The happiest woman who understands her husband

Chapter 38 Holding the "acting like a baby" card in hand, playing the grand slam of a happy marriage

A woman does not have to be beautiful, but she must be able to act like a baby

Acting like a baby is a woman's nature. A woman doesn't have to be beautiful, but she must be able to act like a baby. Acting like a baby is not artificial, not pretending to be pure or tender. Acting like a baby should be natural and not counterproductive; If you always regard arrogance as coquettish, then even if you are a rare beauty, no one will buy you.

Since the death of her wife, Aunt Tian has worked hard to support her two sons—Pan Jinggang and Pan Jingtao.Seeing that the Pan brothers have grown into young men, Aunt Tian is very happy from the bottom of her heart.In a blink of an eye, the eldest son Pan Jinggang married his wife, and the second son Pan Jingtao also fell in love with each other. Aunt Tian was very happy.The hard days have finally come to an end, and now it's time to spend the rest of my life in peace.

Unexpectedly, the son did not make the old man feel safe in his later years.

Pan Jinggang had not been married for a long time, and "wars" often occurred in the new house.Pan Jinggang's sexuality was fierce since he was a child, but his wife was also "hard and rigid". It was a trivial matter, but the husband was not calm, and the wife couldn't bear it. Leading to a field of "violent battle".

Pan Jinggang and his wife continued to "war" and their relationship gradually hurt. Both parties felt that it was difficult to live any longer, so they had to apply for a divorce certificate and parted ways.

Another year in the blink of an eye.Pan Jingtao also happily brought his new wife back home.Aunt Tian began to worry again.A mother knows her son best, and Pan Jingtao's temper is not much stronger than his brother's.Aunt Tian paid close attention to the newly married young couple, ready to mediate the "war" at any time.

The day has finally come.For some unknown reason, Pan Jingtao began to yell at his wife to reprimand him.Aunt Tian heard the "alarm" and immediately broke into the couple's room.

Aunt Tian saw that Pan Jingtao had a dark face and raised his fists high.

"You bastard, you—"

Mrs. Tian didn't finish her sentence, but she saw that the second daughter-in-law didn't hide or dodge, she smiled tenderly at her husband, and said delicately: "If you want to hit you, hit it softly, hit it, hit it as a kiss, scold you!" It's love."

This is good, Pan Jingtao not only withdrew his raised fist, but even his stern face was amused.

The turmoil that was about to happen subsided immediately, and Mrs. Tian was so teased by her daughter-in-law's coquettish behavior that she almost lost her breath from laughter.

As the days passed, Mrs. Tian found that her second son almost disappeared when he raised his fist in a fit of temper. Later, the second son said to her: "Mom, I have convinced her, but she is 'powerful' and has self-restraint."

Aunt Tian also sincerely admires this daughter-in-law who knows the art of acting like a baby.

If a woman wants to keep her charm in front of a man forever, she must learn to use coquettish words, so that he can be elated and convinced, and he will naturally obey your words and love you more.In fact, not only can a woman act like a baby in love to make the couple happy, but acting like a baby after marriage can also make your husband feel in love.

A charming wife acts coquettishly in front of her husband and gives him a deep kiss, which can immediately arouse ripples of love and waves of love.Acting like a baby is the release of the wife's love for her husband. At this time, the husband will appreciate the self-worth of being loved and obtain a high degree of psychological satisfaction.A woman who can act like a baby can use "softness" properly, and use softness to overcome rigidity, which can turn spring wind into rain;

A woman's acting like a baby is a magic weapon to make a man obediently submit
A woman, when she becomes a man's wife, her role is not only to bear children and take care of housework for a man, but also to have the ability to make a man love you and listen to you willingly.

You know, even if you pay for him blindly, he may not appreciate or be grateful.Because what a man needs is a woman who can arouse his desire to conquer and possess. Facing such a woman, they will be obedient and obedient.

There are many lamentable women in the world who never realize what kind of role they should play.For her husband, she only knows how to be good to him, and only knows how to give to him without complaint or regret. .

Among such dry women, some are born with too low emotional intelligence, and some are limited by their background and education, and lack the sensitivity to express and accept the love between men and women.But a large part of women are also aware of their crux, but they just don't know where to start to awaken and respond to their husband's tenderness.

When a man loves a woman and listens to her, in addition to her own lovely qualities, the more important thing is that she knows how to act like a baby and show love to a man, expressing her need for love all the time.When they see a little woman so attached to their arms, men will act very tenderly, very proudly, and unconsciously, become her captives.

Song Juan's husband is famous for his fiery temper, and the neighbors said, "This kid catches fire, as stubborn as a donkey."But I also complied with the sentence, "When you order tofu in brine, you can drop one thing from the other." Song Juan's bad-tempered husband was submissive in front of her, and the two of them lived their little life incomparably beautifully.

Song Juan was not the kind of woman who would get angry and playful. On the contrary, she always kept her voice quiet and smiled in front of her husband.If her husband is stubborn and unreasonable, she will not be irritated. She just hums softly and softly, and her husband feels that he has become a transparent person beside him, so she softens knowingly and takes the initiative to come over. She strikes up a conversation.Then she pouted and turned her face away to pretend to be unreasonable, as if she had been greatly wronged, her husband was moved with compassion, and in turn coaxed him in every possible way.Song Juan took advantage of the situation to put away Miss' temper and smiled.So, the clouds cleared and the fog cleared, and the sun was shining brightly.

The highest level of coquettishness is not only manifested in certain actions and certain words, it should be an all-round temperament.Women's tenderness, sentimentality, and temperament are all their personal secrets to express and enjoy love. Coupled with their light posture and flowing eyes, in the eyes of men, it is the most moving picture in the world.

Acting like a baby is an art, and it is a good way to eliminate barriers, increase understanding, and add interest to life.Especially in the face of those little disputes when two people get along, once a woman acts like a baby, she can definitely make a man tame and obediently obey your words.

A woman's acting like a baby is a catalyst for a man's rapid growth

Facing competition and an increasingly cruel world, men have to face everything with strength.In order to support this dignity, they don't know how much pain and failure they have endured.They never put pain on their faces, and never bring their loss to their families.However, they need a kind of warmth from the family to soothe their wounds, to be relaxed and happy in the difficult journey of life.

At this time, women act like a baby, hiding their love in their naive and coquettish voices, and let their childlike behavior bring out the maturity and demeanor of men, so that their desire for protection can be brought into play.In this way, they will re-understand themselves, and they will have new motivation and new vitality.

A spoiled woman is not ignorant, incompetent, dependent, or weak.Acting like a baby is the most gentle hand of a woman. They use these hands to fiddle with the romantic and warm strings of life.

Acting like a baby is a kind of charm, a kind of enjoyment, and another understanding of life.It can keep women young forever, and men can wash away the dust in their hearts and enjoy the happiness in life.

There was once a TV program about Japanese movie star Koji Ono and his wife when they were newly married. It was a touching story and a moving memory.

At that time, Ono Koji was not a big-name star, he was just the assistant of actress Fujiwara Noriko at that time.When Ono Koji got married, he and his wife were both in their early twenties, with nothing in their hands and nothing.They reluctantly rented an apartment and started a new life, but they didn't even have the money to buy an extra quilt, so the two of them slept with an old quilt rolled up, and life was extremely difficult.

One night, the two slept with the quilt rolled up as usual, Koji Ono felt his wife write something on his back with her fingers.After careful consideration, it turned out to be the word "love".His wife wrote "Love" on Ono's back with her fingers.This made Ono, who had achieved nothing at the time, very moved, and vowed to work hard so that his wife would no longer live this kind of life.In the end, with the help of his wife, he embarked on the road of acting and became a Japanese star.

Mrs. Ono acted like a baby to Ono in this way, which was a kind of encouragement to Ono who was still unknown at that time.Her fingers told Ono: "Although you have not achieved anything yet, as long as you have love and work hard, you can succeed in everything in the future. Come on!" Ono talked about this in front of so many audiences, making people understand What an indelible impression this incident left in Ono's mind.

A woman's acting like a baby is a catalyst for a man's rapid growth, which can further stimulate a man's true nature, make himself more like a man, and win a happy life for himself.

A woman's coquettishness is the sweet spice of married life
Every woman is born with tenderness when she is young.When they made some kind of mistake or had some kind of request, they smiled obediently, pulled their father's sleeves and begged a few times, and his father immediately relented. What originally wanted to reprimand a few words turned into a soft comfort ; What I didn't want to agree to at first, also fulfilled the child's wish.

Acting like a baby is so wonderful, but unfortunately, as women grow up, some people give up this right consciously or unconsciously.

Lin Jia has lived in the school since she was in junior high school, and her long-term collective life has tempered her strong and independent character.Her life journey was also quite smooth. After graduating from university, she became a chemistry teacher in a key local high school. She led the graduating class in the second year and achieved excellent results in the entrance examination.When she was 28 years old, she married her boyfriend who worked in a government agency, and moved into a new house bought with their savings and financial support from both parents.

Lin Jia's life after marriage was neither thick nor dull. Both she and her husband were intellectuals, and they were accustomed to relying on theory or silence to resolve their differences. Cold wars that don't care about anyone happen from time to time.Lin Jia always felt that something was missing in her life. One day during her lunch break, she told her troubles to Teacher Cui who was across the table in the office.

Teacher Cui is a mature woman in her 40s, and she is still full of charm.After hearing Lin Jia's complaints, she smiled and said, "Xiao Lin, you are good everywhere, but you are too stubborn and never turn back. This is your advantage, but you always treat your husband like Ding Mao or Mao With a serious face, after a long time, he will be 'aesthetic fatigue'! Men, women don't act coquettishly to him, they still feel uncomfortable."

This remark reminded Lin Jia that she was thinking: Is there something wrong with her performance in family life?

One day, because Lin Jia invested a share of insurance with the money that the family decided to buy stocks, her husband had a dispute with her.According to Lin Jia's usual personality, she must stick to her point of view and reason with her husband with reason.But this time she was uncharacteristically, put her arms around her husband's neck and said, "I've already signed the paperwork, don't you get angry? Listen to you next time, okay?" He is familiar with the road, but he has successfully influenced her husband. There is a long-lost light in his eyes.

Lin Jia found the wonderful feeling of being a pampered woman, and she decided to start another important study after graduation, to carry on acting like a baby to the end.

Don't look at the men who fight all the way in their careers and are extremely brave. In fact, they also have a pure side emotionally. A weak and charming woman can best satisfy their men's psychology. At this time, they feel that they are indomitable heroes, protecting and loving The heart is also unprecedentedly high.

In fact, acting like a baby has nothing to do with dignity, but it has something to do with ability.Look at some women who are going well in their families and in the workplace. They all know the power of being a woman very well.A man needs a woman to act coquettishly in front of him, and a woman also needs a man who can act coquettishly.Some women have seen through this matter, so they don't continue to carry it, and give him a face, and they are happy to relax.You know, almost no man can resist a woman's acting like a baby. No matter how old a woman is, sometimes being self-willed or "reckless" can increase the "honey" of feelings.

In our marriage life that is slowly returning to the ordinary, it is a kind of sweet condiment for the wife to act like a baby appropriately.Those women who can act cute and not hypocritical will make their husbands and themselves immersed in a feeling of eternal love.

Don't worry that you won't act like a baby, because it is a natural weapon for women, and you don't need to learn it deliberately. As long as we throw away the burden in our hearts and position ourselves as a woman who needs to be loved, it will naturally arouse the tenderness of men.

Skillful use of acting like a baby can eliminate the disharmony in the relationship between husband and wife
A coquettish woman is not the kind of woman who is ignorant of everything and leaves all troubles and difficulties to her husband.They have seen through the essence of the relationship between a man and a woman, and are happy to act coquettishly and be lazy for a while, but they will still take up the responsibilities that should be borne by themselves without hesitation.

So acting like a baby will not make a woman lose the initiative in life.On the surface, women are waiting for men to appreciate and judge with their own tenderness and coquettishness, but the fact is that women have become screenwriters and actors themselves, secretly controlling the development of the situation.In some common scenes in life, we can often find the verification of this law.

"Honey, my car broke down again, please help me find out what's going on!" Tang Xiaolei said to her husband.

Every man has a spirit of service to women, and every one of them thinks he is a master of machinery.Tang Xiaolei's husband started repairing cars.

One hour passed, two hours passed, my husband was sweating profusely, but the car still didn't move.

Tang Xiaolei couldn't bear it anymore, walked up to her husband and said, "Don't overdo the repairs and make things worse. If it doesn't work, send it to the garage!"

"If you don't understand, don't get in the way! You don't trust me so much..." Hearing Tang Xiaolei's words, her husband suddenly became unhappy.

"Why are you losing your temper? It's fine if you can't fix it. There's no need to be so brave." Tang Xiaolei was also angry.

The two refused to give in to each other, but the husband threw the car repair tools and went back to the room.

From a woman's point of view, since you are not a professional technician, it is normal that you can't fix the car well. You keep tinkering with it yourself, which is time-consuming and laborious, and has no effect, so it's better to send it away.From a man's point of view, this is a major event, related to a man's skills, reputation, and face. Tang Xiaolei's words hurt her husband, and it was very serious.

The best way for him to make up for his face is to act like a baby and pretend to be stupid and rely on him to make him feel that he is the greatest hero, so after everyone's anger subsides, find him some work to do!For example, you can ask him to tow the car to the garage, or let him come forward to contact the master who repaired the car, and then find out the problem, negotiate the price, and give full play to their man's strengths.Or take a door lock that doesn't work, a lamp with poor contact, a TV with a dim color, no matter what, bring it to him, and give him a chance to show his skills.You can say something like: "What a day this is! The cars don't move, they're causing trouble too, honey, you can't just get angry and let everything go?"

After everything is settled, you will have a great opportunity to flatter. A man's mind is actually very simple. With a few good words, he will feel that he is a hero that his wife can't live without.

The skillful use of the art of acting like a baby can indeed eliminate misunderstandings in the relationship between husband and wife.Therefore, wives, when your husband loses his temper, you might as well try this trick of "acting like a baby"; The relationship between your husband and wife will definitely be of great use.

On Sunday, Ellie and her husband chatted while looking through old photo albums at home.She inadvertently talked about a male classmate in college: "He was so inconspicuous at the beginning, and he refused to agree to chase me. I didn't expect that he would become famous today and earn millions of dollars." The husband was displeased: " What, regret it? Missed a great opportunity?"

Seeing that her husband's expression was not right, Ellie quickly changed the subject. She patted her husband's face and said, "But what? He's not handsome and has no sense of humor. He's far from the standard of a good man!" The husband said again: "The sports committee member of your class also chased you back then. He is not bad looking!" Knowing that her husband was jealous, Ellie couldn't help laughing secretly, and she said softly: "Is he handsome? I didn't pay attention. In my heart, except for my husband, all other men look pretty much the same!" A meal of ecstasy soup made her husband dizzy, and at noon, he took the initiative to enter the kitchen to make a Sunday dinner.

When you offend your husband, acting like a baby is definitely the best remedy, far more natural and appropriate than apologizing.In front of women's delicacy, men can only disarm and surrender.Sometimes, they just enjoy your soft words and charming posture, and they simply forget the reason of the previous conflict.When a woman acts like a baby to a man, the man is floating in the clouds and can't find the north, while the woman is down-to-earth and holds the initiative in the development of the situation.

(End of this chapter)