The happiest woman who understands her husband

Chapter 40 There are coups to acting like a baby, eight coups to change and throw (2)
The boy thought for a while and said, "Can I tell you the answer tomorrow morning?" The girl's heart suddenly became gray.

When I woke up in the morning, the boy was no longer there, only a piece of paper full of writing was pressed under the warm milk cup.The first line, let the girl's heart cool down:

"Honey, I won't pick it. But please allow me to state the reasons why I don't pick it. You can only type on a computer, but you always mess up the program and cry at the keyboard. I want to save my fingers for you Program; you always forget to bring your keys when you go out, and I will run back with your feet to open the door for you; every month when your "old friend" visits, you are always cold and have a stomachache, and I will keep my palms to warm your lower abdomen ;You love to travel, and you often get lost in your own city. I want to keep my eyes to guide you; you are always staring at the computer, and your eyes are ruined. You trim your nails, help you pull out your annoying gray hair, hold your hand, enjoy the beautiful sunshine and soft sandy beach at the seaside, tell you the color of flowers, like your youthful face...

So, I don't want to pick that flower until I'm not sure that someone loves you more than me..."

The girl's tears drop on the paper, forming crystal flowers.Wiping away her tears, the girl continued to look down: "Honey, if you have finished reading and the answer is still satisfactory, please open the door. I am standing outside the door, holding your favorite fresh milk in my hand." bread."

The girl opened the door and saw that he was nervous like a child, and would only shake the bread he was carrying in front of her eyes... Yes, yes, the girl is sure - no one loves me more than him, so I don't want that flower flower.

The girl in the story is lucky, she has a lover who understands that ordinary is true.The huge wave of passion can indeed bring different feelings, but after the passion, it is a long life and endless years to bear the consequences of temporary indulgence.In the world of mortals, there are always many unwilling to be lonely, who will complain about the mediocrity of life and the dullness of life.So in the feasting and feasting, there are more figures of getting drunk, and the paralyzed soul cannot produce poetic romance, but the beauty of the past is replaced by vicissitudes.

Therefore, women must not be attracted by temporary temptations, cherish the current life, know how to act like a baby in the ordinary, and enjoy the fun of life in contentment!
There was such a story:
Three people went to the beverage store to buy drinks, the first one chose fruit juice, he said, he likes to drink sweet; the second one bought coffee with sugar, he said, I like bitter before sweet; the third one bought mineral water , he said I like the light taste.Three people chose three kinds of drinks, representing three viewpoints and showing different attitudes towards life.

The first person likes sweet things, which makes people feel more like young people who are new to society.They are full of vigor and energy; they are positive, more willing to devote themselves to doing things, and more willing to show their talents.Because of this, young people are more likely to experience the joy of success and enjoy it, just like that cup of sweet juice.

But too much sweetness can lead to disorientation and the motivation to keep going.People can get carried away with the juice they've already got.However, it is impossible for people to succeed forever. After all, for most people, the probability of failure is far greater than success, and the pain caused by failure is far greater than the joy brought by success.

Therefore, fruit juice is sweet, but sweetness cannot last long. Sweetness can only bring short-term pleasure, and after the pleasure, there may be more pain.

The second person likes bitterness first and then sweetness, which makes people feel more like middle-aged people.After going through a lot of ups and downs, middle-aged people are more down-to-earth. They will have clear life-stage goals, set an achievable goal for each stage of their life, and continue to work hard for this goal.They regard the process of hard work as "bitterness" and the success and results obtained as "sweet". They believe that hard work will surely yield results, and hard work will bring hope. This is a positive attitude towards life.

But this attitude towards life may place too much emphasis on results.When the efforts and efforts bear sweet fruits, they may enjoy life very much, but when the efforts and efforts fail, some people are very likely to be devastated, disappointed, and even change their attitude towards life.

The third person likes mineral water and its light taste, which makes people feel like a wise old man who has experienced vicissitudes of life. "The prosperity of the world is all for profit, and the hustle and bustle of the world is for profit." There are too many temptations from foreign things to people's hearts, such as gorgeous clothes, delicious food, wealth, and beauty...anything is enough to infringe your soul. There are huge waves in your life.And what we should do is to cherish the present life and enjoy the fun of life in contentment.

Laozi said, "The earth follows the sky, the sky follows the Tao, and the Tao follows the nature." It can be seen that the way of nature is the way of human existence. Self-sorrow", feel the existence of nature, and integrate yourself into the world.Just like light water, there is no bitterness, no sweetness, no sadness, no joy, a peaceful and comfortable existence, feeling the sunshine, listening to the wind and rain.

When enjoying success, deal with it calmly, neither arrogant nor impetuous; when suffering misfortune, deal with it calmly, neither sad nor angry.When doing things, think carefully, be practical and calm, devote yourself passionately, and forget yourself;Life is such a faint taste, it flows into the heart quietly, moistening things silently, I believe that after experiencing a lot, you will understand that happiness is so simple.Acting like a baby doesn’t have to be in the beautiful lavender fields, by the blue sea, or on the top of the breeze. In fact, in a peaceful life, acting like a baby is the real sweetness.

The little bird is acting like a baby in his arms

The ancients admired "the king should be a rock, and the concubine should be a pampas grass", but today's world seems to be a bit yin and yang.Why do you say that?Nowadays, many families with problems are caused by the woman being too strong, which either leads to constant quarrels, or breaks up the relationship and has to divorce, and some even reach the point where the family is ruined.Could it be that the times are developing, and women have forgotten to act like a baby, and have forgotten to snuggle under the shoulders of men to seek peace?

This is not alarmist talk, such cases abound.Emotional programs such as "Love Rubik's Cube" and "Human World" that are broadcast every day on TV programs often broadcast such programs, and legal programs occasionally report similar cases.Therefore, there are similar signs in the current marriage and family, as the parties concerned, you should reflect on it carefully, so as to avoid an irreversible situation in the future.

Meng Xue, a talented student from Fudan University and an executive of a multinational company, has a good figure, is also beautiful, and does things quickly and neatly. She is a strong woman with both talent and appearance.However, very unfortunately, her marriage has turned red recently. The reason is that her husband has found another love.

This surprised friends who were familiar with them. How much effort did it take for her husband to catch her, and how many people envied their golden boy and jade girl.What's even more puzzling is that the new love her husband is looking for is actually plain-looking, just a small employee.

Meng Xue cried to her friends several times, but she never understood why this happened.She even said that if this woman was more beautiful than her, she would admit it.But she just lost to a woman who she never looked down on, and never thought that there would be danger.

In fact, she didn't know that although this woman was not as beautiful or capable as her, she was better at acting like a baby than she was.A man's nature is to be a teacher and a leader.If you don't have to take too much risk, almost all men want to take responsibility and are willing to run for women.And Meng Xue's husband, whenever he wanted to come out to be a hero, was blocked by his wife's strong edge, leaving him nowhere to vent his bravery.As a result, when he met a woman who was so sweet and could act like a baby, it was only natural for "Hong Xing" to have sex.

There may be many women who don't feel their strength because they are used to it.What is strength?If the woman always speaks to her husband in a commanding tone, or in a demanding tone, or often reprimands or even abuses, and takes the initiative in everything, any of the above behaviors can be understood as arrogance.

All men need tenderness. It is fine for a woman to be the master at home, but she must be gentle, depending on how much her husband can accept.If the husband is usually taciturn because of his personality, then when it comes to important decisions, he must be given the right to make decisions so that he can always feel his majesty at home.Once a man loses his dignity to his family, he also loses himself, and sometimes extreme scenes will appear.

In fact, most of the time, men are tolerant to women, which is right and proper. Who makes women weaker than men physically from birth?But tolerance is not blind tolerance. After a long time, it is a kind of harm to the relationship, and then makes men feel that they have no status and no self-esteem, and then they will develop in a bad direction.

So women should learn to take into account both the strong and the weak. When you feel a man bury his head deeply or look at you with hatred, calm down and think about whether you have done it yourself?Acting coquettishly, maybe a lot of things have been resolved. Gentleness and coquettishness are the best weapons God has given women to deal with men. Why do you need to be a strong woman?For the happiness of marriage and family, it is better for strong women to act like a baby.

For any woman who acts resolutely, when you want to order, accuse or abuse your man, think about whether this will hurt the other's self-esteem.In order not to hurt each other, it is the best way to be calm when problems arise, and adjust in the right way. On the contrary, violent temper cannot solve any problems.

(End of this chapter)