The happiest woman who understands her husband

Chapter 3 Happiness is Marrying the Right Person, First, Finding the Best Partner (2)
If a man's heart is burning with the flame of love for you, the message of love will flow from his eyes, and the signal of love will be emitted from his actions.Here are the signs that a man likes you.Of course, these love signals cannot happen at the same time, but as long as you send out 5 or more signals, you can attack boldly.

(1) I am extremely concerned about your work, study, and living conditions, and even particularly interested in your hobbies.

(2) Take the initiative to introduce your situation to family members, relatives and friends, colleagues, fellow villagers, etc., and make comments based on "preconceptions".

(3) Discuss with you and ask for your opinions in case of problems, and take the initiative to ask you to make up your mind and find a way for important matters.

(4) Do everything possible to find out about your past situation and the situation of your family members.Especially interested in your privacy.

(5) When introducing you to others, you tend to exaggerate your advantages and strengths, narrow or conceal your shortcomings and mistakes, and even take your shortcomings as advantages to make public.

(6) When going out on business or attending a meeting to study, I will never forget to bring you some small gifts, souvenirs and the like.

(7) Remember your birthday most clearly, and often create some festive atmosphere or surprises for you on this day.

(8) On Valentine's Day, he will definitely give you roses and ask you out for a carnival.He will be upset if you refuse.

(9) Love to watch your album, care about the photos of young people of the opposite sex on the album, and often ask you some weird questions for you to answer.

(10) Start paying attention to your friends and colleagues of the opposite sex, and try to contact and understand them. If you fail, you will have a lot of suspicion, jealousy and even resentment.

(11) Hope to receive your text messages and calls every day, if not, he will be disappointed and restless.

(12) Everything is always on your side. When you argue with others, even if you are wrong, he will stand by your side.

(13) When he has achieved results, even if it is a small progress, he will happily report to you first, and ask you to share the happiness.

(14) When encountering failures or setbacks in work, study, or life, he will take the initiative to ask you for help.For some unspeakable privacy issues, you are his first choice to confide in, and he will especially respect your opinions and suggestions.

(15) If the other party is introverted, unspoken, courteous, calm and decent in dealing with others, and pays attention to propriety, but when he is with you, he is unrestrained and careless, and seems to have endless talks all day long , then, this clearly shows that the other party has fallen in love with you deeply.

(16) Always try to create opportunities to meet with you, increase the number of meetings, even for a few minutes at a time, otherwise you will not be able to bear it, and you will have the feeling of "not seeing you in a day, like three autumns".

(17) I often borrow books from you, and sometimes I return the borrowed books to you without even reading them, and say how good the book is.

(18) During the holidays or when there is a big happy event at his house, he invites you to his house to play. Most of the time when buying gifts, he will not ask you to pay, but will borrow your name.

(19) Frequently ask about yourself and your family, and consciously or unconsciously "participate in politics": give opinions, suggestions, think of ways, and those who can help, always generously help and do our best.

(20) On some irrelevant issues, you talk about things and others talk about things, and often sing against you for fun.

(21) Start to pay attention to your clothing, if you are unkempt, he will remind you from time to time.

(22) Be able to directly criticize your bad habits such as smoking, drinking, gambling, etc., and sometimes even interfere.

(23) Do not refuse or immediately agree to your reasonable requests, but satisfy them in practice.

(24) When you are down, he will cheer you up; if you are too fanatical, he will come and pour cold water on you.

(25) When you communicate and communicate together, his words always become more and more ambiguous.Subtle changes have also taken place in your address.

(26) Generally, they will actively cooperate with your proposals of holding hands and hugging.Even if you don't agree to your unfeeling request, I will give you a reasonable explanation.Do your best not to make you angry and embarrassed.

(27) After buying new clothes and new sports equipment, he will happily report to you, and most hope to hear your praise and support. If you are absent-minded, he will definitely be angry.

(28) For your appointments, you can usually attend on time. If you cannot arrive due to special circumstances, you will be notified in advance, or you will be asked to change the time and place to avoid you waiting for a long time.

When you meet your favorite "prince", express it boldly
Compared with men, women are always passive and shy. Even if they meet a man they like, they dare not express it boldly.It would be a pity to miss the happiness of a lifetime because of a woman's shyness.Therefore, as a woman, you can also let go of your self-esteem and take the initiative.It is better to take the initiative than to wait passively. A woman who can take the initiative to pursue her own happiness is worthy of recognition.

In fact, not all men dare to take the initiative to pursue women. Although he looks tall, he is probably a conservative and introverted person.Maybe, he secretly likes you in his heart, but dare not express it.Therefore, when you meet the "Prince Charming" in your mind, you have to express it boldly, speak boldly, and let him know what is in your heart.

An introverted and shy young man has a crush on a female colleague for a long time, but he has never dared to express his opinion.Later, the female colleague switched jobs to another company. Before leaving, she left a letter for the young man.The young man opened it and saw that there was only a piece of white paper with a hole pierced with a pen inside the envelope.The young man was discouraged all of a sudden, thinking: "She is telling me to see through, so don't take it too seriously."

Later, the young man was lost for a long time before he calmed down slowly.Two years later, the young man received a call from the female colleague, inviting him to her wedding reception.On the phone, the female colleague said: "There is one thing I want to ask you. Have you read the letter I left you?" The young man sighed and replied, "Yes." The female colleague asked: "Then why did you Didn't contact me again?" "Didn't you let me see through it? So..." Before he could finish speaking, the female colleague said angrily: "I want you to see through, I want you to break through!"

From the above story, we can see that besides telepathy, love also requires verbal expression.Many men are more timid than women when expressing love, so women should learn to encourage the man they secretly like in their hearts.

There is a saying: "Men chase women through heavy mountains, and women chase men through layers of gauze".In this way, it should be much easier for women to pursue men.However, due to the influence of traditional culture, it is believed that the virtue of women is gentleness and introversion, so they should enjoy the happiness of being pursued.Therefore, women chasing men are often considered to be self-deprecating.As everyone knows, this attitude will only make you miss a lot of opportunities.

After graduating from university, Xia Yan worked in a bank.My colleague Hua Ming is a man who is 3 years older than her, with thick eyebrows and big eyes, personable, professional, good character, and loves sports and literature.Hua Ming and Xia Yan have the same interests and get along very well. They often sing and dance together, and they are inseparable.Gradually, Xia Yan found herself falling in love with Hua Ming, and she also knew that Hua Ming had no lover.

However, Xia Yan never dared to confess to Hua Ming, she hoped that Hua Ming could see into her heart.A year or two has passed, but Hua Ming's perception is a little "sluggish".Two years later, something dramatic happened. Hua Ming met Xiaoxue, a woman who looked exactly like Xia Yan, at a class reunion.Different from Xia Yan, Xiaoxue has a bright and bright personality, and she falls madly in love with Hua Ming, and she frequently launches love offensives against Hua Ming.

One day, when Hua Ming introduced Xiaoxue to his colleagues as his girlfriend, Xia Yan was so stunned that tears welled up in her eyes.

Therefore, if a woman does not take the initiative to seize the opportunity to attack, she will also lose the opportunity. At that time, only one person will be sad and one person will regret it.

Happiness is actually in your own hands, but there are many women in life, although they know that love is coming, they miss many good opportunities because of worries of one kind or another.A smart woman should learn to make a move when it's time to make a move, and don't miss the golden opportunity.A woman who dares to pursue happiness with a woman's wisdom, tenderness, and kindness is more capable of controlling her future.

Keep your eyes open and understand the psychological hidden dangers of your lovers in time
Women in love are often uncertain about their boyfriend's relationship, and they are afraid that "a misstep will cause eternal hatred".So, how to judge the psychological hidden trouble of male friend?Once he has the following courtship psychology, or one of them, there may be some kind of hidden danger hidden in his love.In this regard, women should keep their eyes open and take corresponding measures in time.

1. Absolute self-psychology
This kind of man regards whether the lover he is looking for is beneficial to his "future" as the only unbreakable condition.He asked his girlfriend to show her "advantage" from time to time and bring him some kind of benefit.Once his expectations are not met or may not be met, he will be furious and even feel that you have failed him.

2. Logical error associations
This kind of man is usually manifested as full of associations and suspicious.Generally speaking, he attaches great importance to love, but his understanding is narrow, and he is very sensitive to his lover's actions.Once his girlfriend does something he can't understand or is unhappy, he will "think about it" and mechanically find evidence that you don't agree with him.

3. Non-emotional empathy

When this kind of man evaluates and treats his girlfriend, he has no sympathy, instead of putting himself in the shoes of others to give evaluation and understanding.Especially when the girlfriend is in a difficult situation and needs to be treated empathetically, but withdraws or ignores it.He can only share happiness with women but not share adversity.

4. Error contrasts psychology
This kind of man often compares other people's strengths with his girlfriend's weaknesses, or his girlfriend's weaknesses with other people's strengths.When this kind of man starts interacting with a woman, he can quickly discover her advantages and appreciate her very much, and their relationship will also heat up in a straight line.But if he finds that the advantages of her are so inconspicuous, he will be indifferent to her, and this indifference often makes her unpredictable and even becomes a temptation, making her feel even more mysterious.

5. Stress psychology
This kind of man generally likes fashion and has a keen sense, but lacks autonomy and self-confidence. His individual consciousness is influenced by external trends, and he especially likes trendy women.He pays attention to his girlfriend's appearance, such as dress, hairstyle, clothing, etc., and is very willing to invest in this aspect for his girlfriend.However, once she can't meet his "aesthetic" requirements, he will complain more than ever.

Strictly speaking, almost every man always has one or more of the above-mentioned psychology more or less.Women don't need to panic about this, and there's no need to "break off friendship" as soon as they find out, otherwise, women will never find a satisfactory partner.The correct approach is: master a "degree", the standard of this "degree" is: she really loves him, you might as well talk about her concerns with him openly and let him realize the danger of this hidden danger.If it's your first date and the relationship is not deep yet, you can also talk to him to see the effect.If you don't think it's necessary, just break off the relationship.However, in taking any approach, one thing that needs to be grasped is whether the judgment on him is correct and comprehensive, otherwise, taking it for granted and self-righteousness will bring lifelong pain.

Quiz: What kind of man do you need

According to statistics, a woman in Paris needs three men in her life: one is a soul mate;In a bustling and romantic city, the thoughts of Parisian women seem understandable.Well, now take a look at your options!
Test questions

When you receive a call from a kidnapper and hear that your closest person has been kidnapped, your most common reaction is ( ).

A. Biting nails B. Shaking legs C. Taking a deep breath D. Diarrhea E. Crying
Answer analysis
A. Choose "nail biting": one is just right.People who bite their nails are very insecure. You will hope to meet someone who is really good to you, so you who are very persistent in love are very content. As long as you meet a suitable man in your life, you will be satisfied.

B. Choose "legs shaking non-stop": two are not too few.If you shake your legs unconsciously when you are nervous, it means that you are still very unstable inside. In real life, you will "discharge" from time to time to attract the attention of boys, because this can increase your life fun and adjust your mood.

C. Choose "deep breath": you can live well without it.You already know exactly what you want, and you won't rely too much on your partner. In your heart, loving yourself first is the most important thing, because you can live a good life alone, and you don't have to rely on men.

D. Choose "diarrhea": it should be useful.You are looking forward to feelings, but you are afraid of being hurt emotionally. The other half who can bring you a sense of security is what you want most, so only those who can improve your material life or spiritual life are helpful to you.

E. Choose "cry": listen to God's assignment.You are very fatalistic, you think how many men in your life are arranged by God, so you will follow the fate, be loyal to yourself, and follow your own feelings, and you will not force things like feelings.

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