Your waywardness must be worthy of your ability

Chapter 5 Your willfulness must be worthy of your ability (4)
If she hadn't been so willful: when the wedding company didn't develop in a virtuous circle, she would have resigned rashly.If you're not so desperate, how can you become the most reluctant to let go of the three?Neither of her partners gave up their old jobs.And because she had no way out, she could only fill in the gap time and time again, making herself get into so much that she almost lost her life.

If she hadn't blindly cashed out her credit card, it wouldn't have put herself in the Jedi either.But the worst thing she did was that she didn't dare to bear her own mistakes, and chose to use death to escape everything.But in the process of growing up, who can not make mistakes?I think the lesson of this incident also taught her not to be blindly willful.

As long as people can learn lessons from failures and grow, in fact, one or two failures are not terrible. After all, no one is born with the ability to do everything and do everything well.The important thing is that at any time, you can have the courage to take on and face your own life experience, and absorb the nutrients you need from it.

Like this girl, although she is still in a predicament right now, she has already found a job when they met this time, working as a planner for a well-known local wedding company.Because of her previous failure experience, now she is very clear about the business model and the way of publicity. Hearing her talk about her planning plan, she is very organized. It seems that she is really ready to do a big job.

Although lessons are expensive, seeing how she is now brave enough to admit her mistakes, take responsibility, and face the challenges of life and the future, will she be far from success?

Speaking of this, I suddenly remembered the words of the old lady in "Old Love Letter": "The old monk said that after all, you must see the mountains as mountains, but have you experienced that the mountains are not mountains? Don't just leave while you are young, go to the mountains of swords and fires, If you don't join the world, you think you are born out of the world, and you think you are a living Buddha who came to Nirvana."

If you don't work hard, don't dare to take responsibility, you will only avoid problems. You can hide once or twice, and let others help you solve your life's problems?Can you live a wonderful life by believing in fate?Do houses, cars, and bills really fall from the sky?

Dare to act and take responsibility, not afraid or afraid, not escaping or giving up, and working hard can lead to the life you yearn for.Rather than in this life, living as a person that I even look down on!

If you know where to go, the world will make way for you

As long as you choose the right direction, even if you experience some difficulties, it will only make your life more persevering due to tempering, and you will eventually achieve the brilliance we pursue.

My aunt's cousin is about to enter her third year of high school. During the New Year's party, there was a very interesting interaction, which was to let the children come to the stage to express their ideals.

When looking forward to their future, many children say the same things as they said in the web drama "Wonderful Expectations": Be the general manager, be the CEO, marry Bai Fumei, and reach the pinnacle of life.

There are a total of 47 students in my cousin's class, and almost forty of them gave speeches like this.Looking at the childish faces, I couldn't help but smile. If everyone is a CEO, who will be the CEO's subordinate?

So, I asked a question in an unpleasant way: "The students in our class are very ambitious and all want to become CEOs, but what is your plan? What kind of career do you plan to achieve in a few years, and then At what age do you achieve your goals?"

Standing on the stage is a very energetic young man. He is already taller than me, about 1.8 meters [-]. When he heard such a question, his face was slightly green, and he was obviously stunned for a moment. He couldn't help asking back Said: "The plan...the plan is to be admitted to a good university, study hard, and then..."

The young man obviously couldn't continue. He scratched his short hair and said in a somewhat cramped and self-willed way: "How do you know that I can't do it? Don't you just work hard and strive to become the CEO as soon as possible."

At this point, everyone laughed together, obviously everyone felt unbelievable.

I also laughed, and after I finished laughing, I explained to these children what a CEO is.

"The full name of the CEO is Chief Executive Officer. The chief executive officer is the most appropriate Chinese translation of the CEO. The CEO has a lot of power in an enterprise. He is not only the top executive, but also the spokesperson for shareholders' rights. Therefore, in most cases, the CEO is a member of the board of directors. In this sense, generally speaking, CEO is a title that only the president of a listed company can have.

"The smallest listed company generally has no less than 50 people, which is only a lot more than the number of people in our class. Assuming that the class is a small listed company, your grades in the class are No. 1? Is it the class leader? Is it the best student?"

The young man shook his head and smiled awkwardly.

I continued to express my opinion: "Then how can everyone be sure that they can stand out in the company?

"Well, let's take a step back, even if we are all No.1 in the class." When I said this, all the children and parents laughed.

"Everyone knows, how many university candidates are there in this province this year? There are nearly 26 people admitted. Among them, the first one of the literature and history category is 570 points, and the second one of the literature and history category is 523 points. What is the average score of our current mock unified examination?"

As I said that, I glanced at the score statistics on the blackboard - less than 380 points. "In other words, most of the children in our class can't get into a good university. Even if they get into a good university, how many listed companies are there in China? As of the end of 2014, there were less than two listed companies in my country's Shanghai and Shenzhen stock markets. One thousand six hundred."

After talking about these difficulties, everyone was quiet, and the young man on the stage said embarrassingly: "Then don't be a CEO, it's good to be a supervisor or something."

I still have the same question: "What is your plan? In what industry do you want to become the elite among them? What preparations have you made for this goal? What are your advantages?"

The children on and off the stage were all quiet. Perhaps these things were something they had never thought about.

When I got home at night, my cousin complained that I said this to her friends, which was a bit inappropriate.But I still stubbornly and earnestly asked her about her future plans.The cousin was stunned for a long time, and finally said silently that she didn't have any plans.

Perhaps this is the status quo of many people. When it comes to distant ideals, everyone speaks logically, but when it comes to how to realize their own ideals, few people can tell why.

I couldn't help but recall that I once worked as a salesman in a large state-owned beverage company for a period of time. At that time, the leader was a big man from the Northeast. Because of some disagreements with his boss within the company, he had just been transferred from a large province in Hebei to our central region. small cities in the region.

When I entered the company, he was full of enthusiasm. He followed the salesmen to the market every day, led everyone to shout slogans, drew blueprints every morning, and finally set a very exaggerated year-end sales plan for us, requiring everyone to complete 1 billion in sales.

This sales volume is very abstract, and everyone may not be able to understand this performance requirement, which was so far-fetched back then.At that time, the world-renowned brands "Pepsi", "Coca-Cola", and the Chinese local beverage brand "Wahaha" ranked among the top three in annual sales in China, occupying more than 60.00% of the beverage market.And the company I work for is not any of these three brands.Moreover, through market research, the total performance of these three major brands in this city in the previous year was only 1.9 million in total.

Everyone thought that this was an impossible task, and everyone was very depressed. As a salesperson, our salary is directly related to the completion of performance. If we fail to complete the performance, there will be no commission.Calculated in this way, the salary may drop sharply to about a quarter of the past in an instant.At that time, several old salesmen patted me on the shoulder and said, "Xiaoxia, you are fine. Unlike us, you are a scholar. You come to work here to pass the time. Sooner or later, you will take the civil service exam or have other developments. , we are different, we have sons and mouths, he is trying to force everyone to leave."

At that time, after running business every day, the atmosphere in the company was very low. Everyone played computer games in the company when they had nothing to do, or went out to look for jobs in the name of running business in twos and threes.

After about half a month like this, one day suddenly, our new leader called everyone for a meeting. Everyone thought it was an old saying again, drawing a blueprint and talking about the future.Unexpectedly, he printed a plan for everyone.

The content is very detailed, detailing the task of [-] million to each month, how much each person needs to complete, and listing the daily workload in detail, visiting those customers every week, how much are the monthly and quarterly sales of these customers, What is the purchase habit, what is our current share, and what kind of room for improvement is all analyzed.

After reading it, everyone found that this task is not as difficult as we thought. As long as we do a little more every day and work harder, it may be possible to complete it.Finally, on the stage, the leader waved his hand and said that it took him nearly a month to understand the market and make such an analysis. He thinks it is reasonable and possible. Work hard together, and if successful, we will give you four times the bonus at the end of the year.

Hearing such expectations, everyone was excited, and everyone looked at the content of the plan over and over again.In the end, everyone worked hard together and visited customers every day according to the plan.In order to win the favor of customers, complete weekly tasks on time, and even help in cleaning, moving goods, etc. in the mall.At the beginning, everyone felt very tired, but in the first month, our sales increased by more than 50.00% compared with the previous month.After that, the sales volume increased proportionally every month. By the end of the year, we actually exceeded the sales task of 1 million.

At the company's general meeting, the leader toasted all the people with wine. He said to us: "Actually, as long as we turn the goal into a countdown and refine it to every day, we will find that dreams are not as big as we thought. Far."

Finally, the leader smiled and said: "I have a creed in life, which is to firmly believe that if we can clearly know where we are going, the world will make way for our efforts."

At that time, I thought, if it weren't for the detailed plan behind him, would everyone be scared away by the 1 million sales target?The answer is of course yes. At that time, as far as I know, two colleagues have already started interviewing around, looking for a new job.

After seeing the leader's plan, we found very clearly that we are not far from our goal.Moreover, after achieving the goal, the harvest is very rich, and everyone's enthusiasm is immediately inspired.

At this time, my cousin ran over and interrupted my thoughts, and handed her the dream written by her, with only one sentence - I want to be an outstanding forensic doctor.

It seems that she only has a goal, but she doesn't know how to go. I took it over and asked her to continue writing, for example, what major is she going to take for the college entrance examination, what score is she going to take to get into this major, and so on.

The cousin thought for a while and wrote down: University major-criminal psychology.

I couldn't help but mockingly told her that criminal psychology is not a discipline of forensic medicine at all. You don't even know what forensic medicine is, but you still work as a forensic medicine doctor?First of all, forensic medicine is a highly professional profession. Women in this field do not have an advantage in employment. You have to overcome many things that you are afraid of, such as various dead animals, insects, disgusting smells, and horrific killing scenes.Moreover, the forensic doctor has to take the civil servant exam, and the physical requirements are very strict. 1000 meters and pull-ups are compulsory subjects, and poor physical fitness is useless.

Then I asked my cousin, how could she become a forensic doctor when she took the 1000-meter physical examination and still took more than 4 minutes. She never even failed the physical examination?How can you succeed if you find the wrong way to reach your ideal direction?Sometimes choice is more important than hard work, and only by taking the right path can we move forward with less effort.

The cousin was a little silent holding the letter paper with her ideals and longings written on it.I saw her wrinkled little face, and couldn't help but persuade her, it's like a philosopher said: "I walked a lot of roads in my dream, but I woke up in bed." It vividly tells us a truth - people can't Lie in a dreamlike ideal to live.

We not only have our own ideals, but also know how to realize them.Try to achieve everything, instead of lying in the ideal and waiting for the beginning and end of each day, so that the ideal is not only far away, but even what you already have will be lost.In my opinion, forensic medicine is not a suitable career for her. She might as well study with peace of mind and not waste time on unrealistic ideas.

But later, I found out that I was wrong. Not only did my cousin not give up, but she began to work hard for this ideal.From that day on, she would run home after school every day, and then set aside an hour or two to go hiking on weekends.In less than a few months, my cousin's 1000-meter time has been shortened from the original 5 minutes to [-] minutes and [-] seconds, and during the summer vacation, she insisted on going to the sports school to participate in the training camp, although she was tanned and thin later, But her physical fitness began to be significantly better than other students of the same age.

On that cold night, she wrote down her ideal with a pen, which is one of the most important choices in her life.After she clarifies her future path, she will gradually approach her life goals step by step in her own way. From the initial improvement of physical fitness to the subsequent academic progress, everyone can see her growth and changes.I believe that as long as she continues to work hard on her own path, her life will become more persevering due to tempering, and she will eventually reach the glorious shore she is looking for.

Efforts in youth are for a better life in the future
Try to use your persistence, confidence, and wisdom to polish a splendid life.

I don't know whether it's luck or misfortune, but the few friends I know are living more and more like Bai Fumei in people's mouth, which makes me, the oldest "old man", feel a little embarrassed to see a few old friends.

(End of this chapter)