The happiest woman who understands her husband

Chapter 60 "Sex" blessing train breaks down, how to deal with it (2)
There are many unexplainable and wonderful phenomena in the world, and the personality difference between husband and wife is one of them.The success of many love affairs is often not the coincidence of personalities, but the mutual generation and restraint of personalities.Therefore, between husband and wife, one is often introverted and the other extroverted; one is impatient and the other is calm.Between husband and wife with such different personalities, many contradictions are not easily aroused.

When the difference in sexual needs between husband and wife arises, if the sexual needs of the tolerant party decrease, then there will be no sexual conflicts, and the party will take into account various interests or face relations, and use a form of sexual accommodation. Coping, over time, both parties will feel dull.This is a latent deep sexual psychological burden. Although it will not burst out, it is secretly eroding the marriage relationship.Since there is no sufficient reason to dissolve the marriage relationship on the surface, some people secretly establish an extramarital relationship as a supplement.

In order to get rid of this kind of psychological burden, the husband and wife should carry out psychological adjustment as soon as possible.Both parties should prevent their personalities from going to extremes, and express their different personalities within the limits of each other's needs, so as to form a favorable combination and increase love.Because of the accumulation of love, there will be passion and pleasure in sexual activities, and there will be no sense of burden out of responsibility.

From a psychological point of view, couples with different personalities are the easiest to arouse love as long as they are moderately adjusted, but if they do not pay attention to the adjustment, do whatever they want, and only consider their own satisfaction, they will eventually lose each other.

3. Sexual depression under social distress

In the modern metropolis, all kinds of social diseases are concentrated.Crowded housing, traffic jams, competing occupations, and disparity in consumption will bring various troubles to every family and cause various psychological pressures on people.When this pressure exceeds the individual's ability to bear, the mental burden will be transformed into sexual depression.If you have to deal with sexual activities between husband and wife, you will feel a psychological burden.

Of course, this kind of psychological burden can't be relieved by eliminating social troubles, but can only rely on the psychological adjustment of both husband and wife.

In modern society, various competitions and conflicts may make it difficult for people to do things according to their predetermined goals and wishes.Therefore, a person should be free and easy and open-minded in dealing with the world, so that his mentality can be detached from the burden of life.In addition, husband and wife cooperate together to form a joint force of career competition, increase family harmony and warmth, and are also an important force to drive away social troubles.

How to judge that the "sex" blessing train has broken down

A passionate and multi-hearted woman, after spending sweet nights with her husband, often leaves many questions in her heart: Does he love me?Is he satisfied with my performance just now?Is it possible for him to play tricks?

In fact, as long as you carefully study their reactions after making love, you can get a glimpse of the leopard and roughly judge whether the "sex" blessing train is malfunctioning.Because after sex is the most relaxed moment for men, and this is the best time for women to observe their husbands.

Type I man goes to sleep immediately

Although in the video played during the pre-marital physical examination, it is emphasized that the man should not fall asleep immediately after finishing "that thing", but the wife next to him is in need of comfort!However, there are still many career-oriented men who can't resist the temptation of sleepiness, and snore loudly within a few minutes.

Analysis: This shows that the other party has devoted all his remaining energy to the previous sexual affairs, and the wife can rest assured, which just proves that the other party is extremely open-minded.You know, unlike women who fake orgasms, it is difficult for men to have a big fight and then fall asleep when they have something wrong in their hearts. Among ten men with non-congenital impotence, six may be Because of excessive psychological pressure.So congratulations, you have a lovely and straightforward husband, wait for him to regain his strength after a deep sleep, and then continue to torture him!
Type II man goes straight to the bathroom
Sometimes you wonder if such a man has a cleanliness fetish. After sweating profusely and doing such a "big thing", he can still stand up and take a shower.In fact, all you want is a gentle hug, or a few sweet comforting words, but he left you and rushed straight to the bathroom, which is really puzzling.

Analysis: Not all men like to do cleaning work before having sex. Their desires come suddenly and fiercely. Although they think it should not be, they still want to take a dive and directly press you under them.However, personal hygiene is still worth noting, not to mention sweating so much, so after finishing their work, the first thing they think of is to take a hot bath and then sleep comfortably.

Type III man swoops into the kitchen
Having sex is an exhausting thing anyway, especially for the man who is the dominant one. Hunger afterwards is almost unavoidable.There is a kind of man who will take the initiative to look for food in the kitchen. A bag of Master Kong’s instant noodles or the stewed eggs left over from dinner may become his prey. Of course, he will not forget it at this time, and ask actively: “You also have some ?"

Analysis: If you can be a little more diligent at this time, go to the kitchen to fry a Western-style poached egg or a bowl of noodles for him, then there will be the most obedient and obedient man in the world in front of you, full of praise for you.What's interesting is that there is another kind of coquettish man who will ask you to "get him something to eat" like a child. If you choose to marry him, pampering him a little will definitely make the family atmosphere warmer.

Type IV man smokes afterwards
Analysis: This kind of man regards sex as a kind of relaxation or an effective way to help sleep.So just like "a cigarette after a meal is better than a living god", they will also light cigarettes after sex to enjoy the calm mood after the orgasm.At this time, it is also the moment when they talk the most.If you usually have something you want to say but didn't catch the time to say it, you might as well mention it lightly, a grateful man is easy to agree.

The love story of V-shaped man is endless

I believe that women will like such a man. After the other party's climax, after the self-sacrifice is over, he will get a gentle and lingering hug, and there will be endless flattery in his ears.

Analysis: In fact, there are not many men who really do this. Their good words should have been said at the most passionate moment. Let’s talk about it at this time, mostly because it is the first time for you to be honest with each other, or because of your own Feeling a little guilty for not making you orgasm, so take those words to give you some amends.It could also be because he is grateful for you, and at worst, he is a seasoned lover who knows all too well what a woman needs!
Finally, it needs to be pointed out that some women like to compare their husbands with some "standard men" models. If he is not gentle enough, she will be disappointed.In fact, this is unnecessary, as long as you are satisfied with the matter between husband and wife, learn to respect and like your husband's hobbies, and create a happy family atmosphere.

Small test: Are you a "sex" woman?
Are you a "sexually blessed" woman, please take part in the following test, and you will know whether your significant other is a passionate and pleasing sexual partner!
1. Can you convey your "sex sign" to him easily and naturally? ()

A. Yes, often "on request"

B. I am not willing to be too proactive in this regard
C. No, I am a woman, I should be more reserved

2. How do you think he behaves when you have sex with him? ()
A. He only cares about his pleasure and pleasure, but not my feelings

B. He does everything he can to satisfy my sexual needs

C. He didn't pay attention to my presence until after he had orgasm

3. How does he make your sex life more romantic and pleasurable? ()

A. He is sensitive to my physical needs
B. He never forces me to do things I don't want to do

C. He always tries to innovate the way of making love

4. When you have sex with him, what do you rely on to create the atmosphere? ()
A. Mood-enhancing stimulating foods (such as chocolate) and soft lighting

B. Wine and tonic: can infuse vitality

C. Olive oil and water: This brings convenience and smoothness to our sex life
5. How long does it usually take you to have an orgasm? ()
A. Never B. Regularly C. Occasionally

6. Which of the following expressions is most suitable for you? ()

A. Our sex life has become routine, even a little tiresome

B. Our sex life is almost non-existent

C. Our sex life is still as intoxicating as when we were newlyweds
7. The thought of having sex with him makes you feel: ()
A. Very anxious, because I need to do a lot of preparation work
B. Excited because he understands me well and knows how to please me
C. The relationship with him is more intimate, because at this time he is more tender and romantic

8. When you have sex with him, he is usually: ()
A. Can't wait to get straight to the point after giving few kisses and petting
B. Almost no kissing, no petting, seems to forget the importance of these behaviors

C. Use sexual foreplay with ease, know when to give me love and satisfy my desire
9. Would you like him to know more secrets about your sexuality? ()
A. No, he understands my nature and physical needs very well, and can satisfy me in a timely manner
B. Not willing, this is my personal privacy
C. He doesn't know anything about my body or my sexuality, and it doesn't look like he wants to know more

Please rate your "sex".

22~27 points, you are a "sexually blessed" woman!Your sex life with him is very harmonious and passionate, you are very understanding of each other, and you can meet each other's physical needs and desires.You are willing to talk to him easily and frankly; exchange topics about "sex", and he is also sincerely eager to listen to your suggestions and needs, and to be with such a man who cares about you, makes you enjoy the true love in the world, and brings you infinite pleasure. It's a blessing to be with you, you're really lucky.

Below 22 points: Your sex life with him is not good.Further coordination is required to enhance sexual communication and communication.Remember: Sex life is the flowers and wine in marriage, don't get involved because of children.Factors such as physical fatigue or long-term boredom will make flowers lose color, and fine wine has no fragrance. "Sex" is the real glue of marriage.

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