The happiest woman who understands her husband

Chapter 52 Know a few special dishes, the feeling of love is in the kitchen

There are many benefits to being a firework woman

In the old days, the women's stage was only at home. Women from poor families had to cook, and dozens of people in a family could have enough stomachs, or even if they were not full, they had to find something to cook; Although women have cooks and maids who can command them, they are also proficient in cooking. They often serve as mentors to cooks, and they are the most expert gourmets in what to do and how to do it.

The years are long, and time has reached today's society.At present, people's pace of life is accelerating and the content of life is becoming more and more diverse. How many young women can cook?How many fashion-conscious women love cooking?Today, when cooking is no longer an essential survival skill for modern women, is there still a need for a pyrotechnic woman who loves cooking and has good cooking skills?certainly!

1. Cooking is the most powerful guarantee for women to fight for family status

Everyone is talking about equality between men and women now, but it is not as simple as a slogan to really achieve equality. When a woman cooks at home, she is telling your husband with practical actions: It is hard for you to run around outside, and it is also tiring for me to manage at home. !
You can imagine such a scene: a husband who came home late because he was scolded by the boss for two hours in the company has just returned home. If you wear an apron around your waist, point at his nose with a spatula and curse: "Damn it!" , where have you been, waiting for you to go home for dinner!" Maybe he would say: "I'm sorry, wife, I..."

And if a woman in pajamas pointed at his nose with a remote control and scolded: "Damn, where have you been, wait for you to go home and cook!" Then if there is even a little calcium in his bones, he will definitely rise up and resist of.

2. Cooking is the easiest way for a woman to tie a man's heart
To tie a man's heart, first tie his stomach - this is an iron law that has been spread the most widely and has the most numerous cases in the world.If your lover is tightly surrounded by a group of coquettish butterflies, you must not follow others foolishly. The most urgent thing is to quickly switch the TV channel from the romance theater to a certain TV station's "Everyday Diet"!

3. Cooking is the most powerful weapon for women to resist third parties

A woman who can cook and cook a table of delicious meals is usually not an ordinary woman. She may be very emotional and has a strong ability to control men. She may look weak, but if she unfortunately encounters the first The fierce challenge of the three, then her tenderness and wisdom will often build an airtight protective wall for her family with the table of delicious meals to defend her territory, and her who is about to change his mind will eventually Will be drawn back to that delicious meal.

4. Cooking is the most basic work of women's beauty project

Cooking can indeed be beautiful!Just imagine, will a woman who can't cook a meal be well nourished?Can poor nutrition be considered emotionally fulfilling?If he was so hungry that he was skinny and boned, he would probably have to drop the rouge even if he put on it.This is external beauty, as well as internal beauty. Knowing how to cook also reflects a woman's inner quality and ability. You can even arbitrarily say a sentence that most people will agree with: "A woman who can't cook is not a complete woman. woman."

5. Cooking is the most sacred duty of a woman as a mother

When a woman becomes a mother, there are usually great changes. The biggest change is to have the spirit of sacrificing everything for her children.The health of the family is usually the top priority of the woman who becomes a mother, so in order to make her child have a strong physique, mothers often search for recipes and nutritional profiles by themselves.

If a woman who can't cook unfortunately becomes a mother, and the child never eats a meal cooked by the mother until the child grows up, how can this be a kind of sadness?
Smart women make cooking fun
Today's society has higher and higher requirements for women. Women not only have to carry guns to fight in the smoky workplace like men, but also have no inferiority in cooking skills.Just imagine, if a man returns home, his wife serves delicious food on the table, accompanied by a cute greeting, is such a man extremely happy, with such a wife who can cook and act like a spoiled child? At home, would there be any men who would meet with different thoughts?
However, only women who are willing to experience the taste of cooking can truly feel the unique art of life emotion of cooking.Many women are bewildered and intimidated by the cruelty, blood, horror, mess, and oily fumes in the cooking process.

In fact, in modern times, cooking is no longer a synonym for cooking. Cooking is no longer a portrayal of tedious life, it is not a symbol of traditional local life and diet in people's minds, and it is no longer a profession, occupation and career that demonstrates the magical skills of chefs.As a way of life, cooking has a unique philosophy of life. People ingeniously integrate humanistic elements such as personality, thought, perception, emotion and will with ingredients, techniques, real life, seasonal festivals, etc., making it more colorful. Life, through cooking to complete your own unique creative imagination of life, cooking is being refined, breaking away from simple cooking techniques from raw materials to cooking.

Cooking is an interesting and interesting thing in life. People who enjoy life, know cooking, and love cooking really need to gather design ideas, combine materials and techniques according to their own emotional wishes and unique imagination. Cooking activities are the easiest to realize people's wishes and Dreams and hand-made dishes are also common life ideas that are most likely to bring a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction, and even make people intoxicated, doing their own way without restraint.

From cooking, you can show a woman's thoughtfulness, brains, wit, etc., and even through cooking, you can see through the family she grew up in.No matter who, at the beginning of learning to cook, they will not go to a formal cooking school to learn. At first, they will watch their mother cook, and they will learn by watching.Therefore, a woman who can cook, through the skillful hands of her mother, also inherits the warmth of the family.

The cooking column in some newspapers or magazines once gave special praise to a lady named Guizi.Guizi did not study cooking as a career, she was also born in a pure working-class family.Therefore, the cooking methods taught in the magazines are not restaurant-style, but very practical, and anyone can learn and cook meals now.

There are all kinds of Japanese, Western, and Chinese dishes. She also admits that she watched her mother cook and learned while memorizing since she was a child.The article also introduces her family. Although her family is also working class, it is somewhat unique. Her father has many friends and disciples, and her home has long been a meeting place, and even various editors and journalists They are often patronized, in an endless stream.

Guizi's mother, as the hostess, greeted a large number of visitors in a meticulous and thoughtful manner.When there are many visitors and the mother is too busy to do it alone, the daughter naturally cannot stand by and watch. In the process of helping to peel potatoes and wash vegetables, she has become proficient without knowing it.After getting married, because my husband was stationed overseas and lived in Europe and the United States, the level of cooking has expanded.If her husband suddenly brings guests back, she will not be at a loss.

She will first open the refrigerator to make sure there is something. She will never worry about not having many dishes, but think about what delicious things I can make with only these dishes.If the ingredients are not enough, she would rather not cook the whole meal.And only use the limited ingredients to make some delicious dishes as much as possible.Cooking is quite laborious, so she made memos for the hobbies of several frequent guests.When there are guests who don't like onions, she will serve a portion out of the pot before putting onions.The habit of making memos was also learned from my mother.

In fact, none of the dishes she introduced had a decent name.But there is also a special flavor in the ingenuity.A husband with such a wife can be regarded as the happiest person in the world. He can bring his subordinates home with peace of mind, and he is highly praised among colleagues and friends in the company.

When children are playing house, women seem to like to cook by nature. People are nostalgic for home-cooked dishes, and they are actually experiencing the taste of mother's love.

Learning to cook is equal to learning to be a woman. Cooking is a daily life to shape a perfect woman. The essence of cooking is also a spiritual practice ritual to cultivate sentiment.Cooking is also a quality of women, and a woman who can't cook cannot be called perfect.

After work, let the food smell fragrant in the kitchen

"To grab a man's heart, start by grabbing his stomach" is a saying handed down from our grandmothers' days.Because men have always been creatures of the senses, this saying will never go out of style.

Grabbing a man's stomach does not mean training us to become a chef. To be honest, in today's advocating individuality and longing for true feelings, delicious food alone cannot keep a man's heart. ——If this alone keeps him, then he is either too low in EQ or too low in IQ. In society, no matter how high his achievements are, he may be sorry for his wife's hard work and Caijin.Therefore, to grab a man's stomach, it is important to give him a feeling of home with the lively atmosphere in the kitchen.

A woman who likes the kitchen is naturally a woman who likes home, and at the same time can bring people a sense of home. This has nothing to do with masculinity or feminism, it is just a woman's nature.

When you are young, everyone can wander around, but one day you will get tired of wandering and long for a warm home for yourself to rest.A smart woman is not just to fly with a man in career, but also to be his intimate partner, to give him peace of mind and nostalgia.If he is tired, he can go home to rest; if he is injured, he can go back to a woman for treatment; if he is successful, he will go home and share with his family immediately.And a woman who doesn't even want to go into the kitchen can rarely give a man this feeling.Even if she can dress up beautifully, even if the family is not short of money and can go to restaurants every day, these are not real happiness.A smart woman, after returning home from get off work, puts on home clothes, wears an apron and works in the kitchen, and then serves three plates and two bowls. The important thing is not the taste, but the warm feeling.No matter how good the hotel is, it can't create this feeling of home.

A happy life begins in the kitchen, one cooking and one washing the dishes. Maybe it is either too salty or too bland at the beginning, but there is often sweet love as the seasoning, and even the most unpalatable dishes will be sweet. When the love seasoning is almost used up, Women's cooking skills have also been greatly improved.When a man gets off work, he will follow the call of his heart and stomach and come home on time from the vast crowd.

A woman who really understands love and life will walk into the kitchen after work and cook one or two dishes for her beloved family. Apart from oil and salt, the most seasoning in it is love.The tempting aroma of food and the strong taste of happiness will make women feel the warmth of becoming a monk.

Women should not stay in the kitchen all day, the smell of oily smoke is too strong; but if you have not been in the kitchen, you don't know how to be a wife.In fact, smart women know very well that men don't want a female chef with superb skills, but a fireworks woman who can bring him a sense of home.

The writer Lin Yutang once said: A mistress with children looks like a wife no matter how she looks; a wife without children looks like a mistress no matter how she looks.To paraphrase this sentence, we can say this: a mistress who likes to go to the kitchen looks like a wife no matter what; a wife who never goes to the kitchen looks like a mistress no matter what.How can you give your husband the feeling of being forever, and make him focus on you for the rest of his life if your hands are never stained with oil or salt?
Know a few special dishes to show the sexiness of a good wife
You may not be able to cook tomato and egg soup, but you must be able to cook braised pork that your husband likes. You don’t need to know how to cook delicacies from mountains and seas, but you must be able to cook a few dishes that your husband likes.In this way, when he goes out, he will say that this is not as good as my wife’s, and he will want to come back to you quickly, just like you are learning the recipe, and he will remember you.

In every happy family, the kitchen is the wife's stage.Women should be excellent actors. The stage is not the whole of their life, but every time they go on stage, they should be glamorous and leave a deep impression on people.

For this point, most of our female friends can guarantee it, because you have very few diners, only your husband, no matter what is sweet in the south, salty in the north, hot in the east and sour in the west, as long as your he is satisfied, you are a great master .

Men can also eat all kinds of delicious food outside, but no one wants to deal with it outside every day, which is wasteful and not very hygienic.And when it comes to eating something in your own mouth, no one will do it more carefully than your own family.Whether a person's taste is strong or light, how much heat he prefers, and what kind of tableware he likes, all these are known only to his wife.It is said that customers are gods, but there are so many gods, how can we focus on one person.To find the taste of being free and following one's inclinations, go home!

Women who are wives should understand their own direction now, that is, you don't have to turn the spoon so beautifully, the important thing is to take care of your husband's preferences.

A person's eating habits have a lot to do with his childhood environment. The "good food" that men never forget may usually be his mother's specialty dishes, or his favorite food when he was in his hometown.

Cao Jun is a girl from Hangzhou, and her husband is her college classmate from Shanxi.One day, Cao Jun heard her husband inadvertently mention the rice noodles in his hometown, saying that he had never eaten authentic rice noodles in the south.Cao Jun secretly paid attention, and found Mipi's practice and tuning method on the Internet.On Sunday, when she put the Mipi made by herself in front of her husband, she saw that her husband's eyes were full of surprises.

Although Cao Jun's craftsmanship is not at home, it has deeply comforted her husband's "nostalgia".In his exaggerated praises, Cao Jun's craftsmanship became more and more authentic, which can be called her repertoire.

It is not difficult to learn to cook a few special dishes that my husband likes.Use what he likes to eat as the main ingredient, and find several suitable cooking methods from the recipes—or ask the experts around you for advice, and then try to cook it for him.Dishes with unresponsive responses are eliminated, and those dishes that make him move his index finger and praise them are kept, and then improved a little bit, it will be your gold medal dish.

After his tongue and appetite are favored by his wife, your little home will be sunny and delicious food in his mind, and his wife will be an unparalleled good wife in the world.Even if you've put in some effort for it, it's well worth it!
Women who are not confident in their cooking skills can often cook soup for their families.Cooking soup only takes time and does not test the skill. Choose a stainless steel pot or purple casserole with electronic temperature control, which is healthy and easy.The so-called Laohuo soup uses basic ingredients such as Codonopsis pilosula, red dates, Gorgon fruit, candied dates, raw land, angelica, and donkey-hide gelatin. Slow cooking can make a delicious and healthy soup.

When serving soup to your husband, you can introduce its health benefits and the rich taste prepared by many ingredients by the way, so as to open up his taste buds.Also, you can casually say: It takes several hours to make this soup. ——Even if you listened to N pieces of music, flipped through N magazines, and visited the supermarket downstairs by the way, while you were making soup.

To fix the husband's stomach, women have many tricks.When you don't have time to cook soup, you can also make him a fruit salad.No matter how unremarkable the fruit is, after peeling and removing the core, put it in a transparent glass plate, pour white salad dressing on it, and immediately change the old look, easy to eat, beautiful to look at, no matter how you say it is a serving Mind.

Finally, I recommend the simplest dish to my wives, which is simple and environmentally friendly, and that is the bright smile on your face when you bring anything from the kitchen to the outside.The ancients said that "the beauty is delicious", if the taste is not enough, you can use a smile to make up for it. This is also the truth to get a husband.

When you regard the kitchen as another stage, you will gradually find that using food as a medium to release and accept love is the best way to relax after stressful work, and it can also let you experience sweet love and Happy married life.

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