Women must read: Love depends on robbing, marriage depends on support

Chapter 13 Self-worth depends on oneself, noble people depend on wisdom to give their lives (2)

2. Don't be the marigold in front of the prince's window, but be the nightingale
I often meet girls who ask me, tell me, what qualities do tall, rich and handsome men like?
Some girls, encountering a rich and handsome "ambiguous attack", couldn't help it, and asked me in surprise: What does he like about me?My looks or my talent?How should I HOLD him?

When Gao Fushuai really appears in front of you, but seems to be looking at flowers in a fog, appearing and disappearing from time to time, then you must be scratching your heart.Afraid of losing because of inadequate interaction, and afraid that your impatientness will fall into his eyes!

Which trait does Gao Fushuai like?Of course, there is no certainty.But a woman with the qualities of a "Nightingale" must have a much better chance of winning than a "Calendula".

Many girls like "soft-hearted tricks", playing the gentle card, painting smoky makeup, wearing sexy lingerie, and wearing sexy clothes, trying to melt his hard heart with a woman's tenderness like water.

is that useful?useless.

It's better to use "hard packaging" and "soft investment" to kill with one move, which hits the soft spot!

What is "hard packaging"?To put it simply, there needs to be something real that can give a man a boost.Such as knowledge, such as talent, such as fame.

What is "soft input"?To learn the temperament of a nightingale, to have a beautiful singing voice, but not close to humans.

The more high-quality a man is, the tighter his defense system is, and the more vigilant he is against a woman's naked passion.

It's better to let your enthusiasm temporarily kneel down and let your worth rise.Focus on the beauty of your voice and soften the passion you put into it.

In this way, on the main battlefield, you have a chance of winning.

Yin Tao is a model, she can be described as glamorous, but the modeling industry is quite controversial, especially for laymen, they will look at it with pornographic glasses.In fact, Yin Tao is still a clean woman.how to say?She longs for love.

Women have material and spiritual pursuits at the same time, depending on how much this accounts for.Yin Tao belongs to the category where the spirit score overwhelms the material.

Most of Yin Tao's sisters are close to rich people, but they are all second wives and have no status.For many rich and powerful men, modeling is a "vase career", a "lover" and life assistant.

Why is this kind of woman often a second bedroom?Because rich men classify women.Those who are well-matched or have a certain reputation (must be recognized by the society, not frivolous reputation) should be the main wife.The Vase Lover acts as a side room and acts as a social lubricant.

The profession of modeling is quite embarrassing. If it is a film and television actor, at least it looks a little bit interesting, with some artistic and elegant things in it.Models are easy for people to directly associate with "sex", leaving a relatively superficial impression on people.This is where the model is more embarrassing.

Although the girls around her persuaded Yin Tao that women's youth is limited, and there are some people chasing them now, but there is no such shop in this village, so hurry up and choose the best ones.You see it is not good for us to be the second wife, but are you willing to let you marry a low-level man?After all, he's still a celebrity!Marry Gao Fushuai, at least have a financial security, in a few years with the money to start a business. . .Women, don't be too lofty.

But Yin Tao has her own ideas, she really wants to enter the marriage in a dignified manner.

The man Yin Tao met was from Wenzhou. He was 33 years old and looked very young. He was a typical "tall, rich and handsome".He is very good at doing business, and his company is quite famous.He is unmarried, so Yin Tao looks forward to him very much.Competing with her is a female painter and a female screenwriter.Yin Tao's advantage is that she is younger and more beautiful than them, but her disadvantage is also obvious, no one has a higher social status.

At the same time, there are two rich old men chasing her, who are not inferior to Little Wenzhou in strength, and they are very eager to pursue her. If she agrees, she will have no worries financially.However, the name must be given up.

However, Yin Tao really wanted to win over Little Wenzhou.

She treated this man very well, using all kinds of tricks such as a woman's coquettishness, tears, tenderness, playing hard to get, giving small gifts, caring and considerate.She often walks by the river, and she is familiar with some methods of capturing men.What was the result?Little Wenzhou is always close to her and sometimes far away.Going out to socialize, just call her out.When introducing her to others during the dinner, her attitude was rather ambiguous.

But when it's cold, you can stay cold until the end and don't contact me for a week.Appearing again is still full of momentum.Yin Tao was confused, what exactly does this mean?What can she do to make their relationship clear?

I told her, don't be too hot, but keep him cold for a while.During this period of time, you need to find some other "capital" to decorate yourself, and maybe arouse his "curiosity".Because this kind of man has a dead spot in his feelings, and his dead spot is that he likes women who can't be grasped.

I learned that the female artist wanted to hold an exhibition.Her career needs his financial support.For this purpose, she is also very enthusiastic.As for the female screenwriter, she has transformed from a writer to a screenwriter. She doesn't need to rely on a man for support, she relies on her own talent.

I said, this screenwriter is your biggest "rival in love".At present, you need to update the "spiritual equipment" to make him feel that you still have a little pursuit, rather than the cookie-cutter Barbie doll on the assembly line.

I gave her some suggestions, looking for something to learn about design and creation.Obviously, Little Wenzhou likes women with cultural and artistic temperament.In addition, mastering a few more foreign languages ​​is also a bargaining chip.You also need to improve your cultural taste, update your knowledge reserves from time to time, and read more in-depth things instead of just looking at Ruili or something.

When you focus on self-improvement, you will naturally "cool down" your feelings for him, and you may retreat to advance, or you may have a chance.

She kept saying yes.However, I am still a little worried that Little Wenzhou will choose her in the end.

why?

First, it stems from the vanity of rich men.They are not short of money, but short of face.High-level intellectuals naturally make them feel more radiant than models.

The second is the characteristics of female screenwriters.Her unique aloofness, aloofness, and independence are the "weaknesses" of rich men.When the double "golden locks" come down, the rich man's heart will be tied tightly, and any rival in love will be left alone.

In the relationship, you must use sober wisdom to position yourself.

The position of "plaything", even if it is a temporary luxury, will not last long after all.To be the marigold in front of the prince's window is glamorous, but it is easy to be ignored or even replaced.Because the beauty "closed in the golden cage" is within reach, without a sense of mystery.

And the nightingale singing in front of the prince's window has the most beautiful voice, and at the same time, because of the erratic feeling of "coming and going like the wind", the man can't stop!
The cruelty of a woman lies in the fact that she can make her hard packaging approach perfection through suffering.

The cruelty of a woman lies in not being too involved because of worries about gains and losses.Love needs a sense of mystery of "ambiguous positioning".The proud swan always looks up at its beautiful neck.The ducks in the pond made eager noises to prove their existence.When you don't define a position, a man will have an urgent passion to ask you to set a position for him.

A noble temperament, a profound background, and a proper sense of alienation are the best tactics for love.

(End of this chapter)