Chapter Three
There is a saying: "When you meet noble people when you go out, they will help you in everything." When climbing to the peak of your career, the help of noble people is often an indispensable part.Noble people can not only add points for you, but also increase your chances of success.So, what is a "noble man"? "Noble person" may refer to someone in a high position, or it may refer to someone you have admired for a long time or want to imitate.These people are slightly better than you in terms of experience, expertise, knowledge, and skills.Who is the noble person in your life, and how to identify your noble person?The key depends on whether you have a pair of discerning eyes, and whether you can figure out a person's personal qualities from his micro-reactions.
1.People standing with feet together are helpful
Mr. Q: I found that my neighbor always likes to put his feet together when he is standing. I think his action is really funny.
Socialist: Don't laugh, this person is probably your nobleman.In general, a person who likes to put their feet together when standing is helpful.When you are in trouble, he is likely to help you out!
【Scene reconstruction】
Wei Fen is a very ambitious woman. After graduating from university, she worked hard and hoped to make a career out of it.However, no matter how hard she tried, her career still failed to improve.After reflection and conclusion, she felt that she had worked very hard, but still achieved nothing. One of the most important reasons was that she had not met a noble person.Therefore, Wei Fen began to search for a nobleman.
In Wei Fen's view, noble people are those who are richer and higher than herself, who can help and guide her. Therefore, she tries her best to contact such people, and she smiles when she sees those capable people. When he saw those driving BMWs, he warmly greeted them... But Wei Fen turned a blind eye to those who were of the same or even lower status than him, and even looked down on them.
Wei Fen has a cousin who dropped out of junior high school because of his poor family.Later, I came out to work and learned decoration from others.Wei Fen has always looked down on this cousin, and didn't even tell him that she was married.
Two years later, Wei Fen bought a new house and needed renovation.However, she didn't study this major, and she didn't know anything about decoration, so she didn't feel at ease letting others do it.It just so happened that my cousin had been doing decoration outside for many years, so she was naturally happy to think of such a suitable candidate.However, when she thought of her attitude towards her cousin, she retreated in her heart.But anyway, she decided to give it a try.So, I invited my cousin to come to my house as a guest.
That day, upon hearing the knock on the door, Wei Fen immediately opened the door.When she saw her cousin standing outside the door respectfully with his feet together and his hands behind his back, a stone in her heart fell to the ground.Because her cousin likes to put his feet together when standing, she figured out that his cousin is a helpful person, and he will definitely not refuse to help her.Therefore, after her cousin had eaten, Wei Fen made her request.Sure enough, as she expected, the cousin agreed to her without saying a word, and in the next few months, he was busy decorating her home, running back and forth, and she, with the help of her cousin , not only feel more at ease, but also more worry-free.
Three months later, seeing her cousin who had lost a lot of weight after the renovation was completed, Wei Fen felt really uncomfortable.She would never have expected that it was this humble cousin who helped her a lot at the critical moment, and where are those "nobles" whom she usually looks up to at this moment?From this incident, she realized a truth: in fact, the real noble person may be by her side, as long as she observes carefully, she can find out who is her noble person from their words and deeds.And even though those so-called noble people are better than themselves in everything, they may not be willing to help themselves.
After realizing this truth, Wei Fen found that in order to make a career, he not only needs the help of those who are more capable than himself, but also those who are less capable than himself.Only in this way can we make some achievements.
How do you know the "noble man"?Do you also think that those who have status and status are your nobles like Wei Fen in the story?
[expert answering doubts]
Most people define "noble people" as: Noble people are those who are extremely capable, have a wide range of ways, and can help themselves a lot at critical moments.Although such a definition is not wrong, it has great limitations.Although those high-ranking people who can call the wind and rain and control the overall situation can help us in our careers, we may not be able to get their help, and some are even too far away from us to be your "timely rain".On the contrary, as long as those around us are willing to help others, when we encounter difficulties, he will extend a helping hand.In fact, these people are not your nobles?
In fact, the people who can really help you are often by your side.Nobility does not lie in how "expensive" it is, but in how "close" it is. Everyone knows the truth that people who are far away cannot quench their thirst.Because a real noble person will bring you real benefits.Therefore, when we are looking for a noble person, don't be too ambitious, maybe the real noble person is by your side.
Wei Fen in the story made such a mistake, always thinking that the nobles who can help him are those with high positions and powers. As a result, the person who really helps him is his cousin who he has always ignored and looked down on.There is nothing wrong with looking for nobles regardless of status or inferiority. However, there is one thing that must be paid attention to: the so-called "wisdom eyes recognize heroes", when looking for nobles, one must distinguish between nobles and villains.The reason why Wei Fen in the story can ask her cousin for help is because she infers from watching her cousin's movement of putting his feet together that he is willing to help others and will definitely not refuse her request.If the cousin holds a grudge and doesn't like to help others, then not only will he not agree to Wei Fen's request, but he may even ridicule her.If so, Wei Fen would feel very embarrassed.Therefore, when we are looking for noble people, we must not only break the shackles of status, but also keep our eyes open to find someone who can really help us.
[Extended reading]
The feet are the most honest part of the human body. On many occasions, different habitual movements of the feet express different psychological activities of a person.Carefully observe the habitual movements of a person's feet, and you will find your noble person from the crowd around you.
Crossed feet indicate tension
If someone puts one ankle on top of the other, that person often has something to hide.What he may be hiding is some kind of emotion or news, so that he will not leak the relevant information through this posture.
This action also shows that someone is nervous.People often do this when they need to go to the bathroom, and it's actually a way of disguising themselves.Passengers often do this when they're nervous or uncomfortable about takeoff.
People who stand on their natural feet are pushy
If someone stands with his feet naturally, and occasionally shakes his legs, sometimes clasps his fingers in front of his abdomen, and rubs his thumbs back and forth, this kind of person often shows a strong desire and likes to show off in public.Under normal circumstances, when people are in a state of tension, their legs will shake unnaturally, or they will tap the ground lightly with their feet, and people will enter a state of tension when they are about to express themselves.
People with feet together are helpful
Some people naturally like to stand with their feet together and with their hands behind their backs.Most of these people are emotionally impatient, but most of them are willing to help others. They seldom say "no" to others, and often respond to requests, so this type of people can generally get along well with others.
People who stand naturally with their left foot in front are honest and honest
If a person likes to stand on both feet naturally, with his left foot in front and his left hand habitually placed in his trouser pocket, it indicates that the person's interpersonal relationship is relatively harmonious.They never give others any problems, and they are honest and honest.The first impression of this type of men is always polite, and they usually like a quiet environment, but once they encounter more angry things, they will also be furious.
2. People with upward-turned mouth corners are broad-minded
Q Jun: I used to fight with one of my classmates, and he was punished by the school for this, so he failed to go to high school.I'm going to ask him for help this time, will he help me?
Socialist: Whether he will help you depends on his heart!If he has a big heart, he will help you.If you are narrow-minded, you will definitely not help you!Sometimes, the person you have some trouble with is still your noble person!
【Scene reconstruction】
One day, Jiang Xiaohua's mother had a sudden stroke and was sent to the Central Hospital.At that time, the hospital had too many patients and not enough beds.Jiang Xiaohua's mother had to be placed in a temporary bed set up in the corridor of the hospital.Since it was a cold spring, Jiang Xiaohua knew very well that the patient must keep warm.If the mother is allowed to spend the night in the corridor, it is likely to aggravate the condition.The filial girl stomped her feet anxiously in the hospital corridor.
At this moment, one of Jiang Xiaohua's classmates rushed over, seeing this situation, suggested: "Why don't we go find the director of surgery in the hospital! He was our classmate in junior high school!"
Jiang Xiaohua was overjoyed when he heard that, so he hurriedly asked: "Who is it? Tell me quickly."
The classmate replied hesitantly: "It's the classmate who fought with you back then."
"Fight with me?" Jiang Xiaohua quickly turned his head and searched hard for the classmates who fought with him back then.
"You have forgotten that when you fought back then, he was punished by the school and failed to pass the high school. He went to a vocational school. Unexpectedly, he is quite capable, and now he is the director of surgery in this hospital ’” said the classmate in one breath.
When Jiang Xiaohua heard this, he couldn't help shivering.Recalling that year, because of one of his mistakes, he missed the chance to go to college.Thinking about it now, I really regret it.So, she hurriedly waved her hand and said, "That's not good, that's not good, it's too late for him to resent me, how can he help me?"
The classmate thought for a while and said, "That's not necessarily the case. It depends on what kind of person he is. If he is broad-minded, then he has put down his hatred long ago and will definitely help you."
"I haven't seen him for so many years, how can I know what kind of person he has become?" Jiang Xiaohua said worriedly.
"Well, let's go in and observe it before we talk!" The classmate suggested.
"Observe? Observe what?" Jiang Xiaohua was dragged by that classmate to the office of the chief of surgery.
There were many people in the director's office, and Jiang Xiaohua's classmate stood by the door carefully observing the director's every move.Soon, he discovered that the director always liked to pick up the corners of his mouth when he was speaking.Noticing the director's action, the student immediately said happily to Jiang Xiaohua: "The director is a broad-minded person, he will not hate you, you can go to him for help!"
Jiang Xiaohua asked puzzledly: "How do you know?"
"Don't ask so many questions, go!"
Jiang Xiaohua bit the bullet and went to the director for help.Unexpectedly, the director was very happy to see him.When she explained her intention, the other party immediately agreed, and called to coordinate with relevant parties, and soon transferred her mother to a high-grade ward.
Can those people who have had conflicts with you become your nobles?Maybe many people think that it is impossible, but in fact, as long as you observe carefully and find that the other party has a broad mind, then he can really help you.
[expert answering doubts]
Lips are an important cue point for many body languages, the most obvious function of which is speaking.But lips often show different mouth shapes and movements in the process of our life performance, which are closely connected with our emotional psychology.For example, people with lips curled forward are skeptical, people with lips pursed forward are more defensive, people with lips pursed into a "one" shape have strong determination, and people with the corners of their mouths are open-minded...
When you find that the corners of a person's mouth like to pick up, then you should work hard to establish a good relationship with him.Because people with the corners of their mouths are open-minded, they generally don't care about gains and losses with you, let alone hold grudges.Even if you once had any hatred, when you need help, he can put down the hatred to help you.Whether it is a friend, a classmate, or an enemy, whether you can be your noble person, the key point is whether you can be sure that the other party is a broad-minded person.Even if there used to be hatred, big-hearted people can let go of the hatred to help you.
The surgical director in the story was Jiang Xiaohua's classmate and her enemy.Why can Jiang Xiaohua's other classmate conclude that this classmate and enemy will definitely help Jiang Xiaohua's mother change wards?It was because the classmate discovered through observation that the chief of surgery likes to pick his lips upwards. From this action, he concluded that he is a broad-minded person who will not hold grudges.Therefore, Jiang Xiaohua was actively encouraged to ask that classmate for help.
The above story tells us a truth: there are noble people everywhere in our lives, the key lies in how we distinguish whether the other party is a big-hearted person or a small person.This requires us to cultivate a pair of discerning eyes and carefully observe the behavior of the other party, so as to accurately identify the other party.
[Extended reading]
Man with lips turned forward is skeptical
A person who curls his lower lip forward indicates that he does not believe the information he receives from the outside world and hopes to get an affirmative answer.
People with pursed lips are more defensive
A person's lips are pursed forward, indicating that the person may be in some kind of defensive state of mind.
People who purse their mouths into a "one" shape have a strong will
When most people make important decisions, they will press their mouths into a "one" shape.They are generally relatively strong, with a tenacious spirit of perseverance, will face difficulties bravely, and will not retreat in battle.They don't have the determination to never give up on the Yellow River, so the probability of success is relatively high.
The person who picks the corner of the mouth is open-minded
People with a pick on the corner of their mouth are quick-witted, outgoing, eloquent, good at greeting strangers proactively, and having cordial conversations.They are open-minded, tolerant, and will not hold grudges against those who have hurt them.Has a very good interpersonal relationship, and can often get support and help from others in the most difficult times.
3.The man who sticks his thumb to his chin while smoking a cigarette has a bright future
Q Jun: Different people have different smoking movements. My leader always likes to straighten his thumb against his chin when he smokes. Does this movement have any profound meaning?
Socialist: People who like to straighten their thumbs against their chins when smoking are masculine, dare to challenge work, have a bright future, and have the potential to grow into senior managers.He may be your nobleman!
【Scene reconstruction】
Yuan Jie works in sales in a manufacturing company.Once, the customer Xiao Wang wanted to buy a batch of products from their company.This client is not the boss of the company, but just like him, just a small salesman.Xiao Wang is very short, with the delicacy of southern men, but lacks the domineering of northern men.
Yuan Jie despised Xiao Wang's height when he first met him, but in order to negotiate business, he still treated him politely.After Xiao Wang signed the order, Yuan Jie planned to leave.Unexpectedly, at this moment, Xiao Wang took out a cigarette and started smoking.Yuan Jie found that this client always likes to straighten his thumb against his chin when he smokes.
Yuan Jie was stunned. He once saw this sentence in a book: "People who like to straighten their thumbs against their chins when smoking are masculine, have the courage to challenge work, and have a bright future. They are the material for senior managers." Thinking of this, Yuan Jie gave up the idea of leaving, and started talking with the other party again.
"How long have you been in your company?"
"I only joined the company in the first half of this year." Xiao Wang replied with a smile.From his smile, Yuan Jie knew that he was a newcomer who had just entered the workplace.
Yuan Jie patted him on the shoulder and said, "Young man, work hard, you will have a bright future."
"Well, thank you." Xiao Wang replied somewhat unnaturally.
Later, whenever Yuan Jie had time, he would often ask this client out for a chat. Gradually, they became familiar with each other and became good buddies who talked about everything, and at the same time became his noble person.Under the leadership of Yuan Jie, Xiao Wang has made great progress. Coupled with his own efforts, he has the courage to challenge difficult tasks.A year later, he was promoted to the manager of the marketing department.
Since then, Xiao Wang has ordered products from Yuan Jie's company every time, and also introduced other friends to buy.This brought huge profits to Yuan Jie.
Some clients have just entered the workplace. Although they do not have rich work experience, as long as they dare to challenge the work and have enough enthusiasm for work, they will have a bright future.Therefore, such people are also our nobles.What we have to do is to discover each other's potential with our eyes.
[expert answering doubts]
Some behavioral psychologists have found through research that smoking is an important performance for a person to deal with various life pressures, express emotions, and express various emotions.Through observation, we found that many men use smoking to relieve tension and regulate emotions.Especially at the negotiating table where the atmosphere is depressing, different people have different smoking postures, and different smoking postures reflect different psychological activities of a person.For example, people who straighten their thumbs against their chins when smoking are enthusiastic about their work and have a bright future; people who work with a cigarette in their mouths are eager to be recognized by others;
In the story, Yuan Jie discovered his enthusiasm for work and his courage to challenge work by observing his client Xiao Wang's smoking movements—like sticking his thumb to his chin when he smokes.Therefore, judging that the client Xiao Wang has a bright future, he established a good relationship with him and made him a noble person in his work.
The above story tells us a truth: Nobility does not refer to those with high positions and powers. Although some people have not made any achievements at present, they have potential and will eventually succeed one day.On the day of success, he will naturally become your nobleman.In fact, such people are our potential nobles.Therefore, when looking for a noble person, you may wish to observe the smoking actions of the men around you. From these actions, you will understand his inner world more clearly and find your noble person more easily.
[Extended reading]
Psychologists believe that smoking is an external manifestation of a person's inner conflicts and ideological conflicts.By observing a person's habitual actions of smoking and holding a cigarette, we can figure out his mental activities and identify who is our noble person. Let's take a look:
The man who sticks his thumb to his chin while smoking a cigarette has a bright future
A person who sticks his thumb to his chin while smoking has a strong masculinity and will not admit defeat.Be more enthusiastic about competition at work.Have a strong sense of challenge to difficult work.The future is bright and has the potential to grow into a senior manager.
Man working with a cigarette in his mouth craves approval from others
Working with a cigarette in your mouth is a symbol of confidence or busyness in your work.If the person's abilities are not recognized by others, they may resist violently or become demoralized.
People who raise their heads slightly and smoke at the corners of their mouths are more developed
People who raise their heads slightly and smoke at the corners of their mouths have strong confidence in their work and may become experts in a certain profession.However, they are too reluctant to do things and have too much self-esteem. They are usually out of tune with their colleagues. Even if disputes or failures occur, they still have the drive to break through difficulties and have more development in the future.
People who smoke with their lower lip are stable
People who smoke with their lower lip are stable, adaptable, and unobtrusive.Although they are not vigorous, they seldom fail, and they can work hard step by step to achieve success.Within one or two years of joining the company, there are few opportunities to display my talents, and it is only after three or four years that I gradually gain the trust of my boss.However, this kind of person lacks work initiative.
4.A man who reads and eats is ambitious
Mr. Q: I have a colleague who always likes to read while eating. This habit is very bad, slow, and I have to wait for him for a long time every time. I really hope he can get rid of this habit.
Socialist: The habit of eating has been formed since childhood, how can it be so easy to get rid of it?The habit of eating while reading is not good, but this habit shows that this person is ambitious, he is likely to achieve great things in the future, and he may also become your noble person!
【Scene reconstruction】
Chen Lei is an old employee of an electronics company.In terms of qualifications, there is no one in the whole company with higher qualifications than him. He has a good work attitude, but his work ability is average.Therefore, when it comes to promotion season, others take the lead.For this reason, Chen Lei was very depressed.
Perhaps because of his bad mood, Chen Lei had a quarrel with a colleague in the company.At noon this day, my colleague Xiao Li ordered a box lunch. He always likes to read books while eating, and he can't help laughing out loud when he sees funny content.This day was no exception. While eating, he flipped through the book and laughed out loud when he saw something funny.Hearing the laughter of his colleague Xiao Li, Chen Lei always felt so harsh.Therefore, without any explanation, I quarreled with Xiao Li.
When he got home at night, Chen Lei fell asleep.Seeing this, the wife asked with concern: "What's wrong with you today, why did you just fall asleep when you came back?"
"I had a fight with my colleague!" Chen Lei said, covering his head with a quilt.
"Why did you quarrel with your colleagues?" The wife continued to ask.
"He was eating, reading, and laughing from time to time. I heard his laughter was very harsh. So, there was a quarrel."
The wife pulled Chen Lei out of the quilt, and said softly: "Do you know who you offended today?"
"Isn't it my colleague Xiao Li?" Chen Lei replied without thinking.
"Wrong, what you offended today is your future leader." The wife said word by word.
"Stop talking nonsense, how could you be my future leader?" Chen Lei said disapprovingly.
"Anyone who understands behavioral psychology knows that people who eat while reading books are ambitious, and they are likely to achieve a career in the future. People like this are capable, and they will naturally be promoted in the future. You say you offended the leader, and you can still be promoted. Promoted?" the wife reminded.
Chen Lei thought it made sense.As soon as he arrived at the company the next day, he apologized to his colleague Xiao Li.Xiao Li is generous and quickly forgave him.Sure enough, after half a year, Xiao Li was promoted to supervisor because of his outstanding ability.Not long after, Chen Lei was also promoted to team leader.
In the workplace, quarrels with colleagues are unavoidable.However, what you don't know is that sometimes it's not your colleagues you offend because of your temporary emotions, but your future leader, and even your "potential noble person".
[expert answering doubts]
Eating is an indispensable and important part of our life. Only by eating can people maintain their existence.Therefore, eating is something that a person continues to do from birth to death, and the habit of eating is also developed from childhood.However, different people have different eating postures, and different eating postures reflect different psychological activities.If you carefully observe the eating habits of people around you, you may be able to find your potential nobles!
In the story, Chen Lei, because he doesn't understand behavioral psychology, was very angry with his colleague Xiao Li's habit of reading while eating, and then had a fight.However, he never thought that Xiao Li, who likes to read while eating, turned out to be his "potential nobleman".Thanks to his wife's reminder, Chen Lei realized the mistakes he made and seized the opportunity to correct them.
Some people may say that it is only a coincidence that the "invisible leaders" you mentioned can become leaders.In fact, this is a necessity.As long as you observe their behavior more often, you can be sure that they will achieve something in the future.After discovering "invisible leaders", we should try our best to build a good relationship with them and turn them into our potential nobles.When the day they get promoted, our chance to be promoted is coming.
Therefore, in the workplace, we should not only regard the existing leaders as our nobles, but also regard some "invisible leaders" as our nobles.Since they are still in the "invisible" stage, we need to observe their behavior more and find out our nobles skillfully.
[Extended reading]
Eating is an indispensable and important part of our life. Only by eating can people maintain their existence.Eating is also something that a person continues to do from birth to death, but everyone's eating posture is different.Relevant behavioral psychology experts pointed out that different eating postures reflect different psychological activities.Let's take a look:
people eating standing
Those who like to eat standing are not particularly particular about eating, they will try their best to pay attention to convenience, simplicity, saving time and effort, as long as they can fill their stomachs.Such people do not have much ideals and pursuits in life, and are easily satisfied. They have a gentle personality, know how to care for others, and are very generous and generous.
eat-and-cook
Those who cook and eat have a fast pace of life, because they have a lot to do, so they appear to be busy, but they are not bothered by it, and they even feel happy.
people reading while eating
The person who eats while reading is the kind of person who eats to live, and they eat only to satisfy the needs of their bodies.If they can still live without eating, then they will give up this time-consuming and wasting energy.These people are ambitious and have concrete plans to make their dreams come true.They always arrange their schedules to be full, in order to be able to do more things, they do everything possible to squeeze time.They also have a positive and optimistic spirit and will put their ideas into action.
people who walk and eat
Although the people who eat while walking give people the feeling that they come and go in a hurry, as if time is very tight.However, the actual situation is different, and their time constraints are likely to be caused by their own lack of organization and discipline.Most of such people are more impulsive, and they are often impulsive, often getting things out of hand.
People who like to eat while watching TV
People who like to eat while watching TV are mostly lonely.Television may be one of the best ways they can counteract their inner loneliness.
5.people with signature to the right are sociable
Q Jun: A friend asked me to do business with him. However, I heard that people with upward signatures have great ambitions, and his signatures are on the right. Does he really want to do business?
Socialist: Of course he wants to do business.People with signatures to the right have good relationships, and doing business requires relationships.This fully shows that he has long been prepared.
【Scene reconstruction】
Peng Haibo is an out-and-out office worker.One day, a friend of his came to discuss with him, hoping that he could do business with him.Peng Haibo didn't know this friend very well, so he was a little hesitant.
For the sake of safety, Peng Haibo decided to spend a few days to observe this friend's behavior and work style.After a few days of observation, he found that there was nothing wrong with this friend's character, but when interacting with people, he appeared to be enthusiastic about participating, but actually stayed out of it, so as to carefully observe and understand the overall situation.Peng Haibo was puzzled by his friend's way of dealing with the world.Therefore, he still hesitated.
On this day, a friend took Peng Haibo to discuss business.When signing the contract, Peng Haibo found that his friend signed to the right.Peng Haibo suddenly understood his friend's intentions, and it turned out that this was the reason why he became a social master.He is not interested in drinking, he appears to be enthusiastic about participating in the communication, but actually stays out of it, so as to carefully observe and understand the overall situation.They will pay close attention to every move of others, so as to control all the details and processes of the development and changes of things.
Networks are money, and the most necessary thing to do business is to have good interpersonal relationships. In this case, what is there to hesitate?So Peng Haibo agreed to his friend's request.
Sure enough, as he expected, a year later, they started to make a profit.A few years later, the company grew stronger and stronger, and Peng Haibo, one of the shareholders, also lived in a new house and drove a BMW.At the year-end meeting, Peng Haibo raised his glass to his friends and said, "I respect you for this glass. You are really my noble person. Because of your help, I am where I am today!"
Carefully observe every move of your friends, carefully figure out their psychological activities, and boldly predict their future.Maybe from their behavior, you will find your potential noble!
[expert answering doubts]
There is a saying: "Friends are the wealth of a lifetime." This is indeed the case. In a way, friends are also our nobles. They can not only promote the development of our careers, but also lend a helping hand when we need help.The so-called "the one who is close to vermilion is red, and the one who is close to ink is black", we must choose carefully when making friends.When working with friends, we must think carefully and examine the friend's style of doing things.If the views of the two are too far apart, then in the process of doing things, there will naturally be conflicts and it will be difficult to achieve success.At that time, each other may no longer be friends.Therefore, when we work with a friend, we must first understand his behavior from all aspects.
Peng Haibo in the story is very cautious. When he agreed to work with a friend, he went to the scene in person, and after observing the gesture of his friend's signature, he concluded that the friend was a social master before considering cooperation.Heaven paid off, and this friend eventually became his nobleman.
Yes, signing is a humble gesture though.But as a person's identity code, in many cases, we need to tell each other's name to expand our social circle.Therefore, signature becomes an important content in people's life.Signatures vary in size and in various poses. In addition to revealing the personal information of the signers, their personalities can also be reflected from them.
[Extended reading]
Signatures vary in size and in various poses. In addition to revealing the signer's personal information, they can also reflect the signer's personality.Let's take a look together:
Sign Up Man with Big Aspirations
People with upward signatures are generally ambitious.They are not afraid of hard work, positive, determined and persistent to realize their ideals, and try their best to remove obstacles on their way forward.Honor and flowers are the favorites of these people, and they are passionate about all the pleasures of the world.The reason why they work tirelessly is to get these.When they achieve great things, they also bring disasters to others.
People with down signatures are not confident enough
People with downward signatures are usually considered negative and waiting people. They always look weak, as if recovering from a serious illness, and seem to have experienced the vicissitudes and tribulations of the world.This kind of person has no illusions about the future and has a serious lack of self-confidence.They may get excited when they see others achieve, but the enthusiasm quickly fades and they go with the crowd in a blink of an eye.
Those who sign to the left have a clear love and hate
People whose signature is to the left generally like innovation and the pursuit of being different, and don't like to follow the rules.If they like someone, they will be ruthless to the end; if they hate someone, they will be warm and thoughtful.They are outspoken and like to express themselves in front of strangers, and at the same time they are serious and sincere in nature without losing their humor.Therefore, they are popular lovers.
People with signatures to the right have good relationships
People whose signatures are on the right show full confidence in their daily life. They are enthusiastic and positive, and they always put on an energetic and kind appearance in front of others.They are social masters, and they often take the initiative to move closer to others in the process of interpersonal communication. Therefore, others will welcome them with smiles and interact with them harmoniously.
6.People who like to keep their hands behind their backs are calm and sophisticated
Mr. Q: There is a new boss in our company. He looks unattractive, but he always likes to put his hands behind his back. There is no sense of intimacy. When we see him, we want to hide away.
Socialist: As the saying goes: "A person cannot be judged by his appearance, and the sea cannot be measured." When looking at people, don't judge people by their appearance. People who like to keep their hands behind their backs are calm and sophisticated. This kind of person is easy to accomplish things. Maybe he will be your nobleman.
【Scene reconstruction】
Zhang Xu is the director of the marketing department of a company.A few days ago, the marketing manager of the company resigned.Zhang Xu secretly guessed: Once the manager resigns, the director will be promoted to manager, and he is likely to be promoted to director.However, to his surprise, a few days later, the company recruited a new manager.
The newly appointed manager was unattractive, and when he walked, he bowed his back and bent his waist.When I go to work, I always like to walk up and down with my hands behind my back, which makes people feel very uncomfortable.Zhang Xu didn't like the new manager from the beginning, and seeing his behavior made him even more disgusted.Therefore, he intentionally stayed away from the newly appointed manager, and "be a monk for a day and hit the clock for a day" in his work.He was sure that the newly appointed manager would not be able to make any achievements and would probably step down immediately.However, his colleague Wang Yufei likes this manager very much. As long as the job is assigned by the manager, he will complete it with quality and quantity.For this reason, Zhang Xu also laughed at his colleague Wang Yufei: "Just treat him as a manager and execute his orders as the emperor's orders. You don't even look at his ugly face." Wang Yufei smiled, but what? Didn't say either.
Time passed day by day.One day, the general manager suddenly announced: Wang Yufei is the manager of the company's marketing department.Everyone, you look at me, I look at you, I don't know why.It turned out that the newly recruited marketing manager was not a new recruit, but a temporary replacement of the chairman of the company. His purpose of doing this was to promote the manager from the company's existing employees.
After this incident, Zhang Xu was very unconvinced and asked Wang Yufei: "Did you know that he was the chairman from the beginning, so you liked him very much?"
Wang Yufei said with a smile: "I didn't know the news at first, and it was my duty to do a good job. However, when I saw him with his hands behind his back, I knew he was a cautious, mature and experienced person. It might be a success.”
After listening to Wang Yufei's words, Zhang Xu nodded if he realized something.
In the workplace, don't underestimate those ugly people, those ugly people are probably your nobles.
[expert answering doubts]
Many people in life often like to judge people by their appearance. When they see those who are ugly or whose words and deeds are not elegant enough, they will cast contemptuous eyes.However, fate always likes to play tricks on people, and the person you despise may be your noble person.
In the story, Zhang Xu judges people by appearance, has a prejudice against the newly appointed manager, is also very slack in the work he confesses, and concludes that such a manager cannot make any achievements.On the contrary, Wang Yufei is not only full of admiration for the new manager, but also obeys his arrangement and completes the work he confessed with quality and quantity.Naturally, Wang Yufei got the trust and affirmation of the new manager.
However, fate made a joke with Zhang Xu. Not only did the newly appointed manager not pack up and leave, but he was also the chairman of the company.In order to find a suitable candidate for the marketing manager from among the employees, he deliberately vilified himself.Zhang Xu, who judges people by their appearance, was naturally defeated, and Wang Yufei was naturally the best candidate for the marketing manager.There is no doubt that Zhang Xu missed his nobleman, but Wang Yufei caught his nobleman.The key reason why Wang Yufei was able to catch his nobleman was that he noticed the behavior of the new manager with his hands behind his back.Because putting your hands behind your back symbolizes authority, confidence and strength.
The above story tells us a truth: don't look down on those ugly people, but should carefully observe their behavior and behavior, and find your noble person from it.
[Extended reading]
Regarding the body language behind the hands, psychologically it can be summarized into the following psychological phenomena, let’s take a look together:
Show status behind hands
In the social arena, in order to show their identity and status, some people make themselves appear more authoritative, especially those at the leadership level, in order to intimidate others in terms of momentum, so that the other party falls into their control, usually Will make this movement with the hands behind the back.
Behind the back of the hands shows that it is cautious in life
In social situations, people who put their hands behind their backs tend to be very cautious.After listening to the other party's words, this kind of person usually puts his hands behind his back within a limited range, pacing and thinking about the problem.They generally do things and make decisions more safely and prudently.
Behind the hands is to cover up my impetuosity
Some people are originally reckless and impetuous people, but in social situations, in order to prevent the other party from seeing their flaws, they deliberately imitate others' movements behind their hands to cover up their flaws.
Behind the hands is a stubborn, determined expression
Under normal circumstances, some elderly people like to make movements behind their hands, which is just a reflection of their stubborn and firm psychology.Because most elderly people are stubborn in their thinking, and they always like to stick to their own views when looking at problems.Whenever they have conflicts with others because of their own opinions, they usually make gestures behind their hands.
7.The person who shakes his head at you may be the noble person who wants to help you
Mr. Q: Today, I asked a very good friend for help, unexpectedly, he shook his head at me, does he not want to help me, should I quit?
Social expert: This is not necessarily the case. It depends on the situation. Specific issues should be analyzed in detail.Sometimes, shaking the head is just a habitual movement of a person.Therefore, in different places and occasions, shaking the head represents different meanings.
【Scene reconstruction】
On this day, Tian Chong unexpectedly met Boss Li whom he had met at the dinner last time.Just after saying hello, Boss Li immediately asked, "Xiaotian, didn't you say you wanted to ask me for help last time, why haven't you come? I've been waiting for you to show up!"
Hearing what Boss Li said, Tian Chong was puzzled.He didn't know what kind of medicine Boss Li sold in his gourd. When he asked Boss Li for help last time, Boss Li shook his head at him, but now he offered to help him. what is going on?Is Boss Li talking politely?
However, Tian Chong saw that his face was sincere again, and he didn't mean to perfuse himself.So, he boldly asked Boss Li: "Boss Li, I dare to ask, do you really want to help me?"
When Boss Li heard this, his face darkened immediately, and he replied unhappily: "Look at you young man, can I still say nothing at such an old age? I really want to help you young people with ambitions." what!"
Tian Chong was even more puzzled, so he simply figured things out.So he asked again: "However, when I asked you for help last time, why did you shake your head at me? I thought you were rejecting me, but you didn't say it verbally, so I know what's wrong." And retreated, and never looked for you again. Didn't you reject me at that time?"
Boss Li finally figured out what was going on, so he laughed and said, "You don't know me too well. Shaking my head is my habitual action. I not only shake my head when I reject others, but sometimes, I want others to continue talking." You can also shake your head, and you will shake your head when you eat something delicious. From this point of view, you young man does not understand psychology. You can look up books on psychology, and there are different meanings for shaking your head. Explain. I believe that after watching it, you will no longer look at my shaking head so simply."
Tian Chong finally understood now, it turned out that he was wrong about the noble boss Li.This mistake has delayed him for so long in vain, otherwise, he would have gotten the help of Boss Li to tide over the current difficulties.
Some people are obviously your nobles, and they are willing to help you.However, because you don't understand body language, you will get the wrong meaning and miss the help of the noble person.Do you feel sad and deplorable?
[expert answering doubts]
In many cases, the meaning represented by some actions has long been ingrained in people's minds and has become a convention in social life.As soon as people see an action, they think it expresses this kind of meaning, and they will not conduct specific analysis according to different occasions and different fields.
For example, the basic meaning of shaking the head means rejection.According to the analysis of some evolutionary biologists, shaking the head is the first movement that people learn after birth. It originated from the breastfeeding period in infancy. After the baby is full, it is used to refuse milk or other food.Apparently, people have been shaking their heads to say "no" since they were children.Therefore, when people see shaking their heads, it is natural for people to think that it means rejection or negation.
Tian Chong in the story misunderstood the meaning of Boss Li shaking his head.He asked Boss Li for help, but Boss Li shook his head at him, thinking that Boss Li was rejecting his request.In fact, shaking his head is just a habitual action of Boss Li.If Tian Chong had learned more about psychology back then, I am afraid that he would not have made subjective assumptions about Boss Li's shaking of his head, thinking that it was his intention to reject him, and would not have put his plan of seeking help from the other party on hold. .Maybe, his career has now reached a new level with the help of Boss Li.
There is no doubt that Boss Li is Tian Chong's nobleman.It's just that Tian Chong misunderstood the meaning of the nobleman shaking his head, and missed his help to him.From the above story, we draw a truth: the person who shakes his head at you is not necessarily refusing to help you, maybe he is the noble person who wants to help you.If you see such a noble person, you must make a judgment based on different situations. Don't take it one-sidedly and think that the other party is rejecting your request, otherwise you will miss the noble person's help.
[Extended reading]
Generally speaking, shaking your head means "no".However, specific to different regions and occasions, there will be different meanings.Therefore, we cannot generalize, but must analyze specific issues in detail.
Shaking the head is very obvious and the frequency is particularly high, which means obvious rejection
When shaking the head expresses obvious rejection, people's head movements will shake very obviously from side to side, and the frequency is also particularly high.This gesture implies a great deal of impatience with what the other person has to say.
Shaking the head is small, and the frequency is very low, implying the other party to continue talking
Head shaking can also occur when a person is listening to another person speaking.Although this is also shaking the head, the shaking amplitude is very small and the frequency is very low.Shaking the head at this time does not mean negation, but a hint that the listener is implying the other party to continue speaking, and he himself has no intention of speaking for the time being.
Appreciate you verbally, but shake your head from time to time to show that the other party doesn't like you
A person praises you verbally, but shakes his head from time to time and says: "I will definitely consider you", "I appreciate your work", "We will have a very pleasant cooperation" and so on.No matter how sincere their attitude is, their head shaking is a reflection of their inner negativity.So, you should pay more attention.
Shake your head when you're proud
Some people will shake their heads when they are proud, for example, when singing to the climax part, he will shake his head unconsciously, or when he tastes delicious food, he will keep shaking his head while eating and say: "Oh, really Yes, it's delicious."
chapter summary:
1.person standing with feet together
People with feet together are willing to help others. This kind of person is your potential noble person.Because when you are in trouble, they are likely to help you.
2.the person with the corner of the mouth turned up
People with upward-turned mouths are open-minded, and they generally don't care about gains and losses with you, let alone hold grudges.Even if you have had knots, as long as you ask him, he will still lend a helping hand.
3.Man with thumbs up against chin while smoking
People who like to straighten their thumbs against their chins when smoking are masculine, dare to challenge work, have a bright future, and have the potential to become senior managers.Don't ignore this kind of people, they may be your potential nobles!
4.people reading while eating
Although the habit of eating while reading is not good, it shows that this person is ambitious and is likely to achieve great things in the future. He is likely to be your potential nobleman.
5.person with signature to the right
People with signatures to the right are sociable and have good relationships.Network is wealth, and this kind of person can easily make a career through his extensive network.
6.people who like to put their hands behind their backs
People who like to keep their hands behind their backs are calm and sophisticated, and they are more secure and prudent in doing things and making decisions.This kind of person is easy to do things, maybe he is your noble person.
7.the person who shakes his head at you
Generally speaking, shaking the head means rejecting.But shaking the head in different places and occasions, shaking the head represents different meanings.Sometimes, when the other party promises to help you, they will still shake their heads.Therefore, the person shaking his head at you may also be a noble person who is trying to help you.
(End of this chapter)
There is a saying: "When you meet noble people when you go out, they will help you in everything." When climbing to the peak of your career, the help of noble people is often an indispensable part.Noble people can not only add points for you, but also increase your chances of success.So, what is a "noble man"? "Noble person" may refer to someone in a high position, or it may refer to someone you have admired for a long time or want to imitate.These people are slightly better than you in terms of experience, expertise, knowledge, and skills.Who is the noble person in your life, and how to identify your noble person?The key depends on whether you have a pair of discerning eyes, and whether you can figure out a person's personal qualities from his micro-reactions.
1.People standing with feet together are helpful
Mr. Q: I found that my neighbor always likes to put his feet together when he is standing. I think his action is really funny.
Socialist: Don't laugh, this person is probably your nobleman.In general, a person who likes to put their feet together when standing is helpful.When you are in trouble, he is likely to help you out!
【Scene reconstruction】
Wei Fen is a very ambitious woman. After graduating from university, she worked hard and hoped to make a career out of it.However, no matter how hard she tried, her career still failed to improve.After reflection and conclusion, she felt that she had worked very hard, but still achieved nothing. One of the most important reasons was that she had not met a noble person.Therefore, Wei Fen began to search for a nobleman.
In Wei Fen's view, noble people are those who are richer and higher than herself, who can help and guide her. Therefore, she tries her best to contact such people, and she smiles when she sees those capable people. When he saw those driving BMWs, he warmly greeted them... But Wei Fen turned a blind eye to those who were of the same or even lower status than him, and even looked down on them.
Wei Fen has a cousin who dropped out of junior high school because of his poor family.Later, I came out to work and learned decoration from others.Wei Fen has always looked down on this cousin, and didn't even tell him that she was married.
Two years later, Wei Fen bought a new house and needed renovation.However, she didn't study this major, and she didn't know anything about decoration, so she didn't feel at ease letting others do it.It just so happened that my cousin had been doing decoration outside for many years, so she was naturally happy to think of such a suitable candidate.However, when she thought of her attitude towards her cousin, she retreated in her heart.But anyway, she decided to give it a try.So, I invited my cousin to come to my house as a guest.
That day, upon hearing the knock on the door, Wei Fen immediately opened the door.When she saw her cousin standing outside the door respectfully with his feet together and his hands behind his back, a stone in her heart fell to the ground.Because her cousin likes to put his feet together when standing, she figured out that his cousin is a helpful person, and he will definitely not refuse to help her.Therefore, after her cousin had eaten, Wei Fen made her request.Sure enough, as she expected, the cousin agreed to her without saying a word, and in the next few months, he was busy decorating her home, running back and forth, and she, with the help of her cousin , not only feel more at ease, but also more worry-free.
Three months later, seeing her cousin who had lost a lot of weight after the renovation was completed, Wei Fen felt really uncomfortable.She would never have expected that it was this humble cousin who helped her a lot at the critical moment, and where are those "nobles" whom she usually looks up to at this moment?From this incident, she realized a truth: in fact, the real noble person may be by her side, as long as she observes carefully, she can find out who is her noble person from their words and deeds.And even though those so-called noble people are better than themselves in everything, they may not be willing to help themselves.
After realizing this truth, Wei Fen found that in order to make a career, he not only needs the help of those who are more capable than himself, but also those who are less capable than himself.Only in this way can we make some achievements.
How do you know the "noble man"?Do you also think that those who have status and status are your nobles like Wei Fen in the story?
[expert answering doubts]
Most people define "noble people" as: Noble people are those who are extremely capable, have a wide range of ways, and can help themselves a lot at critical moments.Although such a definition is not wrong, it has great limitations.Although those high-ranking people who can call the wind and rain and control the overall situation can help us in our careers, we may not be able to get their help, and some are even too far away from us to be your "timely rain".On the contrary, as long as those around us are willing to help others, when we encounter difficulties, he will extend a helping hand.In fact, these people are not your nobles?
In fact, the people who can really help you are often by your side.Nobility does not lie in how "expensive" it is, but in how "close" it is. Everyone knows the truth that people who are far away cannot quench their thirst.Because a real noble person will bring you real benefits.Therefore, when we are looking for a noble person, don't be too ambitious, maybe the real noble person is by your side.
Wei Fen in the story made such a mistake, always thinking that the nobles who can help him are those with high positions and powers. As a result, the person who really helps him is his cousin who he has always ignored and looked down on.There is nothing wrong with looking for nobles regardless of status or inferiority. However, there is one thing that must be paid attention to: the so-called "wisdom eyes recognize heroes", when looking for nobles, one must distinguish between nobles and villains.The reason why Wei Fen in the story can ask her cousin for help is because she infers from watching her cousin's movement of putting his feet together that he is willing to help others and will definitely not refuse her request.If the cousin holds a grudge and doesn't like to help others, then not only will he not agree to Wei Fen's request, but he may even ridicule her.If so, Wei Fen would feel very embarrassed.Therefore, when we are looking for noble people, we must not only break the shackles of status, but also keep our eyes open to find someone who can really help us.
[Extended reading]
The feet are the most honest part of the human body. On many occasions, different habitual movements of the feet express different psychological activities of a person.Carefully observe the habitual movements of a person's feet, and you will find your noble person from the crowd around you.
Crossed feet indicate tension
If someone puts one ankle on top of the other, that person often has something to hide.What he may be hiding is some kind of emotion or news, so that he will not leak the relevant information through this posture.
This action also shows that someone is nervous.People often do this when they need to go to the bathroom, and it's actually a way of disguising themselves.Passengers often do this when they're nervous or uncomfortable about takeoff.
People who stand on their natural feet are pushy
If someone stands with his feet naturally, and occasionally shakes his legs, sometimes clasps his fingers in front of his abdomen, and rubs his thumbs back and forth, this kind of person often shows a strong desire and likes to show off in public.Under normal circumstances, when people are in a state of tension, their legs will shake unnaturally, or they will tap the ground lightly with their feet, and people will enter a state of tension when they are about to express themselves.
People with feet together are helpful
Some people naturally like to stand with their feet together and with their hands behind their backs.Most of these people are emotionally impatient, but most of them are willing to help others. They seldom say "no" to others, and often respond to requests, so this type of people can generally get along well with others.
People who stand naturally with their left foot in front are honest and honest
If a person likes to stand on both feet naturally, with his left foot in front and his left hand habitually placed in his trouser pocket, it indicates that the person's interpersonal relationship is relatively harmonious.They never give others any problems, and they are honest and honest.The first impression of this type of men is always polite, and they usually like a quiet environment, but once they encounter more angry things, they will also be furious.
2. People with upward-turned mouth corners are broad-minded
Q Jun: I used to fight with one of my classmates, and he was punished by the school for this, so he failed to go to high school.I'm going to ask him for help this time, will he help me?
Socialist: Whether he will help you depends on his heart!If he has a big heart, he will help you.If you are narrow-minded, you will definitely not help you!Sometimes, the person you have some trouble with is still your noble person!
【Scene reconstruction】
One day, Jiang Xiaohua's mother had a sudden stroke and was sent to the Central Hospital.At that time, the hospital had too many patients and not enough beds.Jiang Xiaohua's mother had to be placed in a temporary bed set up in the corridor of the hospital.Since it was a cold spring, Jiang Xiaohua knew very well that the patient must keep warm.If the mother is allowed to spend the night in the corridor, it is likely to aggravate the condition.The filial girl stomped her feet anxiously in the hospital corridor.
At this moment, one of Jiang Xiaohua's classmates rushed over, seeing this situation, suggested: "Why don't we go find the director of surgery in the hospital! He was our classmate in junior high school!"
Jiang Xiaohua was overjoyed when he heard that, so he hurriedly asked: "Who is it? Tell me quickly."
The classmate replied hesitantly: "It's the classmate who fought with you back then."
"Fight with me?" Jiang Xiaohua quickly turned his head and searched hard for the classmates who fought with him back then.
"You have forgotten that when you fought back then, he was punished by the school and failed to pass the high school. He went to a vocational school. Unexpectedly, he is quite capable, and now he is the director of surgery in this hospital ’” said the classmate in one breath.
When Jiang Xiaohua heard this, he couldn't help shivering.Recalling that year, because of one of his mistakes, he missed the chance to go to college.Thinking about it now, I really regret it.So, she hurriedly waved her hand and said, "That's not good, that's not good, it's too late for him to resent me, how can he help me?"
The classmate thought for a while and said, "That's not necessarily the case. It depends on what kind of person he is. If he is broad-minded, then he has put down his hatred long ago and will definitely help you."
"I haven't seen him for so many years, how can I know what kind of person he has become?" Jiang Xiaohua said worriedly.
"Well, let's go in and observe it before we talk!" The classmate suggested.
"Observe? Observe what?" Jiang Xiaohua was dragged by that classmate to the office of the chief of surgery.
There were many people in the director's office, and Jiang Xiaohua's classmate stood by the door carefully observing the director's every move.Soon, he discovered that the director always liked to pick up the corners of his mouth when he was speaking.Noticing the director's action, the student immediately said happily to Jiang Xiaohua: "The director is a broad-minded person, he will not hate you, you can go to him for help!"
Jiang Xiaohua asked puzzledly: "How do you know?"
"Don't ask so many questions, go!"
Jiang Xiaohua bit the bullet and went to the director for help.Unexpectedly, the director was very happy to see him.When she explained her intention, the other party immediately agreed, and called to coordinate with relevant parties, and soon transferred her mother to a high-grade ward.
Can those people who have had conflicts with you become your nobles?Maybe many people think that it is impossible, but in fact, as long as you observe carefully and find that the other party has a broad mind, then he can really help you.
[expert answering doubts]
Lips are an important cue point for many body languages, the most obvious function of which is speaking.But lips often show different mouth shapes and movements in the process of our life performance, which are closely connected with our emotional psychology.For example, people with lips curled forward are skeptical, people with lips pursed forward are more defensive, people with lips pursed into a "one" shape have strong determination, and people with the corners of their mouths are open-minded...
When you find that the corners of a person's mouth like to pick up, then you should work hard to establish a good relationship with him.Because people with the corners of their mouths are open-minded, they generally don't care about gains and losses with you, let alone hold grudges.Even if you once had any hatred, when you need help, he can put down the hatred to help you.Whether it is a friend, a classmate, or an enemy, whether you can be your noble person, the key point is whether you can be sure that the other party is a broad-minded person.Even if there used to be hatred, big-hearted people can let go of the hatred to help you.
The surgical director in the story was Jiang Xiaohua's classmate and her enemy.Why can Jiang Xiaohua's other classmate conclude that this classmate and enemy will definitely help Jiang Xiaohua's mother change wards?It was because the classmate discovered through observation that the chief of surgery likes to pick his lips upwards. From this action, he concluded that he is a broad-minded person who will not hold grudges.Therefore, Jiang Xiaohua was actively encouraged to ask that classmate for help.
The above story tells us a truth: there are noble people everywhere in our lives, the key lies in how we distinguish whether the other party is a big-hearted person or a small person.This requires us to cultivate a pair of discerning eyes and carefully observe the behavior of the other party, so as to accurately identify the other party.
[Extended reading]
Man with lips turned forward is skeptical
A person who curls his lower lip forward indicates that he does not believe the information he receives from the outside world and hopes to get an affirmative answer.
People with pursed lips are more defensive
A person's lips are pursed forward, indicating that the person may be in some kind of defensive state of mind.
People who purse their mouths into a "one" shape have a strong will
When most people make important decisions, they will press their mouths into a "one" shape.They are generally relatively strong, with a tenacious spirit of perseverance, will face difficulties bravely, and will not retreat in battle.They don't have the determination to never give up on the Yellow River, so the probability of success is relatively high.
The person who picks the corner of the mouth is open-minded
People with a pick on the corner of their mouth are quick-witted, outgoing, eloquent, good at greeting strangers proactively, and having cordial conversations.They are open-minded, tolerant, and will not hold grudges against those who have hurt them.Has a very good interpersonal relationship, and can often get support and help from others in the most difficult times.
3.The man who sticks his thumb to his chin while smoking a cigarette has a bright future
Q Jun: Different people have different smoking movements. My leader always likes to straighten his thumb against his chin when he smokes. Does this movement have any profound meaning?
Socialist: People who like to straighten their thumbs against their chins when smoking are masculine, dare to challenge work, have a bright future, and have the potential to grow into senior managers.He may be your nobleman!
【Scene reconstruction】
Yuan Jie works in sales in a manufacturing company.Once, the customer Xiao Wang wanted to buy a batch of products from their company.This client is not the boss of the company, but just like him, just a small salesman.Xiao Wang is very short, with the delicacy of southern men, but lacks the domineering of northern men.
Yuan Jie despised Xiao Wang's height when he first met him, but in order to negotiate business, he still treated him politely.After Xiao Wang signed the order, Yuan Jie planned to leave.Unexpectedly, at this moment, Xiao Wang took out a cigarette and started smoking.Yuan Jie found that this client always likes to straighten his thumb against his chin when he smokes.
Yuan Jie was stunned. He once saw this sentence in a book: "People who like to straighten their thumbs against their chins when smoking are masculine, have the courage to challenge work, and have a bright future. They are the material for senior managers." Thinking of this, Yuan Jie gave up the idea of leaving, and started talking with the other party again.
"How long have you been in your company?"
"I only joined the company in the first half of this year." Xiao Wang replied with a smile.From his smile, Yuan Jie knew that he was a newcomer who had just entered the workplace.
Yuan Jie patted him on the shoulder and said, "Young man, work hard, you will have a bright future."
"Well, thank you." Xiao Wang replied somewhat unnaturally.
Later, whenever Yuan Jie had time, he would often ask this client out for a chat. Gradually, they became familiar with each other and became good buddies who talked about everything, and at the same time became his noble person.Under the leadership of Yuan Jie, Xiao Wang has made great progress. Coupled with his own efforts, he has the courage to challenge difficult tasks.A year later, he was promoted to the manager of the marketing department.
Since then, Xiao Wang has ordered products from Yuan Jie's company every time, and also introduced other friends to buy.This brought huge profits to Yuan Jie.
Some clients have just entered the workplace. Although they do not have rich work experience, as long as they dare to challenge the work and have enough enthusiasm for work, they will have a bright future.Therefore, such people are also our nobles.What we have to do is to discover each other's potential with our eyes.
[expert answering doubts]
Some behavioral psychologists have found through research that smoking is an important performance for a person to deal with various life pressures, express emotions, and express various emotions.Through observation, we found that many men use smoking to relieve tension and regulate emotions.Especially at the negotiating table where the atmosphere is depressing, different people have different smoking postures, and different smoking postures reflect different psychological activities of a person.For example, people who straighten their thumbs against their chins when smoking are enthusiastic about their work and have a bright future; people who work with a cigarette in their mouths are eager to be recognized by others;
In the story, Yuan Jie discovered his enthusiasm for work and his courage to challenge work by observing his client Xiao Wang's smoking movements—like sticking his thumb to his chin when he smokes.Therefore, judging that the client Xiao Wang has a bright future, he established a good relationship with him and made him a noble person in his work.
The above story tells us a truth: Nobility does not refer to those with high positions and powers. Although some people have not made any achievements at present, they have potential and will eventually succeed one day.On the day of success, he will naturally become your nobleman.In fact, such people are our potential nobles.Therefore, when looking for a noble person, you may wish to observe the smoking actions of the men around you. From these actions, you will understand his inner world more clearly and find your noble person more easily.
[Extended reading]
Psychologists believe that smoking is an external manifestation of a person's inner conflicts and ideological conflicts.By observing a person's habitual actions of smoking and holding a cigarette, we can figure out his mental activities and identify who is our noble person. Let's take a look:
The man who sticks his thumb to his chin while smoking a cigarette has a bright future
A person who sticks his thumb to his chin while smoking has a strong masculinity and will not admit defeat.Be more enthusiastic about competition at work.Have a strong sense of challenge to difficult work.The future is bright and has the potential to grow into a senior manager.
Man working with a cigarette in his mouth craves approval from others
Working with a cigarette in your mouth is a symbol of confidence or busyness in your work.If the person's abilities are not recognized by others, they may resist violently or become demoralized.
People who raise their heads slightly and smoke at the corners of their mouths are more developed
People who raise their heads slightly and smoke at the corners of their mouths have strong confidence in their work and may become experts in a certain profession.However, they are too reluctant to do things and have too much self-esteem. They are usually out of tune with their colleagues. Even if disputes or failures occur, they still have the drive to break through difficulties and have more development in the future.
People who smoke with their lower lip are stable
People who smoke with their lower lip are stable, adaptable, and unobtrusive.Although they are not vigorous, they seldom fail, and they can work hard step by step to achieve success.Within one or two years of joining the company, there are few opportunities to display my talents, and it is only after three or four years that I gradually gain the trust of my boss.However, this kind of person lacks work initiative.
4.A man who reads and eats is ambitious
Mr. Q: I have a colleague who always likes to read while eating. This habit is very bad, slow, and I have to wait for him for a long time every time. I really hope he can get rid of this habit.
Socialist: The habit of eating has been formed since childhood, how can it be so easy to get rid of it?The habit of eating while reading is not good, but this habit shows that this person is ambitious, he is likely to achieve great things in the future, and he may also become your noble person!
【Scene reconstruction】
Chen Lei is an old employee of an electronics company.In terms of qualifications, there is no one in the whole company with higher qualifications than him. He has a good work attitude, but his work ability is average.Therefore, when it comes to promotion season, others take the lead.For this reason, Chen Lei was very depressed.
Perhaps because of his bad mood, Chen Lei had a quarrel with a colleague in the company.At noon this day, my colleague Xiao Li ordered a box lunch. He always likes to read books while eating, and he can't help laughing out loud when he sees funny content.This day was no exception. While eating, he flipped through the book and laughed out loud when he saw something funny.Hearing the laughter of his colleague Xiao Li, Chen Lei always felt so harsh.Therefore, without any explanation, I quarreled with Xiao Li.
When he got home at night, Chen Lei fell asleep.Seeing this, the wife asked with concern: "What's wrong with you today, why did you just fall asleep when you came back?"
"I had a fight with my colleague!" Chen Lei said, covering his head with a quilt.
"Why did you quarrel with your colleagues?" The wife continued to ask.
"He was eating, reading, and laughing from time to time. I heard his laughter was very harsh. So, there was a quarrel."
The wife pulled Chen Lei out of the quilt, and said softly: "Do you know who you offended today?"
"Isn't it my colleague Xiao Li?" Chen Lei replied without thinking.
"Wrong, what you offended today is your future leader." The wife said word by word.
"Stop talking nonsense, how could you be my future leader?" Chen Lei said disapprovingly.
"Anyone who understands behavioral psychology knows that people who eat while reading books are ambitious, and they are likely to achieve a career in the future. People like this are capable, and they will naturally be promoted in the future. You say you offended the leader, and you can still be promoted. Promoted?" the wife reminded.
Chen Lei thought it made sense.As soon as he arrived at the company the next day, he apologized to his colleague Xiao Li.Xiao Li is generous and quickly forgave him.Sure enough, after half a year, Xiao Li was promoted to supervisor because of his outstanding ability.Not long after, Chen Lei was also promoted to team leader.
In the workplace, quarrels with colleagues are unavoidable.However, what you don't know is that sometimes it's not your colleagues you offend because of your temporary emotions, but your future leader, and even your "potential noble person".
[expert answering doubts]
Eating is an indispensable and important part of our life. Only by eating can people maintain their existence.Therefore, eating is something that a person continues to do from birth to death, and the habit of eating is also developed from childhood.However, different people have different eating postures, and different eating postures reflect different psychological activities.If you carefully observe the eating habits of people around you, you may be able to find your potential nobles!
In the story, Chen Lei, because he doesn't understand behavioral psychology, was very angry with his colleague Xiao Li's habit of reading while eating, and then had a fight.However, he never thought that Xiao Li, who likes to read while eating, turned out to be his "potential nobleman".Thanks to his wife's reminder, Chen Lei realized the mistakes he made and seized the opportunity to correct them.
Some people may say that it is only a coincidence that the "invisible leaders" you mentioned can become leaders.In fact, this is a necessity.As long as you observe their behavior more often, you can be sure that they will achieve something in the future.After discovering "invisible leaders", we should try our best to build a good relationship with them and turn them into our potential nobles.When the day they get promoted, our chance to be promoted is coming.
Therefore, in the workplace, we should not only regard the existing leaders as our nobles, but also regard some "invisible leaders" as our nobles.Since they are still in the "invisible" stage, we need to observe their behavior more and find out our nobles skillfully.
[Extended reading]
Eating is an indispensable and important part of our life. Only by eating can people maintain their existence.Eating is also something that a person continues to do from birth to death, but everyone's eating posture is different.Relevant behavioral psychology experts pointed out that different eating postures reflect different psychological activities.Let's take a look:
people eating standing
Those who like to eat standing are not particularly particular about eating, they will try their best to pay attention to convenience, simplicity, saving time and effort, as long as they can fill their stomachs.Such people do not have much ideals and pursuits in life, and are easily satisfied. They have a gentle personality, know how to care for others, and are very generous and generous.
eat-and-cook
Those who cook and eat have a fast pace of life, because they have a lot to do, so they appear to be busy, but they are not bothered by it, and they even feel happy.
people reading while eating
The person who eats while reading is the kind of person who eats to live, and they eat only to satisfy the needs of their bodies.If they can still live without eating, then they will give up this time-consuming and wasting energy.These people are ambitious and have concrete plans to make their dreams come true.They always arrange their schedules to be full, in order to be able to do more things, they do everything possible to squeeze time.They also have a positive and optimistic spirit and will put their ideas into action.
people who walk and eat
Although the people who eat while walking give people the feeling that they come and go in a hurry, as if time is very tight.However, the actual situation is different, and their time constraints are likely to be caused by their own lack of organization and discipline.Most of such people are more impulsive, and they are often impulsive, often getting things out of hand.
People who like to eat while watching TV
People who like to eat while watching TV are mostly lonely.Television may be one of the best ways they can counteract their inner loneliness.
5.people with signature to the right are sociable
Q Jun: A friend asked me to do business with him. However, I heard that people with upward signatures have great ambitions, and his signatures are on the right. Does he really want to do business?
Socialist: Of course he wants to do business.People with signatures to the right have good relationships, and doing business requires relationships.This fully shows that he has long been prepared.
【Scene reconstruction】
Peng Haibo is an out-and-out office worker.One day, a friend of his came to discuss with him, hoping that he could do business with him.Peng Haibo didn't know this friend very well, so he was a little hesitant.
For the sake of safety, Peng Haibo decided to spend a few days to observe this friend's behavior and work style.After a few days of observation, he found that there was nothing wrong with this friend's character, but when interacting with people, he appeared to be enthusiastic about participating, but actually stayed out of it, so as to carefully observe and understand the overall situation.Peng Haibo was puzzled by his friend's way of dealing with the world.Therefore, he still hesitated.
On this day, a friend took Peng Haibo to discuss business.When signing the contract, Peng Haibo found that his friend signed to the right.Peng Haibo suddenly understood his friend's intentions, and it turned out that this was the reason why he became a social master.He is not interested in drinking, he appears to be enthusiastic about participating in the communication, but actually stays out of it, so as to carefully observe and understand the overall situation.They will pay close attention to every move of others, so as to control all the details and processes of the development and changes of things.
Networks are money, and the most necessary thing to do business is to have good interpersonal relationships. In this case, what is there to hesitate?So Peng Haibo agreed to his friend's request.
Sure enough, as he expected, a year later, they started to make a profit.A few years later, the company grew stronger and stronger, and Peng Haibo, one of the shareholders, also lived in a new house and drove a BMW.At the year-end meeting, Peng Haibo raised his glass to his friends and said, "I respect you for this glass. You are really my noble person. Because of your help, I am where I am today!"
Carefully observe every move of your friends, carefully figure out their psychological activities, and boldly predict their future.Maybe from their behavior, you will find your potential noble!
[expert answering doubts]
There is a saying: "Friends are the wealth of a lifetime." This is indeed the case. In a way, friends are also our nobles. They can not only promote the development of our careers, but also lend a helping hand when we need help.The so-called "the one who is close to vermilion is red, and the one who is close to ink is black", we must choose carefully when making friends.When working with friends, we must think carefully and examine the friend's style of doing things.If the views of the two are too far apart, then in the process of doing things, there will naturally be conflicts and it will be difficult to achieve success.At that time, each other may no longer be friends.Therefore, when we work with a friend, we must first understand his behavior from all aspects.
Peng Haibo in the story is very cautious. When he agreed to work with a friend, he went to the scene in person, and after observing the gesture of his friend's signature, he concluded that the friend was a social master before considering cooperation.Heaven paid off, and this friend eventually became his nobleman.
Yes, signing is a humble gesture though.But as a person's identity code, in many cases, we need to tell each other's name to expand our social circle.Therefore, signature becomes an important content in people's life.Signatures vary in size and in various poses. In addition to revealing the personal information of the signers, their personalities can also be reflected from them.
[Extended reading]
Signatures vary in size and in various poses. In addition to revealing the signer's personal information, they can also reflect the signer's personality.Let's take a look together:
Sign Up Man with Big Aspirations
People with upward signatures are generally ambitious.They are not afraid of hard work, positive, determined and persistent to realize their ideals, and try their best to remove obstacles on their way forward.Honor and flowers are the favorites of these people, and they are passionate about all the pleasures of the world.The reason why they work tirelessly is to get these.When they achieve great things, they also bring disasters to others.
People with down signatures are not confident enough
People with downward signatures are usually considered negative and waiting people. They always look weak, as if recovering from a serious illness, and seem to have experienced the vicissitudes and tribulations of the world.This kind of person has no illusions about the future and has a serious lack of self-confidence.They may get excited when they see others achieve, but the enthusiasm quickly fades and they go with the crowd in a blink of an eye.
Those who sign to the left have a clear love and hate
People whose signature is to the left generally like innovation and the pursuit of being different, and don't like to follow the rules.If they like someone, they will be ruthless to the end; if they hate someone, they will be warm and thoughtful.They are outspoken and like to express themselves in front of strangers, and at the same time they are serious and sincere in nature without losing their humor.Therefore, they are popular lovers.
People with signatures to the right have good relationships
People whose signatures are on the right show full confidence in their daily life. They are enthusiastic and positive, and they always put on an energetic and kind appearance in front of others.They are social masters, and they often take the initiative to move closer to others in the process of interpersonal communication. Therefore, others will welcome them with smiles and interact with them harmoniously.
6.People who like to keep their hands behind their backs are calm and sophisticated
Mr. Q: There is a new boss in our company. He looks unattractive, but he always likes to put his hands behind his back. There is no sense of intimacy. When we see him, we want to hide away.
Socialist: As the saying goes: "A person cannot be judged by his appearance, and the sea cannot be measured." When looking at people, don't judge people by their appearance. People who like to keep their hands behind their backs are calm and sophisticated. This kind of person is easy to accomplish things. Maybe he will be your nobleman.
【Scene reconstruction】
Zhang Xu is the director of the marketing department of a company.A few days ago, the marketing manager of the company resigned.Zhang Xu secretly guessed: Once the manager resigns, the director will be promoted to manager, and he is likely to be promoted to director.However, to his surprise, a few days later, the company recruited a new manager.
The newly appointed manager was unattractive, and when he walked, he bowed his back and bent his waist.When I go to work, I always like to walk up and down with my hands behind my back, which makes people feel very uncomfortable.Zhang Xu didn't like the new manager from the beginning, and seeing his behavior made him even more disgusted.Therefore, he intentionally stayed away from the newly appointed manager, and "be a monk for a day and hit the clock for a day" in his work.He was sure that the newly appointed manager would not be able to make any achievements and would probably step down immediately.However, his colleague Wang Yufei likes this manager very much. As long as the job is assigned by the manager, he will complete it with quality and quantity.For this reason, Zhang Xu also laughed at his colleague Wang Yufei: "Just treat him as a manager and execute his orders as the emperor's orders. You don't even look at his ugly face." Wang Yufei smiled, but what? Didn't say either.
Time passed day by day.One day, the general manager suddenly announced: Wang Yufei is the manager of the company's marketing department.Everyone, you look at me, I look at you, I don't know why.It turned out that the newly recruited marketing manager was not a new recruit, but a temporary replacement of the chairman of the company. His purpose of doing this was to promote the manager from the company's existing employees.
After this incident, Zhang Xu was very unconvinced and asked Wang Yufei: "Did you know that he was the chairman from the beginning, so you liked him very much?"
Wang Yufei said with a smile: "I didn't know the news at first, and it was my duty to do a good job. However, when I saw him with his hands behind his back, I knew he was a cautious, mature and experienced person. It might be a success.”
After listening to Wang Yufei's words, Zhang Xu nodded if he realized something.
In the workplace, don't underestimate those ugly people, those ugly people are probably your nobles.
[expert answering doubts]
Many people in life often like to judge people by their appearance. When they see those who are ugly or whose words and deeds are not elegant enough, they will cast contemptuous eyes.However, fate always likes to play tricks on people, and the person you despise may be your noble person.
In the story, Zhang Xu judges people by appearance, has a prejudice against the newly appointed manager, is also very slack in the work he confesses, and concludes that such a manager cannot make any achievements.On the contrary, Wang Yufei is not only full of admiration for the new manager, but also obeys his arrangement and completes the work he confessed with quality and quantity.Naturally, Wang Yufei got the trust and affirmation of the new manager.
However, fate made a joke with Zhang Xu. Not only did the newly appointed manager not pack up and leave, but he was also the chairman of the company.In order to find a suitable candidate for the marketing manager from among the employees, he deliberately vilified himself.Zhang Xu, who judges people by their appearance, was naturally defeated, and Wang Yufei was naturally the best candidate for the marketing manager.There is no doubt that Zhang Xu missed his nobleman, but Wang Yufei caught his nobleman.The key reason why Wang Yufei was able to catch his nobleman was that he noticed the behavior of the new manager with his hands behind his back.Because putting your hands behind your back symbolizes authority, confidence and strength.
The above story tells us a truth: don't look down on those ugly people, but should carefully observe their behavior and behavior, and find your noble person from it.
[Extended reading]
Regarding the body language behind the hands, psychologically it can be summarized into the following psychological phenomena, let’s take a look together:
Show status behind hands
In the social arena, in order to show their identity and status, some people make themselves appear more authoritative, especially those at the leadership level, in order to intimidate others in terms of momentum, so that the other party falls into their control, usually Will make this movement with the hands behind the back.
Behind the back of the hands shows that it is cautious in life
In social situations, people who put their hands behind their backs tend to be very cautious.After listening to the other party's words, this kind of person usually puts his hands behind his back within a limited range, pacing and thinking about the problem.They generally do things and make decisions more safely and prudently.
Behind the hands is to cover up my impetuosity
Some people are originally reckless and impetuous people, but in social situations, in order to prevent the other party from seeing their flaws, they deliberately imitate others' movements behind their hands to cover up their flaws.
Behind the hands is a stubborn, determined expression
Under normal circumstances, some elderly people like to make movements behind their hands, which is just a reflection of their stubborn and firm psychology.Because most elderly people are stubborn in their thinking, and they always like to stick to their own views when looking at problems.Whenever they have conflicts with others because of their own opinions, they usually make gestures behind their hands.
7.The person who shakes his head at you may be the noble person who wants to help you
Mr. Q: Today, I asked a very good friend for help, unexpectedly, he shook his head at me, does he not want to help me, should I quit?
Social expert: This is not necessarily the case. It depends on the situation. Specific issues should be analyzed in detail.Sometimes, shaking the head is just a habitual movement of a person.Therefore, in different places and occasions, shaking the head represents different meanings.
【Scene reconstruction】
On this day, Tian Chong unexpectedly met Boss Li whom he had met at the dinner last time.Just after saying hello, Boss Li immediately asked, "Xiaotian, didn't you say you wanted to ask me for help last time, why haven't you come? I've been waiting for you to show up!"
Hearing what Boss Li said, Tian Chong was puzzled.He didn't know what kind of medicine Boss Li sold in his gourd. When he asked Boss Li for help last time, Boss Li shook his head at him, but now he offered to help him. what is going on?Is Boss Li talking politely?
However, Tian Chong saw that his face was sincere again, and he didn't mean to perfuse himself.So, he boldly asked Boss Li: "Boss Li, I dare to ask, do you really want to help me?"
When Boss Li heard this, his face darkened immediately, and he replied unhappily: "Look at you young man, can I still say nothing at such an old age? I really want to help you young people with ambitions." what!"
Tian Chong was even more puzzled, so he simply figured things out.So he asked again: "However, when I asked you for help last time, why did you shake your head at me? I thought you were rejecting me, but you didn't say it verbally, so I know what's wrong." And retreated, and never looked for you again. Didn't you reject me at that time?"
Boss Li finally figured out what was going on, so he laughed and said, "You don't know me too well. Shaking my head is my habitual action. I not only shake my head when I reject others, but sometimes, I want others to continue talking." You can also shake your head, and you will shake your head when you eat something delicious. From this point of view, you young man does not understand psychology. You can look up books on psychology, and there are different meanings for shaking your head. Explain. I believe that after watching it, you will no longer look at my shaking head so simply."
Tian Chong finally understood now, it turned out that he was wrong about the noble boss Li.This mistake has delayed him for so long in vain, otherwise, he would have gotten the help of Boss Li to tide over the current difficulties.
Some people are obviously your nobles, and they are willing to help you.However, because you don't understand body language, you will get the wrong meaning and miss the help of the noble person.Do you feel sad and deplorable?
[expert answering doubts]
In many cases, the meaning represented by some actions has long been ingrained in people's minds and has become a convention in social life.As soon as people see an action, they think it expresses this kind of meaning, and they will not conduct specific analysis according to different occasions and different fields.
For example, the basic meaning of shaking the head means rejection.According to the analysis of some evolutionary biologists, shaking the head is the first movement that people learn after birth. It originated from the breastfeeding period in infancy. After the baby is full, it is used to refuse milk or other food.Apparently, people have been shaking their heads to say "no" since they were children.Therefore, when people see shaking their heads, it is natural for people to think that it means rejection or negation.
Tian Chong in the story misunderstood the meaning of Boss Li shaking his head.He asked Boss Li for help, but Boss Li shook his head at him, thinking that Boss Li was rejecting his request.In fact, shaking his head is just a habitual action of Boss Li.If Tian Chong had learned more about psychology back then, I am afraid that he would not have made subjective assumptions about Boss Li's shaking of his head, thinking that it was his intention to reject him, and would not have put his plan of seeking help from the other party on hold. .Maybe, his career has now reached a new level with the help of Boss Li.
There is no doubt that Boss Li is Tian Chong's nobleman.It's just that Tian Chong misunderstood the meaning of the nobleman shaking his head, and missed his help to him.From the above story, we draw a truth: the person who shakes his head at you is not necessarily refusing to help you, maybe he is the noble person who wants to help you.If you see such a noble person, you must make a judgment based on different situations. Don't take it one-sidedly and think that the other party is rejecting your request, otherwise you will miss the noble person's help.
[Extended reading]
Generally speaking, shaking your head means "no".However, specific to different regions and occasions, there will be different meanings.Therefore, we cannot generalize, but must analyze specific issues in detail.
Shaking the head is very obvious and the frequency is particularly high, which means obvious rejection
When shaking the head expresses obvious rejection, people's head movements will shake very obviously from side to side, and the frequency is also particularly high.This gesture implies a great deal of impatience with what the other person has to say.
Shaking the head is small, and the frequency is very low, implying the other party to continue talking
Head shaking can also occur when a person is listening to another person speaking.Although this is also shaking the head, the shaking amplitude is very small and the frequency is very low.Shaking the head at this time does not mean negation, but a hint that the listener is implying the other party to continue speaking, and he himself has no intention of speaking for the time being.
Appreciate you verbally, but shake your head from time to time to show that the other party doesn't like you
A person praises you verbally, but shakes his head from time to time and says: "I will definitely consider you", "I appreciate your work", "We will have a very pleasant cooperation" and so on.No matter how sincere their attitude is, their head shaking is a reflection of their inner negativity.So, you should pay more attention.
Shake your head when you're proud
Some people will shake their heads when they are proud, for example, when singing to the climax part, he will shake his head unconsciously, or when he tastes delicious food, he will keep shaking his head while eating and say: "Oh, really Yes, it's delicious."
chapter summary:
1.person standing with feet together
People with feet together are willing to help others. This kind of person is your potential noble person.Because when you are in trouble, they are likely to help you.
2.the person with the corner of the mouth turned up
People with upward-turned mouths are open-minded, and they generally don't care about gains and losses with you, let alone hold grudges.Even if you have had knots, as long as you ask him, he will still lend a helping hand.
3.Man with thumbs up against chin while smoking
People who like to straighten their thumbs against their chins when smoking are masculine, dare to challenge work, have a bright future, and have the potential to become senior managers.Don't ignore this kind of people, they may be your potential nobles!
4.people reading while eating
Although the habit of eating while reading is not good, it shows that this person is ambitious and is likely to achieve great things in the future. He is likely to be your potential nobleman.
5.person with signature to the right
People with signatures to the right are sociable and have good relationships.Network is wealth, and this kind of person can easily make a career through his extensive network.
6.people who like to put their hands behind their backs
People who like to keep their hands behind their backs are calm and sophisticated, and they are more secure and prudent in doing things and making decisions.This kind of person is easy to do things, maybe he is your noble person.
7.the person who shakes his head at you
Generally speaking, shaking the head means rejecting.But shaking the head in different places and occasions, shaking the head represents different meanings.Sometimes, when the other party promises to help you, they will still shake their heads.Therefore, the person shaking his head at you may also be a noble person who is trying to help you.
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