Be good like water: life management lessons from Park Geun-hye to women

Chapter 21 Igniting Hope: Facing the Storm, You Need to Confront (2)
Keep faith even in the face of danger
Park Geun-hye's life was spent in all kinds of despair and danger. The death of her relatives and the betrayal of her old friends once made her extremely desperate.In the early days of her return to politics, criticism and criticism never stopped, and those who supported her in private chose to remain silent in public.She was isolated and helpless, and even faced the danger of ruining her political career, but in any case, she never gave up her belief in her heart.

On May 2006, 5, Park Geun-hye, a representative of the Grand National Party, arrived at the Hyundai Department Store in the Sinchon area of ​​Seoul to deliver a speech.The moment she boarded the speech car, a man suddenly jumped out from nearby and stabbed Park Geun-hye in the cheek with a sharp weapon in his hand.An 20-centimeter-long wound appeared on Park Geun-hye's face, causing the skin and flesh tissue from the ears to both sides of the chin to be rolled up, and the injury was very serious.

All the staff present were flustered and frightened. Only Park Geun-hye was extremely calm and just covered the wound with her hand, comforting the staff that she was fine and not too nervous, she could continue to speak.When she was sent to the hospital, her blouse was already stained red with blood. When she was pushed into the operating room, she still did not forget her responsibilities. She told the staff around her that now is the critical moment of the election. Unwavering support for this election.

During the recovery period after the operation, Park Geun-hye could only drink porridge every day because the wound had not healed, and she could not turn her face to the side with the wound when she slept.However, Park Geun-hye is always concerned about the election situation, and often asks the work around her about the situation in the constituency.On the ninth day after the injury, Park Geun-hye insisted on leaving the hospital and continuing to work despite the dissuasion of the people around her.She believes the attack, which nearly cost her her life, ultimately survived.So after she is discharged from the hospital, she will continue to strive to lead the people to realize the dream of an advanced and powerful country.

Perhaps on this road of struggle, there will be various dangers. What makes Park Geun-hye fearless?It is a firm belief, a belief in a lifelong struggle for the country and the people.After going through this dangerous situation, she showed the people her tenacious character and extraordinary leadership ability. Her fighting spirit and sincerity infected everyone, especially her character of never losing faith under any circumstances. Election of the Queen" lays a good foundation.

Park Geun-hye's experience reminds us of another fable: In the desert, an expedition team trekking hard has been in danger: they have no water.There is no moisture in the desert, and the cruel ending can be imagined.With an idea, the captain took out a jug from his waist, raised his hands, and shouted in surprise: "I still have a jug of water here! But no one can drink it before crossing the desert." Rediscovering a firm look, the belief that they must get out of the desert supported them to stagger and move forward step by step until they narrowly escaped death and walked out of the boundless desert.At this time, the captain carefully unscrewed the lid of the kettle, but strands of sand flowed out slowly.He said sincerely: "As long as you have a firm belief in your heart, dry sand can sometimes turn into clear spring water."

Faith is the beacon of life, it can point us to the other side in the wind and rain.In the same situation, whether we can stick to our beliefs and believe in hope can produce different endings in life.The feasting of modern life has made people gradually forget what they once insisted on, and faith seems to have become a luxury.The loss of belief is the destruction of self. Even in a peaceful life, people's souls will feel lost and life will feel boring.Once encountering any danger or desperation, people without faith are vulnerable, and there are only wailings of despair and pain under the shroud of darkness.

Sticking to the faith is a kind of belief, a kind of self-confidence, and a kind of pursuit.As long as we have faith, we will not fall into the abyss of darkness, and we will not daydream all day long but never realize it.Maybe on the road of life, we are too small and ordinary, but as long as we dare to stick to our beliefs, those small dreams can become reality.Fate sometimes works against us, leaving us alone, leaving us in despair, and making us suffer.The more this is the case, the less we should give up our beliefs, as long as we continue to persevere, as long as we don't take these things to heart, we will have the hope of overcoming all difficulties and obstacles.

The beauty that breaks through the self and breaks out of the cocoon

Park Geun-hye believes that life is a war, and our enemy is only ourselves. If we defeat ourselves, we will no longer be afraid of anyone.Regardless of whether there are still various temptations ahead, whether there are unexpected difficulties and blows, none of these will make Park Geun-hye feel intimidated, because no matter how the environment changes, all she has to do is to break through and overcome herself.

Before becoming the "First Lady", Park Geun-hye was just an international student who was ignorant of the world, and knew almost nothing about political affairs, let alone any experience in diplomatic work.But she is not afraid of such a challenge, and even feels that this is a rare opportunity for her to surpass herself.She believes that as long as she has courage and wisdom, as long as she can work hard, she will be able to complete the work of "First Lady".

During that time, Park Geun-hye often attended diplomatic talks with her father, and her main task in the talks was to make full use of her strengths to defuse the tense atmosphere through relaxed and cordial conversations, which just made up for her experience. lack of.Every time before a formal meeting, she will do a lot of preparatory work to organize all kinds of relevant materials neatly.She also sometimes acts as an interpreter by her father's side. During this process, she learned a lot and her whole person changed a lot.

With the help and guidance of her father and her unremitting efforts, Park Geun-hye quickly became familiar with diplomatic procedures and maintained good relations with political and business people in many countries, which has been maintained to this day.In Park Geun-hye's view, the improvement of diplomatic ability cannot be achieved overnight, it will take a long time to achieve it.In short, she completed the diplomatic mission of the "First Lady" very well, and gave herself a brand new experience, and gained growth and experience from this experience. From then on, she was no longer that ignorant Little girl, this laid a good foundation for her to become a qualified leader in the future.

The reason for Park Geun-hye's success is that she dared to break through herself and challenge a better self.She is not complacent, slack, or cowardly. She faces the challenges of life and takes the initiative to take on jobs she is not familiar with.With wisdom and diligence, she overcame difficulties and broke through herself. No matter what happens in the future, she can only persevere and move forward bravely towards her inner goal as always.

On May 1824, 5, Beethoven led his orchestra to play his own "Ninth Symphony".At the end of the performance, deafening applause erupted at the party scene in Vienna, but Beethoven did not feel such a warm atmosphere in the audience at all.This is because Beethoven can no longer hear any sound.In 7, Beethoven suffered from ear disease, but for music creation, he didn't take it seriously, always thinking that his ear disease would heal soon.Beethoven lost his hearing completely until 1796.But under the cruel blow of fate, Beethoven did not give in. He once again stood up from the pain and suffering. He believed that even if he was deaf now, he could do better than before. He also swore Said: "I want to challenge fate! I want to hold the throat of fate!" Since then, he has been more focused on his music creation than before.In this way, under the great suffering of ear disease, Beethoven overcame the pain, broke through himself, created a large number of popular and eternal symphonies, and became a world-famous great musician and composer.

To break through the self, we must reject the slack heart.We can't rest on our past achievements and credits, we can't be content with the status quo and stop moving forward, we can't follow others' advice, follow the crowd, and lose our adherence to our ideals.It is important to remember that breakthroughs are only achieved by those who reject mediocrity and let go of slack.

Are you envious when your neighbors get a brand new car?When a colleague is recognized by the leader and gets a promotion and salary increase, are you jealous?Do you complain about the injustice of the world when you see your classmates who are not as good as you in the past, but now they are the big bosses of listed companies?When you know that your good partner who grew up together is now a famous hostess of a certain TV station, have you ever lamented the bad luck?
At this time, we might as well ask ourselves, when those challenges that can change your destiny appear in front of you, do you accept it calmly, and do you dare to seize the opportunity to break through yourself?Most people's answers let us down.When facing an unknown field, many women always say: "That's it, don't toss about it", "What women need is stability", "The risk is too great, I can't accept it".Negative self-mockery again and again makes us lose too many opportunities to break through ourselves, and miss too many opportunities to grow and succeed.If we were a little more brave, a little more determined, and a little more eager to succeed, maybe the ending would be different?
To break through yourself, you must maintain a humble attitude.Many challenges in life require experience and abilities that we do not have, so the more we do this, the more we must be open-minded and ask people around us for advice.Listening behind closed doors and admiring our narcissism can only make us a frog at the bottom of a well, unable to see the wider world.

To break through yourself, you must have the determination to work hard.Conquering a high mountain must be full of difficulties and obstacles, not to mention that the opponent today is ourselves.We must not be slack in the slightest, we must have the determination to break through, no matter what difficulties we encounter, we will never give up, and we will never give up until we achieve our goals.

To break through yourself, you must have a farsighted vision.If a country can broaden its horizons and look to the future, it will always stand tall.If a person can see farther, he will not be frightened by the difficulties in front of him, he will not look left and right, and be timid, but he will see the direction he wants to work hard, and then go on without hesitation.

Whether it is the "First Lady" or an ordinary student, whether it is the protagonist of life or an extra, as long as you do your part, perform your tricks well, challenge difficulties, and surpass yourself, you will have the beauty that emerges from the cocoon.

Facing a crisis, respond decisively

The reason why Park Geun-hye can stand out and become the first female president in South Korean history is largely because she has a more decisive character than a man.She never procrastinates in doing things and makes decisive decisions immediately.In the face of crisis, she took decisive measures to save the reputation of the Grand National Party, and her practical spirit and style of immediate action without delay also left a deep impression on people.

What annoys women the most?The answer is choice.

In the mall, we often see a woman struggling and fidgeting because she doesn't know which pair of shoes to buy.When dealing with feelings, a woman's indecision is often more obvious. When her partner has done something disloyal to her feelings, she clearly knows that she can't forgive the other party in her heart, and she can't let the relationship start again, but because of reluctance, she cares about the past. The warmth and romance during the relationship, so I can't make up my mind to break up.As a result, the two people who could have gotten together and parted ways, repeatedly dragged each other in constant hesitation and hesitation, and the final result could only make themselves more painful.

Indecision seems to be a woman's nature, but Park Geun-hye is not like that. March 2004, 3 was Park Geun-hye's first working day as a representative of the Grand National Party.It should have been a happy day for everyone, but Park Geun-hye made an astonishing decision to declare her determination to eradicate corruption within the party.

Before Park Geun-hye took office, the corruption of the Grand National Party was already very serious. Not only did it lose popular support, but it also cast a thick cloud over the future of this political party.She deeply realized that she couldn't wait any longer and had to take action immediately, because it was not only related to her personal future and destiny, but also related to the future development direction of the country and the living conditions of the people.

She conveyed her decision to the Chief of Affairs: she would not go to work in the party building, and asked other party members to move out of the luxurious office building and work in tents.She feels that only in this way can the understanding of the people be obtained, and those party members who have been stained with corruption can repent and reform.

Together with the party members, she removed the signboard of the Grand National Party from the wall of the building, and then slowly carried the signboard to the tented office in an open space.The working conditions in the tents were very harsh, and many party members caught colds in winter.Because there is no air-conditioning in the hot summer, everyone is sweating profusely, and some people have prickly heat.When Park Geun-hye saw several pregnant female party members enduring the suffering, her heart was more painful than anyone else.However, she knows that her decision is not wrong. Only in this way can everyone unite as one, uphold the sense of crisis that no reform is impossible, and make the Grand National Party a party that can reassure the people as soon as possible.

Many people in life always have bad habits. They can procrastinate when encountering difficult things, as if making a decision later will develop in a better way.As everyone knows, such delays are often the beginning of failure.Especially in the face of a crisis, the room for maneuver left for us is very limited. If we cannot decisively come up with countermeasures, the consequences will inevitably be unimaginable.

(End of this chapter)