got married after graduation.
They got married as soon as they graduated, and they had been married for seven years by the time they divorced.We used to use the "seven-year itch" to describe the duration of marriage. Unfortunately, this phrase hits the mark.
The younger sister is a typical little woman who makes trouble.My husband is very good. He was accepted by a big company as soon as he graduated. He became a senior executive all the way, but he resigned and started his own business after a short time.My younger sister didn't have a job after graduation, so An Xin became a housewife at home. The man took care of the outside and the woman took care of the house. At first, life was peaceful and beautiful.
The younger sister is a Pisces, a sentimental type, and indeed, she fits the character of this little woman.The husband is a very ambitious and ambitious Scorpio man, and is recognized as the most romantic pairing with a Pisces woman.The younger sister is very happy in love, and she also believes in the romantic fairy tales prophesied by the constellations. When they got married, their college classmates blessed the two with "the most romantic couple in the school", and the elders of both parties were naturally very happy.
My younger sister's head is hot, she regards love as everything, and after marriage she is willing to be the "woman behind a successful man", which is not bad.Before their marriage, the Scorpio man proposed: "I don't want to have children for the time being after marriage." The younger sister felt wronged, but for the sake of the beloved man and his career, she silently accepted it.
If my sister really believes in horoscopes, she should know that the criteria for a Scorpio man to choose a mate is to choose a woman who can protect him.He doesn't need to love, but he definitely needs a "Partner" who can help him.
Therefore, the "Scorpio likes the romance of Pisces but also hates the nympho of Pisces" I mentioned before has come true.Seven years is enough to polish an excellent man into an excellent and tough man, so he naturally filed for divorce in order to improve his career - he has a new spouse, a man who is very important to his career. Helping strong woman.This is so like a novel written by Yi Shu, but it actually happened.
The younger sister was crying so hard that for him, she was willing to be a housewife for seven years, not to show her face, not to go to nightclubs, and not even to participate in college fellowships... All of these were nothing, and the most terrible thing was that she was willing to be a housewife for seven years for him. No children.
A man can simply say "break up" and leave as soon as he says it. He has no burden. In his eyes, the seven-year relationship is no match for the stock that is soaring upwards. "There is no way, this is fate." My sister did the same Say.
"Did he have a relationship with that woman?" I asked.
"I wish them a long life." The younger sister said lightly.
Is it really possible to live forever... I also hope.
I don't want my sister's marriage tragedy to be staged among thousands of women. You must know how helpless and sad she was when she said "fate".
It is impossible for a woman to give up a good marriage unless she has to, especially a married woman.Just as at the beginning, if you took this step thoughtfully and seriously, you will end with deliberate thought—whether it was worth it or not.My sister has not yet emerged from the shadow of a failed marriage. I can only silently wish her well in my heart and find a man who truly loves and cares for her as soon as possible.However, what I really appreciate is that she didn't attribute this failed marriage to the original "unkindness", "missing eyes", "it's all caused by constellations"... At that time, it was this Scorpio The man chased her hard, and finally won the Pisces woman's heart, but after seven years, he didn't stick to it, and ended the marriage with his own hands.
"Don't blame him," she said, "he has better options."
But I want to tell her, and other friends who have had similar experiences, that this "don't blame him" is out of self-liberation. There is no need to hang yourself on a tree and still worry about it all your life. You should choose to let go at the right time.Because, after all, the constellation is not a pleasing dish on your table, and you don't have to worry about it for the rest of your life.
(End of this chapter)
Horoscopes are becoming more and more popular among young people, especially single men and women.They often use the horoscope to predict the future life, the other half in love, and even a happy married life.If you want to trust astrology, you must first understand astrology.And what I suggest you is, on the basis of understanding the constellation, don't believe blindly.
1.Constellation, how much do you really know
We can't imagine the popularity and credibility of constellations in the West.Just like most Chinese people need Zhouyi divination before doing big things, constellations are the compass of belief for Westerners.Especially the young people nowadays, when they encounter difficulties in love, they no longer go to church to pray, but look up the horoscope online, and this trend has swept the entire Asian continent.
First of all, for Orientals, if you want to believe in the magic of constellations, you must first understand it.There is such an objective environment for Westerners to advocate astrology, so what about Easterners?You firmly believe that the constellation can bring you good luck, and what is it based on?
Definition of zodiac sign
A constellation is a combination of groups of stars in the sky.In the three-dimensional universe, these stars actually have no actual relationship with each other, but they are located close to each other on the surface of the spherical shell of the celestial sphere.Since ancient times, human beings have been very interested in the arrangement and shape of stars, and naturally connected some stars with similar positions, which formed constellations.
Basically, forming stars into constellations is an arbitrary process, with different civilizations having different constellations of different stars.Each star belongs to a specific constellation, and most of these official constellations are based on the traditional constellations of ancient Greece handed down from the Middle Ages.
For the convenience of recognizing stars, human beings divide them into several regions according to the natural distribution of stars in the sky, with different sizes.Each region is called a constellation.Use lines to connect the bright stars in the same constellation to form various figures. According to their shapes, they are named after similar animals, utensils and mythological figures, such as Cygnus and Andromeda.The stars in each constellation are arranged in lowercase Greek letters in order of brightness, such as α Ursa Major, β Ursa Minor, etc.
origin of constellations
The constellation originated in Babylon, one of the four ancient civilizations. About 5000 years ago in the Mesopotamian plain, a group of Babylonian shepherds lived a nomadic life of living by water and grass.During their wandering life of shepherding, they still did not forget to observe the stars twinkling in the night sky every day. Over time, they could see regular moments and seasonal changes from the dynamics of the stars.When night comes, they look at the flock of sheep while observing various stars in the night sky, connect the brighter stars to each other, and associate various animals, utensils and even the gods they believe in from the connected shapes. , and named them one by one, creating the so-called constellations.
It is said that there are a total of more than 12 constellation names, such as the so-called 20 constellations of the zodiac, which had already been born at that time.Thereafter, the ancient Babylonians continued to divide the sky into regions and propose new constellations.However, constellations were of little use at that time, and even fewer were discovered and named.The 12 constellations on the zodiac were originally used to measure time, not to represent people's personality as they are now.Around 1000 BC, 30 constellations have been proposed.There are Tigris River and Euphrates River flowing from northwest to southeast, into the Persian Gulf, so it is also called "Two Rivers Basin" area.After the Mesopotamian culture spread to ancient Greece, it promoted the cultural development of ancient Greece.Ancient Greek astronomers supplemented and developed Babylonian constellations, and compiled the ancient Greek constellation table.In the 2nd century AD, the ancient Greek astronomer Ptolemy synthesized the astronomical achievements at that time, compiled 48 constellations, and connected the main bright stars in the constellations with imaginary lines, imagining them as images of animals or people, combined with mythology Stories give them appropriate names, and that's how the constellation got its name.Most of the 48 constellations in Greek mythology live in the northern sky and the north and south of the equator.After the Middle Ages, with the rise of capitalism in Europe, it was necessary to expand outward, and the navigation industry was greatly developed.Ships sail on the sea and need navigation at any time, and the stars are the best guiding lights.Among these stars, constellations have special shapes and are the easiest to observe. Therefore, constellations have received widespread attention. When Magellan sailed around the world in the 16th century, he not only used constellations for navigation and orientation, but also studied constellations. In 1922, the International Astronomical Union General Assembly decided to divide the sky into 88 constellations, whose names basically follow the names in history. In 1928, the International Astronomical Union officially announced the names of 88 constellations. These 88 constellations are divided into 3 sky areas, 29 in the northern hemisphere, 47 in the southern hemisphere, and 12 near the celestial equator and ecliptic.
zodiac signs in astrology
We spontaneously categorize ourselves into the following zodiac signs by our date of birth:
Aries: March 3st to April 21th
Taurus: April 4th to May 20th
Gemini: May 5st to June 21st
Cancer: June 6nd to July 22nd
Leo: July 7rd to August 23nd
Virgo: August 8rd ~ September 23nd
Libra: September 9rd to October 23rd
Scorpio: October 10th to November 24nd
Sagittarius: November 11rd ~ December 23st
Capricorn: December 12nd to January 22th
Aquarius: January 1th to February 20th
Pisces: February 2th to March 19th
Zodiac personality traits
Aries (March 3st to April 21th)
An energetic, energetic sign.Personality and love are mostly "on rampage", but there is no lethality in a pure personality, so don't worry too much.
Taurus (April 4th to May 20th)
The slow constellation.Everything is always considered before filtering, which is a late bloomer and a late bloomer of emotion.They have superhuman stability, and once they make a bet, they are sure to win.
Gemini (May 5st to June 21st)
A constellation that changes as fast as the wind.Gemini's dual personality often causes headaches for others and yourself. As for career and love, it should be good if you are willing to spend more time on management.
Cancer (June 6nd to July 22nd)
A sign that needs love and stability very much.Suspicious personalities make them seem insecure throughout their journey in life.But the Cancer with the brilliance of maternal love is willing to give for what he loves.
Leo (July 7rd to August 23nd)
Pay attention to the magnificent constellations.The lion is the king of the forest, so of course he likes to make friends, and some people can't stand loneliness.They are aggressive, and although careless, they are loyal and popular.
Virgo (August 8rd to September 23nd)
A bit picky and pursuing the perfect constellation.Individuals who lack confidence often subconsciously blame themselves for not being good enough.Although it is inevitable to feel heavy at times, but the natural advantage is that you can let go, and you won't just fall into a slump.
Libra (September 9rd to October 23rd)
The constellation who loves beauty and is afraid of emptiness.With his natural diplomatic skills, he can deal with all kinds of people, but sometimes he is too worried about everything, which makes him thankless.My brain often turns around, beware of neurasthenia.
Scorpio (October 10th to November 24nd)
Mysterious, treacherous, thought-provoking constellation.They can be persistent and destructive.In the kingdom of love, black and white are distinct, there are no gray areas.They are quite clear about their goals, and once established, they rush forward.
Sagittarius (November 11rd ~ December 23st)
Free, romantic and amorous constellation.Their unconstrained personality makes them very afraid of being bound, and their passionate nature also makes them seek prey everywhere.He has an innocent temperament, and he is not conscious of hurting others.
Capricorn (December 12nd to January 22th)
Rigorous and rigid, stable and mature constellation.Although they always give people the impression of being dull, dull people generally do not know how to play tricks.Whether in career or love, they also win with this special temperament.
Aquarius (January 1-February 20)
A constellation with advanced thinking and rational self-respect.The same unrestricted love, the same fraternity, but they are still different from Sagittarius.They pay more attention to the improvement of spiritual level and are good objects of inspiration.
Pisces (February 2th to March 19th)
A constellation that is sentimental, sensitive, dreamy, and fanciful.Naturally passionate, they often struggle with the word love, and their emotional fluctuations are also inseparable from love.They are weak by nature, they like to give, and they will not hurt others at will.
The Astrological Essence of the Zodiac
Aries (March 3st to April 21th)
The essence of Mars is masculine, and it is a fiery red celestial body in the sky. It gives people a sense of bravery, so it is named after Mars, the god of war.It symbolizes courage, strength, fighting spirit and masculine charm. It is in charge of personal drive and desire, and has a certain influence on the group.
Taurus (April 4th to May 20th)
The essence of Venus is feminine, and it is a golden and charming celestial body in the sky, so it is named after Venus, the god of love.It symbolizes love and beauty, dominates the charm of women and the ability to attract the opposite sex, and affects personal aesthetic vision, beauty, social skills and values.
Gemini (May 5st to June 21st)
Mercury moves very fast and is in charge of personal knowledge, communication, reasoning, and learning ability, resourcefulness in dealing with difficulties, ability to adapt to the environment, and personal awareness. It also represents the impact of technology and culture on daily life changes during times of change.
Cancer (June 6nd to July 22nd)
The moon has more influence on personal emotions than the sun.Among the astronomical phenomena, the moon changes the most, with periodic ups and downs, representing emotional changes, emotional ups and downs, and repeated occurrences of love and hate.The moon represents the inner world that dominates us, and is the astronomical manifestation of human nature and instinct.The moon rules Cancer, and the moon is also the guardian of motherhood. Lighting equipment is the lucky thing for Cancer.
Leo (July 7rd to August 23nd)
The sun is the most influential celestial body in the celestial phenomena. It is the center of all things in the world, and the ecliptic is the trajectory of the sun in the sky.The sun dominates our external world, it is the source of vitality, the power to overcome darkness and disease, and the refuge of all things in the world.
Virgo (August 8rd to September 23nd)
Mercury moves very fast and is in charge of personal knowledge, communication, reasoning, and learning ability, resourcefulness in dealing with difficulties, ability to adapt to the environment, and personal awareness. It also represents the impact of technology and culture on daily life changes during times of change.Mercury rules Gemini and Virgo.
Libra (September 9rd to October 23rd)
The essence of Venus is feminine, and it is a golden and charming celestial body in the sky, so it is named after Venus, the god of love.It symbolizes love and beauty, dominates the charm of women and the ability to attract the opposite sex, and affects personal aesthetic vision, beauty, social skills and values.
Scorpio (October 10th to November 24nd)
The essence of Mars is masculine, and it is a fiery red celestial body in the sky. It gives people a sense of bravery, so it is named after Mars, the god of war.It symbolizes courage, strength, fighting spirit and masculine charm. It is in charge of personal drive and desire, and has a certain influence on the group.Mars rules Aries and Scorpio.
Sagittarius (November 11rd ~ December 23st)
Jupiter is regarded as a lucky star in astrology, representing talent and spirituality.Because Jupiter passes through a constellation every year, it is also called the year star, which governs the fields that individuals pursue in different periods.It represents law and justice, governing good and evil, reward and punishment.Jupiter rules Sagittarius and Pisces.
Capricorn (December 12nd to January 22th)
Saturn is the only celestial body with a halo in Western astrology. It takes about 30 years to circle the ecliptic, representing the ups and downs of life, responsibilities and burdens, and the direction of tempering and growth.It is the least variable celestial body in traditional Western astrology, so it is also a symbol of stubbornness and patience. Saturn rules the real life of the individual.
Aquarius (January 1-February 20)
Saturn is the only celestial body with a halo in Western astrology. It takes about 30 years to circle the ecliptic, representing the ups and downs of life, responsibilities and burdens, and the direction of tempering and growth.It is the least variable celestial body in traditional Western astrology, so it is also a symbol of stubbornness and patience. Saturn rules the real life of the individual.
Pisces (February 2th to March 19th)
Jupiter is regarded as a lucky star in astrology, representing talent and spirituality.Because Jupiter passes through a constellation every year, it is also called the year star, which governs the fields that individuals pursue in different periods.It represents law and justice, governing good and evil, reward and punishment.Jupiter rules Sagittarius and Pisces.
Horoscopes are becoming more and more popular among young people, especially single men and women.They often use the horoscope to predict the future life, the other half in love, and even a happy married life.If you want to trust astrology, you must first understand astrology.And what I suggest you is, on the basis of understanding the constellation, don't blindly believe in the constellation.
2. The personality of "Gemini", the tenderness of "Cancer", the means of "Capricorn" - which one are you?
Gemini Personality
Gemini is a very individual constellation, often known as "changeable".The Hollywood actress Marilyn I admire very much.Monroe is a Gemini, and it is said that the younger sister of the big and small S sisters in Taiwan is also a Gemini.And quite coincidentally, I am also a Gemini myself.
The Gemini symbol represents a pair of twins.This is the only symbol in the zodiac that is completely human.On the one hand, it symbolizes that Gemini has human civilization and logical thinking. On the other hand, the pair of twins represent two completely different sides of human nature, and are often considered "half angel, half devil".The two sides of Gemini's human nature are often considered "strong and weak, dark and light, angel and demon".
Because of this, the personality description of Gemini is usually "contradictory" and "changeable".Positivity and negativity, movement and stillness, light and darkness, mutually ebb and flow, co-prosperity and coexistence.Most of them are versatile, such as Hollywood ever-changing actor Johnny.Depp.Some people display two or more distinct personalities, often elusive.Geminis are quite spiritual, active and sharp in mind, like to be busy and pursue new concepts and ways of doing things, they are eloquent, energetic, ambitious, popular, and have language talents.They often gain the upper hand with their versatile, all-encompassing charm.They flow like air, so you can only breathe them, feel them, but not hold them.
One of the most obvious characteristics of Gemini is in love.Most people think that Gemini is the most carefree and ruthless constellation among the twelve constellations, which even my client feels wronged.
My friend Xiao H asked me: "Hey, you still call yourself a love expert, and you are a cynical person about love."
I was surprised when I heard that, and asked back: "You have known me for so long, and you also know about my love experience, why are you accused of being cynical?"
She was stunned for a moment, and responded hastily: "Oh, because you are twins..."
She has been in a bad relationship recently, she talked about one failure and another, so she used the constellation as an example, and asked me if I could change the constellation.I laughed it off.Constellation is not a sacred object of love. Take Gemini as an example, it is actually a very affectionate and righteous constellation, but it is accused of being "ruthless".Gemini's life is destined to be bound by feelings and entangled with love for a lifetime.And the so-called "ruthless" is also wronged.As far as I am concerned, I consider myself to be peaceful and sincere, as my girlfriends and readers can attest.Gemini people are probably bigger and more naturalized, and women are also big women, who don't care about small things, especially things that pay attention to details such as relationships.And most of them are not tactful in life. Once love hits the rocks, they would rather hide and relieve themselves, which will inevitably leave people with an "indifferent" impression.Gemini is ruled by Mercury, known in mythology as the "messenger of God".It endows Gemini with quick thinking ability, changeable personality traits, and is recognized as "the most flexible and intelligent constellation" among the twelve constellations.
But we often say that no matter how powerful a woman is, she will turn into a "finger-finger" once she encounters love, and Gemini with changeable personalities is no exception.When Gemini meets true love, she looks different. She is not as casual as before, and she starts to become cautious.The outside world thinks that this is a constellation that regards humor as its life, and is naturally optimistic, but she will also be lonely, lonely, and become anxious about gains and losses-because she doesn't want to miss, let alone lose her only true love.In the minds of Gemini, true love is the only one, not a certain type, but a certain person.When Gemini is really in love, her loyalty and infatuation are unmatched by the other 11 constellations.Especially Gemini girls, they are not the objects that men casually play with, and they themselves are not masters in love!
Tenderness of Cancer
Cancer is a constellation that is very good at exuding maternal brilliance, and it is a constellation exclusively for women.
The ruler of Cancer is the moon, which represents the inner world that dominates us, and is the astronomical manifestation of human nature and instinct.At the same time, the moon is also the guardian of motherhood.
Cancer is considered to be "the most emotional, the most considerate, the most at home, the most peace-loving, the most infatuated, the most shy, the most traditional, the most humane, the most satisfying, the most kind, and the most affectionate among the twelve signs. Single-minded, the most family-oriented, and the least pushy” constellation.Its tenderness and femininity are evident at a glance.
Cancer people are devoted to their family. Whether as a partner or a relative, this constellation will exude a unique brilliance.As far as Cancer girls are concerned, they are "girls" who are always young in heart and often have hazy consciousness deep in their thoughts.She is very in love, but often does not know who is really intoxicated by her.When people trust her, she will be full of warmth, humor and poetry, but her sensitive nerves will easily get out of control, and she will accumulate dissatisfaction and resentment silently.Cancer women always like to miss the heartfelt things in the past - childhood or failed marriage... She likes clear and deep soft music, appreciates simple and smooth art, pursues deep and graceful ideals... She often thinks of herself Reflect and dissect because she feels like she doesn't know much about herself.She needs tranquility, harmony and security, longs for a pleasant living environment that can trigger imagination, and likes to turn her residence into a sanctuary for edification.
In short, this is a very romantic and ideal female constellation.
Cancer is an animal with a shell. In Cancer's love, they have an extremely hard shell and a heart that is hard to touch.But when they love, they love to the end of eternity.They regard love as everything.
A Cancerian lover has an instinctive, caring feeling, and will become obsessed with the things he loves, relying on this to guide all his actions.Their love attitudes are generally very traditional and family-oriented.Few people are as emotionally devoted as a Cancerian, but this kind of love can also feel suffocating.If a Cancer feels insecure in a relationship, they can become very harsh, or use their silence to express that they are hurt, or verbally tell you what is wrong and why it is wrong...
A reader friend of mine wrote to me and complained: "My husband is a Cancer. Before we got married, I thought I knew him well, but after we got married, I found that he was not good at talking about love. The relationship between the two of them became very monotonous and reserved. The romance and long-lasting feeling of being in love."
For male Cancers, they like to follow a proper rule and steps to express love, and finally fall in love and make love last.The female Cancer, on the contrary, no matter how strong her thoughts and feelings are, she is always waiting for the other party to take the initiative to show love.Coincidentally, this reader friend of mine is also a Cancer.When two Cancer men and women get married, they think that the same zodiac sign will allow them to get to know each other deeply, but they don’t know that the same zodiac sign also has personality and blood types. If you trust it, then other influencing factors should also be well understood.
First of all, it is unwise to talk about the way of getting along in love without mutual understanding, trust and care.You can try to get acquainted from the side with the aid of the horoscope, but you can't kill him with a stick. Use this as an excuse to think that your husband is cute before marriage, but loveless after marriage.This is not a conclusion drawn from a constellation.
"Before I got married, I thought he was very careful, gentle, and reliable. But after getting married, all the advantages of Cancer have turned into disadvantages. He is unsmiling, silent, and dull. Sometimes it is really annoying."
Cancer's shell prompts them not to give too quickly or too much at once in love.I would like to congratulate this reader friend for finding a good husband. Not being good at words does not mean not loving deeply. A man has the tolerance and responsibility of a man, especially after getting married.You have to believe in your love. Since you are married to him, it proves that it has been tested by you.If you rely on the zodiac sign as always, then Ok, the claws of the Cancer will allow them to firmly clamp the person they love, making a love unbreakable.And their behavior is often dominated by the deepest emotions in their hearts. Even if they don't say it, they will retain a unique position in their hearts.What is there to worry about?
Capricorn means
To say that Capricorns play tricks depends on what role Capricorns play in love. "Capricorn is the best lover", this legend has been circulated for a long time, Capricorn people have a skeptical attitude towards many things, and it is always difficult to believe in one thing, but when it comes to love, they belong to the slow-heating type People who love you will never give up their hearts easily.
When it comes to the "means" of Capricorns, it is because most of them are very boring.It looks very cold on the surface, but the passion in the heart is like a fire, which belongs to the two sides of duplicity.The "badness" of Capricorn is comparable to all the constellations of the twelve constellations. Maybe they don't believe it, but with the accumulation of time, Capricorns will gradually become "bad".This is actually a way of self-protection. They are afraid of being hurt in their hearts, and they are always on guard against others.
Capricorn has a classic image, which is a sheep fish.This symbol is a good illustration of Capricorn's good adaptability: shuttle land and sea, conquer all kinds of difficulties of mind and body, they are all good at it.And love is definitely a difficult and great cause for Capricorn.
Emotions are the field that Capricorn, a seemingly omnipotent constellation, is least good at. They can hardly comprehend the inexplicable feelings of their own emotions. They don't know what effective methods and specific steps can be taken to "regulate" their emotions.Capricorns seem to be very indifferent, calculating and self-repressing on the surface, but once they find someone worthy of love, they will treat their lover with the same fighting spirit as they treat their life and career, and they will be brave in dedication.
I have met many Capricorn women, and most of them give me the impression that they are calm and indifferent in appearance, with a natural sense of distance.Their hearts will only be opened by the feeling of "drinking wine with friends, singing poems and chanting", they are more fortified, and sometimes they will have a taste of "everyone is drunk and I am alone, smiling eyes are misty and secretly mourning", which is very irritating. Distressed.And their personalities tend to be paranoid, lofty, realistic, and have little confusion and low self-esteem that are not easy to be discovered.In love, the onset of fever is slow, and the aftereffects of emotional injuries are obvious. Life beliefs will change because of this, and wounds will be like heart sores that are frozen to numb, and it will be difficult to heal for a long time.So, if you see the "badness" of a Capricorn, it's because she's hurt deeply.But they don't hurt others.
"I am a Capricorn, and my ex-boyfriend is also a Capricorn. We are very happy when we are together. We never thought that one day we would leave each other, and we never thought that we would have such a painful day...but since he went After Japan, hope and hope have been lost with time. I have not been back for two years, and I know his difficulties, but the contact is getting less and less. The less he contacts me, the colder my heart is, so cold that I no longer treat him I had no hope. Later he asked me why I deleted his MSN? 'Do you remember?' I could only respond like this and never let him appear in my friends. But the pain in my heart has never been erased ...Although I now have a Virgo boyfriend who treats me very well, but every time I think of him, my heart hurts... What should I do? "
After receiving this love complaint, what I want to ask is: How much do you know about Capricorns?How much do you know about yourself?As for the constellation, what kind of attitude do you have?Is it your relationship expert?Love savior?God who saves your love?
When a relationship is over, it's over.It doesn't matter if you are hurt or persistent, but you won't get back the beautiful love, and you won't get it back.Take this Capricorn reader as an example. She now has a stable boyfriend. It is very likely that her ex-boyfriend is also dating a very good girlfriend at the moment. What is the use of talking about a relationship that has passed ?
I don't deny Capricorn's persistence and affection. In fact, looking back, which constellation doesn't take love seriously?Even if the "promiscuous" is like a Sagittarius, it's just trying to find a suitable person from the vast crowd.
"In the past, I didn't understand astrology. After reading some articles about astrology, I thought it was true. My husband is a Capricorn. I really can't stand his indifference. Sometimes I think it's bad luck to marry him!"
Then I'd like to complain for your husband.If you wishfully believe in the divination of the constellations, why did you pick the Capricorn man alone?Do you know both the dominant and the recessive aspects of Capricorn men?
On the other hand, if you're a Capricorn and you confuse your husband with your nonchalance, and he complains the same to his girlfriends or even ex-girlfriends, how do you feel?
The twelve zodiac signs have their own charms and deficiencies, and those who are in love must be honest and confused, which is why zodiac signs and Tarot are so popular today.Where is the peach blossom?Can two eyes see all people with the characteristics of the same constellation?In love, whether you get and gain depends only on your horoscope - it's better to turn yourself into an invincible love saint, try one by one of the twelve constellations, and then draw the conclusion of your choice.
3. "The Right One" is not picked out of the constellation
When I talked about constellations earlier, I wondered if I had schizophrenia.Although I usually pay attention to the horoscope and buy two horoscope books and come back to ponder it, but I really hesitate to use it as a compass in the practice of love.
Some girls complained to me: "I'm a Taurus, I'm so bored, I'm doomed to fall in love and get married late, what should I do? Can you think of a way for me to break the bottleneck of love?" Or, "Oh, I'm a Sagittarius woman, he doesn't believe I, said that a woman of my constellation is very fickle, and wants to break up with me...God, I am the only one from the beginning to the end! He made it clear that someone else wanted to get rid of me..."
When you meet such girls, how do you untie their knots—the first love confession they are used to is, "I am a zodiac sign".
Dear beautiful girls, my answer is also very unified, only one sentence can answer all your doubts and problems in love - "the real man" is not picked out of the constellations!
If you think that you can master a man if you master the constellation, then you are very wrong.A woman is an emotional animal, she often relies on intuition, fate, divination, etc., but a man is just the opposite, he is a rational animal, no matter how soft a man’s personality is, he is a man after all, so his vision for choosing women often comes from Practical experience.
Don't believe in constellations in love, why?
You first think about it, when did you become interested in constellations?
Must be student days.Because everyone is playing astrology, you are affected, and over time, you become curious and even interested in trendy things.
When did you start to trust the constellation and feel that all the predictions it said are very accurate?
It must be when you have your first crush.At that time, you were at a loss and didn't dare to tell the second person, but the feeling of your crush tortured you every day and troubled you... At this time, you need to find a teacher who can help you solve the confusion. The zodiac sign is mysterious and silent. If you are a teenager who is curious and wants to keep secrets, it will be your best choice.
When did the zodiac sign become the most indispensable friend, mentor and prophet in your life?
That is when you enter the confused period of life.You want to know what kind of person you are, but your parents can't answer your questions very well, and the classmates, friends, and colleagues around you have superficial views on you, so you undoubtedly turn to the constellation.
You will ask the constellation: What kind of person am I?What troubles do I have now?What is the failing side of my personality?
See Constellation's answer.
"You have a strong need to be liked and respected by others, and you have a tendency to be self-critical. You have many abilities that you don't use to your advantage, and you have some weaknesses, but you can generally overcome them. You often have problems with the opposite sex. Difficult, although you appear calm on the outside, you are restless inside. You sometimes doubt whether the decisions you make are the right ones. You like some changes in your life and hate being restricted by others. You pride yourself on being able to think for yourself. You do not accept ample evidence. You do not think it wise to be too frank in revealing yourself to others. At times you are extroverted, genial, and sociable, while at other times you are withdrawn, cautious, and reticent... Some of your ambitions tend to be too Big and unrealistic..."
How about it?Do you think the above paragraph is about you?You are excited, apprehensive, doubtful...until finally convinced.If someone else looked at it, they might murmur in their hearts: "Oh my god, it really looks like it. I'm talking about my current state..."
This is actually not surprising. After reading it, almost everyone thinks that passage is about writing about themselves.
People often think that a general and general personality description reveals their own characteristics very accurately. Western psychology calls this tendency the "Barnum effect".
My suggestion is: Instead of believing in the analysis of your personality by the constellation, it is better to look at scientific psychology.
It is also about dissecting and exploring human nature, why is the constellation more popular than the scientifically proven psychology?The answer comes from its rapid dissemination and entertainment.
Astrology has been recognized as a "pseudoscience" in the West. It usually takes a week to draw a constellation map and explain it in detail in foreign countries.It can be seen that horoscope divination can be operated with time.
According to the above passage, the so-called twelve constellations actually reflect multiple general aspects of each of us, and when combined, we are a rich and complete person.And these can find similar shadows in each of us, but each of us shows different aspects of ourselves at different times.
Therefore, when encountering such questions, for example, "I am a Libra woman, what zodiac sign should I find a boyfriend?" Or, "Are Cancer men really gentle and reliable?" I usually respond silently.
I can analyze all kinds of intractable diseases in love for you, but I can't be an unreliable constellation expert.If one day, you find that your original choice was wrong, you turn to me, "Look at you, you obviously acquiesced, I have no problem finding a Cancer man, but he is neither warm nor caring about his family, you love consultant How did you do it!" Whom should I ask for an excuse?
There have been such cases.When I was studying at St. Mary's College, the school I was studying at was a Catholic college, and it was strictly forbidden to engage in horoscope divination, but there were still many girls who secretly read books about horoscopes in private.Whenever the lights are off and it is time to go to bed, a few girls who are obsessed with constellations start to chat about constellations.
"I'm really curious and obsessed with the horoscope. It predicts that I will have a Scorpio boyfriend. God, I'm looking forward to it..." Girl A said.
"Angela, what about you, do you believe in astrology? It's really amazing, do you have any favorite astrology?" A girl asked me.
At that time, I hadn't been exposed to horoscopes, and I didn't participate in discussions among girls, so I replied: "No."
"Oh, you are really outdated." The girl A from before laughed, "What era is it now? How popular are constellations? Could it be that you are so conservative that you are afraid of being punished by the dean..." After speaking, she sneered and went to the same bed The other girls also laughed lowly.
I knew she was joking and meant nothing malicious, so I just smiled and didn't answer.
Soon it was over.Then one day, I found out that classmate A was in a relationship, which was also forbidden in the school at that time.She had a hot fight with a boy from another school, often sneaked out during extracurricular activities, had a tryst with that boy, and asked us to help hide it.But it didn't take long for me to find that she became depressed and even often lost her mind.The girl's night chat at night also lost her who has always been talkative and aggressive.
Finally, one day when no one was around, I found her hiding in the bedroom and crying secretly, and I asked her what was wrong.
She cried and told me, "That bastard dumped me and I'm pregnant with his baby!"
This is her birthday present, an unmarried pregnant girl.And the boy who fell in love with her is said to be a Scorpio.
"Do you believe in astrology?" I couldn't help asking.
"No." She looked at me with tears streaming down her face, "I don't believe in that damned constellation prophecy any more...it's the one that killed me!"
Later, she dropped out of school without graduating, and I don't know if she gave birth to the child.But I guess, no.
If you are trying to find the "true man" through the constellations, I advise you to be more rational and learn from men to find your ideal partner in actual combat.This is not to say that you need to fall in love a few more times, but once you fall in love, you should keep your eyes open and feel the love of your lover.Instead of letting the constellations guide you, infinitely magnify the other party's shortcomings and fail to see the other party's advantages.Or, too indulging in the illusory beauty brought to you by the constellation, such as how careful and perfect the Virgo man is, but at the same time he is also picky and small-minded.The latter may not be seen until the love period matures, or even after marriage, and at that time, they will have to regret it, and take the love in the constellation too beautifully...
4.Personality mismatch, strange constellation?
"Angela, I want to break up. During this period of time, I always found that he was out of his mind, and everything he promised me was gone. I went back and checked the horoscope. God, it turns out that the two of us are the most incompatible couple!"
I couldn't help laughing out loud when I heard what my friend Z said.
"why are you laughing?"
"Do you believe that too?"
"Why don't you believe it. If it's not that they don't match well, why do two people feel awkward together anyway?"
"Then you can count the men you talked about with two hands. It doesn't mean that those men are all of the same constellation by coincidence, right?"
"Who cares then? But there are five or six differences."
"That's it," I said, "if the boyfriends you talked about before are all from different constellations, then you have seen all twelve constellations one by one. But if there is such a small probability of being stepped on by you , the boyfriend you’re talking about doesn’t know those zodiac signs, so you have figured out the characteristics of the zodiac sign that matches you, so why is this man unsuitable for you?”
She was left speechless by my question.I continued: "Z, it's not that your two zodiac signs are not compatible, but that you started a relationship without understanding each other clearly. Incompatible personalities, different habits, few common languages, and ignorance of each other, can these be regarded as the fault of the zodiac signs?"
"It's not nice to meet people." She complained.
"No, it's because they don't have the patience and capacity to love each other. When there is a relationship problem, don't just blame the other party blindly. You should find the reason from yourself. You have talked with so many boyfriends, but why didn't any of them succeed? Could it be your love? Is there a problem with viewing?"
She was finally speechless by my questioning.
Personality incompatibility, blame no one, don't blame the constellation.
Many people complain, for example, Taurus and Virgo are recognized as the most compatible couple, but after getting along, they find that Taurus hates Virgo's cleanliness, and Virgo dislikes Taurus' slowness.For another example, Gemini hates Libra's hypocrisy, Aquarius hates Gemini's gossip, Sagittarius hates Leo's conceit, Scorpio hates Pisces' nympho, and so on.When the relationship is just right, no matter how you look at each other, it seems that the ideal partner prophesied by the constellations is the other party, but once there is a conflict, you turn out the constellation book again, go through the shortcomings of the other party written on it, and quarrel From time to time, they poured out everything without mercy-may I ask, is this the way for lovers to get along?
Just like my good friend Z, after hearing what I said, why didn't she go back and sit down with her boyfriend to talk about their love feelings during this period, and learned that her boyfriend was stimulated by her aggressive remarks during a certain quarrel? Arriving, I am struggling with whether to propose a breakup...
Therefore, when you complain that the other party is not considerate and honest to you, maybe the other party is thinking about "breaking up with good intentions" with you.At that time, how can you be in love?
Z is a big woman, and she can still bear it.How about an ordinary girl?You are getting along well, and one day your boyfriend suddenly proposes to you to break up, and there is no third party or a quarrel that shows a relationship crisis, so you calmly propose "I don't think we are suitable, let's break up", how should you feel? ?Strange constellation?In the future, as long as you meet a man with the same zodiac sign as your ex-boyfriend, you will be rejected?
So, I am sorry to tell you that you will miss out on a good marriage.
Maybe the boyfriend you're dating isn't right for you.Perhaps, your true destiny is the one you dislike the most.Or, you really shouldn’t be in a relationship during this time, what you need is rest, finish your studies and work at hand and go out to relax, and you will encounter an unexpected relationship during the journey...
These are all possible.Whether you are single, broken up, or married, you need to focus on your outlook on love and understand the psychological feelings of your partner.Say it out loud, no matter your personality is introverted or extroverted, you need to relieve and communicate, this is your love, in love, there is never a silent lady.
"I am a Capricorn woman, and I think I fit the personality of a Capricorn very well, but my husband is an Aries, and we are now in a marriage crisis... After getting along for so many years, I have never believed in astrology, but now I have to believe it. It's fate, I want to change but it's too late."
When I received this marital crisis notice, I had just witnessed my sister's divorce process.So I sympathize with the emotional experience of this reader friend, but I do not support her divorce if she uses the zodiac signs as the reason for breaking up.
"It's not fate," I want to say to you, "don't make everything as heavy as fate, and love is no exception."
From the perspective of astrology alone, there are many kinds of constellations, which have been mentioned in the introduction of constellations at the beginning.The constellation we generally refer to refers to the sun constellation, but everyone actually has other such as "moon constellation", "rising constellation" and so on.According to the place of birth, latitude and longitude of each person, the angle of receiving the direct sunlight is also different. If these principles are analyzed in depth, it will be a very complicated knowledge, but what we usually believe in is just a simple sun sign.
If you didn’t believe in horoscopes before, and what you believed in was the relationship between two people and the personality of the other person and you chose to marry him, then you have no reason to believe that the other person is not suitable because of a crack in your relationship. to break up.You don't believe in good times, but believe in adversity?There is no such reason.
I might as well give an example of my sister.
She is a very typical little woman, love is bigger than the sky.Her ex-husband went to the same university as her, and the two were childhood sweethearts, and they got along well until they graduated from university and got married after graduation.
They got married as soon as they graduated, and they had been married for seven years by the time they divorced.We used to use the "seven-year itch" to describe the duration of marriage. Unfortunately, this phrase hits the mark.
The younger sister is a typical little woman who makes trouble.My husband is very good. He was accepted by a big company as soon as he graduated. He became a senior executive all the way, but he resigned and started his own business after a short time.My younger sister didn't have a job after graduation, so An Xin became a housewife at home. The man took care of the outside and the woman took care of the house. At first, life was peaceful and beautiful.
The younger sister is a Pisces, a sentimental type, and indeed, she fits the character of this little woman.The husband is a very ambitious and ambitious Scorpio man, and is recognized as the most romantic pairing with a Pisces woman.The younger sister is very happy in love, and she also believes in the romantic fairy tales prophesied by the constellations. When they got married, their college classmates blessed the two with "the most romantic couple in the school", and the elders of both parties were naturally very happy.
My younger sister's head is hot, she regards love as everything, and after marriage she is willing to be the "woman behind a successful man", which is not bad.Before their marriage, the Scorpio man proposed: "I don't want to have children for the time being after marriage." The younger sister felt wronged, but for the sake of the beloved man and his career, she silently accepted it.
If my sister really believes in horoscopes, she should know that the criteria for a Scorpio man to choose a mate is to choose a woman who can protect him.He doesn't need to love, but he definitely needs a "Partner" who can help him.
Therefore, the "Scorpio likes the romance of Pisces but also hates the nympho of Pisces" I mentioned before has come true.Seven years is enough to polish an excellent man into an excellent and tough man, so he naturally filed for divorce in order to improve his career - he has a new spouse, a man who is very important to his career. Helping strong woman.This is so like a novel written by Yi Shu, but it actually happened.
The younger sister was crying so hard that for him, she was willing to be a housewife for seven years, not to show her face, not to go to nightclubs, and not even to participate in college fellowships... All of these were nothing, and the most terrible thing was that she was willing to be a housewife for seven years for him. No children.
A man can simply say "break up" and leave as soon as he says it. He has no burden. In his eyes, the seven-year relationship is no match for the stock that is soaring upwards. "There is no way, this is fate." My sister did the same Say.
"Did he have a relationship with that woman?" I asked.
"I wish them a long life." The younger sister said lightly.
Is it really possible to live forever... I also hope.
I don't want my sister's marriage tragedy to be staged among thousands of women. You must know how helpless and sad she was when she said "fate".
It is impossible for a woman to give up a good marriage unless she has to, especially a married woman.Just as at the beginning, if you took this step thoughtfully and seriously, you will end with deliberate thought—whether it was worth it or not.My sister has not yet emerged from the shadow of a failed marriage. I can only silently wish her well in my heart and find a man who truly loves and cares for her as soon as possible.However, what I really appreciate is that she didn't attribute this failed marriage to the original "unkindness", "missing eyes", "it's all caused by constellations"... At that time, it was this Scorpio The man chased her hard, and finally won the Pisces woman's heart, but after seven years, he didn't stick to it, and ended the marriage with his own hands.
"Don't blame him," she said, "he has better options."
But I want to tell her, and other friends who have had similar experiences, that this "don't blame him" is out of self-liberation. There is no need to hang yourself on a tree and still worry about it all your life. You should choose to let go at the right time.Because, after all, the constellation is not a pleasing dish on your table, and you don't have to worry about it for the rest of your life.
(End of this chapter)
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