Don't be too personal, don't be too impersonal

Chapter 27 Life can also cultivate temperament (5)
[-]. Health is always the most important thing

Do you rely on your energy and often turn on the lights to fight at night, play cards, karaoke, and go to nightclubs; do you rely on your good health to wear only a pair of stockings and a thin coat in winter to help the cold wind? Relying on his youth, drinking, racing, and going to work on an empty stomach.You think that young people should walk around in style, this is the most individual and charming.It wasn't until later that you discovered that your internal organs were frequently sick. Drinking alcohol caused stomach pain, smoking caused lung pain, and you got arthritis at a young age. Don't mention what stockings to wear, I can't wait to put on a pair of big cotton trousers.Even without the above-mentioned "bad habits", sitting in an office is sub-healthy.So, you start to miss the days when you weren't sick.You start to regret it, thinking that you should go to bed early and get up early, eat on time, take a walk, stretch your legs, and do yoga.You finally understand that the pace of modern society is fast, and everyone wants to grow wings. However, no matter how busy or urgent you are, you can't leave your health alone.One day, health is like wings, allowing you to fly with the wind.

Health is always the most important thing. Even if you have tens of millions of fortunes and countless reputations, when the disease strikes, everything about you is vulnerable.Remember, health is always the most important thing. Don't forget to exercise because you are in a hurry to fight, and don't use your youth to gamble on tomorrow, thinking that you are not afraid of anything when you are young.If that's the case, when you are sick and admitted to a dull and monotonous hospital, you will know how important health is, how important it is to see the sun tomorrow, and how happy it is to bathe in the warm sunshine.Even if you are full of confidence in your career, an illness can knock down all your confidence. At that time, you will feel the importance of health and the horror of illness.If you lose your health, you will live a very depressed life without freedom.

We must know that our health carries not only the confidence and hope of a person, but also the expectations and happiness of our family and those who care about us.Remember, they are watching us silently, they don't care how high our career and reputation are, they just hope that we will appear in front of them every day in good health and happiness.

Health is always the most important.Health is the cornerstone of our life and the source of happiness.Health cannot replace everything, but without health there is nothing.If we want to create a brilliant life and enjoy the fun of life, we must cherish health, learn to live a healthy life, and let health become the source of our happy life.There are many standards that can measure whether a person's life is happy, but health is always listed first.Without health, you will lose your sound body and spirit, and your life will be eclipsed.Don't forget your health because you have to struggle, just like a tall tree, when the disease strikes, no matter how tall and strong it is, it will die.Take good care of your health.Health is hard-won, how can a person who doesn't know how to take care of himself feel the existence of happiness?How can you love the people around you?Don't exchange health for money, health is priceless, if you don't have health, what is the use of more money?I'm afraid he can only be counted as a miser.

Health is also the capital of our career success.Health includes two types: physical health and mental health.Physical health and mental health are complementary and affect each other, and they also restrict the harmony of interpersonal relationships, especially the two mental states of confidence and courage, which are directly related to the success or failure of our career.If we lose our health, our thoughts will be negative and pessimistic, we will lack confidence and courage, and it will be difficult to produce creative thinking.Everyone's life is not smooth sailing, and will be full of setbacks and pressures from all aspects. Only with a healthy body and mind can we be able to bear all kinds of setbacks and pressures, and have enough energy to start our own career.

Health is a kind of wealth, but also a kind of happiness!For a happy family, the common wealth they have is health.Health is what every happy family must have, and it is the source of a family's happiness.If there is no health, then everything will lose attachment, including career, love, happiness, and money.Health is the cornerstone of all careers. No one should see their health diminish with the passage of time, but should find ways to make it better and better over time and make themselves stronger.Only by constantly saving your own health can you go further on your own struggle, and the accumulated wealth will be meaningful, otherwise everything is useless. Go enjoy them.

Stephen William Hawking is one of the great scientists with international reputation in this century, and he can also be regarded as one of the most outstanding scientists in history. His scientific achievements are unparalleled, and he is known as the Einstein of the new era.His life is also very legendary. This disabled person who has been confined to a wheelchair for more than 20 years because of Lou Gehrig's disease has made unprecedented achievements in science.He proved the inevitability of the black hole and the singularity of the big bang, the black hole is getting bigger and bigger, but in the framework of quantum physics, he pointed out that the black hole is getting smaller and smaller due to radiation, the singularity of the big bang is not only limited by the quantum effect Smooth out, and this is where the entire universe began.

Hawking is not only a great scientist but also a famous writer of popular science fiction. His representative work is "A Brief History of Time" written in 1988. This is an excellent astronomical popular science work. Zhuji, Hawking used the most simple language to make people understand his description of the future of mankind, and made people understand a great work of philosophy and science.The book's circulation has reached 2500 million copies and it has been translated into nearly 40 languages.Hawking firmly believes that the basic ideas about the origin of the universe and life can be expressed without mathematics. He believes that the world can understand his esoteric theories through the audio-visual medium of movies.This is a popular book about exploring the nature of time and the frontier of the universe. It is the most important classic work on contemporary scientific thoughts about the universe, and it has changed human beings' conception of the universe.

In addition, Hawking is also the author of several masterpieces such as "Hawking Lectures - Black Holes, Infant Universes and Others", "The Nature of Time and Space", and "The Charm of the Future".

Although he has achieved world-renowned achievements in the cause of science, when someone asked this great man of this century what he wanted most, he "said" to the wheelchair that imprisoned him all his life and could not do without: "Be with yourself. My wife ran together again." At that moment, countless people burst into tears.

No matter where you are or what your goal is, don't forget your health.Get up every morning and take some time to go for a run, exercise your body, take a few deep breaths on the bus when you go to work, and you will find that you will have a happy mood.

Health is always the most important thing, don't regret losing your health tomorrow.

[-]. Give yourself a creative life

It is a personality for young people to be creative.There may be such people around you. Their salary is not high, but their life is full of fun.They don't necessarily have suits, leather shoes and jewels, but when they appear, almost everyone's eyes will be attracted to them, just because they are simple, generous and ingenious.Looking at their lives again, they can be poetic or romantic, and there seem to be infinite possibilities.In fact, you can do this kind of poetry and romance, sometimes it’s nothing more than a simple to somewhat clumsy doggerel for the other party.Sometimes, there is an indescribable beauty in watching a small flower swaying in a dilapidated rental house and selling the remaining roses.Don't worry, it doesn't matter if you feel that your current life is like a pool of stagnant water, try to make your life change slowly, and slowly you will find that your life seems to be more and more creative.

French psychologist John Farber once did a very famous experiment with caterpillars. He put many caterpillars on the edge of a flowerpot, connected them end to end, circled the flowerpot, and then swarmed not far from them. Put on their favorite food.

After the experiment started, the caterpillars began to crawl along the edge of the flower pot, one circle passed, two circles passed, until the whole day passed, the caterpillars always followed the same kind of crawlers in front of them, and did not realize at all that they were not in front of them. There is their favorite food in the distance.After three days had passed, a whole circle of caterpillars had starved to death on the edge of the pot.

In fact, if a caterpillar can look up and look around, they will find food not far away, and they will not starve to death. This is a kind of follower effect, they just follow the former blindly, without any Considered their own way, and never doubted their way was right, and thus led to death.

This effect tells us that following others blindly does not necessarily lead to good results, and that our lives require creativity.Creativity refers to the ability to generate new ideas, discover and create new things.On the other hand, you can also realize that instead of always burying your head in doing your own things, you should often raise your head to look at the world around you, so as to add a little creativity and freshness to your life.

You have to believe that new methods will bring you new experiences, and at work, new methods will often bring you new benefits.Believe that there is always a solution to all problems, but thinking of a new method requires thinking and it is very brain-intensive.Therefore, most people are too lazy to think and innovate, and the learning psychology from childhood to adulthood has made you develop a habit of dependence, that is, you will only blindly learn, imitate others, and follow others on the road that has been paved , Follow the experience of the predecessors without knowing innovation, and finally form a thinking inertia, you are no longer willing to change to another way of doing things.In fact, looking at the problem from another angle and thinking about it in another way will bring you surprising discoveries.Therefore, life is so beautiful, why not live in another way, give your life a little innovation, and make your life more interesting?
A clothing store has just opened. Because it is summer and the weather is hot outside, customers who shop here like to shop in an air-conditioned store, because it can cool down for a while.So the store manager installed an air conditioner in the store, so the number of customers immediately increased, and the turnover immediately increased.

However, after a long time, the problem came again. There were too many customers shopping, so there were also many customers who went to the store to rest.The longer the customer stays in the store, the chance of shopping will increase. However, due to the crowding and inconvenient standing, some customers will leave, resulting in the loss of customers who are likely to buy.After a period of observation, the store manager decided to open up a space in the store, put a drinking fountain and a dozen chairs, and the store door also marked: This store provides ice water for free.

In this way, it really works. Customers continue to enter the store to drink water. After drinking the water, they can rest in the store for a while. The comfortable environment and unexpected services have greatly enhanced the customer's desire to buy. Sales are also on the rise.

When the traditional sales method doesn't work, the store manager thinks of another marketing method, that is to use his brains on service, give customers what they need, and keep customers' hearts.The same is true in life. If you live in a different way and give your life a little more innovation, you will have a higher quality of life.

Mrs. Li and Miss Mo are neighbors who have just moved to the same floor.Mrs. Li has a gentle temper, is mature and generous, and always has a friendly smile on her face.But in fact, she is not happy. Although the family income is quite high, they are busy with daily necessities and work, which makes her feel that this is too far from the life she dreamed of when she was young, so she always feels very tired.

On the contrary, Ms. Mo is a salesperson of a company, her income depends entirely on payment, and she is busy with the business every day. However, she always looks cheerful and laughs heartily when she sees happy things.She goes out after dinner every day when she gets home from get off work, and when she comes back at night, she is still humming a song with food in her hand. It seems that happy things happen around her every moment.

It turned out that Ms. Mo was single and needed to buy vegetables and cook every day, but she regarded these things as shopping to relax, and when cooking, she always felt that she was preparing a happy dinner for the family.Every night, she would take out her notebook and mark a nearby place that she was not familiar with as her exploration site tonight. When she came back, she would pass by the snack street to buy something to eat. Her life was very enjoyable.

The same life, the choice is in your hands, give yourself a creative life, live a creative life.You have to believe in one thing: the ultimate goal of life is happiness, and the reason why you are looking for creativity is nothing more than pursuing a truly happy life.Happiness and creativity are inseparable, and the opposite of creativity is mechanization. How can you be happy when you live a mechanized life?Suppose your work today is very mechanical, what should you do?As a civil servant, you deal with the same documents every day at work, as a doctor, you see similar diseases every day, and as a lawyer, you have to deal with daily legal affairs rigorously. Is it possible to live creatively in such an environment?First of all, if you want to have creative space in your work, you cannot allow yourself to fall into a mechanical mode.

Are you still troubled by the fact that you are not born smart?Don't worry, in fact, you should think about it, who is born smart?rare.Don't worry that you are not smart, intelligence is growing slowly, and everyone develops intelligence through learning, so as long as you work hard to exercise your intelligence, you don't have to worry about your thinking being inferior to others.Creative thinking is nurtured, and like playing the violin or the piano, thinking requires daily practice.In life, we should learn to cultivate our own creative thinking through conscious exercise.

First of all, you must have a firm belief. You must never give up your creative changes to your life because of laziness, let alone refuse to create because you have no confidence in yourself.You can't go along the road that others have walked, you must be brave to open up, make up your mind, walk your own path, and leave your firm footprints on your own path.Dare to challenge the limit and do what others think can't be done.Before you innovate, you should understand that innovation is a very difficult and challenging process, which requires clear goals, firm beliefs, and sometimes endures the cynicism of others.Because innovation means that you have to break through the routine and what ordinary people always think is correct. If you fail to do it, or encounter setbacks halfway, the people around you will sneer at you and persuade you to give up your goals. Let you stop being whimsical.At this time, you need to sort out your thoughts, not be disturbed by the emotions of outsiders, strengthen your confidence, and fight forward against the pressure.In fact, other people's opinions don't matter at all, because you have done what others can't, and you should be proud of your current achievements.Sometimes, innovation doesn't have to completely negate everything before. Innovation can also be a kind of comprehensive integration of your own resources, or a kind of development of your own unknown potential.Numerous examples prove that those who achieve success are not all highly educated, disciplined, and diligent, but those who are willing to use their brains and break through the rules.

Second, learn to think about things from another angle.You have to learn to look at things from another angle and treat life with another attitude.If you want to cultivate your own innovative ability, you must learn to cultivate your divergent thinking.Facing the same problem, the more solutions you can imagine, the stronger your divergent thinking will be.For example: when thinking about the use of a piece of paper, you should not only think of writing on it, but also its other uses, such as folding into various things, drawing, burning, making window paper, etc.

Finally, dare to keep trying, you have to understand that everything is discovered through continuous trying.Mr. Lu Xun once said: "Actually, there is no road on the ground. If there are many people walking, it becomes a road." The process of finding the road is a process of continuous experimentation.In the process of trying, you will definitely face many setbacks, but remember, don't be knocked down by setbacks.

Therefore, exercise your creative thinking and treat life with a changing attitude. Only by giving life a little creativity can life greet us with a more exciting attitude, making us love life more and more and feel the happiness brought by life.

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