Hypnosis: Psychological tricks in life

Chapter 29 Hypnotic Tricks in Life (16)
The word "coax" is often used together with the word "cheat", which becomes a derogatory term.In fact, the word "coax" is inseparable from family life, for example, a child is "coaxed" to fall asleep.Not only children need to be "coaxed", but also adults, especially women.Knowing this, a husband should learn to "coax" his wife in a decent and skillful way.If so, you will definitely receive unexpected results.

A young editor planned and edited several best-selling books, and his career was in full swing, but he neglected his beloved wife with children just a little carelessly.It was past dinner time before he came home.The wife was naturally unhappy, and she became more and more angry with her words: "You have only come back now, do you think this is a hotel? Besides, the hotel also has a 'Notes for Travelers'. Leave it to me to bring up the children! Don’t forget, what I want is a husband! If you want to be the editor-in-chief, don’t come into this house again!”

Mr. "Editor-in-Chief" was not angry, went to hug his wife, and said gently: "Don't be angry, my dear. I work hard, and it's not for you and your children? I know you love me, care about me, and want me to always I want to be by your side, go to the park, dance, or watch a movie with you. I'm too busy. Okay, okay, you're angry too, and it's time to calm down. Sunday, I will accompany you two to go boating and bumper cars, and treat you to a buffet, okay?"

At this time, the wife turned her anger into joy.She deliberately pushed away her husband's hand, and said coquettishly, "You! I really can't do anything about you!" Indeed, "coaxing" is the sweet juice of love between husband and wife. "Coax" is also a lubricant, which can not only prevent rust, but also reduce friction, noise and loss.Husbands, learn the art of "coaxing"!It will make your family life more pleasant and the relationship between husband and wife more harmonious.

If a man can coax his wife, a woman should be gentle.

The famous writer Hardy once wrote that there is an old tombstone in a cemetery somewhere in New Zealand, on which a woman's name and some words are engraved: "How gentle and lovely she is."

This sad husband, who engraved these words on his wife's tombstone, must have countless happy memories: when he came home, his wife's smiling face was waiting for him, and the hot meal was placed on the table. At the table, a little old joke will be echoed with laughter, and the family will always wait for his return full of love and comfort.

Being a sweet and loving woman and having a successful husband go hand in hand.According to experts, if a man's wife can make him happy, he will have more chances to achieve career success.

Although it is not very difficult to please a man, at least it needs to be as clever, clever and hardworking as preparing for a prom-only you don't have to spend as much time dressing up as a prom woman.This is not to say that we don't have to try to be more attractive on the outside, but that we also need to show inner tenderness while taking care of our appearance and clothing.

Notable successful marriages are based on the tenderness of their wives.

All you need to make a man happy is to make him feel comfortable and let him do what he has to do, and that's it.We should all understand that by making him happy, he is doing the most for his success in society, and after 40 or 50 years he will say, "How sweet and sweet she is."

Occasionally irritate the other party and maintain emotional sensitivity.

The gypsy girl Carmen sang in the song: "If you fall in love with me, you are looking for bad luck. If I fall in love with you, you will die by my hands..." This song expresses a lot of love between men and women. the truth.In emotional communication, we can occasionally use the method of intentionally irritating the other party to make the other party nervous and highly sensitive, so that we will not be too relieved or even lose interest in you.

Many women claim that they are born for love, and live for love. When love comes, women always devote themselves wholeheartedly, even if they are "moths to the flame".However, love has its own logic, and it doesn't mean that the more you give, the better.Think about that classic movie, Sassy Girl, where the heroine does nothing but torture men, why is it still so popular?In the play, the extreme expression of women's desire for men to have an infinite and broad mind is actually a "Cinderella"-like wish—no matter how much women struggle, men are always regarded as treasures.Thinking of this, which woman doesn't shine for such a man?Even though he pretended to be extremely tough on the surface, his heart was already full of tenderness.It's not that women are born with a "torture maniac" factor in their blood, it's just because men are animals full of curiosity, the more they can't get something, the more they want to get it, the more you make them unpredictable, the more they will continue to dream.Just like when we see a mysterious cave, we always want to go in and explore it. The "unfathomable" of women can also arouse the curiosity of men.And because he hasn't found the feeling of possessing you completely, he will never stop pursuing you.

There is such a girl who obviously loves a boy to death, but she doesn't say anything, even if there are beautiful girls around him who are constantly pursuing her, she still doesn't rush.She attends classes, studies by herself, visits the library, and participates in various activities. She lives a splendid life. In her spare time, she also watches movies and plays ball with the boy, but she never compromises with him. Three years later, the boy asked her out and said to her angrily, "What are you thinking? Do you know that I have been waiting so hard for you to confess!" Harvest.

Once a man finds the "prey" he likes, he will have the desire to keep it for himself, and if the process of capturing it is full of twists and turns, he will become more passionate.It's like gambling. If you win a big game at the beginning, the man will be calm and calm.On the contrary, if his winning comes very slowly, with twists and turns in the middle, the men will go crazy, they will smoke cigarettes violently, shouting more and more loudly, at this time, I believe nine cows will not pull him. go.

In every "good" woman's heart, love is above everything else. She is very attentive to the man she loves and gives everything she has, but she is always bruised and bruised.But "bad" women are not so stupid, they will never put men first, they "do whatever they want" and do their own way, but unexpectedly, their lives are often "satisfactory".Among men, "good" women are often "effortless", but "bad" women can easily play with men "without any effort". In the final analysis, men are "animals" who like to "fight" and torture them They, they have the motivation to challenge.Since you can't break his flamboyant heart, why not be a "bad girl" and make him wait a little longer, so that he will cherish your hard-won.

Love is easy to forget without tossing and tossing.Only by torturing him properly, he will know that what you want is caring, not ignorance; only then will he know that behind your hard work is not willing to be his nanny, but because you love him.No one will torture those who don't love and don't love themselves. It's not out of grace, but because they don't want to waste their efforts. Torture is another kind of sweetness.

A woman should learn to torture a man properly. Even after marriage, she should use the wisdom and tenderness of a little woman to torture him carefully, so as to slowly experience the pleasure of "boiling a frog in warm water" and make your "frog prince" feel happy. "I've been stuck in love all my life and I can't bear to jump out.

Be mysterious and keep it fresh and attractive.

Smart women don't give men what they want easily, but they don't make men think they are stuffy women either.They often show some sultry little sexiness to seduce a man, but they don't completely satisfy him.When they treat men, they always keep a hand.The remaining part is the fortress that men will always feel mysterious and always want to conquer.Many women dedicate themselves to each other unreservedly, thinking they are extremely noble, but men usually don't appreciate it, and even lose interest in you because of this.A fairy girl will never give her whole body and mind to a man. Only with some reservations can she have some anticipation and a certain sense of mystery, and then she will have the next surprise.

When pursuing "Taiwan's No. 3 Beauty" Hu Yinmeng, Li Ao once said: "If there is a new woman who is beautiful and wandering, charming and confused, beautiful and excellent, sad and sexy, incomprehensible and unreasonable It must not be someone else, it must be Hu Yinmeng." However, when the two of them entered their real married life, the mysterious veil on Hu Yinmeng's body was lifted, and all the hazy beauty of the moon in the mirror and the flowers in the water disappeared. , Li Ao, a great talent, retreated on the road of love. This marriage between a talented man and a beautiful woman ended after only [-] months.When asked by the media about the reason for breaking up with Hu Yinmeng, Li Ao's words were somewhat vicious: "In my heart, she has always been perfect. One time when I woke up in the middle of the night, I suddenly saw Hu Yinmeng grinning on the toilet because of constipation. I feel that perfection has been broken." Although the words are vicious, it is not completely unreasonable to think about it carefully. When a woman loses the sense of mystery in a man's mind, it also makes a man lose interest in continuing to explore. Gradually, they were sent down from the "goddess" to passers-by A, B, C, Ding and the like.

Two men and women who have just met will be very eager to know about each other. Although this is a matter of course, it will also create a disadvantageous situation.Once the other party knows everything about you, their interest in you will cool down rapidly.When a woman loses her sense of mystery in the eyes of a man, she also loses her sense of novelty. From a philosophical point of view, it is human nature to like the new and dislike the old, whether it is a man or a woman.It is human nature to like new things and new things, but not to old things and things we are used to.So, to keep every date fresh and keep him interested in you, be sure to keep a little bit of mystery in the relationship and let him have parts of you that he doesn't understand and don't understand.

A smart woman must know how to keep love fresh. You must know that if you are no longer mysterious, there will be no freshness, and he will have no desire to explore you.Know how to keep a little sense of mystery for yourself, so that men will always feel that you are a book that you never tire of reading, keep exiling your own heart, and keep moving your appearance, and always maintain a sense of mystery.This is the best way to keep your charm and keep your love fresh.

If you lie appropriately, your love will be sweeter.

(End of this chapter)