Mind Control and Distraction: Mind Control Techniques for a Lifetime

Chapter 12 The Philosophy of Winning: Believe in Your Heart That You Will Win (1)
fail?I didn't fail at all... just didn't succeed.
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Bella
gain and maintain a sense of victory
There is a powerful automatic success mechanism within each of us, and its operation is determined by the absolute goal and the final result.So if you want to use it perfectly, you should give it a clear goal, it can automatically guide your actions, give you more reasonable thinking and ideas, and the goal will be achieved naturally.The automatic success mechanism is called the automatic success mechanism because you determine the goal through thinking and observation, and it will automatically provide what you need to do to achieve the goal.Just like your muscles, if you want to grab something with your bare hands, you will pick it up and grab it very naturally.The way our minds work is just as simple.When you need ideas, the automatic success mechanism will give you ideas, and sometimes some magical things will happen, such as you want to contact someone very much, and this person will be attracted to you by your automatic system.So, trust the power of automatic success mechanisms.

No matter whether you are completely satisfied with the final result, but one thing you must admit, it makes you stress-free throughout the work process.Its power is obvious, but sinks in your heart.The automatic success mechanism is actually a service, that is to say, this system or mechanism is for you, it is your servant.Does it work automatically if Satisfied gets your order?Just imagine that the servants in an apartment will do things without receiving the orders of the director?Obviously not.Not only that, but if the servant and master of this apartment do not communicate in the same language, what else can the servant do for the master?Therefore, Psycho-Cybernetics is not only a language translation program, it makes the communication between you as the master and the servant, that is, the automatic success mechanism, smoother and simpler, and enables you to express your commands more accurately.

think about the possibility of everything

For the automatic success mechanism to work smoothly, it must be provided with a clear goal, which must be derived from careful observation and consideration of the current situation.You have to be clear about your goals and how reaching them will affect you and your current environment.These have to be very real.In fact it must be so real as if it had already been realized.

But this is not difficult, because our daily lives are repeating this process, for example, you will worry about possible changes in the future.Conversely speaking, even if our work fails to achieve the goal and it fails, we must also go through this process of facing failure.We picture failure to ourselves and prepare ourselves for real failure, not in general terms but in real terms.Throughout the process of imagining, we even have to extract past failures from memory to complete our imagination.

As I said earlier, our brains and nervous systems cannot tell the difference between a real experience and a vividly imagined experience.Our automatic innovation mechanism will always respond and act appropriately to the current environment, situation, problem, and it only cares about one piece of information about the current environment, situation, and problem, which is what you think they are.Our nervous system is not equipped to distinguish between true and false, success and failure.Therefore, if we always think about failure, keep telling ourselves that we will fail, paint a picture of failure to ourselves, and even be specific enough to face the consequences of failure.Then our body will also be drawn by it, and your work will go further in the direction of failure.Conversely, if we always have positive thoughts and motivation in our minds, we can vividly picture the appearance of the goal after success, and make it a habit like it is real.Then at this moment we will experience the feeling of victory before we have achieved our goal, that is, self-confidence, bravery and firm belief.We cannot consciously observe our innovation mechanism to see whether it is preparing for success or failure.But we can determine its state by feeling, and when its state matches success, we experience the feeling of success.

Let the heart always move towards success
In fact, manipulating the automatic innovation mechanism is very simple. It only needs a few steps, that is: summon, acquire, and stimulate the feeling of victory.When you feel that success is in sight, you must be full of confidence in your heart, and you will move in the direction of success, and naturally you will avoid detours and make fewer mistakes.Feeling successful by itself doesn't help you live a successful life.Its essence is actually a signal, or sign.It shows whether we are moving in the direction of success.This is like a thermometer, although it cannot generate heat in the room, it can measure the temperature.So we have to make good use of our inner thermometer, that is to say, when you feel this successful experience, it itself reminds you that you are moving towards success.But having said that, too deliberately stimulating the innovation mechanism may hinder its good operation.In fact, you only need to pass a message to it, that is the goal and result you want to achieve in the end.This is undoubtedly the most effective and simplest.If you describe this goal and result to yourself concretely and visually, and then carefully imagine the impact it will bring to your life after obtaining it, then its operation is already moving towards your final envisioned scenario.Then, you can follow the command of your heart and complete the practice spontaneously and automatically.Then activate the power of your unconscious mind to provide you with innovative ideas that come naturally to you.It can be said that everything that makes the goal to be achieved, the automatic innovation mechanism can do it for you.

How the Feeling of Winning Works

Dr. Kari Middelkov once said such a sentence, which is very useful to us.That's what he said, the feeling of winning is the biggest secret to winning in golf.He goes on to reveal the phenomenon: I was at a golf tournament at Masters a few days before, knowing all too well that I was going to win, and that feeling was as real as if I had already played and already won a medal and specific.I feel that every shot I swing is perfect and precise, my movements drive my muscles, and there is no slightest mistake.I mentally pictured the game when I was successful, and when I went to the ball game, that amazing feeling of victory came back.I know I haven't made any other temporary changes, but the feeling is that I draw a track between the fairways and holes.The track directed my swing very precisely and yes I did.He also said that he thinks this winning feeling is essential for every good golfer.When you have that thought, and it's strong enough, it makes the ball go where you want it to go.This feeling seems to dictate the trajectory of the ball.Dr. Midelkoff went on to tell us that if he had this crazy feeling the night before the game - I'm gonna make it, then the next day his performance would be as flawless as the thought.

Numerous facts show that this feeling of victory seems to have some kind of magical power, as if it can eliminate all obstacles and impossibilities, and even use these obstacles and impossibility to achieve success.Just imagine if a person, whether he is an athlete or not, has this most fundamental and deepest belief in his mind, that is, "I will succeed."Rooting this belief deeply into his self-image will be the foundation of his success.But in fact, many of us, from parents, or from people who want to get approval, they will tell us, "You can't do this well", "Don't waste your time, You're not that stuff at all" and all that sort of negative judgment.This thought takes hold in their minds, so much so that they truly believe that the odds of failure are much greater than the odds of success.This belief is so strong that they actually become a failure in the end.So we should not underestimate the power of self-knowledge and self-persuasion.Their state directly affects your life, so they must be actively used.

The "feeling of success" pays off
In fact, many people have achieved success by virtue of this "successful feeling".My friend Brad is one such person.Brad previously worked in sales for many years and was very successful.On this basis, he also has a lot of research on public relations.He loves his job, but wants to expand his field of work.He said his favorite subjects to study are people.One day he suddenly realized that he also had more or less problems, and he began to examine himself. The first problem presented to him was his lack of experience in public speaking.Brad said, I am very worried about what to do in public, nervous tiptoe.The only time I've ever had a public speaking experience was at my own company speaking to a salesperson.If I were to give a speech in front of a large group, I would have a hard time imagining what I would be like, nervous and anxious, and maybe even make a fool of myself.But thinking back to how I wasn't nervous when I was speaking to my company's salesperson, I started to think about why.I compared the differences between the two speeches, and even mentally pictured myself standing in the auditorium speaking calmly.right!I suddenly remembered that I was very calm when I was talking to the company's salesman.So I repeatedly thought and described in my mind, including what kind of posture I stand in the auditorium, what kind of gestures I use to interact with the audience, and so on.So I finally had an image in my mind of my successful speech, knowing that I could predict the next time I stood in an auditorium and gave a speech, it would be full of applause.

Yes, his words tell us that we should compare our past experience with our current situation, find what we lack now, fill it up, let you form the best state, and turn the feeling of success into reality.

Different people bring different feelings

If two people have very similar backgrounds, education levels, intelligence, and skills, and they all agree to expand their lives.As for what and how this idea is realized by accomplishing it, we don't need to know.But I can say that the tasks in front of them are quite difficult.It is possible that they will all experience setbacks and pain, requiring a lot of patience and perseverance.

One of them said to me, this is too hard, I can't do it.I'm simply not capable of it.In my life, I have never completely accomplished anything, and I have not achieved much until now. I am muddled, and now I can't even think of a trace of my luck.I don't have the guts at all to achieve my current goals right now.Another said, and I look back, everything I've accomplished in my life has been very difficult.But I have lived to this day, and everything is difficult at the beginning, but once it starts, it becomes easy.Every ounce of success I have achieved now, even if it is insignificant, was started by my hard work in the first place.If I know how to solve the problem in front of me, then I will do it with ease.So I think that as long as you decide to start the current problem, you will definitely be able to succeed.So among these two people, which one do you think will give up the goal first, and which one will work hard and finally succeed?Obviously, the answer to this question is not just about optimistic and pessimistic attitudes towards life, because our lives are affected by various factors. If we only consider optimism and pessimism, it is very superficial.What really matters is the self-image.We look at two people's descriptions of their lives and evaluations of themselves.One regards a little achievement as a positive proof, and understands the first difficulty and hardship as the beginning of everything. His fighting spirit proves that he has the courage to go from incompetence to success; while the other regards his little achievement as a Evidence of frustration that he has not been rewarded for his relentlessly hard work, and we can say that he is not up to the task.

Therefore, any two people will have different attitudes when facing problems and work.Even you yourself have a different view of yourself.If you always confine yourself in one idea, it is better to try to expand your horizons, look at yourself more objectively, and put forward different or opposite opinions.You will benefit a lot from it.

How are successes and failures and sorrows and joys recorded in the human brain

Before I decided to publish this book, I did a lot of research and experiments on the working methods and processes of the human brain.Therefore, I also understand how people's successes and failures, sorrows and joys are recorded in the brain.Before that, we must clearly recognize the feeling of victory, or the feeling of defeat, which is very important for our research work.Our cerebral cortex is made up of very many nerve cells.Each nerve cell has numerous axons, or tentacles, extensions.These axons in turn form synapses, or electrical connections, between nerve cells.When we use our brains, including thinking, recalling, observing, imagining, etc., these nerve cells release a current that can be detected.When we try to learn or are about to experience something, a chain of nerve cells will be established in the brain tissue, figuratively speaking, it is to tattoo the nerve cells.The rows of cells are not actually the similar grooves on a phonograph.but a circuit.The way they are arranged and the connection points between the various nerve cells is a bit like a magnetic map recorded on a CD player.So we say that any kind of nerve cells can be independent of each other and interlaced among nerve cells.In this way, it can be concluded that our learning ability is unlimited.

These schemas, or memory traces, will be stored in our minds. Maybe we are not aware of the existence of these schemas and memories at ordinary times, but whenever we face similar situations or problems as before, in our minds These memories will be revived immediately.Simply put, we have a pattern of behavior in our minds that resembles a mark or tattoo.It records everything you've done and every feeling you've ever had.If your current ideas are innovative in some way, then it must be the sudden resurrection of these memories in the past that gave you experience or inspiration.Because it happens completely without human awareness, and it is executed completely automatically.All you have to do at this moment is to tell your brain the result you want, and follow the method that the automatic mechanism tells you.If the resurrection of memory is the part of success rather than failure, you need to ensure that you portray the same feeling of victory at this time as at that time, that is to say, revive the confidence and bravery after winning at that time.Based on this principle, you get the feeling of success.It also activates all the behaviors necessary for success.Simply put, this is actually a mutually reinforcing action.You get the feeling of success from your past success experience, and with the feeling of success, you form a mental image of success, and then do things according to your image, and everything will come naturally.

Remember that you have a natural formula for success

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