The happiest woman who understands her husband

Chapter 47 When the wife burst into tears, the husband immediately surrendered (2)
Generally speaking, women who can use up the three magic weapons in order are rare, and we don't advocate this kind of "starting and ending" approach.A woman who uses all three magic weapons is stupid and ineffective. Even if her husband finally compromises, he will still be unwilling, and it won't take long for him to reveal his true colors and disappoint you again.

A wise woman can achieve all purposes only by "crying" the first magic weapon.

There was once a man who made a mistake - he couldn't resist the temptation and had an affair.The wife was heartbroken when she found out, but she didn't show any abnormal emotions in front of her husband.Because she knows very well that whenever this kind of thing happens, if a woman makes a big fuss, she can only push her husband to the "little three", and the family she has worked so hard to build will be destroyed in one go.

So one late night, the woman sat on the bed and wept softly.Her husband was awakened by the crying and asked her what was going on.The woman said that she had a nightmare, dreaming that her husband fell in love with another woman and left her alone.After waking up, although I knew it was a dream, I still had lingering fears, for fear that my husband would really abandon me and the family.

Seeing his wife's crying face, her husband felt distressed and remorseful. From then on, he broke up with the "little three" and reconciled with his wife as before.

This is the miraculous effect of tears, without great fanfare, but with great effect.If we change another method, besides weeping and crying like a crazy woman, I am afraid there will be no such result. Not only will my husband not feel guilty, but he will also feel disgusted and emotional. Libra is more and more inclined to the "little three", and one of the culprits who finally let him part ways with you is yourself.

A woman's tears, less is a weapon, more will become a natural disaster; women's noise, less is flirting, more will become the lion's roar.The grasp of proportion is the wisdom and loveliness of the daughter's family.

A woman wants to cry and make trouble, otherwise how can she be called a woman?Even if it's an unreasonable disturbance, as long as the proportion is right and the time is right, the man who loves you will regard it as cute and coquettish. If his heart is soft, how can he have the strength to argue with you?Maybe I will take care of you even more.On the contrary, if a woman is too hard, there will always be less reason to be loved, especially when a man has a heart of pity, your "hardness" will be even more inappropriate.It's not a bad thing for a woman to show weakness in front of a man sometimes.At least when he doesn't know whether he still loves you or not, women have to try with tears and noise, does he care?Can he stop?Just don't cry uselessly for a long time, lose your dignity, and don't go too far, which is counterproductive.

Women who can't cry will lose their men. They mistakenly think that you no longer love him, so they leave you to care for women who need them, leaving you crying behind your back.

In fact, in the face of emotional gains and losses, how many women can be truly free and easy and strong?But men often don't know this, so don't lie to yourself.Crying is not necessarily a sign of weakness, on the contrary, you miss love and lose men again and again, is it just to make yourself strong and lonely?If you love, tell him; if you don't want to give up, tell him too, use the most feminine way to be more direct, at this time, you don't need to be strong.If you really can't keep it, let the past go with the wind, then you need to be strong.

But, don't pretend, women who are more innocent will make men have more fantasies and expectations.If you are too purposeful, too clever, and too scheming, tears will not be able to contain the fire.Love doesn't need a reason, stick to it, but needs a reason.So smart women, when you are about to cry, you must be careful, so that you will have a happy life.

turn around and cry again

There is such a story in the Buddhist scriptures.There were two people who had no relationship because of their predestined relationship in the previous life. The Buddha in the next life turned the woman into a tree and grew it beside the road that the man must pass, so that they could form a relationship.It's a pity that the man just buried his head on his way and forgot the woman who had been waiting for him.When waiting became hopeless, she felt dejected, and the prosperous trees withered one by one.

The "tree" in life can represent many things, such as love, marriage, work and so on.As a woman, the possibility of "hanging" on other trees is not very great, but she has a special liking for the tree of love. Many women can't get over this hurdle, and ruin their good fortune with their own hands.

If one day he doesn't answer the phone calls or text messages, he will scold you and tell you not to bother him again if he is really annoyed.Don't blame him, it's because he doesn't love you anymore.

When he doesn't love you, maybe you will want something more, so you say: "Let's meet, can we have a meal together?" If you think that having a meal, meeting can restore what you lost Love, then you are so wrong, so stupid.He may say: "I have something to do now, wait for the opportunity. You can call me later, or I can call you." But you must not take it seriously at this time, he just found someone who is not Very clever reasons to put you off.

Please don't really wait, don't lie to yourself, and there is no need to be sad.His busy will not end because of your waiting.Many things in life are very important to him, but the most indifferent thing to him is the lost love.

Woman, please give up the person who doesn't love you, and shed tears after turning around, don't let that heartless man see you cry for him, because he doesn't deserve it.

The person who really loves you will know how to love you, and will make your brilliance more dazzling and magnified in his life. This is because she embeds your life into her own life, that place is noble and fragile, Can't stand a little hurt; he will also regard your happiness as his great career, and let you truly understand what love is in the most ordinary years and the most boring life.

When you love someone too much, he will not love you very much, because he sees that you will not leave him, even if he hurts you in a mess, he is confident that he can smooth everything out with just one word of love .Such a person is not worthy of your love. Such a person is too selfish. He loves himself more than you. His self-esteem, his pride, and his needs are all more important than your love. Although you love him very much, But you will always be his last choice, and his heart will be used on those people and things that cannot be obtained.Therefore, it is difficult for him to love you sincerely, and such a person who does not love you, and does not want to spend a little time and effort to love and care about you, is easily tempted by this world.He does not belong to you, not only now, but also in the future.

If you love someone too much, you may tolerate him unprincipled, and gradually he gets used to this kind of indulgence, ignores what you have done for him, and even thinks you are annoying, superficial, and without personality, and even begins to belittle, neglect, No respect for you.You will be led by the nose by him, and you will be in chaos at every turn, as if you were hit by a magic wand, completely unable to control yourself.Since then, you have no thoughts of your own, you have no emotions of your own.You are centered on him, when you are with him, he is your whole world; when you are not with him, your whole world is him.

If you love someone too much, he will get used to your kindness to him and forget that he should also give, and forget that you need to get the same return - he has been completely spoiled by you at this time.Don't think that you love each other very much, and he will love you very much. Love is not justified, so, in many cases, love is also unequal.The more you love someone, the more you hurt yourself. It is your love that makes you lose yourself and your love.Don't come to hurt yourself with other people's mistakes. If your feelings are too much, you might as well save a little love and self-esteem for yourself!Well, one day, he may seriously like you.

A person who doesn't love you, falling in love with him is like a bet, you keep waiting, keep investing your feelings and time, just to bet on an unpredictable future.Such a relationship is not easy to come by, harder to hold on to, hard to love, helpless to hate, it is better to let go.

A person who doesn't love you can appreciate it from a distance, but don't love him, because no matter how much you give, it is of little value and meaning to him, and it is only a potential harm to you. For example, if you give flowers to someone who doesn’t love flowers, it’s a waste of flowers, and it’s also a burden to the person who doesn’t love flowers. He won’t love and appreciate you because of this, because when When he has flowers in his hands, he can never reach for anything else he likes.

Similarly, giving your feelings to someone who doesn't love you is tantamount to a delay in time and damage to your feelings!A person who is always disappointed in feelings, even if true feelings come, he will miss them due to hesitation. Human feelings are very fragile and cannot withstand too much hurt. Once the heart is broken, people will become cold and Stiff and numb, so if possible, don't try to love someone who doesn't love you, no matter how heavy and deep your love is, he won't understand.

Believe in yourself, the world is so big, there will be someone who loves you, and you will love him, no matter you are poor, old, sick, he will never leave you, everyone is special, there is a unique beauty , most of the time, what is missing is just to find out, don't give your love to the person who doesn't love you, or leave it to the person who loves you the most, give yourself more time, let your heart slowly discover, Waiting for someone who understands you, cherishes you, takes pity on you, and loves you, no matter how much you pay, it is worth it.

Love is a lifetime thing, and it needs two people to complete it. Only two people who have love in their hearts can hold hands and walk towards the everlasting love together.Don't hang yourself on a tree, life is long, and there are still many landscapes you have to experience.

It's a relief to leave a man who doesn't love you. You have gained the freedom to enjoy happiness. You should be grateful instead of sad. Abandon the old things, and only then will you have a new happy life waiting for you.

(End of this chapter)