The happiest woman who understands her husband

Chapter 57 Sex is an art, but also a skill (1)
Choose the right clothes, more attractive than naked
Opposites attract is a biological instinct.In this way, it seems that as long as there is contact between the opposite sex, there will be sexual impulse, but this is not exactly the case.This is just one of the most basic conditions of sex.The strength of sensuality and sexual desire impulse also depends on other factors between opposite sexes.One of these is the beauty of the respective external signs of the opposite sex.Increasing the charm of the opposite sex can strengthen the bonding force of attraction and create good conditions for the activation of sexual desire.

In general, charm and sex appeal for newlyweds is out of the question.Because most of the newlyweds pay more attention to modifying their appearance.Couples should pay attention to this "image point" that enhances sex appeal.Especially women, after being decorated with fat and powder, they will look more charming, delicate, charming and sexy; if you choose light-colored underwear and pajamas when wearing them, it will have a more direct effect on mobilizing sexual desire.

However, in our consistent impression, women who are already wives are dignified and generous. They are sexy. Firstly, they are not in line with the atmosphere of the family. Second, if they lack the innate foundation, how can they be seductive?
This is actually a kind of misunderstanding.

We can understand "sexy" in this way, it is just a charm with distinct gender characteristics, not so mysterious and exciting.For any woman, as long as you show your unique feminine charm, you are sexy.

In today's world, Madonna with gorgeous red lips, breasts and round buttocks represents a kind of sexy, while supermodel Kate Moss is a scrawny little girl with flat chest and hips, a thin face, and an ordinary The facial features are really not great beauties.However, it is this ordinary British woman who can be seen everywhere, who confuses all living beings through the lens of the camera.

Some people say that Kate Moss is an angel full of "smell", which is a kind of temptation in the bones.The innocent eyes, delicate and seductive, completely make up for the lack of figure. This is no longer a pure sensual stimulation, but another kind of shock that touches the soul.Such a "smelly" angel, with innocent and confused eyes, is different from the fiery eyes that seduce the devil.

Who said that only wild and plump women can be sexy, you can create your own temptation with the help of clothing and facial expressions.

Exposure or tight clothing, can show the beautiful limbs, revealing a little fragrance.But Japanese women's kimonos are full of oriental sexy, which is simply too beautiful.The wide and wide kimono wraps the Japanese woman's body tightly and straightly, without showing any body curves, so where does this sexy come from?Some people think that this comes from the Japanese woman's demeanor, gentle and gentle, timid and modest small steps, and slightly drooping head, all of which make people have an impulse to caress and love, expressing a woman's meekness and tenderness to the extreme.Just looking at the pink neck under the collar of the kimono is enough.The kimono is stingy to prevent people from seeing anything that shouldn't be seen, except that it is generous behind the collar, revealing the long and white neck of Japanese women.Only this point is clear enough, it seems that no measurements can also be sexy.

The most common mistake married women make is that because of the closeness of the family, they don't care about exposing themselves in front of their husbands-whether it is thoughts, feelings or bodies.In fact, a woman who has no privacy at all will make a man lose his desire to explore, and the best result is to maintain a flat relationship.

No matter how long you've been under the same roof, if you want to stay attractive for a long time, it's best to pay attention to your clothes at home.Some couples like to take a mandarin duck bath, and it's okay to do it occasionally.If it becomes a daily homework, facing each other naked day and night, it will definitely be a serious injury to mutual attraction.

Sexy actress Sharon Stone reminds women, "If you don't wear anything, you can see everything at a glance, but there is no room for imagination. It may not be really sexy, and the effect is best if it is faintly visible. The way to open the button of the jacket will expand the blood and make you sexy immediately. ’” Well-dressed clothes are more attractive than total nudity.Romantic lace, soft chiffon, subtle and elegant cotton can perfectly interpret the unique temperament of women.At this time, the clothes are no longer limited to cover up, but more like a flower blooming on a woman's body, bright, shy, and lovable...

In the bedroom, underwear will convey many silent messages for you. Every married woman should make her underwear neat and beautiful as much as possible.And a well-fitting pajamas are more important than an expensive coat or shoes.

Unfortunately, many women often ignore this fact.Outwardly, they are well dressed, but their nightdresses and underwear are of poor quality and dull in color.If there is one item in a woman's clothing that should be beautiful and clean, it is underwear.If possible, it should be silk or cotton with lace and attention should be paid to the color.

Generally speaking, most men like pink.In some men, sex requires very fine tuning, and the condition of the underwear can determine what a man wants and whether he can have sex.Whether you are newly married or have been married for a long time, you should know that underwear is the best means for you.It's always sweet, fresh and polished and will help you stay attractive to your husband.

Sexy pajamas are also an essential item in a woman's boudoir. That kind of amorous feeling is absolutely wonderful. You must know that sometimes deliberately covering up is more likely to cause reverie than safe exposure.

Occasionally, you can match one or two accessories on your body. Warm pearls and colorful jade can add a lot to a woman's style.

When love needs to be expressed, when passion needs to be released, let all these flow in the various styles of women, and use charming sentiment to paint a few wisps of moving pink for the monotonous and mediocre life.

Few women are born with "the face of an angel and the figure of a devil". That kind of unscrupulous exposure is by no means more attractive than a proper cover-up.Through acquired learning, every woman can become a master at creating romance and sexiness.

Appropriate shyness is the pinnacle of female sex appeal

In the era of openness, women's minds are also unprecedentedly open. At the same time, they are influenced by some media or marriage and love experts, who believe that women should be more enthusiastic and unrestrained on the bed, so as to bring a kind of happiness to their lovers. An unexpected delight.

Therefore, bland women learn to be hot, and hot women are even more enthusiastic.

So how did the men react?
Because of his personality, 29-year-old Zhang Yang has always believed that extroverted and open women are attractive in a different way.The boldness and initiative of a woman made him feel fresh and exciting.However, soon, he felt fear.His girlfriend was an aggressive leopard, and he was a clumsy little virgin by comparison.Her endless teasing made Zhang Yang involuntary, physically tired to deal with it, and psychologically depressed beyond words.As a man, I don't have the opportunity to arrange the whole plot on the bed, very disappointed!He felt like a venting prop for a "crazy" woman!

Coincidentally, Feng Xianghui, a 35-year-old engineer, also believes that appropriate shyness is the ultimate sexiness of a woman.

When Feng Xianghui was studying in the United States, he once had a British girlfriend, Fryn, whose fiery and open personality often made Feng Xianghui hearty in bed.However, when Feng Xianghui got in touch with his Chinese girlfriend Sisi, he felt that the oriental classical charm was even more fascinating.That shy demeanor, reserved body language and half-pushed, evasive eyes all made him crazy, and really whetted his appetite!She never took the initiative, but Feng Xianghui felt that she was always using the most brilliant means to tease him.

Sliding through the forest like a bird, dodging like an elf, fleeting like a fish, all these stimulated all of Feng Xianghui's senses.When he felt that he had used all his strength to catch her, that kind of "triumph" gave the man a sense of physical and mental pleasure.

Playing hard to get is a very powerful move in the ancient Chinese art of war, and it is also very interesting when used in the sex between men and women.In Chinese culture, the beauty is reserved, and women who are too open will cause double pressure on men both psychologically and physically.The most common mistake for an open woman is to be "anti-customer-oriented", appearing aggressive because she has no scruples.This will make Chinese men who always feel that they should be in charge of this matter very uncomfortable, and they will lose their self-confidence because of this, and feel that they are looked down upon like a weakling.

Of course, that kind of woman who lays down on the bed casually and let her husband do whatever she wants is by no means a qualified partner, and if a woman behaves too proactively, a man will feel that his dignity has been violated.A woman who has no scruples on the bed, if she is a lover, it is difficult for her to be his wife for life; if she is his legitimate wife, too strong aggressiveness will make him gradually regard sex life as a part of family affairs, consciously Unconsciously reject intimacy with his wife.

But don't get me wrong that it's not easy for active women to integrate with men. In a dull married life, that kind of enthusiastic and hearty woman is actually very easy to approach happiness.They can find a method that neither wrongs themselves nor puts pressure on their husbands.

The point that must be absolutely grasped is that you try to mobilize all the attractive factors in yourself to attract him, such as your body fragrance, your eyes, your tender movements and all the surrounding atmosphere that engenders lust, and then, Give him the final initiative.When he pounces on you like a wolf, your most enthusiastic response is to dodge.

Coquettishness is a kind of power that women are born with, and it also has a distinction between superior and inferior. High-level coquettishness radiates from the inside out, and unintentionally reveals a charming and seductive posture , so that the man's passion is high, he is dreaming, and he is eager to take it for himself.Only those who are superficially coquettish blindly rely on revealing clothing and exaggerated movements to attract attention.The real coquettishness is more reflected in a kind of speech and behavior. In front of men, humorous or provocative words of praise are embellished with a few traces of looking back and smiling, and they are also angry and happy, making people feel refreshed and fascinated.

Good at flirting, let your husband have endless aftertaste
Flirting, in fact, is to create interest, but it has always been a word that Chinese people find difficult to say. The reserved and reserved personality makes us all love to bury our enthusiasm in our hearts. Only "raising the case with eyebrows" and "respecting each other as guests" are revered as a model for couples to get along.

Chinese people, especially Chinese women, have neglected flirting for a long time. No wonder Mr. Lu Xun lamented that Chinese women have motherhood but not wifehood.Once the relationship is stable and enters the marriage, she will become a hard-working housewife who doesn't know how to flirt at all, letting the passion wear out in the monotonous years.

Marriage is a very long period of time. Counting from holding hands, it usually takes 30 years or more to go through together. In the long years, there are probably very few people who can really see each other forever.A smart woman should be a girl with thousands of faces in marriage, inject freshness all the time, and occasionally show a little different style, keeping her husband ecstatic, as if she has found a rare treasure.

Flirting should be the highest state of flirting, a combination of figure, eyes, and skills, amorous but not frivolous, tender but not hypocritical.If you want to show charm with every gesture and gesture, and you want to be full of charm in your eyebrows and eyes, you need inner cultivation to support it, and years of experience to polish it.

A master flirt may not need to rely on beauty. Demeanor language may be the most effective means of flirting. With the help of some exquisite flirting props, a happy and happy married life can be arranged.

Scientists have found through research that women have a "social gene" that men lack. They are sensitive and delicate, and can quickly understand the meaning of other people's behavior and respond accordingly. Women's personalities are inherently good at flirting.

Body language is essential when flirting with a man.You are clearly in his arms, yet you want him to hug you while being coquettish, and you are biting his earlobe and whispering to him softly: I am your only one.Such "little actions" are very important for stimulating love.

(End of this chapter)