Be good like water: life management lessons from Park Geun-hye to women

Chapter 10 Believe in yourself: "Women are not just supporting actors" (3)
In Park Geun-hye's view, a woman can not only take care of the family, but also solve the problems facing the country.Her high-profile attitude infected women all over South Korea for a while. They followed Park Geun-hye's example and began to continue their studies, or appeared in various elites in South Korea.

Of course, Park Geun-hye didn't let the man's mind, not only helped her win the "gender battle", but also made her always have a strong fighting spirit and great ideals in her career.In a speech, she once said: "The 21st century is an era of global cooperation and competition. For the president, diplomacy and security are the most basic and most important tasks. Unlike the past, saving economic development depends on us alone. Efforts on our own won't do. Our economy can only survive and thrive if we have the diplomatic ability to cooperate and compete with the world."

Focusing on the world and the future is the core idea of ​​Park Geun-hye's administration. She believes that South Korea must open three doors before it can enter the ranks of developed countries.First, the door to the world should be opened; second, the door to the hearts of the people should be opened; third, the door to the future should be opened.With such a majestic mind, South Korea has attracted the attention of the whole world in just a few years. The advanced experience and technology of South Korea have been introduced by many countries in the world, and the fashionable Hallyu culture has swept the world, making countless Young people screamed crazily.

Who says open-minded women are not cute, Park Geun-hye is the best proof.She is not only working hard towards her great ideal, but also bringing endless hope and light to a country and a nation.Nowadays, many women only care about their husbands and children, and they only care about daily necessities. Of course, there is nothing wrong with being responsible for the family, but have you ever asked yourself: Have you ever had dreams besides these, and have you ever cared about other things besides family? , Can you also fight desperately for more meaningful things in the human world with great courage?
In today's era, if a woman wants to work hard for her dream, she does have a lot of resistance.Women should have more reasons to be successful than men, because they have to work harder and overcome more difficulties for every bit of gain.It is precisely because of this that such a hard work is more valuable, such a sacrifice is more meaningful, and such a mind is even more commendable.

A woman should have a good moral character.Cultivating the mind and morality can make a woman save money, be gentle with the world, and be willing to work hard for the happiness of more people, including her husband and children.A woman should pay attention to the accumulation of knowledge and experience.Through continuous learning in books and real life, one's mind and tolerance will naturally become broad and broad.This allows women to get rid of fantasy, base themselves on reality, and look at the world with inclusive and profound eyes.A woman should be more responsible.This world does not only belong to men, but women also have a responsibility.Women should have a lofty sense of responsibility and mission, and strive all their lives to make this world a more beautiful place.Therefore, women should have the mind not to let men down, and should see more of the whole world and a bright future.

Even if she becomes a leftover woman, she will not marry herself
Park Geun-hye used practical actions to break the myth that the Korean political arena is ruled by men. Although she was unmarried and alone all her life, she dedicated the rest of her life to the country she loved deeply.

After being elected as the new president of South Korea, Park Geun-hye made a touching speech: "I have no parents, no husband, no children. The country is the only object I hope to serve." The female president gave up her personal marriage for her own ideals and career. Although such a declaration is ordinary, it has a shocking power.

In her youth, Park Geun-hye also thought about finding a suitable partner to marry herself like other women, and living the life of a housewife in an ordinary family.But since her mother passed away, she replaced her mother as the "first lady", and she was so busy every day that she didn't have time to fall in love.The blows came one after another, her father was assassinated, and for a long period of time after that, she kept searching up and down in pain, which also made her see the reality of life more clearly and strengthened her direction in life.Later, she returned to the political arena. Although she occasionally envied the warmth and happiness of those loving couples holding hands and taking a leisurely walk on the boulevard after intense work, her heavy sense of mission prevented her from caring about her own feelings. In her heart, there is only the happiness and well-being of the people, the future and destiny of the country.

At the APEC meeting in 2015, she followed behind those heads of state and their wives in pairs. The smile on her face showed people a kind of strength that is rare in the world.In the traditional Chinese concept, Park Geun-hye never married, which is not only a shortcoming, but also a failure, but the significance of this failure lies in the fact that she devoted her whole life to the great revival of the national cause.When many young girls were still struggling to find a suitable boyfriend, she had already become the "First Lady" of the country, and heavy responsibilities and missions had become the theme of her life; in many married women While still lamenting the boring family life, she is running around for the country's political reform, struggling to revive the country's economy, and working hard to solve major national issues such as the North Korean nuclear issue.From this point of view, "whether to marry" must not be used as a criterion for evaluating a woman's success or failure, because for many women, there are too many more meaningful things waiting for them to do in their lives than marriage.

Some people say that a lonely warrior can go on bravely, not by escape but by faith.Just like the Swedish queen Christina, although she was born noble and capable, she never married, because in her opinion: my pride makes it impossible for me to submit to anyone.

In life, the only goal of many women in life is to get married. As long as they don't get married, they will feel a deep sense of guilt if they don't get married, because of the anxious urging of their parents and family members, and the strange eyes of friends and colleagues around them. This kind of crime is the incompleteness of life.Some women give up their ideals and pursuits in order to get married, and even find a man who they have no feelings for, just to prevent themselves from looking lonely, and to prevent themselves from becoming "leftover women".But when the goal of getting married is accomplished, our lives don't seem to get any better because of it. We wasting time in the cage of marriage, making do with a man we don't love, and slowly becoming a soulless void. A shell, or a dispensable accessory for a man.This is the greatest tragedy of women.

In fact, there is no need for modern women to attach their lives to marriage at all. They can have careers and pursuits, and they can always choose brilliance and beauty along the trajectory of their lives.In addition to love, there are actually too many beautiful things in this world that are worth our lifetime.Or become a hot business elite in this bustling city; or go to a romantic town and open a warm bookstore to enjoy the years quietly; Sprinkle to the wider mountains and rivers.All of these are enough to make us unmarried and have no regrets.

Even if you don't have such lofty ideas, even if you don't have ambitions like Park Geun-hye, at least you should find someone you love to marry instead of succumbing to reality because of age or other reasons.Love is love, not love is not love, marriage can't make do, and life will never come.Compared with the long journey of life, it is not worth mentioning not to find a suitable love partner for a while. Good things always come later, and some people are worth waiting longer.

Please remember, even if you are a "leftover woman", don't just make do with marrying yourself off.Age is not an excuse, and reality is not a reason. Those beautiful things will appear in front of us only if we believe in them and are willing to work hard for them.

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