12 Mindfulness Lessons Listened to at Tsinghua University
Chapter 30 Love and Hate
Chapter 30 Love and Hate (3)
Once, Ananda met an inferior woman of the "untouchable" class on the road, and asked her for water.The woman was very inferior, but Ananda told him that in the eyes of Buddhism, everyone is equal.The woman had never met a man who respected her so much, especially Ananda was a noble and handsome man, so the woman fell in love with Ananda unconsciously.For several days, she continued to invite Ananda to her home to accept offerings.Ananda soon realized that the woman had developed a love affair with him, so he refused to accept her offerings any more.
The woman was in great pain, lying at home without thinking about eating or drinking.Her mother felt sorry for her daughter and advised her to forget about this man who was destined to be unavailable.But a woman in love cannot.Because her mother loved her daughter, she gave her advice.Then the two of them went to the temple to invite Ananda to accept the offering for the last time, saying that they would never disturb him again.As a result, after Ananda left, the two put aphrodisiacs in the food, hoping to cook the raw rice into rice, so that the woman might be able to get the man she dreamed of.
Ananda already had a very high level of cultivation at that time, and immediately felt something was wrong after eating.He knew it in his heart, but without saying a word, he immediately sat up cross-legged and began to meditate, trying to keep himself awake.On the other hand, the Buddha saw that Ananda had not returned, so he expected something to happen, so he also sent someone to look for him, and successfully rescued Ananda.
The man who got it flew away again, which made the woman very angry.She ran to question the Buddha, who received her patiently and asked her gently, "Do you love Ananda?"
The woman said, yes, I love him very much.
The Buddha asked again: "Then why do you love him?"
The woman said, I love his eyes, his face, his posture, everything about him.
The Buddha said: "It seems that you don't know that there are more beautiful things in Ananda than what you said." Then the Buddha asked her, "So, what do you think Ananda loves?"
The woman shook her head: "I don't know what he loves. I just know he doesn't love me."
"You are wrong. Ananda loves you. It's just his love, but not the kind of love you said. It's not the kind of love that will bring you despair and pain. Why don't you love all living beings like Ananda? ?” The woman realized immediately and converted to Buddhism.
Another story, although unrelated to Ananda, has more universal significance:
Once, a disciple of the Buddha went to the house of a famous prostitute in the city for alms and came back. He described the beauty and kindness of the famous prostitute to the monks eloquently.There is a young monk sitting in the seat. Although he has never seen the face of a famous prostitute, he fell in love with her.The next day, the young monk deliberately went to the house of a famous prostitute for alms.Unfortunately, the prostitute was ill, but she was compassionate and insisted on coming out to meet the monk with the support of others.The young monk fell in love with her even more when he saw her, because the sick courtesan looked even more charming.Immediately he had a stronger desire for love.
Unfortunately, that night, the courtesan died of illness.Hearing the news of her death, the young monk was very sad.The Buddha immediately understood what was going on. In order to wake up the disciple, he cast a Buddhist method and asked the king to send someone to tell the Buddha the news of the death. day.
We know that India is located in the tropics and the climate is hot, so after three days, the body of the courtesan is not only no longer beautiful, but flies are flying in and out of her nine holes.On the fourth day, the Buddha led his disciples and the king's ministers to look at the corpse, and of course the young monk was indispensable.
Seeing the corpse, the Buddha asked knowingly, "King, who is this woman?"
"It's the famous so-and-so whore," said the king.
Buddha then said: "Oh! King, please announce that whoever is willing to pay 1000 taels of silver can take her."
The king immediately ordered, but who would pay so much for a corpse?The king cooperated with the Buddha and lowered the price again and again, and finally reduced it to one penny, half a penny, and a quarter of a penny... Still no one wanted it.
Finally, the king announced: "Whoever wants it will carry it away for free." But everyone is still not interested.
At this time, the Buddha said to everyone: "Look, when she was alive, some people were willing to spend 1000 taels of silver just to spend a night with her; now no one even asks for free gifts. In fact, her original body It's only four days worse than the current body, and there is no essential difference at all other than that."
As we all know, "sex" is the first precept of Buddhism. From the perspective of Buddhism, sex is lewdness, which is more terrible than steel knife for scraping bones and poison for piercing intestines.But when we tell the above stories here, we definitely don’t want everyone to be like Buddhists, give up love and precepts, and realize refuge.There is no contradiction between loving sentient beings and falling in love.We are just advising the world not to indulge in love under the banner of so-called love.Don't be like the hero in "Painted Skin 2" at the beginning: only love a seductive skin!
Blindly abstaining from sexual abstinence is against the law of heaven, but indulging in sexual desire is like puffer fish, which is delicious but highly toxic.Let's not talk about stealing forbidden fruit and living together as unmarried, after all, they are in love.However, "extramarital affairs", having mistresses, raising mistresses, one-night stands, whoring, playing with men, homosexuality, child molestation, sexual obscenity, etc. are not glorious things.I advise everyone, in order to make our world and our family healthier, and for the pure love we once believed in, whenever we are distracted, we might as well think about it: be it a beautiful woman or a handsome man, they are all stinky skins and worthless. It's no different from a dead body!Give up the love you should give up as soon as possible, and when it is "must give up", it may be too late to regret it.
The most representative in real life is none other than "Pornographic".According to estimates by the Hong Kong media, Edison Chen lost at least tens of millions of yuan because of the "Pornographic Photos". The acting careers and advertising revenue of several female parties were also severely damaged.At the same time, their love and marriage have also been hit hard, even in jeopardy.Although compared to Chen Guanxi, they are victims, and even Chen Guanxi, the initiator of the incident, can seek legal protection for his "very pornographic and violent" behavior, but most people can't sympathize with their experience . "Come out to hang out, and you will have to pay it back sooner or later" - if you want to blame, you can only blame themselves. "Food and sex are also sex", hormones are innocent, but they must be used correctly.
There is a saying in China: "Children are always good for themselves, but others' wives are always in their eyes."Ma De, the chief culprit in the biggest case of selling officials since the founding of the Communist Party of China and the former secretary of the Suihua Municipal Party Committee, has a "famous saying": "One lover is a waste, but two or three lovers are characters." The troublemaker added another sentence at the end — Too many lovers are animals.Someone also wrote such a doggerel: holding the lady's hand, as if back to eighteen or nineteen; holding the lover's hand, as if drinking Moutai;
But in any case, as Eileen Chang said: "Humans are animals, but no one is an animal as surely as she is." After all, we are human beings, and we are moral animals after all.No one prevents you from loving, but you must abide by the rules of love.Otherwise, "love" in the end, there is no guarantee that it will not turn into another tragedy that is not worthy of sympathy.
6.I'm a lover, so why rush
Don't take it as true love.When a person humiliates himself to please you, don't be moved by it.A man's cigarette burns on him, and the next one may burn on you.Likewise, when this woman's blade cuts her wrist, it may cut yours next time.Do not break your mouth when you break up.Learn the lesson, but do not regret it.Regret is useless.Don't do things like tearing up photos, burning letters, and tearing up diaries, which are only done in third-rate love TV dramas.believe in love.I believe that good men and good women still exist, and they are still unmarried, and they are still looking for you in the vast crowd.Don't say "men (or women) don't have a good thing", so that others will mistakenly think that you have read countless people.
——Li Kaifu (former global vice president of Google and Microsoft, once gave a speech at Tsinghua University)
Many people have heard the allusion of "Seven Step Poems": During the Three Kingdoms period, after Cao Pi, the eldest son of Cao Cao, became emperor, he continued to persecute his talented younger brother Cao Zhi.Once, he ordered Cao Zhi to compose a poem within seven steps, and if he couldn't do it, he would be sentenced to death. Cao Zhi felt sad when he thought of their brothers being fried, and blurted out, "Cooking beans burns Osmunda, and the beans weep in the cauldron. We are born from the same root, so why is it too urgent to fight each other?" This poem has not only been handed down to the present, but also has a very high popularity rate, because it is easy to understand and catchy, and because it expresses the sorrow and pain of brothers' fratricide vividly on paper. Constantly wake up those who come later.
"I would like to be lovebirds in the sky, and I would like to be connected branches in the earth." Although the relationship between husband and wife is not like the relationship between brothers and sisters, but in terms of the same branches and spirits, it is even worse.There are quite a few other people who keep saying Liu Bei's famous saying-brothers are like siblings, women are like clothes-hanging on their lips. Modern people know that it is just a scene.In real life, not to mention that the relationship between brothers is not as good as the relationship between husband and wife, sometimes even the relationship between father and daughter and mother and daughter is not as good.Otherwise, why do parents always say "the water that a married girl dumps"?
"After ten years of cultivation, we can cross the same boat, but after a hundred years of cultivation, we can sleep together." The ancients often used this sentence to describe the difficulty of marriage between husband and wife.However, the ancients also said: "Husband and wife are originally birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes."After all, husband and wife are two people who have no blood relationship, which directly determines its vulnerability.But that's normal.If there is no great difficulty, those who should divorce will also get divorced, and the law also guarantees citizens' freedom of divorce.For couples, the scariest thing is not the change from affectionate to ruthless, but that the love is so deep that they can't extricate themselves, and they would rather die than leave.
"What I can't get, no one can get it-I'd rather destroy him!" This is the ancient famous saying of the femme fatale Aifuji Pida, who caused the failure of the ancient Roman rebel Spartacus.There is no shortage of similar tragedies in real life. Let’s look at a case that is by no means fabricated:
They are childhood sweethearts and childhood sweethearts. During the National Day holiday in 2009, they walked into the wedding hall amidst the blessings of relatives and friends.Everyone who knows them loves them.But in just two years, their happiness withered prematurely and ended in tragedy.
The reason is very old-fashioned: more than a year after marriage, he met a girl who was two years younger than him when he was on a business trip.The girl is gentle, beautiful and temperamental, and loves him for being chic, generous and rich.As time goes by, the two of them are in a strange relationship, unable to stop.
There is no impenetrable wall in the world.Before long, she knew the truth and followed him secretly.She's angry, she regrets, but she doesn't want to lose him.At the beginning, she could calm down, deal with the girl with wisdom, and win back his heart with tenderness, just like in the book and the movie.However, he refused to change after repeated admonitions, but he was confident.In the end, her rationality turned into a strong impulse, as long as she met, she would either quarrel or scold.Once, he even hit her!Looking into his eyes, she finally understood that he was no longer the gentle him, nor the him who once belonged to her.
"What I can't get, I will destroy him!" Thinking this way, she pretended to say generously: "I am tired, and I decided to quit this hard battle. It is better for me to quit than to suffer for the three of us. Although I don't want to quit, but I just have to let go. I wish you all happiness!"
What he said made him even have the urge to reunite with her. After being moved, he agreed to her request-to meet that girl and let me understand where I lost.
The girls came, and dinner for three was held in a very fancy restaurant. "It's really beautiful, what a pity!" Thinking this way, she poured the concentrated sulfuric acid she smuggled in on the two of them...
The heroine in the story is indeed a victim at the beginning, but the one-night couple, one hundred days of grace, why do we have to inflict harm on the former lover?Facing someone who no longer loves you, and is no longer worthy of your love, the most sensible way is to tolerate him and yourself.Only in this way can you bury the past and live a new life in the future.On the contrary, doing similar stupid things can only hurt others and destroy oneself.
There is a song that says: "There is a kind of love called letting go..." Indeed, true love is by no means controlling and possessing.Just like a flower on the side of the road, a person who really loves flowers should appreciate, care for and care for it, and watch it bloom freely and beautifully, and there will be infinite joy in his heart.If you cut off the flower and take it as your own because you like it, and let her wither and wither, it will undoubtedly be a kind of injury and destruction.
There is also a song called "Suzhou River" that is also very well written: "It turns out that God made us fall in love, not make us stay together for a lifetime..." This is a very high level of consciousness.No one stipulates that who must love someone for the rest of their lives, and not being able to grow old is not necessarily a misfortune.Socrates said: "When a person doesn't love you anymore and leaves you, this is a kind of loyalty. If she doesn't love you anymore, but still pretends to be affectionate and righteous to you, even marry you and have children for you, That's called deception!" We don't deny that love can be refined into gold, but we firmly believe that everyone is keen on its original truth and purity.The love that needs to be saved is often the love that is not worth saving.Instead of lying to yourself, it's better to let go—let go of the other person, and let go of yourself.
Of course, not all letting go can make the broken mirror come back together, but all forcing will undoubtedly push the person you originally wanted to be close to further away, making the result worse and worse.A wise person will not force it, and a person who understands love will not be kidnapped by love.Love is the only anti-hate agent.Hate can only be terminated by love.If you can put on a wedding dress for her, then please cherish it; if your fate is over, please turn around smartly, and sincerely say "cherish" before turning around.Because lovers can leave, but the love they once had can never be taken away.
(End of this chapter)
Once, Ananda met an inferior woman of the "untouchable" class on the road, and asked her for water.The woman was very inferior, but Ananda told him that in the eyes of Buddhism, everyone is equal.The woman had never met a man who respected her so much, especially Ananda was a noble and handsome man, so the woman fell in love with Ananda unconsciously.For several days, she continued to invite Ananda to her home to accept offerings.Ananda soon realized that the woman had developed a love affair with him, so he refused to accept her offerings any more.
The woman was in great pain, lying at home without thinking about eating or drinking.Her mother felt sorry for her daughter and advised her to forget about this man who was destined to be unavailable.But a woman in love cannot.Because her mother loved her daughter, she gave her advice.Then the two of them went to the temple to invite Ananda to accept the offering for the last time, saying that they would never disturb him again.As a result, after Ananda left, the two put aphrodisiacs in the food, hoping to cook the raw rice into rice, so that the woman might be able to get the man she dreamed of.
Ananda already had a very high level of cultivation at that time, and immediately felt something was wrong after eating.He knew it in his heart, but without saying a word, he immediately sat up cross-legged and began to meditate, trying to keep himself awake.On the other hand, the Buddha saw that Ananda had not returned, so he expected something to happen, so he also sent someone to look for him, and successfully rescued Ananda.
The man who got it flew away again, which made the woman very angry.She ran to question the Buddha, who received her patiently and asked her gently, "Do you love Ananda?"
The woman said, yes, I love him very much.
The Buddha asked again: "Then why do you love him?"
The woman said, I love his eyes, his face, his posture, everything about him.
The Buddha said: "It seems that you don't know that there are more beautiful things in Ananda than what you said." Then the Buddha asked her, "So, what do you think Ananda loves?"
The woman shook her head: "I don't know what he loves. I just know he doesn't love me."
"You are wrong. Ananda loves you. It's just his love, but not the kind of love you said. It's not the kind of love that will bring you despair and pain. Why don't you love all living beings like Ananda? ?” The woman realized immediately and converted to Buddhism.
Another story, although unrelated to Ananda, has more universal significance:
Once, a disciple of the Buddha went to the house of a famous prostitute in the city for alms and came back. He described the beauty and kindness of the famous prostitute to the monks eloquently.There is a young monk sitting in the seat. Although he has never seen the face of a famous prostitute, he fell in love with her.The next day, the young monk deliberately went to the house of a famous prostitute for alms.Unfortunately, the prostitute was ill, but she was compassionate and insisted on coming out to meet the monk with the support of others.The young monk fell in love with her even more when he saw her, because the sick courtesan looked even more charming.Immediately he had a stronger desire for love.
Unfortunately, that night, the courtesan died of illness.Hearing the news of her death, the young monk was very sad.The Buddha immediately understood what was going on. In order to wake up the disciple, he cast a Buddhist method and asked the king to send someone to tell the Buddha the news of the death. day.
We know that India is located in the tropics and the climate is hot, so after three days, the body of the courtesan is not only no longer beautiful, but flies are flying in and out of her nine holes.On the fourth day, the Buddha led his disciples and the king's ministers to look at the corpse, and of course the young monk was indispensable.
Seeing the corpse, the Buddha asked knowingly, "King, who is this woman?"
"It's the famous so-and-so whore," said the king.
Buddha then said: "Oh! King, please announce that whoever is willing to pay 1000 taels of silver can take her."
The king immediately ordered, but who would pay so much for a corpse?The king cooperated with the Buddha and lowered the price again and again, and finally reduced it to one penny, half a penny, and a quarter of a penny... Still no one wanted it.
Finally, the king announced: "Whoever wants it will carry it away for free." But everyone is still not interested.
At this time, the Buddha said to everyone: "Look, when she was alive, some people were willing to spend 1000 taels of silver just to spend a night with her; now no one even asks for free gifts. In fact, her original body It's only four days worse than the current body, and there is no essential difference at all other than that."
As we all know, "sex" is the first precept of Buddhism. From the perspective of Buddhism, sex is lewdness, which is more terrible than steel knife for scraping bones and poison for piercing intestines.But when we tell the above stories here, we definitely don’t want everyone to be like Buddhists, give up love and precepts, and realize refuge.There is no contradiction between loving sentient beings and falling in love.We are just advising the world not to indulge in love under the banner of so-called love.Don't be like the hero in "Painted Skin 2" at the beginning: only love a seductive skin!
Blindly abstaining from sexual abstinence is against the law of heaven, but indulging in sexual desire is like puffer fish, which is delicious but highly toxic.Let's not talk about stealing forbidden fruit and living together as unmarried, after all, they are in love.However, "extramarital affairs", having mistresses, raising mistresses, one-night stands, whoring, playing with men, homosexuality, child molestation, sexual obscenity, etc. are not glorious things.I advise everyone, in order to make our world and our family healthier, and for the pure love we once believed in, whenever we are distracted, we might as well think about it: be it a beautiful woman or a handsome man, they are all stinky skins and worthless. It's no different from a dead body!Give up the love you should give up as soon as possible, and when it is "must give up", it may be too late to regret it.
The most representative in real life is none other than "Pornographic".According to estimates by the Hong Kong media, Edison Chen lost at least tens of millions of yuan because of the "Pornographic Photos". The acting careers and advertising revenue of several female parties were also severely damaged.At the same time, their love and marriage have also been hit hard, even in jeopardy.Although compared to Chen Guanxi, they are victims, and even Chen Guanxi, the initiator of the incident, can seek legal protection for his "very pornographic and violent" behavior, but most people can't sympathize with their experience . "Come out to hang out, and you will have to pay it back sooner or later" - if you want to blame, you can only blame themselves. "Food and sex are also sex", hormones are innocent, but they must be used correctly.
There is a saying in China: "Children are always good for themselves, but others' wives are always in their eyes."Ma De, the chief culprit in the biggest case of selling officials since the founding of the Communist Party of China and the former secretary of the Suihua Municipal Party Committee, has a "famous saying": "One lover is a waste, but two or three lovers are characters." The troublemaker added another sentence at the end — Too many lovers are animals.Someone also wrote such a doggerel: holding the lady's hand, as if back to eighteen or nineteen; holding the lover's hand, as if drinking Moutai;
But in any case, as Eileen Chang said: "Humans are animals, but no one is an animal as surely as she is." After all, we are human beings, and we are moral animals after all.No one prevents you from loving, but you must abide by the rules of love.Otherwise, "love" in the end, there is no guarantee that it will not turn into another tragedy that is not worthy of sympathy.
6.I'm a lover, so why rush
Don't take it as true love.When a person humiliates himself to please you, don't be moved by it.A man's cigarette burns on him, and the next one may burn on you.Likewise, when this woman's blade cuts her wrist, it may cut yours next time.Do not break your mouth when you break up.Learn the lesson, but do not regret it.Regret is useless.Don't do things like tearing up photos, burning letters, and tearing up diaries, which are only done in third-rate love TV dramas.believe in love.I believe that good men and good women still exist, and they are still unmarried, and they are still looking for you in the vast crowd.Don't say "men (or women) don't have a good thing", so that others will mistakenly think that you have read countless people.
——Li Kaifu (former global vice president of Google and Microsoft, once gave a speech at Tsinghua University)
Many people have heard the allusion of "Seven Step Poems": During the Three Kingdoms period, after Cao Pi, the eldest son of Cao Cao, became emperor, he continued to persecute his talented younger brother Cao Zhi.Once, he ordered Cao Zhi to compose a poem within seven steps, and if he couldn't do it, he would be sentenced to death. Cao Zhi felt sad when he thought of their brothers being fried, and blurted out, "Cooking beans burns Osmunda, and the beans weep in the cauldron. We are born from the same root, so why is it too urgent to fight each other?" This poem has not only been handed down to the present, but also has a very high popularity rate, because it is easy to understand and catchy, and because it expresses the sorrow and pain of brothers' fratricide vividly on paper. Constantly wake up those who come later.
"I would like to be lovebirds in the sky, and I would like to be connected branches in the earth." Although the relationship between husband and wife is not like the relationship between brothers and sisters, but in terms of the same branches and spirits, it is even worse.There are quite a few other people who keep saying Liu Bei's famous saying-brothers are like siblings, women are like clothes-hanging on their lips. Modern people know that it is just a scene.In real life, not to mention that the relationship between brothers is not as good as the relationship between husband and wife, sometimes even the relationship between father and daughter and mother and daughter is not as good.Otherwise, why do parents always say "the water that a married girl dumps"?
"After ten years of cultivation, we can cross the same boat, but after a hundred years of cultivation, we can sleep together." The ancients often used this sentence to describe the difficulty of marriage between husband and wife.However, the ancients also said: "Husband and wife are originally birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes."After all, husband and wife are two people who have no blood relationship, which directly determines its vulnerability.But that's normal.If there is no great difficulty, those who should divorce will also get divorced, and the law also guarantees citizens' freedom of divorce.For couples, the scariest thing is not the change from affectionate to ruthless, but that the love is so deep that they can't extricate themselves, and they would rather die than leave.
"What I can't get, no one can get it-I'd rather destroy him!" This is the ancient famous saying of the femme fatale Aifuji Pida, who caused the failure of the ancient Roman rebel Spartacus.There is no shortage of similar tragedies in real life. Let’s look at a case that is by no means fabricated:
They are childhood sweethearts and childhood sweethearts. During the National Day holiday in 2009, they walked into the wedding hall amidst the blessings of relatives and friends.Everyone who knows them loves them.But in just two years, their happiness withered prematurely and ended in tragedy.
The reason is very old-fashioned: more than a year after marriage, he met a girl who was two years younger than him when he was on a business trip.The girl is gentle, beautiful and temperamental, and loves him for being chic, generous and rich.As time goes by, the two of them are in a strange relationship, unable to stop.
There is no impenetrable wall in the world.Before long, she knew the truth and followed him secretly.She's angry, she regrets, but she doesn't want to lose him.At the beginning, she could calm down, deal with the girl with wisdom, and win back his heart with tenderness, just like in the book and the movie.However, he refused to change after repeated admonitions, but he was confident.In the end, her rationality turned into a strong impulse, as long as she met, she would either quarrel or scold.Once, he even hit her!Looking into his eyes, she finally understood that he was no longer the gentle him, nor the him who once belonged to her.
"What I can't get, I will destroy him!" Thinking this way, she pretended to say generously: "I am tired, and I decided to quit this hard battle. It is better for me to quit than to suffer for the three of us. Although I don't want to quit, but I just have to let go. I wish you all happiness!"
What he said made him even have the urge to reunite with her. After being moved, he agreed to her request-to meet that girl and let me understand where I lost.
The girls came, and dinner for three was held in a very fancy restaurant. "It's really beautiful, what a pity!" Thinking this way, she poured the concentrated sulfuric acid she smuggled in on the two of them...
The heroine in the story is indeed a victim at the beginning, but the one-night couple, one hundred days of grace, why do we have to inflict harm on the former lover?Facing someone who no longer loves you, and is no longer worthy of your love, the most sensible way is to tolerate him and yourself.Only in this way can you bury the past and live a new life in the future.On the contrary, doing similar stupid things can only hurt others and destroy oneself.
There is a song that says: "There is a kind of love called letting go..." Indeed, true love is by no means controlling and possessing.Just like a flower on the side of the road, a person who really loves flowers should appreciate, care for and care for it, and watch it bloom freely and beautifully, and there will be infinite joy in his heart.If you cut off the flower and take it as your own because you like it, and let her wither and wither, it will undoubtedly be a kind of injury and destruction.
There is also a song called "Suzhou River" that is also very well written: "It turns out that God made us fall in love, not make us stay together for a lifetime..." This is a very high level of consciousness.No one stipulates that who must love someone for the rest of their lives, and not being able to grow old is not necessarily a misfortune.Socrates said: "When a person doesn't love you anymore and leaves you, this is a kind of loyalty. If she doesn't love you anymore, but still pretends to be affectionate and righteous to you, even marry you and have children for you, That's called deception!" We don't deny that love can be refined into gold, but we firmly believe that everyone is keen on its original truth and purity.The love that needs to be saved is often the love that is not worth saving.Instead of lying to yourself, it's better to let go—let go of the other person, and let go of yourself.
Of course, not all letting go can make the broken mirror come back together, but all forcing will undoubtedly push the person you originally wanted to be close to further away, making the result worse and worse.A wise person will not force it, and a person who understands love will not be kidnapped by love.Love is the only anti-hate agent.Hate can only be terminated by love.If you can put on a wedding dress for her, then please cherish it; if your fate is over, please turn around smartly, and sincerely say "cherish" before turning around.Because lovers can leave, but the love they once had can never be taken away.
(End of this chapter)
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