Li Yinhe talks about sex

Chapter 61 One Loves Two
Is it not possible for a woman to be in love with two men at the same time?Is it physically impossible?Is it psychologically impossible?Is it morally impossible?Still don't have this right?Is it possible for a man to fall in love with two women at the same time?
According to reports, the director of "Zhou Yu's Train" revealed the difficulty of the difficult delivery of the film: Originally, the plot design was that the heroine fell in love with two men at the same time, but it failed the review, and it turned out that she fell in love with the two men at different times. Two men, the film passed the censorship.

It is the 21st century, but this incident made me feel like living in the era of Empress Dowager Cixi.Is it not possible for a woman to be in love with two men at the same time?Is it physically impossible?Is it psychologically impossible?Is it morally impossible?Still don't have this right?Is it possible for a man to fall in love with two women at the same time?
It has been argued that people are exclusive when they are in love.It's entirely possible.Regardless of physiology or psychology, the object of love is generally relatively single.However, falling in love with two people at the same time is not entirely impossible.Using the logic of falsification theory, although most swans are white, as long as there is a black swan, the assertion that "swans are white" will be falsified.In the same way, among the billions of people in the world and the hundreds of billions of people who have passed away, as long as there is one person who has the experience of falling in love with two people at the same time, the conclusion that "one cannot fall in love with two people at the same time" is true. It was falsified.Individual differences are so great, I don't believe there is no such a "black swan" who falls in love with two people at the same time.

When it comes to morality, I always quote a philosopher's famous saying: "Morality varies according to geography." Over a mountain, what is moral becomes immoral, and vice versa.In cannibal tribes, cannibalism is not against morality.How can it be immoral for one person to fall in love with two people?Subjectively, if she didn't mean to play or deceive these two men, how could she be immoral?Love is just a human feeling, and if a feeling is also immoral, it would be too demanding and depressing.This requirement is like asking people not to fall in love with carrots and cabbage at the same time.Although most people say that "radish and cabbage each have their own love", there is one person who falls in love with both radish and cabbage. Is her morality not as noble as those who only love?
When it comes to rights, she is even more confident: as a citizen with independent personality, she certainly has the right to love two people.If she is conservative, she can express her love for one person and keep her love for the other hidden in her heart; if she is more avant-garde, she might as well express her love for both.In any case, she definitely has the right to fall in love with two people at the same time.Others must not and cannot interfere.

What some people (including the reviewers) don't realize is that they don't think a man shouldn't be in love with two people at the same time, they just think a woman shouldn't be in love with two men at the same time.In the old days when taking concubines was legal, Chinese men easily accepted that a man fell in love with two women at the same time. One of the "seven outs" of the ancient Chinese divorce sayings is that women are not allowed to be "jealous". The spouse cannot be "jealous", once "jealous" is ready to be "exited".It seems that it is "natural" and "moral" for a man to fall in love with two, or even three, or four people at the same time.But those Chinese men who have built up this kind of "collective unconsciousness" in a certain corner of their minds will feel very hurt once they see that a woman can fall in love with two men at the same time, as if this woman has violated some unwritten law , greatly incoherent.

Film censorship is a holdover from a time when class warfare was heavily promoted.In that era, the screening of a film would be discussed by the Politburo, and its political orientation, artistic sentiment, and moral standards would cause nationwide discussions and criticisms, and the parties involved would sometimes be sentenced to jail or administrative sanctions. As a result, it once caused a sad situation in which only eight operas in the country could pass the censorship.Now, the censorship standards have been relaxed, but the problem is still not small, as evidenced by "Zhou Yu's Train".

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