The happiest woman who understands her husband

Chapter 41 There are coups to acting like a baby, eight coups to change and throw (3)
"Big man", "big husband", "big man", "little woman", "little daughter-in-law", etc. From these titles, it can be seen that a man occupies a central position in a family from beginning to end.From ancient times to the present, the Chinese family model has been "the man dominates the outside, and the woman dominates the inside". Therefore, people usually refer to women as "insiders" and "bad insiders".

Therefore, women should not fight for rights with men in the family.You might as well give up family sovereignty to men, let your husband have more self-esteem, and let him be an upright man in front of others, at home and outside.Let him feel that he is a man all the time, proud and proud.Don't let your husband be short of breath, be a "doormat" or "a wimp".

Men are the sky above women, and men are the backbone of the family. This position cannot be replaced by women.Woman, how capable you are in front of outsiders, you must be a little woman when you return to your husband.Competitive women often fail to keep men, and the following story is a prime example.

Xiaoqiang's wife often quarrels with him. Although they are trivial matters, as long as Xiaoqiang does not admit defeat, his wife will continue to quarrel. Once Xiaoqiang couldn't help but argue with his wife for a few words. As if pouring oil on the fire, the wife's anger became even bigger. She not only refused to let go, but also opened her mouth to speak ill, saying that his parents lived close to them, so she just wanted to quarrel and curse loudly so that they could listen. Be clear, look at what kind of life this is, Xiaoqiang is so angry that he can't bear it.

Not only that, she also told Xiaoqiang that she had to win the quarrel between the couple, otherwise it would be endless. She also told Xiaoqiang to go to work and never come back, saying that she would not be able to live without him, and she must be living well.Xiaoqiang was so angry that he couldn't say a word, so he had to retreat to avoid the limelight.When he left, he said to her: "Okay, let you win, I'm leaving, you can beat the drums to celebrate your victory." After saying this, Xiaoqiang went out helplessly.

Women, even if you are capable enough, don't forget about acting like a baby, your husband is a big tree, you have to lean over him from time to time.The little bird is acting like a baby in his arms, which can not only arouse his affection but also maintain his dignity, so why not do it?

Holiday festivities get twice the result with half the effort

Xiaoxue and Zhang Kai are a couple who have been in love for three years. They both went to school in Beijing and met through the introduction of their classmates. Their relationship has always been sweet. The main reason is that Xiaoxue is the kind who is very good at using festivals to adjust the mood girl.

A few days before Valentine's Day one year, Xiaoxue went sightseeing in Europe with her classmates.It was a university graduation trip, and they were going to stay in Europe for two weeks.

However, on Valentine's Day, Zhang Kai received chocolates sent by Xiaoxue from Beijing.

The large box of chocolates was not the kind that students buy, but the kind of high-end products favored by adult women.It turned out that before going abroad, the caring Xiaoxue made a special trip to a well-known chocolate shop to choose a box of high-end chocolates, and told the clerk to deliver the box of chocolates to Zhang Kai's residence on Valentine's Day.

This moved Zhang Kai very much. Needless to say, Zhang Kai will love Xiaoxue more in the future.

Xiaoxue's method of using festivals to reflect her thoughtfulness is worth learning from many women. Once a man is moved by such love, his love for her will double invisibly.This is also the most effective "psychological tactic" launched by women.

In fact, it is not limited to Valentine's Day, many festivals can express the caring for "him".

Women should be stupid when they should be stupid, and be scheming when they should be scheming, such as giving a little surprise to a loved one during a festival.Who told us that in this highly competitive world, it is really difficult for clumsy and shrewd women to survive.To put it bluntly, "clumsy and not shrewd" means a woman with an empty mind, and such a woman has nothing to be proud of.In order to be able to effectively control intelligence and win battles in a society full of competition, "clumsy but not smart" is absolutely impossible!To be a smart woman with a brain.Such women are good at thinking, they will never wait for something to happen, but let them make something happen.

In a year, women have many festivals to create "opportunities", the most important ones are the other party's birthday and Valentine's Day, in addition to their own birthday, Women's Day, Qixi Festival, etc.Clumsy women will forget about them, or ignore them, while smart coquettish women will use it to enhance the relationship between the two parties.You said, can such a woman be unhappy?

Add some pungentness to your coquetry

Acting like a baby can reflect a woman's natural charm, and if a woman can act like a baby, she will add endless fun to life.But if you only act like a baby, it's too monotonous.Sometimes a man is too used to being surrounded by women's sweetness and will become numb, so he should add some pungentness while acting like a baby, which will give a man a brand new feeling.

Adding a bit of pungentness here is not to make women act wild like a shrew, but a disguised performance of acting like a baby.In fact, no matter whether a woman is acting like a baby or playing wild, it is to win the favor and love of her husband. Seeing her wife pouting and rubbing her arms back and forth, any man will be conquered.Men can't stand a woman's coquettish appearance. It can be said that acting like a baby is the fastest way for a woman to conquer a man.It's just that women have been acting coquettishly for thousands of years, and men are a little tired of it, so if women still want to act coquettishly, they must have a new trick, that is, be aggressive.

Of course, the Polar here is not purely Polar, the "Polar" mentioned here includes all the emotional words of a woman.A presumptuous wink or a presumptuous love speech can be regarded as a woman's aggressive way.Think about it, when a woman boldly releases her heart in front of a man, will the man still have the ability to think?Don't think about it, it is inevitable that he will be conquered by your pungentness.Adding a bit of pungentness will make a man always feel that he has not caught you, and it will give them a headache but they don't want to give up. It can be said that it is the best bait for women to "play a long line to catch big fish".

Women have always given people the impression of being "gentle as water". When you suddenly become "rebellious", men's interest in you will greatly increase.Generally speaking, women are very weak, fragile and weak, and weak and weak. Women can always arouse men's desire for protection and give men a sense of satisfaction and accomplishment.Most women will act like a baby tenderly when faced with men's meticulous care. They don't want to destroy their gentle and pleasant image in men's minds at this time.Of course, there is nothing wrong with women having this kind of thinking. After all, women’s desire for stability comes first, but this is actually a manifestation of women’s lack of security. We must know that the more gentle and weak you are, the more you will be. Lack of security, and sometimes even a sense of frustration, so at this time, women must learn to be pungent, here pungent can be seen as a manifestation of your confidence.

When you face a man who cares infinitely, you always refuse intentionally or unintentionally, bit your lips and shake your head, your rebelliousness will only make a man crazier, and your refusal of a man’s help is no more effective than your acceptance Difference.This will arouse a man's desire to conquer, and of course you have won the war when a man swears to conquer you.Therefore, pungent and proud are very important for a woman.

Generally, women are the most emotional, and women who are out of control are the most terrifying.Women's pungentness must grasp the scale well, don't get into the role when the time comes, you can't get out, and you can't lose money if you steal the chicken.So how can a woman achieve the effect of "combining grace and power" from coquettish to pungent, and how to control the scale of her pungentness.

First, get rid of shyness. Shyness is fatal to a woman. If a woman loses her shyness, it means she has learned to be aggressive.Of course, you can't say that you have completely lost your shyness and only remain aggressive. You must never be such a woman.

Second, judge the situation. The key to the success of Polar is that you have to judge the situation.Look at the right time, and once you are fierce and aggressive, you will secretly be flattered in your heart.It’s not that you can splash it anytime and anywhere, so seeing the right timing is the basis for your success.

Third, when it's cold and when it's hot, don't think that your acting like a baby will soften a man. In fact, what they think in their hearts is not the same as what they do on the surface.More often, we have to learn to be aggressive, let a man give you a headache first, and see if he dares to disagree.Therefore, being hot and cold is a compulsory course for women to learn to be aggressive. Being cold and hot to a man will make him feel a sense of crisis.Of course, such pungentness is easy to control, especially for women who can only act like a baby.

Fourth, go your own way. When you are a person who does your own way in the eyes of a man, then your aggressive behavior towards this man is undoubtedly a success.Most women are obedient to men, because they always acquiesce in the ability of men.In fact, women don't have to think like this, especially when facing difficulties, you have to have your own ideas and don't rely too much on men.

Fifth, know how to be self-reliant. Women have always regarded men as their own reliance. This is not acceptable. Women must learn to be self-reliant.When you no longer need a man to rely on, you have the capital to be aggressive.

Acting like a baby can make a man feel his responsibility, and being aggressive can give a man a feeling that you have individuality.Relatively speaking, men are very hard, women are very comfortable, so a good woman must know how to love her man.Women should learn to be aggressive while acting like a baby. To put it bluntly, it is to attract the attention of men and to get their love.Then women should be more coquettish and less aggressive, and men will understand that everything women do is for love, and they will feel that there is no reason not to tolerate them, and they will love women more, so that women will be happy for a lifetime.

(End of this chapter)