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Chapter 17 Responsibility (1)

You can't pay attention when you are free, and you can't be caught off guard when you are in a hurry.Randomly hesitate, let it succeed or fail, whether you regret it or not, you will still be like the person in the previous life after the incident.In this case, there are hundreds of people.

Everything is done in advance, and these five characters should be taken into account.

The eye of Tao sees right and wrong, the eye of love sees love and hate, and the eye of things is nothing but chaos.

When you really see it, you have to be decisive and clear, to accomplish one thing, and you can't be muddy and muddy, leaning against the wall.

Man must truly conquer heaven.Today people are entrusted to the sky, but they don't know the uncertainties of human affairs.Husband's air is closed in winter and no living things can exist, but the old garden can bloom winter flowers and bear spring fruits; the nature of things is stupid and incomprehensible about human affairs, but the bird master can make birds play chess and frogs teach. almost?

Responsibility for kindness depends on what kind of person he is. He can be blamed for kindness, and he should do his best to save the lost.Without pointing out what one should avoid, without counting one's mistakes, without speaking directly to others, without being straightforward, without long words, without tiresome words, violating the six precepts, even though it is admonishment, is not a good way.It doesn't listen, and I have done something wrong, why should I blame others?
At the age of fifty, I realized the five indisputable flavors.people ask.Said: "Do not compete for wealth with those who live in accumulation, do not compete for honor with those who are enterprising, do not compete for fame with those who embellish, do not compete for courtesy with people who are simple and proud, and do not compete for right and wrong with people who are arrogant."

What the people confuse, the sage sticks to it; what the sage binds, the sage merges.

To do good deeds in the world is to measure one's morality and ability, and to choose people according to the situation.Desires are hard to achieve, public anger is hard to offend.This horoscope is not only arrogance and people should be cautious, even if you do righteous things with an impartial and selfless heart, you must also adjust human feelings, invent things and make everyone believe in them, and then you will succeed in your actions and things will last for a long time.Pan Geng moved to Yin, King Wu defeated Zhou, and he was afraid that he would not follow his repeated orders.Gai Hengqing is much darker than far-sightedness, villains are inconvenient for selfishness; if there is a group to destroy them, even if there is a good way, will it be for a long time?This has been the case since ancient times, so gentlemen are cautious.

Discussing academics and talking about governance must be so poor that people can't get it. The so-called ancestral temple and court are just talking about it.Covering the principles, the principles of ancient and modern times, political affairs, and political affairs of the country, you must seek truth.Both of us ignore it, not seeking to extend me, not seeking to win others, why let people have it?It's just calm and easy, which is the first way to judge the family.The talent is loud and sharp, but it is not self-restraint.

Silk reeling in May is for cold seasons; hemp in August is for hot seasons; cultivation on weekdays is for temporary use.If you can't control your temperament and assert your material desires for a while, and say "I cultivate it" on weekdays, I don't believe it.Is it useful for a husband to cultivate his time for self-cultivation?Therefore, it is not as good as regularity to manage a horse after heeling and then asking for a bridle; it is not as good as discipline to restrain it after removing the spokes and then turning it into a wheel.

Its preparation is also as roundabout, and it is used for occasional use.

Superficial views and paranoid theories are close to a kind of truth according to the scriptures. After all, they are all nonsense to the essence.Therefore, Zhiyan must have a pair of extremely accurate scales in his chest, and must be in the hall, and then future generations will follow.Otherwise, who will preside over lawsuits in poor years?
Everyone can see it, but if you put it a hundred miles away, it cannot be seen by non-lilongs. It is suspected that a sage can distinguish it, and it is so profound that it is fascinating, and it is not understood by a non-sage.The husband distinguishes the sage with the sage's words, and nourishes his feelings, let alone everyone?That's why small words don't reach the ears of the world.

Straightforward and tactful, good words and good ways.

The word because of it is wonderful.There is no money for the benefit, no labor for the harm, no thought for the love, no dispute for the speaker.Or say: "Isn't it more than favoritism?" Said: "This is the one who turns in and favors me." Or said: "Isn't it more than skill?" Make good use of the cause, the wise man makes good use of the cause.

It is harmless to behave too generously in the world, but it is not acceptable to uphold the law for the public.

The things in the world are long if they are slow and soft, and short if they are urgent and impatient.Therefore, strong winds and showers do not have the prestige of the imperial court, soaring turmoil does not have the momentum of three days, urging filming and urging adjustments is not the voice of a hundred boards, and rapid policies are not a bridle for thousands of miles.There is no such thing as life, death, misfortune and good fortune. Those who are in a hurry can think about it.

There is no time limit for doing things in the world.There are unexpected things, there are times when they are not given, and there is often more than the deadline, how much benefit is there!

To eliminate a problem, to save it when it is in place, to save it when it is done, this is called authority, and this is called talent; know when something is coming, start something before it ends, decide something and know its change, This is called long-term concern, and this is called consciousness.

All misfortunes, live with peace and happiness, and avoid worry and diligence; live with extravagance, and avoid them with prudence; live with greed, and avoid them with content; live with many things, and avoid them with caution.

To do things that are difficult, you must be strong but not angry; those who are in difficulties must be knowledgeable but silent.

To overthrow a great fortification, one should start slowly, see success for a long time, pay attention to silently, use all one's strength, and if one commits a crime, one will be defeated first.

A dim and unfathomable consciousness, a soft and constant nature, and a firm, prudent and self-righteous heart are all incompatible with planning the affairs of the world.A wise man sees it immediately, a practitioner understands it by analogy, and a sleepy man gets it through deliberation.

The strengths of the three are the resources for planning things, but how can they be used for themselves?
Things must end, and consideration must prevent them.If you see the pleasure in front of you, it will be enough. This is the most ignorant. There are stories about when you should be angry, but the gentleman is not angry; when you should be happy, but the gentleman is not happy; , A gentleman knows other things.

It is better to be gentle and follow people to evil, not to be straight and to draw people to good;

If you are motivated by reason and law, you will not be evil, but you will do evil; if you are ashamed by love, you will not shift from righteousness, but will strive for righteousness.This lobbyist should know too.

Those who are good at dealing with the world must win the natural affection of others.What is there to gain from the natural affection of man?

If you lose the feeling of human nature, what can you not lose?It is not only the emperor who is like this, even though they are walking together, they cannot leave this way.

Observing words and demeanor, and measuring one's morality and ability, this horoscope is not enough to deal with people in the world for a while.

There are people who cannot express their meaning with their words, some whose appearance is not their original intention, and some whose words and appearance falsely false their original intention.A gentleman reveals the heart of others, rather than falsely inspecting others, he would rather forgive others in order to escape.

Human feelings are the same in the world from ancient to modern times, the sage prevents them from being unreasonable, and specially establishes them for them.Therefore, the legislation should not be too extreme, the rituals should not be too strict, and the responsibilities should not be too extreme, and then they can both return to the Tao.Otherwise, it is to drive them away.

In the affairs of the world, there are those who are quick and urgent, those who are slow and patient, those who are brave and robbing, those who are soft and broken, those who are angry and violent, those who are metaphorical and enlightened, and those who are rewarded. Those who talk about it, those who are smooth and slow, and those who are sincere and emotional, should be in the camera.Due to poor times, there is no invincible.

When discussing the immediate affairs, we must talk about the immediate disposal, no pursuit of the past, no long-term plans, although these words are precise, there is no benefit to see.

I am wiser and people are more stupid; I am more ingenious and people are more clumsy.who?The distance between each other is far away, but the responsibility is deep.Only the Taoist is wise enough to forgive people's ignorance, cleverly able to tolerate people's clumsiness, knowing that the weight is not the same, and each person has his or her own capabilities.

The affairs of the world, as long as they are settled, nothing will happen.Fight without a fixed owner, fight without a fixed opinion, and fight without a fixed body.

The perfect person has no likes and dislikes, the sage has likes and dislikes, everyone has likes and dislikes, and villains have likes and dislikes.

There are many servants who are stupid and stupid, but if they pay attention to people's wishes, they must agree with each other, and there are tens of thousands of people who are not the same.The latter often blame me, if they disagree, they will get angry, and if they answer with a whip, they will be more confused and confused.It is my fault that is greater than that of the other. I should understand the other's ignorance. I can't tolerate the incompetence of the other. The unintentional mistake and the evil of my heart.

If you are patient and calm, ordering and facing orders, it is two benefits.He and I have no suffering but things are helpful, isn't that all right? "Poetry" said: "The bandits are angry with the Iraqi religion." "Book" said: "There is no anger to be stubborn." The first priority of this scholar is to cultivate his temperament.

Or ask: "Scholar-bureaucrats' social etiquette?" Said: "Rituals too. In ancient times, neighbors enjoyed courtesy, and private affairs." Scholars and bureaucrats have their own opinions when they meet each other. The same is true for township parties and women. Why can it be abolished? ? He said: "It is strictly forbidden for those who are near, why?" " Said: "It is not forbidden to communicate, but it is also forbidden to bribe people through communication.If a husband has no chance to make friends, and if he has nowhere to give back, his giving back is too affectionate, which is called bribery.It is only strictly forbidden, that is, it cannot be forbidden, and a gentleman will not accept it.But if you live in a friend, know each other like flesh and blood, don't see each other for several years, don't stay with each other for a meal, is it human?Come thousands of miles, bid farewell with a bow, is it human?Then he has a legacy, and I have a gift, both of which are beyond the natural and human.Gentlemen stand up and conduct themselves with their own laws, and others escape the world, feeling uneasy.Yu said that those who uphold great politics value equality, not everything.If there is balance, there will be restraint, and everything will collapse, what?Potential can not also. "

The ancients had many intentions to love others, but today there are many intentions to wicked people.Lovers, it is easy for old people to correct their mistakes; they are always close to me, and my teachings are easy to practice; wicked people, old people are willing to abandon themselves, and they are always hostile to me, and my words will not benefit.

By looking at a leaf, one can know the life and death of a tree; by looking at one side, one can know whether a person is sick;

The theory should be precise and detailed, the discussion of things should be precise, and the discussion of people should be two to three points thick.If you touch human feelings, people will be embarrassed.Therefore, a gentleman does not take care of people's feelings, does not take care of people's faults, and does not directly avoid disasters, but also uses the way of keeping people to cover up, touches people's opportunities for repentance, nourishes people's dignity, and also contains the energy of heaven and earth.

"My parents are in trouble, and the thief can save them for me, do you feel it?" Said: "How can I not be grateful for this kindness?" Said: "How can I recommend it? The destiny is virtuous, and the emperor's official code is also. How dare I rape him with personal favor?" Can it be allowed? Heaven punishes the crime, and the public law of the world, how dare I use my personal favor to sassafras it?" Said: "How can I repay it?" Said: "When using my body, it is okay to die for it; when using my family, it is okay to die for it; It’s okay to break it. It’s okay to share other adversities.”

Wherever there is an intrusion, first think about the reason for taking it, that is, think about the method of doing it, and don't get angry.Two angry, a pair of villains generally suffer.

Hi flattery is a fool.He's willing to speak, humble words, grand ceremony, and excessive affection, hoping to get what he wants, and avoid his heinous crimes, but I like it, feel it, and fulfill his undeserved desires, and avoid his unavoidable crimes.To blame oneself for the evil of abolishing the public party; to blame oneself for the villain who is easy to please.Those who flatter others are clever, but those who like flattery are stupid.They think that they follow the old rules and look up to the sages, so they hate them by not flattering them, and even harm them by weaving.This is the great precept for those who live on the main road.Of course, flatterers are not stupid.If it is flattered by the villain, it will be fruitful; if it is a gentleman, it may be that he does not use this to judge his character.

Doubt is the worst thing.Two is suspicious, not two is not suspicious.But is there no doubt about the saint?Said, "The sage only recognizes one principle, thinks according to the principle, and acts according to the principle, so why doubt it? A sage is doubtful about reason, and most people are doubtful about emotion." " Said: "When you learn without doubt, you will naturally be aware of it first. What's more, the learning without doubt is the learning of sincerity, and you can't bear to be deceived by cunning and falsehood."

Those who are low-minded by the current situation are the people; those who are low-minded by the current situation are the sages;

Pride is the virtue of the poor and humble, and humility is the virtue of the rich and noble, all sages see and hear.A sage only looks at what is right, except rich and poor.

Those who are interested will see the heart of success.The saint's heart is clear and empty, and there is no idea of ​​seeing it, so it is called Jue Si.Today people are deliberate when they respond to things and judge things. Even if the cleverness shines through, it is after all a barrier of opinion.

When listening to a word, one must first know the character of the speaker, then know the speaker's intention, also know the speaker's insight, and also know the speaker's temperament, then it will be uncomfortable to listen to.

You don't need to say a word, you don't need to have a thought, just be sincere and sincere, and then you will have unspoken faith for a long time.Suaeda salsa grows in alkaline land and burns as alkali; Salsa grows in salty land and burns as salt.

People in the world communicate with each other, not on the face, but on the mouth.The human heart cannot be concealed by the face and the mouth, and what is unpredictable cannot be completely covered by the face and the mouth.Therefore, the human heart is the most fearful, and the human heart is the most unknown.The trap of this world is the thoroughfare of life and death in ancient and modern times.Yu has a clumsy method, push it with sincerity, give it with generosity, hold it with prudence, stay away from right and wrong, let profit and fame, and put it in the back, then the Yidi birds and beasts can be flesh and blood.Those who are deep will be enamored, and those who are dangerous will be virtuous, but what traps will be caught?Otherwise, the Dao must be incomplete.

In the world, there is only one word of forgiveness, which can be said to be as good as others, and treat others as yourself.However, there are those who are not enough.In the affairs of the world, there are those who do not want what others want, and those who want what others do not want.

Here also need to pay attention to, there are infinite benefits.

It is better to open the house of resentment than open sinus.It is difficult to fill the resentment house, but it is easy to expand the endowment; it is easy to close the resentment house, but it is difficult to block the endowment.Guanyuan Mansion is a blessing, but Sai Endou is a disaster.Resentment is a benevolent person who can shut it down, but thinking about sin is not benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom, and trustworthiness cannot be blocked.Ren Kaobu is a great virtue, and does not engage in small praises; righteous people can be decisive, not for appeasement; courteous people have grades, and do not treat everything with bitterness; wise people have the right to use them, and don’t be ostentatious to shock people; believers are plain people , the action does not arouse suspicion, and if one is missing, there will be no complete plan.

If a gentleman works with a villain, he will fail, and if a gentleman works with a gentleman, it may not be without failure.
Opinions differ also.Today, there are five people who are benevolent, righteous, courteous, wise, and believers, and they share one thing. If the five help each other, everything will be accomplished, and if the five have masters, everything will be invincible.The benevolent seeks magnanimity, the righteous seeks strictness, the wise seeks ingenuity, the trustworthy seeks truth, the courteous seeks literature, and everything can be accomplished?There is no other, the heart of self-righteousness wins, and the power of stalemate is even.Looking at the past, every time there is a dispute of opinion to the death of the country, causing disaster and disregarding it.The crime of a gentleman is serious!So what?
Said: "The power cannot be equalized. If the power is equal, it will not be inferior. If the power is equal, it will act on its own mind without fear. In the affairs of the three armies, the soldiers offer their advice, and they favor the plan. It's just a matter of those who know how to be in power."

There is a reason for all the evils, what is the point of saving only the branches and leaves?

When dealing with villains, you can't care about one point, you need to relax a step.

To deal with the affairs of the world, you only need to be peaceful.Although soldiers are expensive and fast, they must be made from now on.However, serenity is not the same as slowness, calm and detailed examination and care is in the middle of the ear.

Therefore, if you are not idle, you will not be busy, and if you are not leisurely, you will not be tired.If you are lazy first, you will be impatient later, which is a disaster.Ten actions and nine regrets, how can it be called peace?

Resolute people seem to be busy, and they often have leisure in their hearts; people who follow the rules seem to be idle, and their hearts are always tired.

A gentleman responds to things, and often wins when he has leisure in his heart.If you bother when socializing, and worry when not socializing, it will be extremely tiring.

It is also a disease to be biased towards one's direction for the sake of goodness.The sages are good, they measure their virtues, judge the situation according to the time, and if they don't persuade them, they must endure the death of all people, and the current situation cannot.If you think that the evil people are poor and sad, and you are in vain to favor others, you are just wanting.

Clearly and calmly, there is more than enough money, but there are many traces, Fei Xu makes a big fuss, the most clumsy workmanship.

There are two things in the world, and those who are not righteous can't choose.If you go to the fine place, after all, there is only one ear.

When a sage deals with things, there are changes and no rules, there is extreme persistence, there is a difference in one thing, and there is a special thing but the same, it is only possible.Since ancient times, the sages who are suitable are only the sages of Yao, Shun, Yu, Wen, Zhou, and Confucius.When possible but without trace, this is called the most holy.

The sage deals with things like the four rays of the sun and the moon, making shadows with things; like water flowing around, forming shapes wherever he wants, and he does not give them to himself.

The worst thing to do is to use anger, and the worst thing to do with reason. A gentleman is calm and easy to get angry when things happen.

Those who are ignorant know one of them.I don't know the second, seeing what I see but not what I don't see, so it's helpful for things.Only a wise man can be soft and strong, round and square, able to survive and perish, able to show and hide, the whole world fears and doubts, but he is sure to do it, and the death is as expected, it is determined before seeing.

The place where the writing is not chosen, the text is not corrected, the words are not checked, and the work is not painstaking, all of which are called self-satisfaction.The self-satisfied and the sky meet.

The simplicity of uselessness is not expensive for a gentleman.Although it is not a matter of mechanical deceit, as for virtue, wisdom and skill knowledge, it is also indispensable.

There is no sudden speech in the clear mind, and there is no foolishness in the active man.

It is not difficult to plan, but difficult to break.The strategist tries his best to understand the principles of things, to reach the appropriateness of the current situation, and he does not think about the ingenuity of his opinions. However, if there are so many elites, they can be ambiguous, and it is difficult to judge.Therefore, the planner is more in size, and the one who is broken is smaller than the millimeter;Therefore, all sages can conspire with them, but it is absolutely impossible for non-sages.

Where human feelings are inconvenient, we must avoid them.Although it is difficult for him to speak, but the heart is tired of suffering, this is what the wise person must feel.It is a gentleman who understands human feelings.Those who have learned, it is also called persevering and thoughtful.

Sympathize with his selfishness, help his wishes, make his name, and obliterate his traces.Therefore, those who observe words and colors are the ones who learn it roughly; those who express emotion and understanding are the ones who learn it finely.

(End of this chapter)