The happiest woman who understands her husband

Chapter 39 There are coups to acting like a baby, eight coups to change and throw (1)
Be a sweet and coquettish "sister"

Whip is a dialect used to describe the voice and gesture of acting like a baby.Almost all men like a woman who is a fan, and there is almost no woman who is a woman who is not favored in front of men.A woman who is too hot is because she knows her own gender advantage, and a woman who is good at talking is to let men know that women are all kinds of styles.Fadia includes a woman's coquettishness, tenderness, taste, conversation, posture, etc. It is a series of behaviors that show a woman's delicate and charming charm.

Since ancient times, when a woman is sweet, a man's bones are soft, and a sweet woman is easy to be favored, pitied, and loved.As soon as a woman is crazy and asks a man to do something, do a job, or buy something, the man has absolutely no complaints to complain about.Women don't need to be noisy, don't need to make trouble, don't need to nag, and don't need to give orders, but they will be coquettish in front of men, and everything will come according to their own wishes.A woman who can babble is less angry, a woman who can babble is less worried, and a woman who can babble lives happily and happily all day long, and the wrinkles at the corners of the eyes will naturally not appear.

The material age provides unlimited space for women to act like a baby.I once saw an outdoor advertising advertisement made by a large restaurant. The headline said: People just like it!It seems that this kind of nephrite jade's warm fragrance is invincible everywhere, men, women, old and young can't resist it.

Acting like a baby can not only bring countless benefits to women, but also has a vast world of popularity. If you don't strengthen your practice in this area, you will fall behind!
Many women think that acting like a baby is to raise the voice an octave, and then prolong the ending. In fact, this view is not completely correct. It is also a great knowledge to act like a baby well. When facing different occasions There must be different skills and methods, and a good sense of proportion must be grasped according to the situation on the spot.

Shanghai women are also known as "嗤姐姐姐", and the word "嗤" has always been closely connected with Shanghai women.The "嗤" here is also a synonym for "good", which fully and appropriately expresses the lingering look of Shanghai beauties.Most of the beauties under the influence of this kind of whining culture are reserved, euphemistic and lingering.But sometimes "嗲" is also exposed, especially when outsiders are present, Shanghai women are especially "嗤", in order to let outsiders know how much she loves her man, and also to seize the opportunity to show her style.

You don’t need a long speech, usually one or two simple modal particles are enough, such as “eh, ho, yo, hee hee…”, when you say it, you should cooperate with your body movements, soften your body, and soften your voice. There should be no traces of affectation.

Fadia has always been a woman's privilege. Although it is a woman's side of a woman, it is also a very cute side.Sometimes whine is more important than static appearance. The attractiveness of a beautiful woman who speaks steadily and has a tough voice is often not as attractive as that of a plain-looking woman with whine.

A woman's sweetness, the focus is on the modal particle at the end, "I just like it..." "I like this, and I want that, I just want to be with you, okay, okay, I won't use it anymore" It's just a petty temper..." In front of such a coquettish voice, which man would not submit obediently?
When acting like a baby, add some flirtatious flavor
Flirting is actually creating fun, which is extremely important in married life, because marriage is a very long period of time. Counting from holding hands, it takes decades to go through together. I am afraid that there are very few people who never tire of seeing each other.Therefore, a woman should be a girl with thousands of faces in marriage, always injecting freshness.When acting like a baby, occasionally showing a little different style, keeping it will make my husband ecstatic.

Chinese women lack the nerve to flirt. Lu Xun's husband once lamented that Chinese women have motherhood but not wifehood.Once the relationship is stable and enters the marriage, she will become a hard-working housewife who doesn't know how to flirt at all, letting the passion wear out in the monotonous years.Because of our introverted and reserved personality, we all love to bury our enthusiasm in our hearts, and believe that only "raising the case with eyebrows" and "respecting each other as guests" can be respected as a model of how husband and wife get along.In Western society, "the art of flirting" is a compulsory course for women, and its importance far exceeds economics and business management.

It is said that when Western celebrities such as the Duchess of Windsor and Jacqueline Kennedy were young, their mothers began to teach and train them how to flirt gracefully with men in the upper class. The most eye-catching "Diamond King" in the world.

Scientists have discovered through research that women have a "social gene" that men lack. They are sensitive and delicate, and can quickly understand the meaning of other people's behavior and respond accordingly. Women's personalities are inherently good at flirting.

One of the most evocative flirting stories goes like this: A woman in a sexy dress, lying in bed waiting for her late husband, sees a picture on the living room table when the tired man walks in. Note: My dear, the rice is in the pot and I am in bed.This is really a daydream scene, a few strands of warm light may leak from the half-closed bedroom door, all the fatigue can be swept away, and the infinitely gentle and charming emotions are surging in the chest.

Flirting must start with words. Everyone likes sweet words, and sincere compliments are especially beautiful.But if you are really clumsy with words, let your body language reveal your feelings!

Sometimes women flirt with small gestures such as brushing hair, shaking hair, licking lips, raising eyebrows, nodding and smiling frequently, touching neck and chest.Between favorability and reservedness, some women will show defensive movements such as crossing their arms, bowing their bodies, and closing their legs tightly, but the signal of favorability will be revealed from the opened fingers and relaxed muscles.

Or you are clearly in his arms, but you want him to hug you while being coquettish, and you are biting his earlobe and whispering to him: I am your only one.You can also look directly into the other person's eyes, or stare sideways, or glance at the other person frequently with your eyes. After you catch the other person's sight, you can lower your eyes and slowly raise your eyes to look at the other person. Eyes intertwined.Such "little actions" are very important for stimulating love.

What fascinates men more than body language is a woman's soft-spoken love words, which is called spiritual flirting.

Why does a gentle look from a woman when she is in love make a man have endless aftertaste?Why do you feel love at first sight with someone of the opposite sex?These are actually the results of spiritual flirting, and this kind of flirting is infinitely stronger than the magnetic field generated by physical flirting.

The first thing about spiritual flirting is appreciation.When you appreciate a man, you must look at his eyes full of charm and tenderness, which will make all the cells of the man feel comfortable and useful, and then the brain will feed back a result to him—he is a great man, and he wants to conquer you.Once the spiritual flirting comes into play, the man will be involuntary, and will soon be captured by the woman's soft and soft jade.

Flirting should be the highest state of flirting, a combination of figure, eyes, and skills, amorous but not frivolous, tenderness but not hypocrisy.If you want to show charm with every gesture and gesture, and if you want to be full of charm in your eyebrows and eyes, you need inner cultivation to support it, and you need years of experience to polish it.

When acting like a baby, add a little bit of flirting, use some flirting methods, and assist some exquisite flirting props, and you can create a happy and happy life.

Softly and coquettishly calling her husband by his nickname

Nicknames are an amazing thing that can bring people closer together, especially between husband and wife.Because this nickname is exclusive to you and him, this title is endowed with a unique and exclusive meaning, which can strengthen and enhance love.Therefore, when acting like a baby, calling your lover's nickname will have a sweeter effect.

There is such a family, the husband and wife love each other when they first got married, and both parties are also highly valued in the work unit. In people's eyes, it is an extremely enviable small family.The wife is also often proud of this, feeling that she has really found a good husband.

Unexpectedly, the marriage was less than 3 years, and the husband suddenly wanted to divorce.As a wife, she was puzzled and didn't know where she was wrong, which caused her husband to break up with her.

The frustrated wife told a good friend about the incident.This friend of hers has done a lot of research on family issues, and she came up with an idea for this wife-in the future, when seeing her husband, no matter whether he is a predecessor or a descendant, he will always use his past nickname.

This unexpected "trick" made the wife stunned for a while.This nickname was created by her when she was in a relationship. At that time, she never called him by his name, only this nickname.After marriage, she gradually felt that this nickname was not suitable, so she changed it to his name.Now, when her friend asked her to call her husband by his nickname again, she felt a little awkward, and she really didn't know if she could still call it out.

The friend insisted that the wife try this method.She thought, anyway, she had already used other methods, and she didn't care about trying one more trick. "A dead horse treats a living horse as a doctor", so let's try it.

At dinner that day, the wife took the opportunity of letting her husband buy soy sauce and called him by her nickname.Unexpectedly, this nickname gave her husband a great shock, and immediately produced a miraculous effect.The husband not only "followed the order" to buy soy sauce immediately, but also helped his wife out of the kitchen.This is an unprecedented move since his divorce.

A few days later, the husband gave up the idea of ​​divorce under the affectionate nickname of his wife, and the ice between husband and wife slowly began to melt.Soon, the family reconciled as before.

According to the determination of psychologists, the loneliest people in the world are those couples who only have physical contact but no emotional communication.It can be seen how much the barrier of emotional communication damages the marriage relationship.And the "trick" taught by the wife's friend in the above example is actually to let the wife restore emotional communication through nicknames.

After getting married, most wives only use actions to express their thoughtfulness, care and admiration for their husbands, but they seldom say "I love you", seldom act coquettishly and call their husbands by nicknames.It is true that behavioral communication can convey richer information than words in couples who have formed a high degree of tacit understanding, but such couples are too rare after all.Especially for young couples who are still in the adjustment stage, because the information contained in the behavior is too rich, the other party may not be able to feel it. Therefore, it is very necessary to express emotions with words.

If you are close, you will put up a "fascinating array" in front of a man

What kind of woman do men love most?beautiful?Learned?Still educated?In fact, these seemingly important conditions may not be valued by men.Many people wonder why an ordinary-looking woman has such a good life and makes so many men fall in love. In fact, it is because most men like women with a certain sense of mystery. A woman who can be seen but cannot be touched or even guessed can most arouse a man's appetite, stimulate his desire to conquer, and can also maintain her attractiveness for a long time.

If a woman wants to attract a man for a long time, in a nutshell, it is the "three no's" - "hidden, erratic, and unpredictable." The so-called "three no's for women" are the most fascinating for men, and the most attractive. Make men dream about.If a woman acts coquettishly and obsessively towards a man first, and then drifts away when the man has a good impression of this woman, then the man will definitely be worried about her and can't sleep at night.

Women will also like men with a certain sense of mystery. The so-called men are not bad and women do not love, that is what it means. Here, "bad man" is not a synonym for hooligans and rogues, but specifically refers to a unique personality that makes people A woman can't see clearly a man who can't figure it out and doesn't follow the rules.However, the ultimate emotional need of a woman for a man is a sense of security. Once a woman falls in love with a "bad man", she always wants to transform him into a good man, but most "bad men" refuse to "reform".

Everyone still remembers the once popular Hong Kong drama "Golden Branch Desire", right?Erchun, a beautiful girl who stood out from the audition and broke into the harem, has a unique set of "controlling the emperor": she believes that pleasing the emperor is essentially the same as pleasing a man, and the most stupid way is to obey everything. But the emperor will soon become boring, the smart way is to keep him away from him, making him elusive, and the most powerful trick is to always make him want nothing.

The so-called indecisiveness is fine, but in fact, it is to put a "fascination array" in front of a man, maintain a certain sense of mystery, and prevent him from seeing through you all at once.

That's what Er Chun said, and he did the same thing. Whenever the emperor took the initiative to approach her, she would play hard to catch her. In the inner courtyard of the palace, where thousands of beauties offered to come to her door and scrambled to be the first, she did the opposite. As long as he wanted to say it, he would stop talking, and if he wanted to welcome him, he would refuse, but the emperor's appetite was so high that he was poured "Ecstasy Soup" by this scheming little girl without knowing it. The Fifth Lord, in the end, did not obediently submit to Fan's mercy, and was completely reduced to her servant.

A man entering a brand new relationship is like a boy opening a new box of puzzles for the first time. If he opens it and sees that the puzzle is already there, his interest will disappear immediately.But if the puzzle requires the child to use his own brain, imagine, and deploy to put the small pieces together, his brain will be as excited as if stimulated.

It is said that love is like a battlefield, which is true.Sometimes the field of love is more like a hunting ground, men are more like hunters, taking the initiative to attack; women are more like prey, dodging around.I remember a man who has been hunting once talked about such a wonderful experience: when a prey covered with biological protection is looming in the bushes, the hunter's curiosity will be aroused, he will keep his eyes on, and will follow and chase , when necessary, he will raise the shotgun in his hand, aim at the prey he has long wanted, and then pull the trigger. At this time, his heart beats faster, his breathing becomes short of breath, and his pupils dilate... In fact, why is it not like this when men pursue women?A woman who is always close to a man and maintains a certain sense of mystery is like a prey dodging around in the bushes in a protective biological color but always ostentatious, which will arouse the infinite expansion of the man's wild animal desire to conquer.

A hidden, erratic, and unpredictable "three-no woman" can make men appreciate the beauty of looking at flowers in the mist and looking at the moon in the clouds. A lover who allows men to feel every rib clearly can provide them with They feel safe, but it doesn't make them have a hazy sense of beauty.

Belle has an advertisement saying "everything changes, so it is beautiful", and the lines are full of women's self-confidence.There is also the enchanting female model in the advertisement, floating and charming.This is what a woman should be, ever-changing, confident, charming!

How many years have passed, if your husband still whispers in your ear: "You are still that 'mysterious' woman! I still don't know how amazing it will be when I turn to your next page!"

This is a thumbs up!Isn't it the ultimate goal pursued by many people to make the people next to the pillow impenetrable and fresh every day?Only after being fickle can there be many changes. Women improve their charm in the process of constantly changing themselves.Like fog, rain, and wind, it's your skill to keep people from guessing.

The first change: Carry out fickle changes to the end!
A fickle woman is like a cup of tea, which tastes more fragrant, like an impenetrable book, always new.The so-called fickleness is not scheming, but to make the other party unable to guess in the process of changing. If you can't guess, you will naturally want to understand.

The second change: keep a mystery forever!
The word "mysterious" should be the source of beauty. The temptation of "still holding the pipa half-hidden" is fatal to every man.Even if he is very familiar with your body, don't undress in front of him; don't tell him everything, you have your own secrets.

The third change: don't let the program restrain yourself!

There are too many stylized things in life, such as: clothes are always the same style;If you think about everything, let it be like that, let it be like that, if this is the case, then you will not be far from Obasan.Get rid of stylization, make life a little more fresh, a little more surprise, a little more change!
coquettish in plain
Life is like a river that never rushes around people. Occasionally jump over a boulder at the bottom of the water, turn out a small wave, and then everything will be calm again.Our life cannot be fresh and ups and downs every day. It must be repeated day after day. The journey of life is long, and plainness is what we should pursue.

The boy majored in science, but the girl liked him at the beginning because of his stability, leaning on his shoulders, and feeling warm and down-to-earth.But now, three years of love and two years of marriage have made her a little tired, and she no longer wants to act like a baby in front of his knees like before. The root of the fatigue is that the girl is a sensitive little girl, sensitive and delicate, eager Romantic, like a child yearning for beautiful candy.But he was not good at creating romance by nature, so dull that she couldn't feel the breath of love.

The girl finally plucked up the courage to say to the boy, "Let's get a divorce."

"Why?" the boy asked.

The girl said: "If you are tired, you don't need a reason."

The whole night, the boy just smoked and didn't talk.The girl's heart became colder and colder: "What kind of happiness can a lover who can't even express to persuade me give me?"

After a long time, the boy finally couldn't bear it and said, "How can you stay?"

The girl said slowly: "Answer me a question, if your answer can answer my heart, I will stay. If I like a flower on the cliff very much, and the result of you picking it is [-]% death, you Will you pick it up for me?"

(End of this chapter)