The happiest woman who understands her husband

Chapter 46 When the wife burst into tears, the husband immediately surrendered (1)
Tears are a powerful weapon to subdue a man
Women's tears have a long history. "Returning the king's pearls and tears" are tears of helplessness; "Tearful eyes ask the flowers not to speak" are tears of sadness;

These tears showed the woman's coquettishness to the fullest, broke the man's heart, and made the man fascinated by it.Since ancient times, heroes have been saddened by beauty, and men who have always regarded themselves as flower protectors are the most hated to see women cry, so women might as well use tears as a powerful weapon to subdue men.

When you see a sad film and television drama, cry like a tearful person, let him know that you have a fragile and sensitive heart; when you quarrel, he said something serious, or he has a second heart, it is a necessary time to cry.Especially when two people are arguing about their opinions, it is better to use the "tear bomb offensive" to resolve the deadlock instead of confronting each other head-on. In many cases, tears may be the best weapon to end the war.

Tears are a woman's privilege, a woman's style, a woman's happiness, and a woman's talent.Women know nothing about tears, and women's tears come uninvited.In this increasingly desolate world, a woman's tears are a beauty that will never be lost.

Women are sentimental, they always have too many romantic feelings, they always send out too many unreasonable sighs about the past.Women always use their meticulousness to make the world delicate and affectionate, and because of this meticulousness, they suffer more spiritual injuries and blows.Because of their sensitivity, a slight injury can pierce their soft hearts and shed crystal tears.But there is no woman who does not cry, even those women who are strong on the surface will inevitably hide and cry secretly.

Perhaps a woman's tears are one of the basic elements of a woman's being a woman. Sadness may not be the only reason, it may also be joy, for love, out of hatred, or even just a gesture or mood .

For a woman herself, tears are a purifier for the soul. Tears will take away the grievance and anxiety in her heart in material form, leaving only cleanliness and peace.When sad, the smart coquettish girl will not deliberately suppress her tear glands, cry out of grief, and cry until the sky is dark and the sun and moon are dark.After stopping, she will find that the pain and sorrow have been relieved a lot. When the hazy tearful eyes are bright again, she can almost withdraw from the suffering.Such tears are like a bowl of chicken soup for the soul, allowing women to heal themselves when they suffer setbacks and injuries; they are also like a clear mountain spring, washing away the painful soul and giving women natural beauty.

A woman's tears are pure and crystal clear, and they are the most precious gift in the world.The Arabs have a wonderful parable: the tears of an angel fall into the body of an oyster that opens its shell to watch the moon and become pearls; when it falls into a man's arms instead of the shell, it will not only wet him The placket sleeves can infiltrate his heart even more.

A woman's tears can be said to have infinite uses. They are the best tool to express feelings, the best channel to vent emotions, and the best weapon to fight for interests.It can be pleading, it can be threatening, it can be attacking, it can be retreating, it can be hating, it can be caring, everything depends on the woman's mood.

According to incomplete statistics, there are N kinds of women's tears, some real tears, some fake tears; some bitter tears, some little tears; some sad tears, some happy tears.There are so many things, there are countless.

One is earth-shattering.Crying is like thunder, and tears are like the water of the Yellow River, flowing endlessly.Weeping until the sky was dim and the earth was dark, and the sky was turned upside down, making people terrified and terrified all day long.

The second is the type of broken liver and intestines.The sound of crying is like a violin, with ups and downs, tactful ups and downs, tears like broken pearls, intermittent, now and then, making people flustered and not knowing what to do.

The third is the silent weeping type.The sound of crying is almost inaudible, only the wings of the nose are fluttering, the eyelids are drooping, the eyelashes are shaking, the teeth are clasping the lips, every drop of tears is big enough to kill people, but they are just doing acrobatics in the eye sockets and eyelashes, turning left and right, If you don't come down, you will be confused and at a loss.

The fourth is sunny and rainy.It was originally a clear sky, but suddenly burst into tears, not knowing where the rain came from.It may be a drop or two at the beginning, and then it may develop into any of the above-mentioned ones-it depends on your luck and luck, and it will make you hot and cold, and you will be at a loss.

The woman only needs to turn her eyes red and send a tearful message, and the man's heart softens instantly.Therefore, tears are a woman's weapon, and a woman who knows how to shed tears will undoubtedly be a happy woman.

Tears can't be too outrageous

There was a survey on a website that asked men to choose a woman from "A Dream of Red Mansions" to be their wife. As a result, most of them chose the gentle and generous Xue Baochai and the delicate and straightforward Shi Xiangyun, while Lin Daiyu, the absolute protagonist, was at a disadvantage.Sister Lin's tears have aesthetic value, and they can be seen from a distance but not up close.Although this kind of survey is somewhat joking, it has reminded women all over the world: “The tears of beautiful women and talented women who are "delicate flowers shine in the water, weak willows support the wind" should be avoided by men. Ordinary women should not do that. A sentimental tearful beauty.

In life, it is not uncommon for a woman's tears to wash away the things of life.

Zhou Xiaoyun is an innocent girl who loves to cry since she was a child.Fortunately, with the protection of my parents, there is no wind or rain, and I go to school, work, and get married, and everything goes smoothly.

After establishing her own small family, Xiaoyun's innocence moved her husband, but her sensitivity also became a burden for him.Crying and wiping away tears without saying a word, and a wrong tone becomes a witness of hurt.Before the honeymoon was over, Xiaoyun burst into tears because her husband was dissatisfied with the answer of "Your mother and I fell into the river, who will you save first?" No matter how her husband explained, she no longer believed in her husband's love.

In this way, after the gloomy honeymoon, Xiaoyun was extremely disappointed. She felt that marriage was too meaningless. She not only ignored her husband, but also lost interest in living together.

Romance and perfection are common problems of women.Although it cannot be said that a woman’s romance and perfection are nothingness, but if you only pursue romance and perfection without making any effort to realize it, the empty romance can only expand the distance between you and life, and the imaginary perfection will also make you change. Be more picky.Women's emotional disappointment is often the result of over-sensitivity. Sensitivity is not a bad thing, but there must be a degree of sensitivity. In the mood.Whoever is the husband of such a woman will not have the happiness of happiness every day, but will suffer from the crime of worry. It is impossible for a man who once loved her to endure it forever.

For women in marriage, being down-to-earth is the most important thing.Even if you cry, you still have to keep three points of sobriety in your heart, and the tears must not be too outrageous.

It is best for women to choose the right time and the right place for crying, so that unexpected results will be achieved.For example, when a man is calm and reads a newspaper leisurely, he cries.The husband was reading the newspaper on the sofa, but the wife insisted on talking to him about daily necessities. The husband annoyed the wife and said a few words inadvertently.The wife flattened the corners of her mouth and hid in the kitchen to shed her tears.The husband will drop the newspaper in his hand and get up, go to the kitchen to comfort his wife, wash the pots and dishes for his wife, and peek at his wife from time to time.

There is also crying on days when my husband is particularly happy.The sun was shining brightly that day, and my husband was in high spirits, but my wife was sobbing aggrievedly. Because of my husband's carelessness, husband's negligence, and various unforgivable mistakes of my husband, my wife cried like a tearful person.Seeing the tears on his wife's face, the husband must feel pity, as if he saw a little girl who couldn't find her mother, and hugged her in his arms to make up for all the love debts he owed.

It is a kind of enjoyment for a man to accept a woman's tears, because a man has found his true love, although he promises that he loves her, he will protect her, and he will not let her shed tears.But if the tears were shed for him, the man's heart would be a little more warm and satisfied.When a woman sheds tears in front of her husband, what she expresses is love, and what she brings to a man is moving.If you stop crying because of disappointment, complaining, or venting, your husband may blame himself for not bringing you the life you want, and then?This depression will alienate him from you.

In a word, a woman's tears, when shed at the right time, are intoxicating wine, but if they shed too frequently and at the wrong time, they are not even as good as tap water.

how to cry out the value of love

Although tears are a woman's weapon, women must learn how to use this weapon. If you use it well, the effect will be excellent. If you use it poorly, it will make things worse.So a woman doesn't have to be beautiful, but she must be able to cry, and only when she is able to cry can she be happy.

When a woman is not crying, a man can be friends with her, do business together, and talk about life together, but when a woman sheds tears, a man will have a desire to protect from the bottom of his heart, even if he is willing to go up the knife mountain or down the frying pan for her. No hesitation.Regardless of whether a woman is beautiful or ugly, as long as she can cry, she can get "benefits" from a man.

It is often said that women have three magic weapons: one cry, two make trouble and three hang themselves.If a woman wants to achieve a certain goal but cannot settle her husband, she will feel sad and disappointed, and crying is a very normal phenomenon.If the tears still fail to achieve the goal, they will make a lot of noise and want to fight hard. If there is no result, they will have to fight with their lives.

(End of this chapter)