The happiest woman who understands her husband

Chapter 27 Self-improvement: A magic weapon for not worrying about being dumped after marriage (1)
Everyone has the flowering period, but not everyone can bear the sweet fruit
There is such a saying that is quite correct: What a smart woman cultivates is an invisible self. Everyone has the flowering period, but the sweet fruit is not something that just any woman can bear.Yes, Hui Zhilan is heart-warming and reasonable. A woman who has such a fruit is a woman with extraordinary charm, and naturally she is also a woman who has happiness.The root cause of happiness is having a good personality.

Han Jie is young and beautiful, but her husband has other ambitions. The key is that the competitor is a woman who is older and uglier than her.Feeling unwilling, Han Jie asked her husband, "What am I not as good as her?" Her husband sighed, "I'm tired when I'm with you, but I'm relaxed when I'm with her." Han Jie threw herself at the man hysterically: "You don't like me?" Conscience, no eyesight guy, I really blinded myself, and foolishly stayed with you for a few years." The man took a long breath and said: "In the emotional world, women only have beauty for nothing. It is impossible for me to just look at your face for decades, because I still want to live an easy life."

记得有人曾说：女人从出生到18岁需要好的家庭；18~25岁需要好的容貌；25~55岁需要好的个性；55岁后需要好多钞票。也就是说，在女人漫长而美好的韶华中最需要的就是好性格。

A good character is the seat belt of love and affection, and also the seat belt of marriage and family.Lovers or husbands and wives, except for a few essential differences, the vast majority of conflicts come from personality friction or conflicts.A caring, considerate woman will be good at adjusting and controlling her mentality in a timely manner, giving appropriate guidance or keeping silent or compromising at the right time, and expressing her views and thoughts when the time is right.Presumably, facing such a woman, even if a man deliberately finds fault, he may not be able to quarrel.For such a woman, the husband or lover is full of thoughts lest she leave, how can there be any abandonment?
This is true in dealing with couples, but it is also true in dealing with other family members and family issues.Because a woman with a good personality is not only good at paying attention to the emotional changes of family members, but more importantly, her words and deeds are resolving conflicts rather than triggering them.Such a family must be harmonious and harmonious.

A good character is the safety belt for a woman's husband and wife to be happy.Between husband and wife, often forge a permanent knot because of a word of discord.Even if the situation is not so serious, there are many contradictions caused by personality reasons.A person with a good character will never encounter such a situation, and a woman with a good character will definitely be loved and trusted by a man.

A good character is also a seat belt for physical and mental health.In today's society, many diseases are parasitic or attached to the two vines of unhealthy psychology or unhealthy lifestyle. Comparison, jealousy, greed, smoking, alcoholism, less exercise, irregular life, and unrestrained nightlife are all its branches.Most modern people have more or less such vines spreading in their minds, especially allowing the snake in the Garden of Eden to flow wantonly in their lives, which has brought great hidden dangers to their physical and mental health.And good character is undoubtedly designed to kill the vine of bad psychology, and it is also an effective snake catcher.A heart with few vines and snakes and rats is a truly healthy mind, and a natural, tranquil, and peaceful life is a healthy life.Therefore, a good character also puts on a healthy seat belt for life.

According to a survey, docile and virtuous are the most ideal female characters recognized by men.Tenderness and virtuousness are not only a display of a woman's inner beauty, but also an invincible weapon for a woman.They are gentle and elegant, virtuous and dignified, and support their husbands and children, which just satisfies the male psychology of a man who wants to be a big tree.They value love and reason, are willing to be a ladder, and take good care of their children, husband, elderly, and family, but they don't like to express themselves in a hurry. "Having a good wife at home" is really the greatest blessing for a man and the core of happiness for the whole family.

A good personality is the guarantee of a woman's good life. A good personality does not mean a beautiful appearance, nor does it mean a smooth and tender skin.A good character does not lie in being tall or short, nor in being fat or thin.A good character is a temperament, a natural kindness, a charm.Women will be free and easy, elegant, intelligent, capable, resourceful, cunning, and able to do things because of their good personalities.

Women with bad personalities are the most annoying.Such a woman is either pitiful, domineering, or coquettish.Poor woman, unkempt, ignorant of life, and lifeless.A domineering woman is full of resentment, entanglement, quarrel, sarcasm, ambition, arrogance, and being unreasonable. Most of these women love money, and most of them want to compete with men for hegemony. Talented, almost transgender.A coquettish woman, coquettish, hypocritical, whimsical, full of milky smell, not at all cute.These women are not the type that men like, and they are still far from happiness.

A woman's good character is a light rain without wind and thunder, which can nourish the dry heart and stretch the branches and leaves of spring.A woman's good character is also like a slender hand, which can know cold and hot, light and heavy, can heal the injured heart, and wake up the sleeping youth.She is a spring breeze, a kind of relaxation, a kind of belonging, a kind of beauty.

Although "glamorous appearance" is the first choice for many men to choose a mate, men also know that the beauty of a woman's appearance cannot accompany her for a lifetime.Just like people in ancient times hoped to use witchcraft or magic water to make themselves younger, more beautiful and live longer, but the final result did not come true.They know better: "Beauty on the outside can only be pleasing for a while, but the beauty on the inside can last forever." A woman with a good personality is like a magnet. As long as a man enters her magnetic field, he will be attracted to her unconsciously, and he can't escape even if he wants to Let him go and let him work for her happy life willingly.

Girlfriends who are about to marry or have already married, please start to shape your own good character from now on. Only in this way can you be a woman who can bear the fruit of a happy marriage.

Women's shyness is the most attractive to men
Shyness is a unique feature of women, a unique charm and beauty.It is true that men also have shyness, but more, more frequent, brighter and more charming shyness always likes to appear on women's faces.A man's shy face often looks awkward and ridiculous, but a woman's shy smiling face is considered natural and reasonable.Therefore, since ancient times, women have learned to use red rouge, which has the effect of staying shy and helping to maintain and emphasize women's characteristics.

A woman's shy appearance is when she is most beautiful, and it is also when she is most sexy and attractive.In traditional love movies, we can’t forget to exaggerate this scene: the big girl with long braids hears the elders talking about her marriage, no matter how aggressive and savage she is usually, she will twist her braids with her hands and roll her eyes. A blush quickly surfaced on his face.Or bow their heads shyly, or keep silent, or pretend to laugh to cover it up.Some simply covered their faces and turned around, waving Xiaofen's fists and trotting away all the way, their appearance was really delicate and cute.

Shyness is the most natural and pure emotional phenomenon of human beings. It is a psychological activity of feeling embarrassed and embarrassed, often accompanied by sweet panic and abnormal heartbeat. Women's shyness is a kind of beauty and a unique charm. The charm of "holding the pipa and half covering the face" and "planting willows so that spring will not know" can especially stimulate people's rich imagination, and even make people fascinated and mesmerized.At the same time, it shines with humble brilliance, which is a kind of moral and aesthetic reflection, "awakening the spiritual factors in the relationship between the sexes, thereby weakening the purely physiological effect", and promoting the relationship between the sexes to be noble and perfect.Touching expressions, charming colors, elegant manners, hazy charm, gentle subtlety, women's shyness have such magical charm and functions!

Shyness is so beautiful.But it is a pity that the shy woman who often has a red cloud on her face is becoming more and more rare nowadays.

With the development of the times, modern women have become more open, bold and wild, catching men off guard.Many women don't understand what shyness is, let alone that if a woman loses her shyness, she also loses the weapon that women most fascinate men.Some men think, "Today's women are not only thick-skinned and domineering, but not feminine at all." I don't know how the female compatriots will feel when they hear such comments.You know, although the times are open, women are women after all.In all fairness, there are two women, one is shy and charming; the other is passionate and unrestrained.If you were a man, which one would you choose?

Some women used to be gentle and delicate flowers, but after getting married, in the long-term relationship with their husbands, they gradually became rough and completely lost the taste of a little woman.No matter what kind of situation they are facing, whether it is embarrassing or embarrassing, their expressions remain unchanged.My husband occasionally said something emotional, and he should have turned around and bowed his head to "spit", but now he was careless, and his left ear would tremble when he listened to the right ear.For a man, if he sees that his teasing or playfulness does not arouse any response from a woman, he himself will feel uninterested and will only talk to her "seriously" next time.The love between a man and a woman between husband and wife has degenerated into a calm family relationship.

If you still don’t want to be a genderless hardworking housewife and child mother in your family life, then don’t lose your shyness as a woman.Smart women naturally know how to use their shy instincts to capture the man they love the most at the right time, at the right place, in the right environment, and by using their shyness correctly.

Shyness is a kind of resource, it is not just a look, a movement, a touch of blush, it is a natural expression of a woman's inner temperament.Some women are good at shyness in some inadvertent little actions.When a man sees a shy woman, it is like seeing a lovely flower, and he is immediately tickled by her beauty. There to guard, reluctant to leave her.

Women with a sense of humor are sexier
A man said: There are many reasons to love a woman, but one is that she is smart, understands people, understands style, and knows how to laugh at herself bravely. There is nothing sexier than a woman who knows humor. This is a modern maverick , Representatives of independent women.

The man also said: have a sense of humor, this sentence can be regarded as a very high appreciation for women, because it not only expresses the easy-going and amiable nature of the admired person, but also brings vitality to the serious and stagnant atmosphere, and also shows the High intelligence, self-confidence and ability to adapt to the environment.

A woman with outstanding talent, elegant temperament, extraordinary beauty, cleverness and cuteness must be humorous.A woman without a sense of humor is like a flower without fragrance. It looks like a flower but has no spirit. It's a pity that the appearance, looks, always feels bad.What is humor? It is the refinement of wisdom and the crystallization of talent. It obviously has the same meaning. After passing through her mouth, what is spit out is as shiny as pearls, which makes the listener unable to let go, and often thinks secretly; With such a deduction, it sounds so heart-to-heart and makes you happy. The simple truth can be expressed in another way.

Humor is the real wisdom of life. It is the life attitude of being optimistic, confident, and never giving up lightly after the experience of life. No matter how big it is, once she said it lightly, it would be calm.Life can be interpreted from another angle. The charm of a woman becomes clear in the words that come and go, and has a vivid charm. Such a woman exudes the true charm of a woman.A humorous woman has an open-minded attitude. It is difficult for her to shrink back because of difficulties. She is optimistic because she is transparent. It turns out that life is just like that. Whether you are in trouble or hardship, you can laugh it off. The problems were all wiped out in the jokes, and the communication with her became more relaxed, making friends laugh all the time.

Even if they have the same experience, even if they are all outstanding and intelligent, women of different ages will have different marks of the times.People with different life experiences, with a sense of humor, understand the life they need, know how to extract the wisdom of survival from life, have a bright heart, have a passionate and realistic attitude towards life, and enjoy their life happily.Humor is not low-level and boring, humor has a scale, and it cannot eventually turn into a farce that no one likes. As long as it is not excessive, there is nothing wrong with it.

In public, good humor is like apples of gold dropped on silver platters, making you more attractive.Talking with some wit and humor can better reflect the cultivation and etiquette of a woman in her thirties, showing her personality charm and wisdom.

Humor also reflects the size of a person's tolerance.The more open-minded and confident people are, the more humorous they are; the more inferior and autistic people are, the more difficult it is to tolerate the existence of humor.A sense of humor is an important condition for a healthy personality.Humor is like the spark produced by hitting a stone, it is an instant spiritual thought, so you must have a high degree of reaction and wit to utter humorous sentences. Only then can language resolve embarrassing scenes, and it may also serve as a warning to the world during conversations. Possibly as non-blatant self-defense and counterattack.

Humor is not satire, it may contain mild ridicule, but it does not hurt people; it can target others or yourself, and in this, it shows the mind and confidence of humor and being humored.All men lose their years and lose their beauty, but time only dries the skin, but does not diminish the charm of wisdom and humor.The charm of humor is like the orchid in the empty valley. You can't see its blooming appearance, but you can smell its fresh and elegant fragrance; the charm of humor is like the curtain of a beauty. The sound of the ring, sometimes wearing a ding-dong, is even more fascinating...

Humor is a state of mind, a state, and a "Tao" that is in harmony with all things.Humorous language comes from a pure, sincere and tolerant heart. It is the shining shadow in life, the most beautiful flower blooming on the source of wisdom in life, so that people can enjoy the spiritual sunshine from you.The charm of humor is like the English proverb: Give someone a rose, and your hand will have a lingering fragrance.

A woman, if she is gentle, charming, but also very humorous, she must be a star everywhere.People who get along with her always feel happy. Such a woman is undoubtedly very attractive, not only attracting the opposite sex, but also the same sex.It can be said that humor plays the role of icing on the cake for the charm of women.

Humor is a partner of laughter, and a woman who knows humor will bring laughter wherever she goes.A woman who can bring laughter to others is naturally a very popular woman, and naturally the woman who is the easiest to succeed in doing things.

Be a good wife who is more considerate to her husband
A man who is popular with women once said: "If a woman can always consider her man, then this man will be happy to be by her side." This is not only him, but also what every man thinks. Let's talk!They think that understanding often includes a lot of content.

In the minds of men, what is it that they most want their wives to understand and understand?After investigation and research, American marriage and family experts put forward a man's psychological state and feelings after marriage for his wife's reference.

First, in the minds of men, work and career are the most important part, which is also an important way for them to establish their personal image and value, not just for making a living.The husband hopes that his wife will forgive him for his excessive devotion to work, and stop complaining that he has neglected him because of work or work-related entertainment.

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