90 days of cultivation temperament goddess

Chapter 2 The beauty of a woman's temperament can last forever (1)
The world is beautiful, but it also has shortcomings. The beauty will disappear with the passage of time, but the inner temperament is with life.

Temperament is the external manifestation of a woman's internal self-cultivation or self-cultivation, the unconscious expression of her inner beauty, and a flowing charm emanating from her bones.This kind of charm will not disappear due to the out of shape of the appearance, nor will it be obliterated by the passage of time, but will become more and more precipitated with the rich experience, and become more dazzling and charming.

Women are not afraid of old age, but also of being ugly, but of lack of temperament.

The beauty of a woman's temperament can last forever.

Women are not afraid of getting old, beat time with temperament

The past two years have been the year of Zhen Huan, and the current screen is dominated by "The Legend of Zhen Huan", where "Huan Huan curls up at the waist of the palace of Chu" is everywhere.

That night, when the bright moon was in the sky, the emperor went to his lady Wan. She felt inferior, because she found the white strands in her hair, and suddenly felt sad, and tears filled her eyes.

That sorrow, you know, is a beautiful woman, who is not afraid of old age?When a beauty is late, it is an inextricable struggle like a cold pool with no roof, like growing old in the loneliness of long stars shining on the cold street, it is really chilling to think about.

Old age leads to color decline, color decline leads to love relaxation, love relaxation leads to refusal, in the usual thinking of women, this seems to be inevitable.Therefore, there is almost no woman in the world who hopes to let others, especially her beloved man, see her aging.

Everyone will get old, but aging does not necessarily mean that beauty cannot be preserved.For example Zhen Huan.I still remember that at the end of the plot, Zhen Huan transformed into the empress dowager, and visited the former empress who was imprisoned in Jingren Palace as a double winner in love and career.The empress was getting old, but Zhen Huan's charm remained undiminished. The empress gritted her teeth and said something like this: "After so many years, you haven't changed at all, not even the way I hate you."

People say that time is a "pig-killing knife", and the knife makes people grow old.However, the same women who have been "tortured" by the sharp knife of the years, those who have no temperament are old and have no sense of beauty, and those who have temperament still retain their beauty and elegance even when they are old.It seems that in the hands of a woman with temperament, time is a "carving knife", not a "pig-killing knife".

The beauty Maggie Cheung holds such a "carving knife" in her hand.

Maggie Cheung is a classic figure in the entertainment industry.Not to mention the halo above her head, her elegant posture and almost eternal masculine temperament are enough to make many women envy and envy her for a lifetime.The years were defeated in front of her.

I remember that at the Cannes Film Festival a few years ago, the 40-year-old Maggie Cheung came on stage as the best actress winner to thank: "This is the most unforgettable moment in my life." , conquered fans all over the world, and "murdered" countless film rolls of on-site reporters.This is Maggie Cheung, a woman with thousands of faces and styles on the screen; A woman who exudes unique charm everywhere.

Looking at the photos of her when she first debuted, she is just a pure girl with two small canine teeth, not too beautiful.Twenty years have passed, Maggie Cheung, who is tall and delicate-skinned, is over 40 years old, and the traces of time have climbed between her eyebrows and eyes, but her beauty is more eye-catching than when she was young, and her rich life experience has added to her There is a lot of charm and femininity, and it exudes a mature, noble, calm and calm temperament from time to time, shining everywhere it goes.

She has a broad vision, free footsteps, likes challenges, and dares to take risks... Her beauty has extended from the movies to outside the movies, and now many people mention her and like her, no longer because of a certain movie or a certain smile.It is more of a spiritual enjoyment she brings to everyone, a visual feast that cannot be ignored.Maggie Cheung has a kind of charm, which is not only reflected in her elegant and decent dress on various important occasions, but also in her calm and calm expression and manner, even when she smiles, the two arcs on her lips All lines have charm flowing, and this charm is temperament.

Maggie Cheung once said that a woman's beauty is a gift from heaven, but a beautiful temperament is a state.When you pass through the beautiful and colorful appearance, what you will show must be a wonderful life.

Then can we understand it this way: God can take away what is given by God at any time; but the beautiful temperament is the state cultivated by ourselves, and this state can be our own forever.A woman with temperament can make years feel inferior in front of her.Therefore, only the beauty of temperament can keep its beauty forever. Therefore, women are not afraid of getting old, but they are afraid of not having temperament.

You see, at the same age of 40, most women keep their mouths shut. But he tells us with his own popularity: He has temperament and is not afraid of getting old.Following them, even the vicissitudes of life have become beautiful.

Some people say that they are stars, someone pays the bill and has money to pay for it!Haha, what you said is sophistry.There are also celebrities who are over forty years old and show their old age.Therefore, the beauty and charm of a woman really has nothing to do with money and fame, but only with cultivation.

Women are not afraid of ugliness, they use their temperament to captivate all living beings

The Creator created man, perhaps to show off his greatness and talent, and always likes to seek the perfection of things amidst contradictions.So after creating the gender difference between men and women, for the same gender, various types were created.Especially for women, the ring is fat, the swallows are thin, the beauty is unsalted, and there are thousands of kinds of beauty, each of which is different.

Some ugly women choose to give up on themselves and accept it, or condemn social injustice, or complain that God has no eyes, but they just don't reflect on themselves.So he just gave up on himself and got deeper and deeper in self-pity and self-pity.

In fact, women are really not afraid of being ugly, but they are afraid of not having temperament. "Ugly girls" with temperament can also play around in the world.In the literary and art circles of the entertainment industry, those "first sisters" and "posts" who are so popular are not necessarily beautiful women, but this does not prevent them from being glamorous and captivating all beings.

Even Yang Lan, a famous woman, was once timid because of her ugliness.No matter in business or as a woman, Yang Lan is a model of a successful woman, but she is not a beautiful woman, and she was once dissatisfied with her appearance and had low self-esteem.A few years ago, in the "Story Behind" column of Hunan Satellite TV, she revealed the mental journey of being "ugly" and almost passing by the host career.That was when she applied for the post of host of "Zhengda Variety Show", because she was not very beautiful, so that she was only "considered by the program director" in the sixth audition.At that time, Yang Lan was very shocked. When she returned home, she kept looking in the mirror and felt that she was really ugly.Fortunately, her mother comforted her at this time, her eyes were only a little smaller, and everything else was fine.At the last moment, she said to the director: "I am not very beautiful, but I am very temperamental." This sentence deeply moved the director, and Yang Lan was able to pass.For this reason, Yang Lan has always insisted that the host does not have to be beautiful, and a woman's mind is more important.

Coincidentally, Zhang Dandan, the host of "The Story Behind", also almost passed the post of host because of her lack of good looks.When talking about this experience, both of them are very thankful that they were not defeated by their appearance, but defeated it with their own temperament.What's more interesting is that the two asked the audience in unison: "Are we ugly?" The audience applauded.

That's right, not to mention good-looking women like Yang Lan and Zhang Dandan, even those real ugly ducklings, as long as they have temperament and self-confidence, they can also become the best in the PK with beautiful women.

There is such a workplace story:
An advertising company was recruiting at the liberal arts college of a key university, and selected two girls, both of whom had fairly good academic performance.A girl surnamed Ma is naturally beautiful; another girl surnamed Li is plain-looking.The advertising company judges people by their appearance, and Xiao Ma is assigned to be in charge of the field work, dealing with customers, entertaining customers, negotiating, and signing orders; Xiao Li is assigned to do the back office, responsible for printing, answering the phone and making coffee.Although some people think that such an arrangement is unfair, Xiao Li has no complaints.In the first three months, just as some people expected, despite her dedication to her duties, Xiao Li's performance was not good. Everyone thought she would be "fired" soon.

However, from the fourth month onwards, the situation reversed, and a big deal that Xiao Ma Tan collapsed was actually negotiated by Xiao Li, and the advertising fee exceeded 80 yuan.This incident caused a sensation in the advertising company, and many people cast surprise, admiration, envy and even suspicion on Xiao Li's success.Since then, Xiao Li has received advertisements one after another from some foreign businessmen, and his results are far ahead, completely overshadowing Xiao Ma's glory.Xiao Ma was very unconvinced, thinking that someone must be obstructing it, but the company leader told her truthfully: "Xiao Li signed the list because you talked about it in a few words before it collapsed."

In order to find out the mystery, someone asked an American businessman who signed the form, what kind of actions Xiao Li moved him.The American businessman said: "In Xiao Li, there is a kind of eagerness for success and recognition. She puts herself very low in the negotiation process. Her humility, candor and art of thinking about the customer in details , like a young girl in a big family who is always thinking of others. She strikes me with her friendliness and temperament, but rarely backs down on substance. Although she is not beautiful or fashionable, she may be Girls' Generation The experience of being neglected repeatedly made her know how to observe and understand others, and this temperament impressed me." After Meishang's explanation, the listeners were convinced.

In this story, the temperament composed of humility, honesty, and intelligence far outweighs the beauty of appearance.

Of course, we are not saying that the uglier a person is, the better, but that absolutely beautiful things do not exist in the world.Everyone will have defects of one kind or another, and there is nothing to be afraid of. The key is to have a positive attitude towards life and a persuasive temperament.

The beauty of a woman's temperament can last forever

Temperament is a classic that never ends on a woman.The beauty of a woman's temperament can last forever.Even if she is old, or even dead, when thinking of her, it is still the beautiful appearance when I first met her.

You might as well play a mind game with me: When you mention the name of Audrey Hepburn to yourself, what kind of image will appear in your mind?That must be the sweet princess in "Roman Holiday" with playful eyes, an innocent smile, and a tight waist, with free skirts fluttering freely in the noisy streets of Rome, a sweet princess who escaped from the royal family, an innocent girl who enjoys life in the city.This is the eternal Hepburn in the hearts of the world.

Because of temperament, so eternal.

There are many more such beauties, and the ones I want to mention most are those who never fade away in the Republic of China, such as Zhang Ailing, Lin Huiyin, and Lu Xiaoman.As far as I know, many people, including men and women, have an irresistible fascination for the women of the Republic of China.

In the Republic of China, people who looked at flowers by the riverside were well-known if I didn’t think about it. Although it was not the era when Shanghai wore cheongsam to show off, no matter how long it has been, when I think of them, they are still fresh and pretty.

When it comes to Zhang Ailing, she is still the rebellious aristocratic woman wearing her grandmother's old cheongsam with her hands pinched at the waist. Few people would think of her curled up and aging in a distant foreign land.She does not have an advantage in appearance, but a well-educated woman of noble origin, even if she is not beautiful, her aristocratic temperament is also a good background, not to mention she has a magical mind and a beautiful weapon. What about the mysterious pen!Such a woman who combines nobleness, talent, arrogance, and childishness is naturally extraordinary.

When it comes to Lin Huiyin, the impression is always that she is dressed in the school uniform of the Republic of China, with two braids, and a talented lady with both talents and looks. She has a colorful life and is entangled in love.She once wrote a poem for Xu Zhimo, saying that he is the April day of the world.In fact, in the hearts of those men, she is the April day of their dreams.Her beauty, her talent and her sympathetic little temperament, all of which make people's hearts flutter.

When it comes to Lu Xiaoman, it will always be Miss Jiao who rests her chin and writes love letters.If Tang Ying in "Southern Tang Beilu" is a cinnabar mole on a man's heart, then Lu Xiaoman is the bright moonlight in front of that bed.She is not a rose, but she is more beautiful than a rose.She is a blue sea, clear and transparent, yet profound and unpredictable.She can dominate in any era, and she can arouse the passion and desire hidden in all men.

When it comes to Dai Wangshu’s Rain Lane, it’s still the lilac girl holding an oil-paper umbrella; when it comes to Hu Die, it’s always the beautiful woman with her signature dimples on soap and cigarette advertisements in the 20s…

An era has passed away, and what cannot be erased is the legend left by that era; the beauties have passed away, leaving behind countless beauties and aloes.

Today, we miss Zhang Ailing, Lin Huiyin, and Lu Xiaoman not only because they were born noble, lived passionately, and loved to the fullest, but also because of their specific femininity in a specific era.Their magnificence is peerless, their brilliance and beauty are an unforgettable scenery...they are all gone, and there are many talented women.

Maybe you think that era is too unique, that group of women is too lucky, or too far away, in fact, there are many such good women around us.

My classmate's aunt is such a woman. Now she is over [-] years old and has become a grandmother, but every time I see her and think of her, I still remember her charming and decent appearance in my mind.Short permed black hair, georgette top, crisp trousers, bright eyes, moderate figure, friendly smile, I am obsessed with every gesture anyway.Her walking posture, her smile and her frown are all imitated by our group of yellow-haired girls.At that time we swore that when we grow up, we must also be such a woman.In fact, she is not delicate, she is just a worker in the food bureau in the era of planned economy, but she is beautiful in every way.She doesn't have perfume, but her body always exudes a faint and elegant fragrance of soap that seems to be absent.Now that she is old, when I go back to her hometown occasionally, and see her walking, playing, and dancing in the square with her granddaughter, I always have auditory hallucinations, as if she is standing beside her when she was young.I don't feel her aging at all, what she brings to me is still a beautiful audio-visual experience, I would like to see her and get close to her.I think no matter how beautiful the spring breeze is, it cannot compare to her smile.

Therefore, women with temperament are the best women, they are always bright and charming, because the elegant style that reaches people's hearts is forever frozen, what they looked like when they first met, and they are still the same when they see each other or when they miss each other.

Beauty will grow old, life will eventually disappear.What is left in the end is a unique temperament that is worth remembering.This is true of the style of the Republic of China, and so is your style.

Temperament is not the patent of a few women, but the welfare shared by women all over the world

Time to ask the question: what is temperament?
Temperament is a person's temperament, cognition, knowledge, and self-cultivation. It is a unique bearing, charm, and breath that has been accumulated over a long period of time. It is everywhere and all the time, manifested in its words, deeds, and behaviors, and permeated in its soul and blood... …

You may have seen such women: they are not beautiful, they are not from prominent backgrounds, and they do very ordinary or even humble jobs, but they are always so decent and glamorous, making people look very comfortable and like to approach her.

And some women, although they are high and powerful, dress up with heavy makeup and jewels, but the clothes and jewelry do not look good on them at all, and they are simply wasted.

Take the above two kinds of women as examples. Although the former type of woman is ordinary, she has temperament; the latter type of woman is quite expensive, but has no temperament.

(End of this chapter)