Women must read: Love depends on robbing, marriage depends on support

Chapter 12 Self-worth depends on oneself, noble people depend on wisdom to give their lives (1)

1. Fairies "marry down" and witches "marry up", double-faced girls are always popular items
Women like men to label themselves "fairies", and this sense of holiness makes them feel ecstatic.Fairy tales tell us that a girl with a crystal heart has a happy life.A kind girl can break the spell for the prince's love.

As a result, many women have overdrawn their kindness along the thorny road of love, acting as ambassadors of love, supporting men from being poor to prominent, and then being thrown into the trash can of history by men like a rag.

What about the days after?He didn't even want to think about it.Because you're connected to his rotten, moldy past.And those days were precisely the ones he never wanted to click again.How could he tolerate being so dishonest?

This kind of news is plentiful.It's a pity that the latecomers are still going forward.

Women tend to be confident in their own judgment.He, not that kind of person, he will be grateful.

Women, they think that if they hold the trump card of "tenderness and sweetness", even a hundred steel refiners can turn them into tenderness.

Women like to think they are smart, they don't have much morality, but they all think that their magic power is boundless.The white lady has practiced for thousands of years, gentle and virtuous, in terms of beauty, kindness, tenderness and sweetness, who can match her?Isn't it the same as being jealous and disgusted by your husband?

Abuse of "tenderness and sweetness" is tantamount to going to the "battlefield of love" with a bomb tied on. As long as the man you love is gently pulled, he will be smashed to pieces immediately.

Whenever I meet a woman who is broken in love, my friends will persuade me, don't be afraid, they don't know the goods.You are so good, so beautiful, so kind, but they have no vision, and there are high-quality men waiting for you in front of you.

I am deeply saddened to hear these words.You are good, ordinary men are no longer blessed to enjoy it, let alone a high-quality man who embraces red and emerald green, and is full of stars?
Men are doomed not to be able to digest too much goodness from women, just like eating too much candy will cause tooth decay.

It's not that women can't get rid of the "heart addiction" of love, and they just want to chase men and give.It's that women often use hallucinations to elevate their figures, and they don't hesitate to work for their "fairy title".They were so moved by the roles they played!

Occasionally, the man also compliments eloquently: There are too few girls like you who don't love money and don't admire vanity!The woman increased the drama and became more holy like a snow lotus.

Yes, men like girls who don't smell like money.But they played with her good enough, and couldn't help but not get tired of it.Money or not is not the key to whether a man in love likes you or not!If he refuses to give you a little bit, why do you sell your tenderness cheaply?
Don't forget, snow lotus has an unworldly purity, and also has a proud heart that refuses to be obscene!The easier it is for you to be mastered and played with, the easier it is for men to speculate about you with vicious thoughts: the price is so low, is it inherently flawed?
People always have a kind of frivolity and intimacy towards low-end services.

So, don't be afraid to show your domineering, indifferent and vain, you know, the bottom line of a man in love can be lowered infinitely.

Yanan is such a "fairy" girl. She once had two boyfriends who were from poor families.Apart from the ambition of being unwilling to be inferior to others, the resources that can be held in hand are pitifully few.However, when they used up all the good that Yanan gave, without exception, they began to sneer at her and find fault with her.Helpless, Yanan had no choice but to leave them with a wounded heart.

At the age of 26, Yanan met a diamond boy again, and he admired girls like Yanan very much. He was also very discerning, and felt that girls like Yanan were rare, so he cherished them like rare treasures.In this matter, Yanan's circle of friends and family are very supportive.They witnessed Yanan's ups and downs in the sea of ​​love, and hoped that there would be a man who really knew how to cherish Yanan, who could comfort her hurt and tired heart.

But to everyone's surprise, Yanan was extremely indifferent to this successful man, which was uncharacteristically.She seldom contacted him proactively, sometimes she was happy and sometimes angry, and occasionally lost her temper, and ignored his small favors.

Before, this successful man could be said to be omnipotent.Women cling to him as hard as candy.Meeting such a freak as Yanan, his outlook on life and values ​​have been subverted.Under his entanglement, Yanan said, if you really love me, give me an Hermes bag!A few days later, several Hermes horse bags of different styles were placed in front of her.He specially brought it back from Hong Kong.The man said, despite your vanity, I still like you.He added another sentence, that is, I can tolerate you.Yanan couldn't help but laugh.

In the past, she devoted herself to her boyfriend without asking for anything, but what she got in return was that they were more and more picky about her.Now she is almost like an iceberg princess, paying very little, and pretending to be a gold-worshiping girl, why is the diamond man able to accommodate her in every possible way, and love her as always?
Later, Yanan walked with the diamond man, he treated her very well, and even gave Yanan a platinum card, allowing her to spend within the specified amount.

Friends all envied Yanan's good luck, and asked her how she managed to capture such an excellent man?

Yanan smiled wryly in her heart, she knew that she had used some scheming, it was all unintentional plotting!

In fact, the reason is very simple. When Yanan gave up role-playing, threw away the aura of "fairy", and used some witch tricks from time to time, good or bad, they were staged in turn.In this way, the diamond man felt that she was very real.

We know that falling in love with a perfect sculpture is exhausting.In order to maintain their elegance, perfection, and holy aura, they dare not say excessive words, dare not make demands that should be made.Don't act like a baby, don't roll around, don't engage in petty ambiguity.A few caring text messages every day, and a phone call that is neither long nor short.Will not match the wrong clothes and shoes at the prom, and give enough face in front of her boyfriend and friends.I never ask my boyfriend for gifts, and insist on AA when eating.

Moreover, in the eyes of a high-quality man, all this is an extremely deep disguise of Chengfu.

Therefore, Yanan's vanity and domineering in front of the diamond man, from another perspective, is also a girl's sense of reality.A girl with a "sense of reality" will make men more infatuated.

Many girls like Yanan who are obsessed with their holy feathers and the halo of the Virgin are actually suffering from "fairy syndrome".There are high-quality men, diamond men, and they don't even look at them directly, but they are keen to use down-and-out men to set off the "sanctity" of their hearts.

It's asking for trouble!Facing the denunciations of their relatives and friends, their sense of happiness became even stronger.The more the secular society opposes it, the more it shows their nobility of being different from others.

Another type of girl with "witch syndrome", if she can grasp the bad sense, can also be like a fish in water in love.But often they can control the indifference of emotion, but lose the mystery of desire.Blindly attracting bees and butterflies, worshiping money with open mouth, changing boyfriends like changing clothes, and openly posting records of ambiguous conversations between himself and men.Let the men evacuate quickly, for fear of being ruined by them.

In fact, fairies and witches are originally two sides of a woman's personality.Don't suppress your personality too much.Let them play out alternately, and become a "double-faced girl" that never fades in the eyes of men.

Emotional experts tell us that "fairies marry women" and "witches marry women", women might as well be bad, tricky, and reserve a few ambiguous spare tires to lure him into jealousy, be more sexy, and be more charming.

In fact, love is not purely good or extremely bad, love requires a certain degree of balance.

Good is good without indulgence; bad is bad with a bottom line.Only the "double-faced girl" who switches back and forth between fairies and witches, can make men want to stop.I gritted my teeth with hatred, but I couldn't bear the sweetness you gave me later.

It's not that all human beings are cheap, but it's easy to get delicious food that numbs the taste buds.The sweetness obtained after all the hard work will be unforgettable.

Women who repeatedly fall in love often fail to grasp the balance between "fairy" and "witch".A little more fairies, or a little more witches, may make love fruitless.

Love is like driving on a cliff, it requires a calm mind, flexible skills, and cruel wisdom.If the mind is not calm and clear enough, the ending must be thrilling enough!

(End of this chapter)