90 days of cultivation temperament goddess

Chapter 8 Be an Intellectual Self, A Woman Who Has Poems and Books in Her Belly Doesn’t Scribble (1)
Most women have an almost obsessive love for fashion and cosmetics, which may be due to nature.Women often spend a lot of money and time on grooming without complaining.However, a truly charming woman does not rely on beauty, but on connotation and intelligence.Appearance can attract people, but it may not necessarily keep people.A truly attractive woman does not rely on power and beauty, but on knowledge and experience.Power and beauty can satisfy people, but they may not convince them.

Face is easy to age, power is easy to lose, only intellectual charm can last forever.

There are some women who like books.Buying books, reading books, writing books, books are their durable fashion and cosmetics.Even if they are wearing ordinary clothes, with bare faces, walking among women with jewels and heavy makeup, they will still be eye-catching.It is temperament, self-cultivation, talent, and intelligence that make them stand out from the crowd.

Ill-breasted women impatient
Where does the temperament of a woman come from?Both Gorky and Carnegie have discussed this issue.

Gorky said: "Knowledge changes temperament."

Carnegie said that he admired another kind of woman, called an intellectual woman.He believes that this kind of woman is the most attractive. They are smart, cunning, and humane. They surpass the innocence of ordinary girls, and are also very different from the aggressiveness of strong women. They inadvertently reveal a soft and intellectual femininity.

It seems that both Eastern writers and Western philosophers have a preference for intellectual women.

In fact, this point has long been understood by our ancestors.The ancients said: "There is poetry and calligraphy in the belly." It means that knowledge can make life enter a deeper inner layer, make the soul shine, and thus make people's temperament and demeanor appear.Just 7 words are enough to reveal the relationship between knowledge, temperament and demeanor. "Qi" refers to "vigorousness", which is the vitality of personality, that is, temperament. When a person has a high degree of knowledge and cultivation, this "qi" is naturally revealed.

"There is poetry and calligraphy in the belly" If it is used to describe the beauty of a woman, it has a deeper meaning.The beauty of a woman is given by her parents in the first 20 years, and cultivated by herself in the next 20 years.A woman with a flowery face can only be said to be beautiful, but her beautiful body will grow old one day, her beauty will no longer be, and her youth will fade away.As for a talented woman, her talent and temperament are no longer attached to her appearance.A woman with elegant conversation and superior temperament may be elegant and refined, or delicate and dignified, with graceful beauty in her gestures and gestures, and a high spirit when talking and laughing... Such a woman is beautiful.We have to be this kind of woman.

Intellectual female audiences like
As journalists, Yang Lan, Chen Luyu, Zeng Zimo, Shen Xing, Zhuang Jing... These well-known hosts are active on the screen.In fact, the word "intellectual" can be added to their titles.Intellectual women, like a tepid lily, turn around elegantly and gorgeously, and the agility between their eyebrows and eyes all reveal their intellectual beauty.And this kind of beauty is just reflected after they have read poetry and books.What they have is that they are free in front of the camera; what they show is calmness and humility behind the scenes.They were rated as "the best host" and "the most intellectual female host" by the audience, and they were loved by the audience.

Intellectual women make men obsessed

Whether single or married, men all have the dream of a confidante, but confidante does not only refer to appearance, but more importantly, connotation.It's hard to imagine that a woman who is as beautiful as a flower but has a rough manner and superficial knowledge can become a man's confidante.For a man, communicating with a talented woman is a very pleasant thing. He will learn some novel thoughts, a little delicate emotion, a wonderful sentence, and a wonderful chapter.Most of these women are smart and intelligent.If a lot of things have to be explained clearly, a man will live a very tired life.In this regard, talented women absolutely do not need a man to remind them.They have high judgment and comprehension, they are free and easy, and they will make others feel relaxed and happy.

However, intellectual and elegant women are not born, they must be built by self-cultivation.Intellectual women are full of poetry and books, giving people a heavy feeling, and this feeling will become deeper as you get to know her more.This is the charm of culture and the role of knowledge.

Of course, such women do not live in a vacuum, and their lives are practical, but they will never make all these vulgar.They don't care about the number of digits in a man's bank account, whether he drives a luxury car, or whether he lives in an apartment or a villa.They all have a skill, gain respect by their own efforts, and do not rely on men to support them.More importantly, they all have independent consciousness.They have never regarded marrying a rich husband as their life goal, nor will they become candidates for some wealthy husbands.They never waste their lives. They know that life is limited and life has a limit, and they will not get too much grievances and right and wrong in the face of things that have failed them. What they pursue is life efficiency and human dignity.

In short, the beauty of women comes from the continuous shaping of intelligence.If a woman has temperament, three points of beauty can be increased to seven points; if a woman has no temperament, seven points of beauty can be reduced to three points.A woman must understand herself, and should always be healthy and beautiful, with a beautiful quality and good looks.A real woman is like a raging fire, which can burn, has flame like fire, has light like lamp, has precious gas like gold and silver, but sometimes it is like a cold spring that can flow deep in still water.Innocence is a kind of beauty, and health is also a kind of beauty. Whether it is tenderness like water or calmness and fortitude, whether it is passion like fire or plainness and truth, let yourself be full of beauty and confidence, work and live seriously, and stick to your rich Spiritual home, only in this way can we have our own piece of clear sky.

Knowledgeable women are not equal to intellectual women

What is intelligence?Is it short for Intellectual Women?

of course not!Through looking through the dictionary, we know that intellect refers to the innate cognitive ability of the subject to think about perceptual objects, synthesize special and unconnected perceptual objects, and connect them into regular natural scientific knowledge.It seems that intellect refers to the external temperament naturally emitted by internal cultural conservation, which includes the following meanings.

Knowledge of books and principles is the prerequisite for an intellectual woman
Knowledge is a foundation of intellect.A woman without knowledge cannot become an intellectual woman.But not all intellectual women with higher education can become intellectual women.For example, those women who read dead books, have tasteless words, and have a sloppy image.Another example is those women who are well-educated but rigid.Intellectuality is related to reading. Love of books can enable women to gain ideas and life insights, so that they can observe the world calmly and make people live smarter.

Knowledge and interest are the most attractive places for intellectual women
Intellectual women are people who should understand the taste of life. They are knowledgeable and interesting, understand the style, and can create a romantic life.They understand men, they will not embarrass men, and they will save face for the man they like and love.They also occasionally act like a baby and make petty tempers, but they will definitely hold their proportions just right.

Wisdom is related to age
Intellect is related to age and years. Before the age of 30, it is flamboyant and flimsy; after the age of 30, it is restrained, full and rich.An intellectual woman must be a mature woman, graceful and restrained, with rich connotations.Women are like water. If you compare a young and beautiful girl to a cheerful stream running in a mountain stream, then an intellectual woman is like a wide and steady river.Although there are fewer waves, but more accumulation, full of charm, every ripple of her is admirable.

Wisdom is related to experience
Intellect is a kind of accumulation, the accumulation of knowledge, the accumulation of life.Intellectual women must have insight into world affairs and human relationships.They are good at dancing on the big stage of society, but they are not arrogant; they know the ways of the world, but they are not kitsch;The experience of life and the tempering of the years have made them more calm in their self-confidence and stronger in their self-reliance.They are talented, elegant, smart, and humorous; they are natural, simple, unpolished, and unaffected.With them, you will feel like spring breeze, refreshed, relaxed and happy.

Intellectual women are both spiritual and resilient

"Spirituality is the understanding of the soul, a kind of intuition, and a kind of understanding of the soul. A spiritual woman is understanding and understanding of the true meaning of things. Elasticity is the tension of character. Elastic women, character Flexible and stretchable. She is good at persevering through compromise.” In my opinion, an intellectual woman must be the unity of spirituality and flexibility.They are dexterous, intelligent, have strong comprehension, and are easy to communicate and exchange.They are not stubborn, good at combining principle and flexibility, and treat others with tolerance.

Intellectual women know balance

Intellectual women have a ruler in their hearts, measuring others and themselves at the same time, and always maintain a proper balance with the external environment, and constantly adjust their own deficiencies in life.Intellectual women have a kind of calmness in facing their own souls, love or hate, they can afford and let go, they are a kind of people who experience in life and live in experience.Intellectual women have a long-lasting charm, which deduces the true life of intellectual women, writes about the sad and joyful life of intellectual women, radiates the brilliance of intellectual women's life, and makes intellectual women in the ferry of life. In the process, a state of magnificence and beauty is presented.

It is not difficult to be an intellectual woman, so why not learn to be an intellectual woman?Constantly update your knowledge in life, increase your wisdom, improve your taste, purify your mind, enrich your experience, accumulate your experience, enrich your life, enhance your self-confidence, insist on your self-reliance, practice The charm of self.Even if the years have carved deep wrinkles on the face, it doesn't matter, there is wisdom in every wrinkle.Even if the years make you part ways with the devil's figure and light body, it doesn't matter, you have your own temperament and charm, and you know how to dress yourself up with wisdom and noble taste.

If it is possible, I hope you are willing to be such a woman.

A woman who loves to read makes a man nostalgic

"Tea is intoxicating, so why use wine, books are fragrant, I don't need flowers." Reading is the source of temperament and spirit to keep youth forever, and it is the only way for intellectual women.

A woman who loves reading is a beautiful scenery no matter where she goes.She may not look amazing, but she has an inner temperament: her elegant speech is extraordinary and refined, her elegant demeanor does not need to be modified, it is quiet and dignified, moving elegantly, it is dignified in sitting, free and easy in walking, it is natural Simplicity and subtlety are mixed together, soft like water, charming like wind, and gorgeous like flowers... There are many women who love reading around me. The most reasonable and beautiful essays are pleasing to the eye and have endless aftertastes.

Reading can improve a woman's taste and style.I have a good friend who was born in a scholarly family. She has read Chinese and foreign classics under the influence of her parents who were teachers since she was a child.She is not very beautiful, but she is particularly eye-catching among women with colorful flowers and heavy makeup.It is temperament, self-cultivation, and bookish smell that make her stand out from the crowd. "There is poetry and book spirit in the stomach", this sentence is perfect for her.

Indeed, a woman will become excellent after reading enough good books, because the books have given her confidence, cultivated her true, beautiful, and pure emotions, and made her gentle, gentle, and understanding Satisfactory, full of books.

Reading can beautify a woman's heart.A woman who loves to read is a thinker and a thoughtful person.Because reading can make a person wise.Reading can make people cultivate morality.

Reading can change a woman's temperament.Books make a woman smart and mature, and can change a woman's temperament.People who read are different from those who don't, which can be seen from their temperament.Reading is a spiritual homework, which has a subtle influence on people, and the temperament of a scholar is formed by continuous reading.Some people are unattractive, even ugly, in appearance alone, but reading gives them new life.Some women know that they are mediocre, so they study angrily. Because she has read a lot of books and is knowledgeable, she becomes more and more confident and temperamental.

"Living with books, you will never sigh." Romain Rolland said.Modern new women, how should we study?
Choose reading according to taste
For books, there will be different choices, and different choices will achieve different effects, thus deducing a unique landscape of women and books.Some women read books to acquire knowledge and increase their talents. They prefer books with strong thinking, philosophy and depth.Books have improved their realm of life and made their lives very fulfilling.Such a woman is a book in itself, an intriguing book.Some women read books for the pleasure of body and mind, and to cultivate their sentiments. They like to read Tang poetry and Song poetry, and read beautiful prose from ancient and modern Chinese and foreign countries, so as to cultivate themselves in a calm and leisurely manner.Such a woman is like a poem, fresh and pure, elegant and tranquil.There are also women, reading is just a kind of entertainment and pastime, or just arty, they are keen on romance stories and gossip about movie stars, singers, and celebrities.They are more practical and just want to entertain.

Read e-books and don't ignore paper books
Now, in the eyes of many people, calling on women to read books seems to be out of tune with the trend of the times. These people think that in the Internet age, when smartphones are used and there are more e-books, who still reads on paper?In fact, to really enjoy the fun of reading, you still need to read paper books.

I also downloaded a lot of books on my iPad at one time, but almost none of them were fully read. At that time, I began to wonder if I was lazy and not interested in reading.

Until that day, standing in front of the bookcase, I picked up a collection of essays casually, and looked at it casually, and there was a kind of pleasure of sitting and watching the clouds and clouds, and my mood was relieved.Touching a paper book is not as cold as an iPad. The temperature of the paper is the same as that of your own hand, as if it is your own temperature, which is so appropriate; the sound of flipping the book is also more pleasant than the sound of flipping the book imitated in the iPad; Smelling the fragrance of ink from the paper book, I felt a long-lost feeling of refreshment, chatting with the words in the book, and following the words in the book, my thoughts flew.In this way, I can drink a pot of tea, read a "love" book, and enjoy a winter afternoon.

So I was thinking that only paper books can make people concentrate on experiencing the joy of reading, but e-books cannot.Paper books sometimes don’t need to be read, but they are beautiful and satisfying to touch.I can feel it, can you feel it?
love life, never go wrong

The complicated real society, highly competitive workplace environment, and boring family life will make some women feel increased pressure and helplessness in life. As a result, many women have morbid psychology: either high-spirited, serious money worship; Despondent, not seeking to make progress; or pinning one's own happiness entirely on men... showing extremely frivolous and irritable emotions, this is an unhealthy state of mind, and it is a manifestation of not loving life.A woman with real temperament will always love life.No matter what life gives them, they accept it openly and embrace it warmly.

In Suzhou, there is such a beautiful woman.She is not beautiful, and her limbs are still incomplete, but she is the goddess in the heart of a lover, the beauty in the eyes of a son, the pistachio in the eyes of neighbors, and the pride of Suzhou people.

Her name is Jiang Hongdi. She was born with disabled legs. Not only are her legs of different lengths, but both of her feet are deformed.Her childhood was basically accompanied by small benches, and she used two small benches to move around every day. At the age of 8, Jiang Hongdi, who was full of curiosity about the outside world, began to learn to walk with crutches. Although she fell badly, she finally persisted.

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